I think it's an extremely good idea and offer. Things have improved a great deal these days and to be honest, what was direly missing in proper sex education would have spared me much confusion and personal anguish. Trans people were always abused, but it would have helped me find more support in an otherwise hostile world. My breakaway from hardship was a clear break with the ad nauseum world of the supposed normies. A relationship with selfish narcissists is never good and is why my first relationship had me being treated worse than an animal would be. Luckily my second relationship was with an intersex person with undescended testicles. I had a harmonious relationship until her death in 2020. Now I'm thankful that nature is so giving and I have a beautiful dreamlike relationship with a woman in a place where being LGBTQIA+ in socially the norm rather than the exception. Covid prevented us from being together, but in 3 months I'm moving the 18,000 km to be with her and her extended. There is a special place of love for everyone. Mathilda, I wish you a lovely relationship and a beautiful life and even children, if you should so desire. Seeing the world while one still has a chance is highly advised.
I know this is old but I also have s very androgenous voice and tbh I get that feeling of feeling like my voice isn't as feminine as I want while many people love my voice. It's not aboit them though. I want my voiced trained.
Why would a trans person have to or feel obligated to date another trans person? Trans people should not be segregated from other people, and they should never feel like they don’t belong in cis people’s lives or like cis people don’t belong in theirs. They deserve all the same options and opportunities as anyone else, and that of course includes as partners, parents, and friends.
Beautifully said 👏 everyone and I mean everyone should not be forced to date any one certain person for any reason people like what they like end of story.
So the nefarious undertone wasn't just me being negative in perceiving it. Maybe it wasn't so intended, but rephrasing that question could do a lot for it.
I have a deeper female voice (born biological female) I've felt very insecure for a long time, but as a vocalist, I actually realized it's pretty cool..hope this helps :)
I have heard AFAB people with very deep voices that sounded like men or young boys in puberty. And I heard AMAB people with voices so high they sounded like women or little girls.@@Virginia.50
I am an opera singer and I can tell you, your speaking voice is better than the speaking voice of many young girls today. I hear many speaking and singing too breathy and this will damage the vocal tract badly. The best way to feminise the voice is to, first, 1) find the naturally lowest and darkest zero-point, without straining one self; 2) get a puppy and/or a kitty and speak to them with the cognitive voice it creates; 3) When you go back, speak in your zero point again, then vary the pitch you speak in, in a range that does not feel hurting or straining; 4) When you spoke with your kitty or doggie, you voice was raised by your cognition. Take this voice, make it sound more like you speak to a human, but don’t hurt yourself. This is all about training up a muscle and being able to use it. My mom said to me “I feel so sorry for your vocal cords, being jumped so much as they are,” and my singing coach said “You do exactly that, as long as you don’t speak breathy. Listen to Maria Callas speaking, she sounds just like you. I am a lyric soprano and I speak just as low as you some times.”
@@Virginia.50 You obviously did not understand me. When I use my techniques to camouflage my transness, I sound like Maria Callas speaking. I am not a man either, so go get some sleep, young man
@@mathildehb0076 never said you were a man,I guess reading and comprehending is not your strong point. I said a BIOLOGICAL FEMALE with a deep voice doesn't sound the same as a BIOLOGICAL MAN'S VOICE., Talking crap out your ears to make a guy feel good about his deep voice , still ain't changing his gender." Throwing shade don't offend me.cry harder
Thank You for the cheerful attitude towards answering these uncomfortable and privacy-invading questions. You’re so sweet ❤ I’m so happy for your engagement btw ❤️💛❤️💛
❤Thank you, I know how hard it is to talk about stuff sometimes. Trying to live as yourself, and keep having to remember and remind yourself of being that person. Also I love your voice. It took me a decently long time to find my voice, and sometimes I don't have enough low tones that I constantly work on.
Thank you for these FAQ videos, it really helps people out that are just starting with there transition like me, I started with HRT 2 weeks ago. You also can laugh about yourself like you sometimes do in your short videos with Trans Woman related content, many people would have a problem with that. Greetings from Germany, and I wish you all the best for your future keep it up
I am a cis gender woman living in Australia and I just watch your videos because I enjoy them, your voice is lovely, I prefer a lower pitch voice rather than a high pitch voice, it’s more pleasant to listen to. I also like how you still look like a natural woman, not too much makeup or face surgery.
When you talked about the procedures you have had i did not quite understand after srs you had two what? You are lovely, so proud of what you have acomplish so far😊
I only found your channel a few days ago (ironically after searching on RU-vid for videos explaining about the bottom surgery, specifically the painful side of it! Which felt like something pretty important to be aware of...) but I'm here to stay anyway, your videos have helped me so much already as I'm sure they have so many other people too. Thank you for doing what you do, you're so empowering!
I actually do have a question, what kind of training did you do for your voice? It’s amazing Edit: def dysphoria cuz your voice is prettier and more fem than mine 😭
Just because more trans people are out now doesn't mean all of them are 'trend followers' it's just safer to come out now than it was 10 years ago. Hell, back in 2020-2021 over 300 trans and nonbinary people were murdered. 1 of them was a 17-year-old trans girl walking home from school. And the majority were black or Hispanic trans women.@@QueenMeowMeow09
I have a question. I don't understand the term Dead Name. I know you are Matilda now and had another name before transitioning. But why is your original name called a Dead Name? Isn't it that person who brought you to be who you are today?
the other side of anti trans people will barrage you with that dead name if that gets out because they are wrathful. maybe in a perfect world that dead name would just be something added as an era of a timeline of someone, kris from mr beast had to do what your saying because she was public about it, as a result its telling depending on which version of the name people choose for her
Alot of trans people don't think of the person they were before transition as themselves. Alot of us feel that it was a fake person. Just a character, just a mask put there by the people who decided your gender for you. So, when you transition, you throw away the mask. You don't want, or need it anymore. The character that the trans person was playing is dead. They're still the same person, but finally their true self. That's why it's called a dead name. Because the character who had that name is dead.
The "why arent you dating a trans man" question implies a lot. my mom is trans and he always said "i am not a trans man... just a man". i mean of course he is born with XX chromosomes but there should be a point in life where you just introduce yourself as hi i am [Name], yes i am a girl/boy/neither. And thats it. It was important for my mom to feel... integrated into society as normally as one can. So dating... you are a woman and like to date a man. Okay. End of story. I just hope that someday we will loose the necessity to put a "trans" before the gender. You are a woman. And it doesnt matter if your genitals work or not what if i loose something to cancer or birth defect? i am no english person i hope it makes sense what i say
Honestly we need more LGBTQ people like you in this world, happy to answer questions in a mutually respectful way. I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for people in our community to do that nowadays Thanks for representing our community in the best way❤️🏳️🌈
@@GodSoLoved.Yeshua someone with female body parts, including the brain. Men’s and women’s’ brains are physically different. And studies shows that on an MRI, trans peoples’ brains look more similar to that of the gender they identify with than their sex. So they are literally a female/male trapped in the body of the opposite sex. The science behind being transgender is actually kinda interesting
@@GodSoLoved.Yeshuaperson who is constable in a womens body, & identifys or fits in the womens gender roles or the social construct we made for women to be, or something, but the most part is feeling comfortable most in a womens body, bc cis women are comfortable in their body, and trans women are comfortable in a womens body, all women are comfortable in a woman's body, rather than a mans body, thats what would define it, thx 4 reading
I think it largely depends on the original state of your voice and your age when you started HRT. There are trans women who still retain their deep voices. Vocal training can also help but not everyone will have access to such resources.
Love how you slipped that ad in there so naturally. But yeah, I agree. As an agender AFAB dating is hard. I'm pansexual but I only ever had BFs. But they've all been cishet and after I came out as nonbinary things got complicated because cishet males would call me "baby girl" or "girlfriend" or refer to me as she/her or ask "Can you be a girl when you're with me?" I know queerian is a thing. Being attracted to only other queer people. I dunno if I'm that or not but lately I'm only attracted to bi/pan people who won't judge me based on my sex or gender.
I feel so lucky to have been born Intersex because I would only need lip filler and bottom surgery to pass. I have a soft, curved face and no visible Adam’s Apple.
I am a 59 year old transbian. I found out i was the wrong gender. I used to babysit for a single mother called Karen she was my first crush. I thought it was ❤ but she was only into men. So I didn't tell her in case I lost her as a friend. Fast forward 30 years and I was in a club when I saw her again and all these feelings came flooding back. I plucked up the courage to talk to her she was very surprised but supportive and said we would still be friends so we talk each day on Facebook but I still haven't told her how I feel because she is still in to men so I stay silent and love her from afar and just stay good friends
You are a beautiful you're boyfriend has found a goddess for a girlfriend you are an Amazing strong lovable woman love you so much you are a sweetheart love your videos
I'm a mum with a 13yo trans daughter and I really appreciate these types of videos, as we have so many questions and very few places to find the honest answers.
@dogenjoyer2480 1- no I'm not but I am mad as someone who was a victim of disgusting abuse. 2- all of them are bragging about it. The Babylon bee had a joke where they basically called them " accessories " . because that's literally how they deal with them.
@@MagicBus-ct7feSo accepting your child, and providing a safe place for them to be themselves is child abuse to you? And using Babylon Bee, a satire site, is somehow a valid source to you? You transphobes need to read a book, or get offline, and out into the real world. Unfortunately for you, facts don't care about your feelings. Just because you have a weird fetish for hating trans people, doesn't make them fake. You can be triggered, and cry all you want, but trans people are real, they have always been real, and no amount of whinging is going to change that. Grow up.
No, Mathilda is a biological male, he's still a man, albeit attempting to pass as a woman. A man adding breasts and removing his pen-is doesn't turn him into a woman.
@@MB-ub5ns thanks. I just watched it. Disgustingly dishonest, as expected. I follow several of the trans women featured, and they’ve made multiple clips saying that they are happier and don’t regret surgery. And Prager U doesn’t show any of those clips.
Your nose is so beautiful. I would vote against touching it. I know it’s your choice, but it looks so beautiful on you, and I’m sure your fiancé would agree with me. I wish you both the best. What a lucky man.
You mentioned before that is hard to date, but all I see is that really is not. I personally don't have gender preferences in my long term partner, as long as is somewhat feminine looking, but I noticed that lots of people seems to be fine with trans as well. Or maybe for them is just a kink? Not sure.
Tiene una voz preciosa y de mujer 😱.... He visto a muchas chicas trans pero esta es la única que veo que no le quedó la voz grave. What. Cómo le hizo....
@@gone_mad-tryagainlaterNo, she didn't. Vocal cord surgery only changes pitch, it doesn't change anything else. She also said IN THIS VIDEO the procedures that she got and she never mentioned that, so she didn't.
Your voice, could it be the accent (you are native Swedish I assume, so english, although {almost?}fluent, isn't the default language you use) that maybe gives you the idea it sounds a bit wonky sometimes...and therefore due to the dysphoria it being too masculine is the first that comes to mind? I'm in no way qualified to have a educated voice (no pun intended) in this, but just a attempt at what it could be you hear in your voice. But also I can imagine all, if not more, possible scenarios crossed your mind. To me you sound completely feminine...a woman with a woman's voice...and absolutely lovely too...🫶🏻🌈🙃
also for the record, I am a trans woman, and one of my lovers IS a trans man (the others are another trans woman, two cisgendered women, and a non-binary person)
Ah, a fellow polyamorous person! Hello! I'm agender and I'm currently with 2 cis men and might be getting with a cis woman. I also have non-committed partners that include cis men, a genderfluid person, and an intersex woman. I'm demisexual and pan, so most my relationships are queerplatonic (cuddling, kissing, etc. with minimal to no sexual interactions)
I hear you saying you think you have a masculine voice but I have to respectfully disagree. I think you have a lovely voice. CaN, you offer updates on getting your Adam apple shaved? Did that help? I wish you the best of luck
I don't think you have a masculine voice!!! If anything you just have a Swedish accent...buts that's just my opinion as a silly American who's never left the country ❤
I want to say I agree with most people that your voice is definitely feminine. I am blind so not distracted by your looks. I do understand you feel dysphoria about it though. Well, in a way. I mean I can’t empathize as I’m cis but I do know what you mean.
Hi Mathilda, I think you have a very feminine voice, I got my srs 17 years ago, and we didn't get well chairs over here in England. We spent two and a half days in bed, and then we had to walk around. Best wishes to you 🇬🇧
I think it probably depends a lot on the hospital where you are. At my hospital I wasn't allowed to leave the recovery floor for a week, but folks could come visit me, so I didn't need a wheelchair. But then me wheelchaired me to the door on my last day when I was leaving when I was probably 100% capable of walking myself.
You honestly look so cute, why does it even matter being trans? youre a girl just like the others yes you may be born in a different body and different gender but that doesnt change the fact you can become a girl whenever you wanna
Your voice doesn't sound masculine at all. I see trans people and trans women all the time since I'm a therapist who specializes in guiding trans people. Many of the trans women i meet have more masculine sounding voices than you
