a very unpopular opinion but talking about your emotions raw, just how they are instead of sugarcoating it or faking it, is actually very healing, and I only wish the best for you mals
I think this was a scheduled video and mals is in labor right now. There has been no update in her Instagram story today. Mals, if you are reading this, we love you, sending u lots of positivity your way. Love and light❤
As Ross said to Rachel, you have made such a good home for the baby in there that baby doesn’t wish to come out ❤ I hope you have a biiiig healthy baby 😊
I agree with the fact that people don’t bother about mums after the delivery. During my post partum people were so mean and always body shamed me for the way I was . I lost so much weight in contrast and people looked at me like I was terminally ill.. and there was constant pointing out at things like breast feeding coz I had to bottle feed her coz I wasn’t getting milk and it’s such a taboo that you bottle feed . I had so much mental breakdown whenever people talked about it . I think people should stop judging new moms just coz they don’t fit into their respective standards!
I have a feeling that Mals is having her baby right now or the baby has already arrived. Wish you loads of strength, love & health Mals. Can’t wait to meet the new member💝
What you said about mama's care was so true. I had a c-sec and literally it was the worst pain i ever experienced till that point in my life. I could not walk or hold the baby. And my mother in law told i was making up that pain and she could walk kilometres just after 7 days of her csec. I even didn't have the best supply of milk. And every one shamed me for that too even the maids at my home. Your baby is hungry because you don't produce milk. I would put my baby on my boobs for 1.5 hrs at a stretch. He would just suck and i had no idea there is only limited milk at one point in time. My ever so supportive husband suddenly changed because he started living with his mother and told me 1 lakh women deliver babies everyday in india. So neither me or my pain is special.
Same with my in-laws but my husband is very supportive and cooks food for me and takes care of baby to n help in bathing and take to washroom whenever I feel need to pee and all such stuff that is possible
I have 2 kids now and so I was of the same opinion as you...that I wanted to be their friend. Now 13 years into parenting....Ive changed that a lot. I want to be able to have an open communication like a friend would. But also I have to parent....meaning I have to tell them right from wrong no matter how hard it is to hear. Because girl...they got only 1 mom to parent and they will have manyyyy friends in life ❤️
I literally am in tears just after listening to your answer after that question that "do you talk to your baby?".. you are going through a lot dear, just give yourself time, time will heal everything, and lots of good wishes and love for your upcoming life❤
thank you for sharing so much of your life with us. This video was just like sitting and having a talk with you elder sister. I hope things get happier for you, and i believe since you're so hopeful, it definitely will. Being a mum is hard, i only hope as a society we can drop these expectations but unfortunately it's easier said than done.
Do your in laws keep in touch with you? Are they not excited to see the baby? I am specially curious to know about Aki's parents. They cried in happiness while you shared the pregnancy announcement
Just a heads up: idk if you have already thought it out.. but as a med student we have read soo much about the benefits of not immediately washing down the baby after birth and there are soooooo many benefits like immunity and its good for the babys skin.. you should probably make a decision and inform your doctor and doula about it
We need to have people like you in society. In our community; mama is not allowed to eat soo soo many things after giving birth.. And it is like mentally soo excrutiating!! I feel soo terrible thinking about it. Not to go out in sun, dont step out of room, Dont bath daily, Dont wash your hair, Eat food which do not have ant taste.. its soo soo bad
Going through a heartbreak since September after 6 years of my relationship, nothing bad we just grew apart, and you have no idea how you have been inspiring to me to move forward in life. You keep going girl, we are with you ❤
Dude Listening to you is soo therapeutic ... I just love it even though I am younger than you but still it sounds soo good ... Keep going 💪❤❤ more power to you ❤
Bro I can’t even begin to tell I am 27 and it’s been 3 years since i am married and now that I have started thinking in the direction of having a baby 🤰 but I am focusing on have my body fit first of all and being financially stable I have learnt so much from you mals . And I think of these thing just as you Malvika my entire personality is just as you❤ I feel you are my elder sister 👧 and I really wish the best of everything for you and baby ❤
Girl I’m listening to your answer on the second question n I can so so so relate to this 😢my parents I wish had done things differently n I wish they had split early coz I hate what has become of me 😮I’m a nervous wreck with so much of excess baggage n I’m only fixing things for them 😢my life seems to just be so complicated n full of adjustments which is okay still but the mental trauma&! Triggers which I face almost every day is something I’m not able to cope with anymore 😢more power to you n God Bless u Mals 🌸🦋
You are going to be an incredible mom babe🥺💜if its a girl she is going to super self loving, kind and badass tbh😅and if its a boy, he is going to a dream guy for every girl, because of the values you're going to give them🥺lotssss of Love and more power to you babe🥺💜
I don't know why....but i just want her to have a baby girl 🥺✨...lil malz ❤ Congratulations malz!!! ✨❤️...may god bless you and the lil princess with all the happiness 🥺
I would love to see you with a man who deserves you 💙(any time in your life😊). Where you both come and talk about how you both healed ✨🌻. Lots of love from karnataka💙.
Was watching this video yesterday the halfway through it my sister came screaming at me "malvikaa gave birth to a baby girl" And oh my god I teared upp a bit and felt super happy 🥺🥺 (now finishing the whole video) Just wanted to tell you congratulations ❤ You gonna be an amazing mom mals!
Reall marvelous !! Hats off Malvika ! I am an only child to a single parent, life is pretty tough for a single parent.. but you are so sorted,positive & th more I listen to you, I see a confident person who is right there, ready to take the world at her stride ! ..so proud of you !🎉
I know you didn’t plan what you’re going through … but I’m sure you’re going to be a wonderful mom and you’re going to have a happy and successful life❤ you’re surrounded by people who love and support you.. and what’s better is that you’re working on your own mental health so that you can support yourself and your 👶🏻❤️
Mals if the baby grows up and becomes a footballer or any sporty person it'll be no shock with the amount of kicking you've been through 😂😂❤❤ super champ on the way ❤can't wait to see you chotu❤❤
i m also going through something like don wana get married bcoz I don’t want somebody to get my life controlled but my parents not understanding the situation i know how difficult it is. To be independent and alone .i wish you all the very best for your upcoming journey may gbu with everything u desire for😊
I always tried to be happy during pregnancy but i was also stressed and used to cry as well because my pregnancy was a very hactic one i was always tired not able to cook but have to cook...felt pukish for most of the time. My baby cries for 2 months straight she is 6 months now but she laughs a lot now cries as well but it's a journey it's fine 😊
U knw what you are literally spreading knowledge about the fact that nobody talks about.. Mother is important!! I love you as a such a good and full of love and joy and manners wali girl!! U r amazing😍 really!! Plzz keep on spreading the knowledge nd the manners cz it's important and very rear!! Love to you and your baby ❤❤❤❤
Mals u are so real, so raw, so knowledgeable...but has anyone told u ..u also have an amazing sense of humour..i mean the way u said 'punch'...i am still laughing ....u small one liners and punches are so hilarious...u really make us smile and laugh while watching u...really enjoy watching u talk 😂👍👌
No updates today in stry... guess mals in labour... hope God makes it easy for you... good luck... or else by now lil one is ready to seee us.... love u mals... take care
I had normal delivery, during my whole pregnancy I eat lot of fast food no exercise at all but before pregnancy I had lot of exercise yoga and healthy food also before pregnancy I had this condition called pcod and people use to say that it’s difficult to get pregnant when you have pcod but in my case I got pregnant without any medication.. Waiting for your baby to come .❤
Omg I love you so much Malvika. I only wish you love & happiness. You’re always going to be in my prayers. I really wish to meet you someday & be able to tell you how much value you add to this world 💗
When you said nobody asks about tha “mamma” It hit me sooo hard… I was soo ill treated post partum and during pregnancy by my mother-in-law and my husband never understood that she was doing something wrong… the whole year actually has scarred me for life… and all I can do now is hate her for what she has done to me.. which no one will ever understand… I have continuously tried forgiving her but then she keeps on doing things that only hurt me… soo I have maintained a distance now
“Do not guilt trip mothers into feeling a certain way” PREACH. That’s some BS about moms have to be happy for kid to be happy. It’s a lifelong relationship where so many changes happen. 9 months alone don’t decide what the child will be like.
It has been a pleasure following you just because you’re so refreshingly honest about every hard and difficult thing! Thank you for being so real! Lots of love ❤
A lot to say. Words might not do justice to how I feel listening to you . Just wanna say God bless you! Stay strong for your baby. We're all with you 💕
You have no idea how much you have encouraged me and changed my fundamentals of how a woman should be in just a couple of days Malss!!! Whatever principles and values I abide by are all self taught and now you have become my unpaid coach. I love you so much lady. I always tell the universe to send you lots of healing, happiness, joy and peace. Just to you ☺️♥️
I knew 100% it will be a ‘girl’ bt didnt want to comment. As i am a mother of two i looked ugly when i had my son i was so dull exhausted n ugly bt when i had my daughter last yr i ws glowing,my hair was fresh ,& round tummy..n the glow continues till 6mnths ..
I’m just thinking malz will come up on stories now and be like guys stop it I’m still here … i was just sleeping late 😅😅😅😅 but hoping she is labour now … ❤️
I want you to succeed in life and not be pulled down by trashy circumstances. That's all. Your words and attitude are a sign of strength that I wish to see in myself as well as all women. Give priority to urself first. Lots of love and happiness from my side to you❤
It is refreshing to see your vlogs and seeing someone say it as it is but at the same time laying it out so well... wishing you the best and all the happiness in the world..More power to you girl..
Mals, I'm too a mom of 1 month old baby boy , quick advice to you, whatever time is left for you to deliver the baby, just keep yourself busy with all the good thoughts about how this baby will bring happiness into your life, how your baby is the blood of your blood & bone for your bones. Keep talking to your baby because this time will not come again , even if you have another baby in future. Because this feeling of becoming mom for 1st is something different & special at the same time. And once the baby arrives you'll be overwhelmed this baby & all the new routine this baby will bring in your life. Be happy & love your baby ❤️
You are so real. This is my first ever comment anywhere, despite watching so many videos of you before, you are amazing. The older sister we deserve. The older sister I needed. We need more women to talk about something so major in life cos we our mothers didn’t and we need to know the reality.
I really appreciate you being absolute honest about your pregnancy and how you focus on your healing first over everything else. Thank you for putting it here.
I can't explain how Proud I am of you Malz. I know everyone goes through their own shit but i sure can say that if anything, we wanna be as strong as you are trying to be 💜
Right now im missing u so much through your Instagram story, watching this video made me so happy so so so happy cuz i was literally missing u❤❤❤❤❤ u r not active on instagram story since 18 hrs now idk if bebe is coming but i love you and wish u all the love and strength and prayers ❤❤❤❤❤
I am so inspired everytime I listen to you. And thank you so much for educating us about the need to take care of new mamas along with babies, because there is still not much awareness on this.
Mals I hope you're okay, praying for your safe delivery 🙏🏻 you will be fine mama! We're all with you in spirit ❤🧿 lots love and light, sending lots of prayers and good vibes your way🙏🏻🙏🏻
Even you had your own insecurities and self-doubt but you are still an inspiration to me. Stay well & all the best for your delivery. You are going to be fine, so just chill ❤️
Khane ki baat h kuch log to saitj rhke bhi saitj nhi hote no support from partner Mostly in married cases lady aakele hi handele krti h sab sad reality of marriage...... Pta nhi jab log care hi nhi krte to shadi kyu krte h
