I am a single mother. Went to the hospital all on my own, gave birth, was figuring out AirBnB and places to stay in the hospital after giving birth. Above all I had no family support system neither in the hospital nor after I was discharged. My father was involved in domestic abuse and my mother passed off when I was 7 due to this unhappy marriage. The loneliness and missing of warmth for not having anyone beside you in the hospital hits at a mental level. You crave for the comfort of warm cooked food instead of ordering on Swiggy and so many liitle things. My daughter and I grew from there and today she is going to be 3 years. For all the happiness she bought in my life , the pain of the past pales in front of her and I hope she doesnot breakdown when she gets to know her biological father abandoned us because he hid his marriage and was having multiple affairs.
I don't even know how to react or respond to this story I just read. First of all, I can't even believe it is real, when it is actually real !! Can there be anyone more powerful than you right now. I mean look at your strength!!! What a blessing amidst the trying times... from someone who didn't know how to interpret God to how I have learnt it now... all I can say is, PRAY. Whether you have faith or not, pray. Miracles will start to happen. From there your faith will grow stronger. 🙏❤🎉 May God bless you and your child and provide everything you both ever want. 🙏
she does n did speak about separation, unplanned pregnancy, single mom raising her etc in her channel. Don't be so quick to judge story with half baked info
Why you are interested in other’s personal life? Social media is a place where people like to share their happiness.. some people don’t have any problem with sharing bad things but doesn’t expect this from everyone
I completely agree with you and for anyone saying that, why are you so interested in her personal life and half-baked knowledge and stuff like that... well.. Influencers who choose to share their personal life, and only good part of it are actually setting unrealistic expectations!!! It's very important to also share the grey areas just for people to understand that it's not all rosy. Because if you believe so much in the community you buit, don't just share happiness but also the sorrow!!!
@29:38 "i will never know what i never had" i felt so bad. I am a mother of a 3 yr old son. May we raise sons who respect women, not afraid of responsibilities and can be the man for her girl. Give yourself all the love you have girl. You deserve the world ❤🎉
The amount of pain she went through and now looking at her standing all by herself feels so powerful but disheartening coz the girl like her deserved all the happiness in life!
I am 64 years old and believe me I am actually impressed by her life story and her ability to communicate it all so well without any ill will and rancour towards anyone and with so much gratitude and humility!! God bless you ❤
@Malvika gives great advice, and listening to her always makes me feel better. I really hope she starts creating more podcast content so I can hear her more often.
She's the sister I needed in life.. even if it's virtual .. I connect to her the most.. I'm so so happy you got her in the podcast. I love her energy ♥️ as PC says.. good girls do fine but bold girls make history🙌✨ 🧿
I just dont understand how could Akhil just not connect help comfort her during her pregnancy. Seems like an avoidant who just provide connection in the form of sexual intimacy where women latch on to it as only form of connection .
She was not like this before. She always thought her life was perfect with a perfect long term relationship, good beauty career all this before 30. But pain is your best teacher, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. She is now more mature and an amazing person.
Conversations like these are so uplifting.. we all may not be sailing in the same boat but the courageous words are inspiring! So much clarity and poise is something that one should always endure..! Loved it... ❤🎉 more power to you Malvika..Way to go! ❤ Shout out to the host for giving that comfort and space to share which is the main element.. 👏🏼
Idk I do understand totally that it’s best to be separated and be individually happy with yourself, the other person and anyone associated with y’all, rather than stay in an unhappy relationship. But what I don’t understand is that if you are separated and you’re saying that you both can not be in a relationship and still support each other’s lives, then why is Akhil not being present in both of your pregnancy also being talked about? Like if you’re truly saying that you can be individually happy and be there for each other in times of need (without being in a marriage), then where exactly is the support if he want even there in the pregnancy and you had to do everything alone. This is just a genuine thought considering what’s being discussed about mostly in this topic.
I always had a special love for Jenny aunty, Malz mom broke the chain of unhappy relationship and chose the right decision for her kids.. I wish that my mom was brave enough to do the same.. ❤❤
I can totally get how difficult life turns up to be. My husband passed away when i was 8months pregnant and now i have a 2 month old child.. life everyday is task to live in but iam trying to hard for myself and my baby. sometimes motivation videos life this helps. i would still say Abi has daddy to go to but my child just solely have me 😓. Just praying we become so strong that few things at least becomes easy for us to survive.
No offence to her, I’m her subscriber, follower and everything else but listening to her always takes me to so many negative thoughts and minute after that I zone out and breakdown , it’s just so many negative things altogether
For me there was nothing negative in their conversation. This is life, there are so many positive and negative aspects that happens. Likewise, she also went through that and she not mopping around or stagnant in that negative period of her life instead she telling us how she came out of it. It was nice and encouraging for me to listen to her. Like she strong both mentally and emotionally. At the end it's how one perceives things and so for me she was so encouraging of some many level.
I am a Lawyer and have seen how ugly it gets for a couple in Court during separation, specially on Child Custody issue, however Akhil is also a good man and a Great Father, that's why unlike other women counselled by their advocates and Family Members to alienate the child from father, Malvika hasn't ever concealed the Baby Girl from her Ex husband and they still meet together. Two people may have compatibility issues wid each other, doesn't makes someone a Bad Father or a Bad Mother 👍
Mamma mals on the show..!!!always and truly admire her❤❤❤❤ lots of love, respect snd blessings to her❤🧿 i can go on for hours listening to her. Shez a virtual therapist and i connect with her so deeply
You have killed the podcasts vibe like letting the podcast knowledgeable and very much of importance to public knowledge but you have now completely turned it into a personal like interview chat
Why malvika is not addressing her relapse to being a non vegetarian again... She announced with trumpets that she has turned vegetarian but now is devouring all non veg stuff and still not addressing it.. Shame on her
I really like Akhil and Malvika a lot… I am just always thinking what the hell happened between them? And that too during her pregnancy ? They were even seeing locations for their wedding.
@sakshisingh7442: come on she was staying with her in laws after marriage and did a home tour as well of her married house. It’s so strange how these people show how lovey dicey their life is and then in pregnancy partners come closer, but here it’s something different. This shows how shallow life social media influencers live
This sounds hard man.....like legit harddddd.... been a followers of malss for years and what a brilliant women she is I hope god has all the happiness and love for her and Abi in store. :)
Loved this conversation and enjoyed every bit of it. Its so empowering and Malvika has always been a source of motivation for me for so many years now! ❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ Girls thank you so much . U hv no clue! I hv been struggling at things and at a time where I thought I would never struggle. And I was really looking for answers. Karishma , watched the manifestation podcast, made notes , rewatching, relistening, implementing everything and it is absolutely working! And now this one . Man! Malvika God bless you. Love love love.
Two of my fav superwomen in one frame, cant be happier. You guys really inspired me in my life. Following malvika since last 6 years, its been a journey. Proud of her always, she is my therapist in my darkest time of life. thank you karishma, for bringing her on your podcast.
I quite dont understand the flow of conversation , questions is about expenses and shes talking about her own guilt story 😵💫 no emotional touch all answered diplomtic
Malvika again conveniently ignored the conversation about a 50,000 job that akhil arranged that she left after 2 days because 'that was not her calling" or "travelling by Mumbai local was not her life". There was enough exaggeration especially when she said that she would do whatever it takes (considering there was no electricity/water, she left 50,000 job after 2 days that was arranged by her bf). Hats off to her brother for shouldering the entire family where his sister had the luxury to choose a career that does not pay for years ( again no food, light and electricity ). I mean, empty vessels make the loudest noises.
Exactly I am from Mumbai suburbs and travel 1.45hrs daily to get to office. I hate travelling but cant even think of leaving job like millions other in Mumbai coz i have to pay the fucking rent.
Who cares about what her boyfriend or husband got her? She did not want it... DEAL WITH THAT... a man or a woman has the right to say i want this to be my life. Stay peaceful
Malvika just a suggestion, you are making a lot of sound with your lips.. which is adding decibels because you are in front of mike. Please see if you can avoid that
If that wasn’t there then I don’t think the whole point of making videos would happen .. If she suffered she suffered. Everybody has a story it’s just that you listen to what they went through or you just skip it .. commenting unnecessary things on someone’s journey isn’t worth it .. Maybe you have had good times but everybody doesn’t. Maals was just trying to stand on her own feet and this is her story .. If that felt correct to her and that’s that
I am so happy that you'll bought Malvika on board for the show. Thank you Team HOB! I have tremendous amount of respect for her as a beauty content creator and as a woman who's dealt with her happy highs and worst lows. She's always been very inspiring for me but after seeing this, one thing I know for sure is that she gracefully balances her personal and professional life, with immense strength and kindness 🤍 PS: She's the only beauty content creator I follow 😌
