Are All Sociopaths Bisexual? 

Same. Female companion both sexually and emotionally is the most fulfilling thing to me.

@@smoothmentalitysmooth9226 sounds like your girl was never a lesbian, she just used labels to her advantage. Difference is, I'm actually attracted to women. I find women more aesthetically appealing than men. Contrary to the stereotypical belief's, women are emotionally more mature more, drama free, at least in my experience, hence why I prefer them more.

@@smoothmentalitysmooth9226 you sure like to talk a lot about stuff you know nothing about. I'm not even going to bother to reply to your bullshit because your arguments have no basis. You're one of those types who think homosexuality is a choice. Have a good day. Also don't mean to sound offensive but black people have a different culture hence they tend to operate differently than white people, not to mention that homophobia is very rampant in your culture (particularly in black men).

@@smoothmentalitysmooth9226 ahm... how disgusting to tell someone: nah you don't know about your own boundaries and preferences bcz ur mentally ill.... this just shows how uneducated on soooo many levels you are. Im a nurse and I can tell you that people who go to therapy and work on themselves LEARN TO DEVELOP boundaries = setting goals, re evaluate, reset goals work out strategies, learn about roots and causes (which is an incredible hurtfull process) they know themselves, most problems raise from not knowing what I need and how to achieve it, the goal of therapy is to find that out. No one needs your toxic opinion. 😮‍💨🙄

@@smoothmentalitysmooth9226 no youre wrong. Women fear men because men often physically and sexually harm us. Nobody chooses to be a lesbian. Any one who claims they did is a bisexual by nature. Being bisexual means I can choise what sex (male or female) i want to date.

Yes!! I would love to learn more about how it affects bipolar people as I’ve noticed sociopathy can often be comorbid with bipolar disorder.

I know a guy who are Bipolar and Bisexual ‼️

In his video, Are The Narcissist Gay ❓The Narcissist Tudor at Ultra, told that Narcissists are Hyper sexual and their sexuality are fluid ‼️Many women in the comment field on the video, have thought that her partner could be gay‼️

Hi, I'm bipolar. I also identify as bi. Personally I experience higher s*x drive when hypomanic than when depressed, which is pretty normal.

I have bipolar I with PF and I was pan for a loooong time, then I was sexually assaulted and now I identify as a demisexual and demiromantic. Which I only learned about recently. Finding that label actually helped me come to terms with what happened more than I realized it would. I also have had decades long issues with hypersexuality- which also went away after my SA. I also have CPTSD and while not formally diagnosed I do receive treatment for BPD. Dating apps scare the sh*t out of me lol

identity issues

I have borderline traits, but I think I am doing very well in this journey. But I literally remember how certain circles of people affected me in the topic of my sexual identity (they were not bad people, still very good friends). I thought I am bisexual, but in some point I thought I am a gay man inside a female body, cuz I hanged out with a lot of gay boys, and I am a real tomboy in a very feminime body. After I left/limited those circles, and I realised these personality disorders often involved with unclear, unstable personality, identity, and meet a nice man, I realized I am totally heterosexual. BUT! I really love women as well, in the sense of telling them sweet things, and bringing them flowers. Their smile makes my heart melt, but that's it. The fact to have a sexual relationship/serious relationship with a woman makes me feel..., well yeah creeps me out or I dont know. I think this is my pure personality trait, probably because in my family we often bring flowers to females if we are visiting, no matter if you are a woman too. It's normal for me. Also I studied as a tailor, and I love beutiful female bodies, cuz dresses look nice on them. Also, I always wanted a cute lovely-dovely relationship with a boy, and since I had high expectations it's often didn't match with reality, so I think most woman are lack in these sweet minutes with guys, so I love to make them feel beautiful and cute. I think this is just my pure personality, what made me confused cuz my instabil identity, and cuz I was easily influanced by others because my foggy identity/personality. I think one of the most important thing in these personality disorders to find your core personality, and don't let others influance you. Since I realised this, I limited how much I am telling about my problems for other people. Cuz I know they usually can only talk about their experiences, maybe in a good or a bad way, but definietly not in my right way. That helped me so much in my stabil personality, in my decisions, believing I can choose my best choices, also in my relationships. But I am still open to conversations, just i know where are the boundaries between others opinion, and my feelings and rightness.

Cluster B is autoerotic. That's the reason for the unclear sexuality.

identity crisis in many bi people

Yeaaah but like first of all how manic are you, second of all how drugged are you doing the up swing because it isn't like being high on Lucid absinthe and cocaine isn't going to lead to kissing questionable people

Yeah, no. I’ve tried with a girl that I really liked and I just wasn’t attracted to her physically (because having sex with a woman wasn’t arousing to me). So yeah, you can be just straight or gay.

I don’t think so

I think asexuality is the default since it’s nothing lol

@@emmamartin4045 bisexuality being the default doesnt mean being gay and being straight doesnt exist. Its just like how right now heterosexuality is considered the default. Being gay still exists its just considered abnormal. What im saying is that majority of people would probably be bisexual if we werent expected to be straight and if we werent taught that anything other than heterosexuality is disgusting.

@@r.1.336 were probably just talking about different things :))

What a load of bullshit. This is exactly what you're doing. Triangulating everyone against bisexuals. You're insane.

Or maybe people in general are bisexual/pansexual, but someone is 50/50 and someone is like 98/2, which means almost Herero/homosexual. And since we live in more open minded age, more people can honestly look inside and tell without or less shame that they like more genders.

Yes I agree that it is an evolution trait!! Very good point

I think this and the fact that it’s become more acceptable in society so those that are bisexual (and there have always been bisexual people) are now more open about it.

I'm Bisexual and are suprised about how many female celebrity's who have told they are Bisexual, we have Megan Fox, Madonna, Angelina Jolie, Angelica Silverstone, Paris Jackson, Amber Heard, Kate Moss, Marilyn Monroe, Marlene Dietrich, Rita Hayworth and Greta Garbo‼️

I personally feel like thats the medias fault for brainwashing kids and their parents. Just like we are overly acceptive to the trans community. And hell some people even think pedophiles deserve the right to live. I think its gonna get worse.

All women are bisexual, "normal" women too.

@@PrivaBonito that's bullshit

@@PrivaBonito no

@@PrivaBonito no we're not lmao

I dated a girl with NPD she was a bisexual

I have the same experiences in being completely in denial of my bisexuality at a very young age. I have come to accept it eventually and later noticed my aspd traits later on. It does make me wonder if the thrill seeking tendencies of those with aspd have a direct effect on how they identify on the lgbt spectrum, especially for those who live in cultures that consider lgbt as taboo or something that is wrong

@@TheCrazeace I'm an American female so maybe that's why but I've never denied being bisexual and the majority of people that I've told about it (non religious people) either were totally fine with it or told me they were bisexual themselves

@@m0bz0mb39 I'm glad people are more open and understanding now-a-days. The 1990's had a long way to come, at least within traditional families in more rural America. I can't entirely speak to the movement at that time. That's why I am so thankful for channels and communities, such as our lovely Kanika, that helps us know and feel we are relatable with others far and wide.

@@TheCrazeace I started feeling urges young too, and I never understood it. It's a very weird place to be as a little one when your told it's not normal. That's an interesting thought, I am also curious about this direct effect!

I mean at the same time you can CHOOSE which way to be and what to act on. I don't know why people even bother making a bunch of excuses for themselves and their behavior. Like I have a family history of alcoholism, that doesn't mean I didn't choose to drink or not to drink, and drinking heavily is still also wrong. >but there's nothing wrong with being queer in general with sociopathy there are multiple things wrong with it. Oh, she's right about that too come to think....antisocial types tend to be promiscuous and risky just generally. Idk why though. There's something really lonely and isolating and alienated to me about having sex with strangers that do not love you, so I imagine having sex with a narcissist "you were alone the whole time" must be one of the most psychologically damaging things ever. Like fr why don't you guys just admit that the Christians and Muslims were right about this topic all along: find a good person to marry and lose your virginity to wife or husband and have a family.

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@@hebaana30 Stop being childish.

@@mannyoftheeast3318 Stop being psychopath

@@hebaana30 What an undignified way to conduct yourself.

@@hebaana30 Lol at least try to sound intelligent

I mean there is a truth that tons of mental or other disorders and aberrations tend to be comorbid with each other, like there's no such thing as "just" being trans or "just" being narcissistic, or "just" being sexually promiscuous, usually it's a whole range of patterns of thinking and behavior. So if you find a person who's got a severe substance abuse problem, or a bad gambling habit with huge debts, or they're 600 lbs, you can be pretty much guaranteed they've got a whole associated range of other deviant behaviors. Although all that being stated, I think that sociopaths may also play it up for the exact reason of Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct--it's because there's something about sexual fluidity that is intensely attractive to neurotypicals and straight people, particularly among men. Like, I am pretty sure most naive guys had at one time thought about "how cool it would be to bang two chicks" which I'm sure they were also completely oblivious to the consequences (I had to tell one woman directly no because of this, the whole thing people forget is first of all, if she's a lesbian, she's not into you period, secondly there are some problems sometimes with people too masculine or too feminine and queer, and it's completely irrelevant for bis anyway because if you're in a committed relationship it's still cheating, it's still weird, you'd still not want to screw around even if your partner is ok with it etc.) So in other words, attractive which is something that socios can do to gain even more leverage and be even more enticing and intoxicating to their victims/targets if they're wanting to play with someone. Of course naturally if you are really into somebody then whether you like the same gender or not falls by the wayside, it's irrelevant and doesn't serve them much by you playing up that part of yourself you don't plan to be accessing anyway, regardless how well it works on Michael Douglas. I'm not sure that women find it attractive though.

Oh yes, I apologise for that, I don’t at all mean that bisexuality is always consistent with hyper sexuality, not at all! Thank you for bringing that up, it is good to clarify.

@@KanikaBatra No worries! I figured that wasn’t actually what you were trying to say. Love your videos! Very fun and insightful!

@@KanikaBatra I have an important question, do you think it would be healthier for a sociopath to date another sociopath because they undertand eachothers emotional needs or would it be a struggle for control?

@@m0bz0mb39definately yes

Isn't sexual deviance a trait of psychopaths. Like, they talk about sex and usually have higher sexual behavior. It comes along with power and control as well as risk-taking behavior.

@@michaelellis772 it's not really a codified trait of theirs, no. Though I suppose it depends entirely on what you mean by sexual deviance

Yeah you just want an obidient victim thus a nice person / nice personnality

Same

I tend to find only about 1/500 people truly alluring so while I'm not admitting jack shit on here, yeah I know what you mean. And I think it's just because people with antisocial traits do not give two shits about the society around them and so as a result they basically don't care about admitting to it and publicly embracing their own deviancies, whereas a more demure type of person, say, like a quiet Christian girl raised in a Conservative household, would certainly not even be willing to admit as much to herself, let alone acting on it publicly. But in fact it is my experience quite a few religious people are into things like bondage or are bisexual anyway, they just tend to have way more decorum than making a spectacle of themselves in the freak parade the way rainbow hair people tend to conduct themselves in such undignified way. So it doesn't even matter to me ultimately, because while I guess when I was drunk I'd have made out with anyone, the fact is I rarely ever approach women at all because I can probably count on both hands the number of times I ever have even thought about it and seen a woman who is truly so alluring, so sexy, so mysterious, has such a magnetism about her, that I'd proceed to bust all my own rules and actually approach a person to get involved in my life and myself become involved in theirs. It's annoying that bisexual stuff is so heavily sexualized tbh, that's probably another reason why it's been my experience most people don't heavily flaunt or advertise it. Mainly because you're still going to want to have a normal relationship, and it's closed, so anyone else doesn't matter, even though some people still do the whole hurrrr let's have a threesome thing.

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Yeah I suppose that could actually be a pretty fair appraisal, I mean, everything from bdsm to using knives in the bedroom to fooling around with trans to getting high on crack cocaine and heroin, I guess people with antisocial traits it's not always they tend to push the boundaries as they just don't even care or are more oblivious to those boundaries. Well, that and like Anika said, their flat tone of voice matches the flatness of their jaded and cynical experience of reality, so they're immediately drawn to anything that makes things even more extreme. And plus I suspect there's something about the way sociopaths look at people and speak that is hypnotic, not sure why.

@@pandemicneetbux2110 its probably just the fact they have a calm demeanor, in a world where not everyone does. And theyre a load of fun. But not the type of person youd want to get close to ;)

Yesss another bi/pan aspd person! Love it

YES!!! You are the perfect example. I’ve known many men w ASPD who have said the same. I think you raise a very interesting point here about lack of disgust. That’s extremely interesting.

Well said Robert!

@@KanikaBatra I'm not sure about lack of disgust but I usually find myself more interested in what someone does, says, wears, desires and believes rather than what they look like, that being said I don't like it when people don't respond to something the way I want or expect them to and if things start getting really awkward or if the passion just isn't there my arousal is gone and I'm gone

@@m0bz0mb39 are you ASPD?

Sam Vaknin talked a lot about Borderlines as secondary psychopaths, with one state as highly empathic and a second state where they can't control themselves and act unstoppably aggressive/impulsive. Could it be that you just have BPD? I'm asking because I know a person that fits exactly your description and want to know more about it

I don't get why people make such a big deal about sexual identity either. It's just there. I can if you are in a position to be persecuted, like you want to marry someone of the same sex, but normally what difference does it make?

I have adhd, anxiety and I'm part if the lgbta community

Adhd and bisexuality has no co-relation what so ever. Just because you identify as bi and have adhd doesn’t mean anything. I have blue eyes and adhd. Does that mean a sh**? Nope. I have lots of adhd friend. They’re all just as straight as me. Adhd shouldn’t even be mentioned in this context to be honest. Not more than cancer or asthma. It’s disrespectful and totally BS.

I'm autistic too and I'm also bisexual. I have undiagnosed ADHD but that's besides the point.

By definition she does not have a "kind heart". She has adapted to not be a destructive person to others and herself which I think is great. But no she doesn't have a "kind heart".

Its borderline! Bipolar doesn't have an acronym for some reason.

Well I guess not neurotypical if I have ocd but I haven’t been officially diagnosed so technically still one. 🤷‍♀️

@Isabel I don't think they feel remorse on the same scale. They have a lot of cognitive emotions but not emotional as they lack empathy even for themselves. This is why they engage in high risk behavior.

All I can say is please don’t come out until you’re comfortable and safe! If you are worried the stigma will hurt you, that’s totally understandable and I sincerely hope there’s a chance for you to express that side of yourself in the future. This is a safe space and I’m glad you feel happy to share.

If ur a girl and ur bisexual, it's VERY accepted by men. Problem is, what are u going to say and do if he says "wElL y0u sHoUlD gEt a gIrLfRiEnd tO0" so he can have 2 girls at once

@@daviedood2503 Lol I actually don't mind my boyfriend sleeping with other women because with them it's just sex but with me it's an attachment, if he spent more time with another girl than with me or talked about another girl too much while we're spending together or made me feel like I wasn't deserving of being the center of his attention I would get very angry and jealous and insecure though

@@m0bz0mb39 ohhhh hell naw. I ain't buying NONE of what you just said. 😂 you'd get jelous and mad if he talked about a girl too much, but not mad or jelous, or INSECURE about him, literally ENJOYING and GETTING OFF on another woman? 😂 girl bye with that mess. 😂 You don't KNOW if it's "just sex" you're ASSUMING it would be. That's you telling YOU that to deal with it to keep those feelings at bay. "Ugh, men..boyz will be boyz whataya gonna do ya know? Tee hee hee" *cringe * 😂

@@daviedood2503 Maybe It's just because I trust him and don't see it as more than sex because it's not, it's actually healthy for people to be open with one another and not hide their true feelings or invalidate them, it's not like your boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with other girls, the two just aren't comfortable enough with eachother to talk about it or experiment with it.

Well every woman I've known (both romantically and platonically) who was bisexual admitted to having BPD. You see a lot of this in cluster B in general.

Well Kernberg is full of shit then because I'm a bisexual male with ADHD but no personality disorders.

That is such misinformation. Plenty happy, healthy bisexual guys out there. There's no such thing as 'always' in medicine.

Probably only men who are vulnerable enough to show their neuroticism are the only men vulnerable enough to admit they are bisexual. Just because someone won't admit they are something that doesn't mean they aren't and bisexuality is highly stigmatized among men.

No one in the heat of the moment can contemplate anything. That's why you hold you standards firm in mind ahead of time and stick to them. You have to make a commitment to yourself and not waiver.

Well $hit. 😂

I love your new hair. You're so pretty.

wow how can u be so fast

Haha

same here!

I jumped in your DMs on insta if you are curious about my question.