JJ, you said that, before you got into a relationship with your present gf, you dated around and went to various clubs etc. Could you please list a handful of your favorite venues in addition to The Royal? Did you meet the women on a dating site or did you also meet some in person at the clubs? Sorry for all the questions but my understanding is that it's also good for the channel/YT algorithm etc.
Many gentlemen arriving to the Philippines are "Loved Starved" If you are one of these souls then Go To Angeles City Go directly to Angeles City. Do not pass GO, do not collect $200. Do some self-care and get it out of your system prior to looking for a girlfriend or whatever illusion you are chasing.
JJ has all inside info every time he posts :) I say Bring a nice humble province girl from the mountains to BGC and she will be so Happy to see and learn the city life - We love it.
It is hard if they have came to Cebu to meet another man. Then they want to try and meet you the second expate man. It is like a guy needs a Virgin Expate is what I call it.
I have to agree about the tattoos. I find Asian women extremely attractive and don't understand why they feel the need or desire to cover themselves in tatts. Like you said a small tattoo or two is ok but sleeves... whole leg or chest tatts really are not appealing. And again..... would i want to introduce a lady like that to family and friends? I doubt it. Transactional fun for sure. Anything more no thanks. See this so much in Thailand and it's increased dramatically over the years Years ago it seemed only the really hardened bar girls or Gogo dancers were like this, now it seems much more common. Each to their own of course and I know guys who love the ladies covered in ink.🙂
I agree about Thailand. I've been there many times and it used to be a bar girl with tattoos was a sign that they were owned by the Russian syndicate. Now I think it's becoming more common which is sad in my opinion.
I live close to BGC. Tivoli Garden Residences Dating in Manila isn't easy dating for a purpose. I'm looking for someone who can compliment my life and trying to date with a purpose but it's not easy. I believe you about the changes you speak of.
That's some great advice. I would add the the red flags: likes to drink too much, multiple facebook accounts, any noticeable entitlement, and following celebrity/pop culture too closely.
Yes. Another one would be all the pics in her dating profile are taken in different hotel rooms, and she's a poor province girl. I could do a whole hour on red flags. Maybe that will be the topic for my first live stream. Thanks for watching.
I met my Filipina wife in Hong Kong. We are around the same age. We dated in the 'traditional' sense, dinner, drinks, parties, barbecues with friends, etc. and after a while she moved in with me and a year later we had a child together. We spent 4 years in HK and have now lived in the Philippines for another 4 years, with property, a business and a decent income. She had kids from previous relationships, as did I. She has tatts, but nothing ostentatious (she actually got them after we had met).
Great video Bro. You remind me of Tom Glavine, the great pitcher from the Braves' trio of the 90's of Greg Maddux, John Smoltz and Tom Glavine. For me, ZERO tattoos on a woman is a must. One tattoo on a woman means "She Belongs to the Streets".
Step 1 Have three good dates of good conversation. Try to make your interigating questions more suttle. Step 2 Meet her freinds. You can tell a lot by the type of freinds they keep and her personality by the way she talks about them. 3 Learn about her family , Get to know her parents background. Knowing the family dynamics will help you understand her more; cause and consequence. If you dont't want chidren dont date young. The biological clock will be a ticking time bomb on your marriage.