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Weddings can be beautiful BUT from personal preference, I’ve always hoped my future husband would invest in a nice ring and that he and I could go on an amazing honeymoon, but I’ve never longed for a wedding.
I after being married and now divorced I wish I would not have focused on the wedding so much and focused and spent more on the marriage. Learned this the hard way. I Do not desire material things. I desire a God-Fearing marriage that focuses on goals vision and each other. Experience means more to me than buying me stuff.
Why do we need to label high maintenance or low maintenance? Why can’t it just be that some women like a certain level of being or having and other women have a different focus. Why can’t we be a team in a relationship that hopefully leads to marriage? There are so many great sub topics from this discussion. I enjoyed it. Honestly, I think we have become self absorbed and selfish. Lastly, I took your statement to mean exactly how you presented it.
Lol broke is not a definition. You either got money or you don’t, either one would be a fact not an opinion. High and low maintenance can look different for every person. Broke is broke
Guy spoke the truth about our culture being toxic. Truth being told, our culture is what’s preventing a lot of great relationships. We have to unlearn some cultural things in order to be successful.
It's easy to talk to another man and have them understand. Now the statement AO you said to your ex, that came off to me in like a completely different angle because if you're communicating it to me I'm understanding your telling me you don't trust me. And explaining it to her would have been in other words just understand that I'm coming to chase you and make sure that you're mine no matter who tries to talk to you. I have learned to ask can you explain your intention. Men and women think differently. If your a man and you communicate with another man most likely they will understand you. A woman talking to another woman will say hey I understand you. When I get advice I get advice from other men. When it comes to how my husband thinks or any expectations.
She knew what he meant. It meant that she would be expected to start narrowing her field down and that is what she didn't like. She also knew that her response to him would lead to him cutting ties and she wouldn't have to do the work. Anthony needs to find a girl that's fine with being nobody to everyone else and everything to him. Just a plain jane with great maternal instinct.
@@LH-dq3ie you know how many couples I have sat with that didn't have the understand each person had to learn to change some aspect of their communication for each other. Pre-marriage counselors will push them on this. A good one at least. There are always two sides to things. Marriage is work. In every aspect. Communication and having realistic expectations or just a few in that foundation.
👑666👑❤️omg! This is beautiful! Hearing black men talk money & budgeting!!!!! 😫😭 limiting wedding costs to 10K omg so smart😭😭😭this has been just a thankful thanksgiving blessing ! Thank you sir 👏🏼
There are different variations of high maintenance women from having sweet--hearts to cold--hearts and everywhere in between. They only have one thing in common, enjoying pricey lifestyles, material items, presentation, upkeep etc
I spent 30 years with my wife 700 dollars on her ring 100 on mine 2000 at the IVY HOUSE in Inglewood CA a small chapel NONE OF THAT STUFF MATTERS if it's not true love...
That's just the other side of the same coin. Women and men alike had to be taught by the beauty industry to believe they should be thin/thicc/high maintenance etc in the first place.
A woman who understands her man’s purpose is not low maintenance. She is good woman. Don't label her as low maintenance as an excuse to treat her a certain way. If you are a busy man make y'all time together meaningful.
Because men are providers and protectors we know a woman must be maintained. How do you feel about the fact that Men look at you this way? Low maintenance means little to no distractions away from his purpose, and does not mean ill treatment. How does placing value on what it takes to maintain a woman sit with you?
@@faheemfaquir1024 I personally think a man who is dating a woman should not have to maintain her, court her and treat her right, yes. A woman should be maintaining herself until she is married. I do understand men have a perspective that I don't know because I'm a woman.
8:11-8:31 that’s exactly how I interpreted Anthony’s statement, not him being controlling at all. When a man will claim u like that, it’s sexy & shows that he knows what value he brings
The point is that women are trained to receive, and men are trained to give. We are trained to pay for dates, help with this and that and the other thing that takes the weight off of you and it often involves money whereas men expect women to help with things that don't require money. That's what he's saying 😊
Listen, she either didn't like you THAT much/didn't see a future with you/not YOUR queen OR you should've kept that to yourself & SHOWNED her you were as serious as you claimed to be. Instead of verbally trying to assert your dominance in that way. She obviously took it as " You haven't ask for exclusivity so I am still open to potentially dating others/being approached by others, & you have no real reason to be upset about that". Men if you're THAT serious, make her your girlfriend exclusively and work towards marriage or just keep things like that to yourself UNTIL you are ready to actually act on it.
A high maintenance woman (or women in general) is supposed to be a motivational tool for men. If he finds she is a liability then he has chosen a woman whos push and feminine influence is beyond his ability to produce. Being equally yoked also has to do with levels of productivity and influence in the relationship as well, whatever woman you choose her feminine influence should be on the level of success you want to achieve. In my opinion! ❤
This was interesting discussion. Can we reframe the narrative here to High Maintenance vs High Caliber.... instead of High Maintenance vs Low Maintenance? just feels like another opportunity to take a dig at black women, even though that may not be the intent.
Words are a matter of interpretation. Perhaps it may be better to not say tell them orther "guys I'm coming" You speak of how a woman must be aligned with you. Thus, a true Queen does not have to be told, her actions will automatically be in line with her King to enhance her King and to preserve his throne. Love is everything because God is Love. May you set your heart on a Kingdom woman and look beyond the natural beauty of a woman as there are plenty of Delia's waiting to pounce all over you. Shalom Ms. Jeffries
You know AO, I said the exact same thing, my philosophy on the ring( rep my husband and his value for me), not the wedding. The wedding is the celebration, but a party for all others. Let's have fun on the honeymoon and share the wedding experience with those who truly love and support US. All folks do is talk about your dress, food and who brought a gift or didn't give nothing.......put left with tons of to go plates. And don't let it be a cash bar.......🤣🤣🤣!!! I like this group of brothers, soooo true!!!
Where is the credit to women who buy there own things and can afford it . And not worried about a quote on quote man money . The stupid labels and it’s men out here who are high maintenance stop trying to label women …. Omg
Sir please keep the ring within reasonable taste quality and value not to exceed extravagant by no means because rings are like automobiles they lose value and cost ideally today between 5g to $10,000 Max is really sufficient.
Totally agree and was looking for this comment. I’d rather spend more on the wedding and honeymoon with nice pictures that a huge amount on a gaudy depreciating ring. At the same time, people just need to do what’s best for them. Like what if he falls for a lady who doesn’t like big jewelry? What if she has more modest tastes? What if she’s a foodie and rather have a big food budget for the wedding instead? Do what makes y’all happy together within an agreed upon budget.
I want a good ring but not too crazy. I see some rings and it scares me. I don't want to walk around with a house on my hand. It's dangerous. I want a bomb honeymoon! The wedding will be outdoors preferably. Whenever the man comes, I know what I would like!🤣 This was a dope conversation. P.S. she was a little slow. I would've said okay, on alert!
You said it correctly it is very dangerous remember the one wife that had the ring snatched off her finger Kanye wife let's use wisdom here people watch your hand and you don't even know it
There are so many relationship issues of TOXICITY that have been embedded & ingrained in our culture for decades that desperately need to be BROKEN GENERATIONALLY in order to foster PRODUCTIVE FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS!!!
I agree with you on having a small, affordable wedding, Anthony. My cousin did it in Southern California at our church and it was still a beautiful affair under $10K. Also, I do think it is fine what you said to your ex, but it just shows she was not the most compatible with you.
A lady that understands and knows herself, her role and position(in mind and actions) as a (single)woman, wife or wife to be is called: a conscious woman or queen conscious. Choose right people. God bless!
My attitude towards spending is moderation and humbleness, even if I was a billionaire. It is ok to indulge and spoil one’s self every now and then. I do believe that material riches must go with a rich spirit: That is where the glow and beauty lie.
High maintenance is being described as materialistic. A woman who loves and values herself.. is gonna take her of said temple. A woman than values bags and shoes OVER the financial growth of her partnership/family has another agenda. For the “need attention” piece, a secure partner will understand you can’t realistically be available ALL the time, however showing up with support is also a need in a healthy relationship. - a wife who wanted an under 4k wedding wedding but a 16k ring.
I think his definition of low maintenance means a whole person. Also, if you notice they all made concessions with their wives and admit they have mid-maintance women as they say (talk is cheap). Men always say this and do something else..lol... He just means needy and greedy as high maintenance. So, I believe what men do..not what they say Ijs...Also, the 10k wedding is not bad if yall agree to that. Most nice destination weddings are nice for 10k. But if she got a family that wants to pay for it..that may be even better.
This was ONE of the most REFRESHING conversations I've had heard with regards to starting, being, establishing, & MAINTAINING a HEALTHY POSITIVE, LOVING RELATIONSHIP between 2 people.
Anthony grow up, and defend women more, especially with having a sister. You can be a high maintenance individual, and just as content, with no needs and or wants. You are single, due to the insecurities you have, however, demanding for the women to be perfect.
I'm a woman, and most the women I know would have took it as you talking trash (in a good and funny way). Just a fun case of "show me then", but never controlling. Stay strong brothers.
Maybe that’s what it is. There is something about him constantly talking about dating and relationships that throws me off. He seems really nice but there is something that he is doing that I can’t put into words. It’s almost like he’s dangling his status in front of women, flexing, or trapping his lady guests into conversations that are about dating down. But I’d like to still think it’s well meaning. Hopefully he continues to grow
Yeah, the "I'm coming for you" statement can read differently for women. It says "controlling," "objectification" (you're a beautiful thing, and I want you all to myself even though I barely know your full name), selfishness (you make me look good, so please play along), and even threatening. Of course, we as women like to be appreciated for our physical beauty, but we know the secret behind it. It's a lot of work, mostly manufactured, and is subject to decrease over time, comparably speaking. 😔 I suggest not using that line again. It's loaded with double, even triple meanings.
