Ladies, He DOESN'T Want A Boss Woman! | Episode #1

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Anthony O’Neal is embarking on a unique social experiment as the host of “Ladies, hear him out!” a live panel-style event where men will get the mic and the floor. And the ladies? Well, they’ll be in the audience, sipping and sighing, preparing their responses which can only be given after the last panelist has said his piece.
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@jordanyear2330 Год назад

As men we do need to do more. Asking a women if she’s comfortable dating a men who makes 40k or less is ridiculous to me. We need to be asking why is he (men) comfortable making 40k or less. Just because your main source of income is 40k that doesn’t mean that’s all you can make. Expand for your family, expand for your queen, but more importantly expand for yourself.

@SB-lw5xt Год назад

Everything you said is correct, the only issue we have as a collective group of men, what do we get when we start making 100k and 200k, what are we expecting to get. That’s all we asking, and nobody seems to know the answer to that.

@tam6011 Год назад

@@SB-lw5xt here is different standpoint it’s not about you are getting from a woman. What are doing and providing for yourself. A 100k in certain cities is 40k. Are you financially sound? Have you invested and laid out for your future. When you get to 100k to 200k mark you look at people way different. Your circle changes because where you going those folks are going that. When you do that she will appear. She wont appear because of your resources it’s the mindset the ability for you and her to thrive.

@jasminesabundance7309 Год назад

Came here just for this comment 💯💯

@tashiareed5452 Год назад

Yesss sir!!

@gwendolynallen3218 Год назад

@user-te5bw3ht2q Doesn't it seem suspicious all these so-called high-earning men can't tell you what to do or expect? First, Stop worrying about something that may never happen. You may never earn 200k in a year. You could easily die with medical debts like the majority of these guys. If you do manage to break 100k a year, please don't act as if that's a lot of money to women who earn as much or more than you do because it isn't. You need to lose your lose ego, it's keeping you poor and single.

@laurenleavell_ Год назад

You can’t lead a household in arrogance. You may have vision but the arrogance and pride you exhibit will negate the vision God gave you. As a Christian woman, it’s a bit scary to hear some Christian men project an entitled masculine ego in the name of God. Maybe being a boss girl is problematic in certain settings, but the masculine ego can be just as problematic and needs to be quelled.

@LinzyLinz7 Год назад

Exactly. Also I would say submission is something that comes natural when you feel you are supported and are in a trustful and safe space. You need all three: support, trust, and safety. So if a man is on an ego trip or is unstable it can be REALLY difficult to just go along with that.

@LovelyVibrations Год назад

Best comment!!

@iriswilson1978 Год назад

I agree!

@PollyLove92 Год назад

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@travione7360 Год назад

Quick question, don't want to offend anyone nor argue this is about truth. Do any of you ladies believe in the WORD of GOD?

@billybobbybill2924 Год назад

It’s almost ALWAYS Black men stating they don’t want women to be educated 😂 ladies keep educating yourself and keep those standards high

@Entrepreneur1017 Год назад

And keep being single. Lol Kevin Samuel's already exposed that just because you have high standards doesn't mean someone who meets those standards will want you

@babou5694 Год назад

💯💯💯!!! men will always find something to talk about when it comes to women. Educated or not , being a boss or not they still gonna complain “women this women “that all day long .

@CeeceeH1819 Год назад

It's their insecurity

@ivynya29 Год назад

As a man, I would not want a woman who will abandon her goals and dreams to follow mine blindly. Humans are defined by their dreams and desires. Whatever a woman desires to do, she should be able to do it within a compromising relationship. We both compromise and take turns.

@blahblah7050 Год назад

What I think is that men are expected to provide for the women, regardless of her income. If and when she decides to make her own money, and she decides she doesn’t wanna spend it, that’s her decision, it’s up to her. It’s hers. It doesn’t matter how much she makes the man is still required to spend on her. Realistically she’ll help him if he’s ever in need, but it’s never the expectation. If you ask me being a boss women filters out insecure men.

@jacobgatlin7485 Год назад

The couple they interviewed I strongly get that brother man. You do so much and it goes overlooked 🤦‍♀️

@WEFamilia Год назад

Believe it or not, this happens to Women too

@nubian77 Год назад

Well either its being overlooked, or he is under performing. A lot of men believe that cooking once a month, occasionally take the trash out is enough. Food need to be made everyday, dishes and clothes need washing, house needs cleaning, errands needs to be done… it’s a lot, and I’m wondering just how much he actually contributes, for his wife to react that way by rubbing his back lol the body language was VERYYY telling

@monicahodge5664 Год назад

Very great conversations and truthful perspectives! There definitely needs to be a healthy balance when it comes to various roles and responsibilities within the context of marriage; both parties need to be humble and willing to truthfully communicate about this. Most importantly, learn and find out about each other's strengths, likes, dislikes, and challenges. Although I've never been married, and from what I've heard from others,' there will be seasons in life or in one's marriage where either the husband or wife may struggle financially, emotionally, etc. If this happens to the husband financially, and he's unable to provide for his wife and family momentarily, I don't see anything wrong with his wife being the one to be the 'breadwinner' or 'boss woman', so to speak for a season, if it means making sure their family's needs are being met. Also, I feel that when society places labels on couples, such as 'breadwinner,' 'boss woman,' and '50/50,' these have negative connotations or meanings. Ultimately, when couples work collaboratively with making decisions and carrying out needed responsibilities, that's what's most important. What may work for one married couple as far as overall decisions, roles, and responsibilities may not work for the next couple.

@SELFCAREMODEL Год назад

I WILL DEFINITELY BE DOING MY RESPONSE TO THIS 😂. I JUST HOPE YOU’RE READY.

@tony7ize Год назад

Ads within the video and RU-vid ads come on this is getting harder to watch and support. Please stop trying to sale us things.

@iriemo721 Год назад

The dude in the suit confused controlling with masculine energy. “Its not a conversation” isn’t masculine energy.

@obiomahappiness5546 Год назад

Exactly my thought!

@sbusisiweshaba1715 Год назад

It shocked me too, he thinks dictatorship is masculinity.

@Sunshyn3Sam Год назад

Ladies, just be yourself... they really don't know what they want out here anyways. Be a boss if that is who you are... the man for you will love you regardless. Don't be out here broke bcus you trying to fit into a certain mold for some man.

@bodyworkandptbykraig7609 Год назад

For most modern women, especially BAW just being yourself is being someone figuring it out as they go because they don't have a functional blue print AT ALL.

@willienixon6847 Год назад

Right. Get with who GETS you!

@Yana_luv939 Год назад

Perfectly said 💯

@shalanathomas7751 Год назад

🗣🗣🗣PREACH!! 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@slovell920 9 месяцев назад

you sound crazy

@Michyyyy538 Год назад

That clip of Rico at the end is the only thing people should be taking away from this. I'll say this until I'm blue in the face: we would be SOO much further along if society (and particularly men, but def. women too) would see the value in human beings outside of us being either masculine or feminine - what is this weird obsession? People hold MULTITUDES. There is such a thing as DUALITY. No one is one thing ALL the time. Let people be! The ability to submit and release control is a sign of intelligence that ALL good leaders, good people, have. its perfectly fine, men, if you co-create, partner up, build WITH a woman - the world will not crumble. Dare I say, we might all be much better off for it...

@Rae_eLLe Год назад

The man with the fro and glasses had it 100% Edit: not one person should be doing husband wife roles outside of marriage

@octaviakf Год назад

1000% agreed

@christinepoole1843 Год назад

That's Pastor Stephen Chandler of Union Church. I am a new member there and he always keeps it 100!

@kayjeffs3741 Год назад

I don't understand how people are assuming that being a boss is masculine...

@lexie02jones25 Год назад

Exactly my point too

@nelllcoleman Год назад

It requires masculine energy to do so but that doesn’t always mean it’s a bad thing. We all have both energies. So some, we operate more in one energy versus the other.

@Malthizar Год назад

At the end of the day, all that matters is men find it repulsive in women. Your personal understanding or perspective on it is irrelevant since you're not going to convince a man to change what he does and doesn't find attractive.

@iriemo721 Год назад

@@Malthizar haha. Let men worry about what’s repulsive about them rather than what about women is repulsive to them. Men feel so qualified to tell women how to be woman but are so I’ll equipped at being men and teaching other men how to be men.

@BrookeLynn-sr6vy Год назад

Well thats how its viewed by men. As if feminine energy cannot run anything smh

@RDCFemmes Год назад

Looking at 3 generations of women and men in my family and me who come from a Patriarchal society in an African country. This panel is full of men who needs therapy and healing. Listening to someone who is broken is foolishness.

@marencruickshank Год назад

If men from your family were on this panel what would their opinions be? I'm really interested to know.

@iriswilson1978 Год назад

Pesi your comment is hilarious. But on the serious note I never thought about it on that way! Food for thought.

@RDCFemmes Год назад

@@marencruickshank from what I saw, have seen and still see. It'a a decision taken together husband and wife for the whole family. I believe the man is the head of the household, it doesn't mean he is a dictator and I don't believe in but the wife is the neck theory. Regargless of whether a woman is a full time housewife or works, the man is still the provider and her earnings is her money, it doesn't mean she doesn't contribute but it shouldn't be expected. And her having her own money, doesn't mean you stop treating her and buying her stuff. Respect is mutual. My parents experience, my mother was a full time housewife, my father hired helped and we had nannies. My father married my mother because he loved her and had the values he wanted his children to have. So he job was not to cook, to clean and to wash. I am aware that not everybody can afford this so in case when the hubby comes home, he helps. I have seen my husband's friends do it, then don't say I pay the so I don't have to clean plates etc . My mother loved/loves to cook but she didn't need to. She had 2 small business but It was her money. My aunties, grand aunties, cousins are happy working women and some ladies of leisure. I see how my uncles treats their wives. When you have real peace and you are happy it's visibles then you have the useless uncles and you ask yourself why don't thei wives leave them. The panel sounds like my useless uncles. My father, my mother husband for 43 years now told me that marriage was not an achievement and I guess he knew the culture would make me feel that without a man, I am useless so he prepared me early so I would not fall for this type of "stupidness."

@hannahn7375 Год назад

You are on Point my dear. I couldn't even give them my precious time.

@gracel3435 Год назад

Right! As an east African, I Aldo come from patriarchal society.....and my man is African.....but what the African American considered patriarchy is mad crazy! .....to me, these men are full of arrogance, anger and hate towards women........I really do feel like they suffer from post traumatic slavery syndrome.......they need therapy.....the whole community......cause it's sad to see how they treat each other.

@SS-in1ts Год назад

“We are not eating this, no conversation” Um……bye. No conversation? You can have a vision and share it and build together but you can’t be a dictator. I just feel bad for the woman he’s with. She’s not allowed to have an opinion or space in her own family to be heard. Women don’t want a man like that….maybe an abused woman, no healthy woman will be told to sit down and shut up.

@happilydivorced3235 Год назад

I just didn't like his outlook at all.

@viccourageous Год назад

Are u single?

@taytaylove3546 Год назад

Right! thats not leading or covering, thats controlling, nd yes plz have several seats, bc if my husband is loving me as Christ loves His church he not telling me what we not eating without conversation especially if me the wife is preparing it , like what nee-grow?! I gotta eat too nd my likes are just as valid as yours nd my kids, boy!

@viccourageous Год назад

Your likes are not as valid as an alpha males..go sitdown.. you like what he like or you just get replaced it's that simple

@kiyagames5174 Год назад

Your reading too much into it. There are no lines to read between. The woman he is meant to be with will share his vision (thinks similarly). I wouldn’t say he is talking about a dictatorship but more from a place of “when you know better you do better” he wants his family to be health conscious first and foremost. He doesn’t seem like he makes uninformed decisions, he said if it’s positive for the family meaning he thinks about the livelihood of the household first. Women don’t have a problem with a man that thinks of the household instead of himself.

@BrookeLynn-sr6vy Год назад

I was told I better have something cuz nobody would want me. So I got things now and its you got too much. I cant help that God blessed the work of my hands. I aint no boss chick but people box you in when you have stuff. Cant win here lol

@MANDEE7962 Год назад

No lies here 💯

@Malthizar Год назад

If you're not attractive, no one will ever want you, whether you have or don't have.

@britty9156 Год назад

They don’t know what they want and only hear black men saying this mess.

@JMilesPerHour Год назад

I only hear the debate of 50/50 when it comes to finances, but never 100/100 when it comes to effort. Look out for me 100% and I'll look out for you 100% and we'll work out the finances and household through the understanding of our efforts.

@britty9156 Год назад

Exactly!

@Aaaayyyeee Год назад

Feminine energy comes from attraction, boss energy is necessary to get things done. If you can’t handle both or can’t attract both that’s YOU

@nubian77 Год назад

Exactly.. he said yin and Yang but that is within all of us! If a man is to be masculine only then he wouldn’t have estrogen or emotional responses (like tears). I’m simplifying but I just don’t understand why people struggle to recognize that we all possess both qualities in us, masculine and feminine and it must be activated in the right scenarios

@JeNayaRobbs Год назад

The man in the white sweater was talking GOOD 👏🏽👏🏽. We get to choose the vision we’re submitting to. There should be no confusion once we say I do.

@shalanathomas7751 Год назад

No Confusion! 💯 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@ciladapoeto.5327 Год назад

Men don't want a boss women until they lose their jobs and become disabled, and the bills and etc are due.SMH. There's nothing wrong with a boss woman, she's about her career, serious about her money and ambition. Men obviously don't want their equals, they want lesser so they can control the woman, or have her dependent, that's sad.

@iriemo721 Год назад

Right . These same men in the same breath will say I need to know that if something happen to me we good. They are jokes

@honeybee7855 Год назад

Eeeexxxaaaccttllllyy. They want dependents to validate their masculinity because it's all externally validated, instead of partners to share their life with. SAD!

@SS-in1ts Год назад

I think there’s a difference between being a boss woman who can hold down the house when needed while not emasculating her man vs being The Boss, holding down the house and emasculating her man. I do think there’s an art to it that many women aren’t taught because we’ve had to be The Boss for so long and our society somewhat supports that.

@ciladapoeto.5327 Год назад

@@SS-in1ts ok but then comes the question what is masculinity, that can vary from culture to culture. Emasculation is a term that can be overused

@tiffanyyisrael7989 Год назад

Bingo Cila da Poet

@tiffanyyisrael7989 Год назад

They don't want "boss" women, because it's financially easier for her to leave him, once he starts acting up. 🥴 A woman who's fully dependent on him can't go anywhere and has to put up with the abuse. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@Entrepreneur1017 Год назад

No it's because they are a headache

@symonelewis1690 Год назад

The reason why some women stay in bad relationships with men is because they can't financially afford to leave him.

@kenriddick1156 Год назад

SMH.

@SirPorter Год назад

why can't she go anywhere when all the laws incentivize women to divorce men in the first place?

@UrbanGuitarLegend Год назад

Uh, I'm betting my favorite guitar you're not married... smh.

@IjaneaJoseph Год назад

Here’s the thing men love to say they want a proverbs 31 woman and that woman was a business woman

@justtiffany1 Год назад

👏👏👏

@nikkis.9747 Год назад

Yep

@iriemo721 Год назад

Cuz the average black man just talks. Doesn’t think. Doesn’t process. Just reacts. Contradict themselves in the same sentence

@Miss_Dani_DWhit Год назад

Amen

@kayjeffs3741 Год назад

Girl they ain't read no Bible...they just be talking lol

@bombbaby9870 Год назад

Here’s what everyone fails to understand. For one , people are defining boss chick as masculine , that is false, Just because a woman chooses to go after her dreams & walk in her purpose that god intended for her to do does not mean she is masculine . The men on this panel have a lot of old school mentalities & trying to mix stuff where they don’t belong. The guy in the gray suit mentioned “Eating Styles” but failed to put in perspective that you need to date a person that is already living in that type of way . Meaning a person who has the same goals as you & are already doing those things & build from there. The problem is that y’all try to date people that are the opposite of you & expect them to change their way of living to make you happy , you can’t do that. The reality of it all is that we are all here for a purpose that god intended for us to live & nobody should ever make anyone feel bad for doing the thing’s god intended for them to do . The problem is that y’all are so brainwashed & been taught by your counterparts a false way of living & wonder why your life isn’t working out the way it should , a lot of y’all live a false reality of what you think you should be doing instead of doing what god put you here to do. When it comes to down to Male & Female a person who truly know themselves & is sure of who they are & what they want , they won’t offend anyone who is also sure of themselves & know what they want because they are on the same wavelength physically, mentally, spiritually & emotionally. & on that note Happy Holidays Kings & Queens ‼️

@preciousjewel5323 Год назад

So true and very well stated! 😉

@MzKeyz26 Год назад

You summed up my thoughts exactly 🙌🏽

@patriciaburgess4257 Год назад

This all day!!!!

@TheAlreadytaken24 Год назад

👏👏

@travione7360 Год назад

Fam not trying to argue with nor attack you but you mentioned GOD, which I am a huge advocate for, but you also mentioned purpose. Well who's purpose are we talking about here yours or GOD'S.? Going after your 'dreams' is subjective & personal, as in YOU are deciding YOUR purpose, path, & journey not GOD. Majority are not living for the purpose of GOD because with the ALMIGHTY comes ORDER & theirs a certain ORDER to this thing WE call life. From the Heavens to the Earth. Peace be unto you 💯🙏🏿🙌🏿

@quinceywilliams4450 Год назад

I didn't even listen to the video, simply saw the title and I gotta tell ya I'm up to here with what men want and don't want. That's the gospel we women have heard our whole lives and when you get through you can lose yourself and them too. Ladies, do you.

@ItsMe-dr7ir Год назад

🙌🏾

@tenaybates8141 Год назад

If you bought a new car, shouldny you read the manual to know how effectively work the vehicle properly? And what is the point in commenting just to say you didn't watch it? Now that's weird.

@ked_thechosen4068 Год назад

Well said. These conversations are very much exhausting 🤔

@ItsMe-dr7ir Год назад

We all need to just be our authentic selves and attract what aligns with who we are. It’s not rocket science. No man on these webs needs to tell women how to be or what they will and won’t accept as men. It’s ALL unnecessary.

@ceecollette6708 Год назад

This the comment right here. 💯

@LinzyLinz7 Год назад

I feel submission is something that comes natural when you feel you are supported and are in a trustful and safe space. You need all three: support, trust, and safety. So if a man is on an ego trip or is unstable it can be REALLY difficult to just go along with that. Side note: That first guy was cringe. Super thankful my husband always asks my opinion before any huge decisions are made and we make pros and cons lists lol

@joyh.729 Год назад

🎯🎯🎯

@AlexMinor Год назад

The problem is most women these days don't trust men enough to let them lead and provide that space. If you're walking in the door with suspicion in your heart and not operating in good faith, the man will never get the opportunity to show what he is capable of because you'll spend the entire relation ship second guessing him and pushing back on every decision.

@SS-in1ts Год назад

That’s how I feel. The men I’ve dated want to lead but then leave me hanging when I need them most…if they want to be alpha and head of household, they can’t pick and choose at their convenience….I mean, they can, but that’s when issues arise and connection is severed. My grandpa did not pick and choose. When my grandma needed him he was there. He is the only man other than my dad towards me (not towards my mom unfortunately) who I’ve seen literally have someone else’s back and that’s why my grandma let him lead because he could be trusted 1000%. Not 100. 1000! I have my mans back 1000% and I can say that with pure confidence, I just need to find a man who matches his actions to his words always, not just sometimes.

@iriemo721 Год назад

@@AlexMinor the problem is most men can’t be trusted to lead, their track record doesn’t support following them blindly. They start things and done finish, for the ones that do start. Most talk and make excuses and never do. The problem is, women have seen a pattern of men in their life who didn’t lead - father, gpa, uncles. They have no reference point from memory or personal experience to say: let a man lead. Women are taught survival - physically, emotionally and financially. Women have no experience with a man that’s reliable so because one’s innate drive is to survive, she’s gonna take care of herself. It’s conditioning.

@AlexMinor Год назад

@@iriemo721 thats what therapy is for. Working on your issues. If you're constantly operating in a fear based frame of mind, you've got work to do. And most of the women I hear speak about relationships these days, even the ones who claim to be in healthy ones, most of their commentary and viewpoints are fear based.

@Palesa80 Год назад

It's not even so much about being an employee, it's a Pilot and Co-pilot scenario, Your Spouse is your Helper and your equivalent. She is not beneath you. For anyone to help you with anything, that person will have to be of equal strength or even much stronger than you. The Word says to handle her with care since she is a weaker vessels, which means she is Fragile but that does not mean not strong or someone who is without brains or purpose. A Man entrusts a Woman with his life, wealth and children and such a Man wants to ensure that he builds these areas with the right Woman who will carry on, build this legacy even after the Man has passed on.

@ChrisEj_The_Broly Год назад

Well Said, this is deep 👏👏👏👏🔥💯

@happilydivorced3235 Год назад

Perfectly said. christian marriages fail because of this mindset that men are above women.

@Antisatan7771 Год назад

Woman are the weaker vessel technically speaking but of course not beneath. A Woman is NOT a man’s equal! We’re just good at doing different things or perform different task/duties as it should be. Man’s the head of the woman and watch over the house while a woman look after the kids that’s how its been in the past and what always works. Nowadays you have these women walking around “I Can do bad all by myself!!” “I’m independent” “Don’t need no man!”🥴 while these homes are broken! With broken children and it’s sad smh

@unique8445 Год назад

@@Antisatan7771 equivalent: a person or thing that is equal to or corresponds with another in value, amount, function, meaning, etc. “…OF EQUAL STRENGTH” You seem to be stuck on being the big, strong man that you completely missed the point of what she said. For every time period, there are circumstances that affect how a man & woman are able to contribute to their relationship/household. They adapt to figure out how to increase their abundance of life within these NEW day circumstances. What works now, isn’t probably going to work 20yrs from now.

@sissyb576 Год назад

A good confident man is not going to mind a boss lady as long as she is NOT trying to rule over him. That's not cool. Feminity is a state of mind that projects through a woman's energy. She takes care of her mind, body, and spirit.

@justtiffany1 Год назад

👏👏👏

@ChrisEj_The_Broly Год назад

Word up🤔

@viccourageous Год назад

Boss and lady have no place together a real man won't go for it.

@sissyb576 Год назад

@@viccourageous I disagree

@justtiffany1 Год назад

@@sissyb576 i agree with you. Women play a valid role. God didn't create us to be a doormat or for men to be treated as such either. I wish people would open up their minds and stop using what benefits them. You can't take one sentence and use it when it's a whole paragraph. Don't dim the light on some and leave the rest open.

@katherinemcgrue7111 Год назад

There are plenty of women that are Bosses and have feminine energy......After that statement, I am listening for comedy effect. Let's see what some of the other panelists have to say.

@kayjeffs3741 Год назад

They can't differentiate between the two. They act like these women are calling them out in the middle of the street to fight...now THAT'S masculine

@BrookeLynn-sr6vy Год назад

Amen!

@TheCouchwithJoyFriends Год назад

Thanks for watching! 3 more episodes scheduled

@jmandelax Год назад

Women who stay in their masculine energy for a long time forget how to switch to their feminine energy when it’s necessary. That’s the problem.

@IjaneaJoseph Год назад

Proverbs 31 woman was NOT a stay at home mom she brought money too to provide for her family

@iriemo721 Год назад

Not just that but they don’t even want what they say they want. They don’t want a stay at home wife. Remember, men are now asking: what do you bring to the table, asking a woman to pay half of bills, calling women gold diggers who don’t want to pay any bills. So they want a trsditional woman who keeps the house and kids who also contributes to finances and is submissive to them even though the have no vision and leadership skills . I want a traditional Woman who doesn’t work outside the home but can manage to pay half the bills and “has her own”,. Haha. They are jokes.

@LovelyVibrations Год назад

Yes indeed !!!

@alishaendre616 Год назад

@@annalove12320 did you read it? Or you guessing? Cuz sis def ran a business.

@alishaendre616 Год назад

@@annalove12320 I am always amazed how context is not considered when reading the Bible. Including the fact that it was culturally relevant thousands of years ago. Today, although some folks CAN work from home, everyone can’t/doesn’t. I’ll also add that the Proverbs 31 woman had to travel to market in order to sell her merchandise. She did NOT “work” from home. The words are right there, in black and white.

@alishaendre616 Год назад

@UC4ojWzeZCSM_U4_NOCt0MCg the Bible is literally full of contradictions. Anyway. I believe everyone has to do what works best for them and I love that this works for you and your family. Just have grace for your sisters for whom it does not work. And don’t forget not to judge them as less virtuous for it. Either it’s you follow Christ or the law. Because those two contradict each other, given that one came to fulfill the other, but that’s another convo. Have a blessed evening. 🤍🫶🏾🤎

@musicvideolivetv6892 Год назад

Funny - Because when we look at the scripture Proverbs 31 - the woman described in that passage is a Boss. And she is honoured above all woman because of that! Don’t let these men fool you ladies! My Grandma always shared this proverb with me - Men are not pillows for you to lay your head on. NEVER rely on a man. As a woman always have your own. Or when times get tough you will eat from the hands of your own idleness! Amen 🙏🏿

@itsHappening-ry2ef Год назад

A lot of these men don’t have a vision and are dating with a hurt heart ❤️ you can’t do nothing with that

@zechariah4663 Год назад

All of these men.....

@katherinemcgrue7111 Год назад

Agreed 💯

@travione7360 Год назад

& alot of women aren't.? 🤔 I'm just saying don't point fingers quantify it all.

@itsHappening-ry2ef Год назад

@@travione7360 do you see women crying about men In the black community on all these platforms or do you see a high record number of BM complaining all over social media about women ??

@Xjes06 Год назад

Great discussion but I think you need to have speakers a little older and married a little longer (25 years+) A little more “wisdom” is needed.

@drcatrinaking Год назад

No such thing as a 50/50 relationship. 100/100 or beat it. We must be aware enough of our humanity to realize that even our own 100% varies from day to day. The best you can do is do your best. The best partnerships come when both humans give 100% effort in co-creation, and give each other grace in the moments when their "best" isn't enough.

@eileenwatt8283 Год назад

Anyone without a plan to do better for themselves shouldn't be in a relationship. They are a liability to someone.

@roolyfe Год назад

I want a compatibility and cooperative relationship that we can build and support one another!

@kayjeffs3741 Год назад

Supporting each other is key!

@Amlyv Год назад

Amen 👏🏾👏🏾💯facts

@divathedivinegoddess8001 Год назад

YES! ❤❤❤

@sabrinal6000 Год назад

Yes!!

@happilydivorced3235 Год назад

Straight up.

@kellylee7703 Год назад

I'm new to stock market /Crypto and would like to invest but I've go no idea on how to make good profits. Pls what's the best approach you'd recommend?

@Eugeneronnie9274 Год назад

Exactly, at the moment bitcoin is the best and profitable coin to buy and invest in..

@JamesWilson-ep8vm Год назад

@@Eugeneronnie9274 Indeed crypto is the best investment, Earning3x my salary soon I won't have to work anymore..women should start taking part in these kinds of digital investment

@martincaroline4841 Год назад

Wow I'm just shocked some one mentioned expert Mrs Evelyn Vera name i thought I'm the only one trading with her

@girlinknight8936 Год назад

Wow!! Impressive you trade with Mrs Evelyn Vera too! I thought people don't know her that well.... She's really awesome!

@mslasvegas258 Год назад

The Man who didn't get what his Wife was saying about changes after children is sad. Did you carry the child for 9 months. Go through labor and birth the child. Breastfeeding if your child is breastfed. Men can't get pregnant or go through labor. You can never split that up. He needs to get that through his head. When a Woman goes through that it takes a toll. She will need a Man to go above and beyond to help her take care of the children while she's healing and getting back to "normal."

@happilydivorced3235 Год назад

What you have just said is paramount to a successful relationship and parenting.

@bridgeoverwaters Год назад

I believe that you have to lay titles down and come together with our strengths and weaknesses. What are you good at, and what I am good at. All the other stuff doesn’t matter.

@happilydivorced3235 Год назад

Perfectly said.

@LoveStarsWorld Год назад

The medical professional talking about stress and fibroids and plant based eating was on point and speaking facts 💯

@contextcompass5248 Год назад

They didn’t answer the question, Do we want that boss woman in the house? Uncategorically NO. Women shouldn’t want a boss husband either. At home, in our house; we are daddy, mommy, husbae, wifebae, grandad, grandma, auntie, uncle; all that good stuff. Stop bringing titles(professional or otherwise) and honorifics into your home. Home is the “As you are” space. Now we wonder why people got mad quantitative expectations and performance targets in marriage, relations hips and community. Only thing we are doing is expediting the demise and decay of our base as people. Let God and love lead and if you follow “he will surely not fail you”.

@rachelmelendez9255 Год назад

I don't understand none of this stuff their business cannot be compared to a marriage. And second of all why can't they both have individual visions and then they come together and God gives them a new vision why is it that one has to fold the other one

@iriswilson1978 Год назад

Shaking my head. 🤦🏾‍♀️ so many comments came to mind while watching this discussion. The only thing I want to share is why some of the men on this panel are so intimidated by successful women. I feel like some of these men need to learn how to live outside the boundaries of their ego. Many households can exist with both women and men working outside the home and parent and be happy. I just feel like some men only see things one way and are unwilling to function outside their narcissistic ego.

@hana-belle Год назад

Well said 👏👏

@amaj_lex Год назад

Right and when you don't have much they ask what do we bring to the table. I really think a lot of men are slow. They're absolutely intimidated

@Entrepreneur1017 Год назад

Men aren't intimidated. Yall are just annoying with that masculine attitude

@yerushalom87 Год назад

The saddest thing is to see a woman pregnant and having to go to work a 9-5 , stressed, give birth then after 2-3 months leave her baby with someone else and go back to work. Pitiable.

@shesonfire_ Год назад

Also Respectfully, lol. submit to ONE ANOTHER out of reverence for Christ. Thats in Ephesians as well. We are still apart of the church as a married couple. We are still siblings in Christ so its the same. We are to submit one to another. ❤

@itsHappening-ry2ef Год назад

Stop the brain washing ❗️ women grown women at that won’t be just taking orders YALL men really need to reevaluate what your purpose is ‼️

@shesonfire_ Год назад

Respectfully,..God gave Adam instructions for them both to follow. God gave mary instructions and a vision to carry Christ and Joseph had to follow it. He gives us both visions, and if we are in sync with Him we can feel Him confirm it in us. There is no one person who gets a vision.

@moe_ramz Год назад

What if the wife has her own vision. I mean she was a single entity before you came together.

@catcat9582 Год назад

Look up r c blakes

@platch23 Год назад

Truth is, she can find a man that wants to follow her vision.

@moe_ramz Год назад

In this day and age where women are working. We have our own goals, plans etc. no one wants to follow blindly….

@catcat9582 Год назад

@@moe_ramz no woman should follow blindly

@chelabuford7106 Год назад

There are men also that don't understand women with vision. If you support one another in the quest to be your best selves, everyone wins in the relationship. It takes mutual respect. 💯 The Sister in the black and red at the end said it so well - let God above all - lead through The Holy Spirit! 💯 This is a great conversation to be had, very much needed and appreciated. Thank you💜

@nanaadwoabreboa4392 Год назад

As a Ghanaian woman, I dont agree with you. The AA theory of marriage is something else. We hire help here and it's normal. Lol. Women work but are not mandated to contribute to the home. A woman contributes out of her own free will because her husband cant do it all. Its love and mutual respect for eachother that keeps a marriage. Do the men on the panel even understand what marriage is? What's with these unnecessary requirements? Are they perfect humans?

@thegrace-basedstudent5701 Год назад

No conversation? That sounds super oppressive. Women are designed to help. We're smart. Women with good sense who are not "pic mes" are not connecting with a dictator or religious narcissist.

@abdulax6910 Год назад

The view of a boss woman is so skewed I hate the term. A real woman doesn't even need to be labeled a "boss' because she knows her worth & how to help balance the relationship for her man to lead but it takes 2 to sustain a relationship & family. This conversation needs to be had with real men & women with the wisdom to explain it properly. This sounds like a lot of ego & immaturity that has no place in the relationship. Relationships are for responsible people this is your LIFE PARTNER not your door mat or an over bearing fool. Add value to one another or be quiet, listen & grow until you can. Btw that was the best thing I've ever heard Rico say lol

@anointed2teachU Год назад

The key to success in marriage is BALANCE, TEAMWORK, COMMITMENT, and DEDICATION. Yes, God made man the "head", but the head can't turn without the "neck". Husbands and wives must work TOGETHER to make a marriage work. Anytime a marriage becomes unbalanced, someone is not going to be happy and ultimately, there will be problems. Beauty, body, and sometimes brain will diminish over time, so don't make that the premise of your marriage. As the years pass, only love and true friendship remains.❤️ ~From a woman married for 25+ years

@MsSunrize81 Год назад

I respect your message because you have the experience to share this advice and piece of wisdom. Bless your 25 yrs of marriage.

@anointed2teachU Год назад

@@MsSunrize81 Thank you! Blessings on you and yours as well.😊

@thebeautystarlet Год назад

I was very put off at first by all the pridefulness. Like I was terrified. But then the men who consider God to be their Lord AND SAVIOR began to speak and the conversation shifted. I’m so grateful to those men for the way they showed up. Their heart posture helped me receive truth. Everyone else was a clanging cymbal. If you choose a man not submitted to God but that’s where you’ve gotten your vision, you’re going to be very miserable. Also, at some point we’re going to have to speak to the elephant in the room: some of us women are high earners, not because we want to be, but because we haven’t met anyone who’s vision we can submit to. Not income but vision. The alignment is off and there are MAJOR discrepancies. So grateful to serve a God who cares for me in the gift of singleness and hopefully someday in the gift of marriage. P.S. isn’t it fascinating to see two pastors even disagree on the interpretation of scripture?? Even further proof that in life there is so much nuance and SO much of what we believe is based on what we were taught. But that doesn’t mean it’s right and it certainly doesn’t mean what you believe is right is right for everyone. Being open to learn and adapt is going to be key to our survival. That goes for both genders.

@productioninquiry8937 Год назад

Women don't want 50/50. But $100K is not a high-value man (literally ask a white guy). So if you want to be the king of the castle, you REALLY need to bring it.

@jajasmike7818 Год назад

Let me explain: My mother is a boss. Multiple business ventures, trades forex, while still working a job. She has helped our family in an immense amount of ways. Especially when my father couldn't take care of things. Before he got his PHD, my father was a struggling man, worked three jobs including taxi, just to make ends meet for the four of his children. Even though my father is well off now, i see that what us men really desire is simply respect. The bible tells women to respect their husbands and i believe the fear for most men is that if that women is making ends meet or achieving all these things without him, then their won't be respect. Completely understandable but this narrative is not for all women. All women do not fit into the category of disrespecting a man or competing with him. Income is not the only determining factor of how you get respect. How you love on this woman is a greater factor. & also how the women was raised and what her world view is. Including past trauma healed or unhealed. There are men even with money who are still not respected. If you love on a boss women correctly her feminine side will blossom. Insecurities will be one of the reason boss man and boss women can not coexist. Back to my parents. Once the love started to fade due to secrets, and each other not feeling understood, eventually the boss woman (my mother) took to just purely being a boss women and seeking out her own vision completely. Both now being on separate pages. Still friends but the romance is gone. Theres two sides to this coin and both parties must do their part.

@sandramadrey7602 Год назад

You said it all, brother. And more than a mouth full. Thank you.

@aet4519 Год назад

A brother that gets it. Hardly about the money. Well said.

@DariaNScott-lb8br Год назад

Great perspective 💯

@AkireMaru Год назад

How do you know to what degree the boss energy contributed to the decline vs the decline that comes with the natural evolution of any romantic relationship?

@leahhonore3505 Год назад

Of the highest earning women how many are single moms who had to be 'focused' into the workplace/ business place because a parent (usually the men) abandoned their roles and responsibilities? Yes they became high earners but who is taking care of the home now and the emotional well-being of the chidren? Everything is not about money!

@wontaviusgotchaword3484 Год назад

I feel that a women should be operating in her God given purpose. When a women does operate in her purpose, she has the gift of multiplication innately. A man who is offended with a women operating in her purpose, in my opinion would have to go. I can’t dim myself down, so that a man can shine brighter. We both will eventually shine, so we can’t turn things into a competition. A lady can be a boss and still submissive to a man, who has a certain level of consciousness. We can’t submit to a man who abuses his power and role as a leader. I love each individual’s story I heard on the panel. Personally, the man needs to already come with something, and at least a job. Even if the job isn’t paying millions, a man with a less paying job is better than a man with no job(trying to date). I am not built to take care of man, I want to taken care of ; but still work in my purpose on my own time. Will I help, absolutely..but give me something to multiply, other than a baby.

@yeshunee Год назад

A panel with married woman who are entrepreneurs or who have been married ..Next please

@itsHappening-ry2ef Год назад

These men don’t respect women who work regular jobs but also can’t handle business owner women ‼️ with that being said you will or want to stay single just stop trying to settle down when you get 50 don’t nobody want to deal with the health issues ‼️‼️

@takiyahchew5743 Год назад

There is a difference between God granting the desires of your heart vs. God doing your will. While we all have preferences, desires, and visions for our lives-God knows! To the singles-Please don't miss out on the "gift" of a spouse because you are stuck on "I." Getting married and having children is the most selfless thing you will ever do because it is a lifestyle of service. It is not all about you. Your actions and words will either build your family or tear them down. The children learn to love and manage relationships by what they see in the home.

@thetenthltr Год назад

I started listening and cannot tolerate the audience clapping, yelling, etc. It's disruptive. Where's the humility and decorum?

@andreanalife Год назад

Some of these new wave phrases have been taken out of context and has lost its true meaning. Interested in hearing where this conversation goes.

@TheCouchwithJoyFriends Год назад

Thanks for watching! 3 more episodes scheduled

@nicole_michelle Год назад

I have not watched the whole video yet so I might comment again. I feel as Black women we are RAISED to think asking for money is a gold digger. So when we get older we want our own money and don't want to ask a man for money. It's a mindset issue.

@TheCouchwithJoyFriends Год назад

Thanks for watching! 3 more episodes scheduled

@iriemo721 Год назад

It’s not that women are ashamed to ask for money. It’s that their experience with men, that they saw growing up was the men had none, men were not reliable , men were not present. Their mothers asked for money and didn’t get any so they saw that tucked it away and said: hmm. That won’t be me. I’m gonna try to make sure I can take care of myself. Women aren’t ashamed to depend on men, it’s that men haven’t proven to be dependable.

@clarity2974 Год назад

@@iriemo721 It's a combination of experience that you can't depend on blk men because they have 2000 excuses as to why they fall short as providers and there is pressure to have your own because you will be label a hold digger despite the fact most blk men have no gold

@ryanyoung9202 Год назад

@@clarity2974 ☝️ALL OF THIS

@nubian77 Год назад

@@iriemo721this is the truth!! Women must survive one way or another, and if she sees that the males around her are unreliable, she will take the lead in providing for herself. Or else it will mean starvation and homelessness… I also agree that certain men hamper on the trope that a woman that asks for money is indeed gold digging.. some of these same men will say they don’t want a woman that’s focused on her career and earning more. So do they want someone that will ask for money, or they want someone that has her own and can help him when he needs it? these rationales are conflicting and it’s furthering the divide between the sexes.

@iriemo721 Год назад

Neither the man or the woman should be building on their own in a marriage. Marriage is a partnership, team effort. A boss chick can definitely have feminine energy. People are nuanced. And so a woman can know her role and how to relate to her man as a wife .

@keepinitabuckoracle Год назад

This panel clearly shows you different folks, different strokes. Find the person who holds the same boundaries, goals, and vision as you. Not try and change a person into who you want them to be. There will always be resistance when you’re telling someone what to do.

@yeverett4533 Год назад

The couple with the guy wearing a blue hat and his woman or wife a beige jacket are basically roommates. He said it should be "50/50" and she mentioned the other responsibilities women have, which obviously says she's responsible for doing more around the house and raising the children or she would not have brought it up. When he said "I wash, I take care of the kids," and her response was to coddle him like a mother does a child. You can tell who's really playing the role of the man of the house, she is. SMH

@thesocialprefect Год назад

So much to unpack here. First of all, why do some of these men think women are trying to compete with them? What are they so afraid of? Why do they feel the need to assert their authority so much? Why do they feel so threatened? This was hard to watch and very concerning. Men, women are not the enemy. There are many successful, highly accomplished women who still look up to and admire their men...and are submissive to their men. Barking orders and demanding respect and submission is not the way to get them. Love her, support her, encourage her, be respectful of her, listen to her, value her and her contributions, and you'll get the respect and subsmission you desire so much. I keep saying it, men and women should go for individual counselling long before marital counselling because people are carrying so much baggage.

@topazgraham2643 Год назад

Btw Anthony, you gotta Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes for the next one!

@iriemo721 Год назад

Yes some men with some sense

@Thatbul Год назад

No we need men that tell the truth not men that pander for women views

@aprilwashington3150 Год назад

The egotistical men on this panel still believes a woman's existence evolves around them.

@teamhazardous201 Год назад

Finances are important but too much of our worth is tied up in our income. There are intangibles in the equation from a wisdom perspective. Also different careers yield different income potential.

@whenyourgone1994 Год назад

A boss women can come with feminine energy ALL day long! You have to respect each other to connect with each other! 🙌

@AkireMaru Год назад

Isn’t the very nature of being a boss being dominant? So how on earth do you get both?

@Ready4ChangeRU Год назад

Only in black communities do we hear phrases like “boss chick” and “independent woman”. I don’t wear either as a badge of honor.

@kayjeffs3741 Год назад

Thats because the Black community is where the men have failed their women and children...hate to say it...but its real...so women had to adopt that

@iriemo721 Год назад

Learned behavior from experiencing (personally or anecdotally) men who aren’t dependable.

@clarity2974 Год назад

Not only in the black community at all Boss Girl is huge in the white community

@melynatedmuse9487 Год назад

I’m grateful to men respectfully calling people out for misreading and misquoting the Bible just to support a narrative. With that being said so many case studies support that a boss chick and “boss” man don’t work long term you’re dealing with two masculine energies. Biology always wins so if a man thinks he is “cheating” the system or Gods design by requiring his wife to go 50/50z I’d argue that you are not the “Head” that God intended you to be as a man. If early in your relationship you need that because you’re building your empire with your wife fine but don’t put that burden on her during the entire marriage at some point truly being the “Head” of your household and being a “covering” should be something you take pride in. Women work for survival before a man brings her into HIS life. Women by nature were never built to “work” to take care of a man financially. Her care is in her nurturing which is more profound than you as a man worrying how much she makes or requiring her to make 6 figures.

@kayjeffs3741 Год назад

Boss does not equal masculine energy.

@taytaylove3546 Год назад

@@kayjeffs3741 I agree 💯 percent! I just started my own business which is the essence of "Boss" all while wholeheartedly resting in and embracing my feminine energy....bc like it was stated WE'RE CAPABLE 💅🏾

@imani1214 Год назад

I think a big part of this conversation is that everyone has their own definition of a boss woman, so for some that’s what they want and other’s don’t want one.

@lafemme8 Год назад

I knew I didn't like that plant based doctor lol. I could tell by his attitude from his first interview with Anthony there was an undertone of cockiness. And pushing plant based when that may or may not suit everyone's body. So all of this there will be no discussion what I say goes is terrible advice. Of course he is not married so can't really speak on that topic. I like the other guys' perspective on the matter.

@teamhazardous201 Год назад

Initial thoughts: I think the answer lies somewhere in the middle. It takes a team and the team needs to determine what works for them. Now I will watch the full video.

@TheCouchwithJoyFriends Год назад

3 more episodes scheduled

@sandramadrey7602 Год назад

You guys need to read and study Proverb 31. The Proverb 31 woman was a wife, mother, entrepreneur.

@RealTalkTVMedia Год назад

Funny how they all glossed over what Rico said. He was with a woman who gave 100% for their relationship and they are not together today. Ladies, don't let these men gaslight you. Have and maintain your own vision, purpose, income, and whatever else because relationships are also subject to seasons.

@alishaendre616 Год назад

Less than 10 minutes in doc is speaking, and I am annoyed. Instead of him partnering with a woman who has the same goals and vision, he is speaking about dictating to someone who clearly does not share his values and making her fall in line because that is “feminine”. It’s gross. But let me finish watching…

@Entrepreneur1017 Год назад

He didn't say anything about dictating

@alishaendre616 Год назад

@@Entrepreneur1017 he did but you heard what you wanted. And that’s cool too.

@missm472 Год назад

Please only include married men.

@Malthizar Год назад

Real men don't complain about what women do or don't do. They just deal with the women they want and ignore the ones they don't. If that means a Black man avoids most Black women because they want to be disrespectful "Boss chicks" then so be it.

@sugarwaterpurple5280 Год назад

Dude in the white sweater is 100% on point

@HBSugar1106 Год назад

I love seeing men have conversations about this topic was great. As a woman who grew up with a female dominated family. My great-grandma was the matriarch of our family. I grew up with bosses. my mother, my maternal grandmother, paternal grandmother, and great-grandmother were and are bosses. They had more than one job, raised children, had serious relationships/marriages, and still have/had ambition and goals. They never submitted to anything. A woman being a boss doesn't mean she has masculine energy it means she can provide for herself, her family, she's goal-oriented, and can buy, bring the table, and has a whole lot offer to the table. You both don't need to be submissive or emasculate your partner either. It's about building a greater and successful future collectively and individually.

@joyfulrealtor Год назад

You didn't mention your father or grandfathers.

@AkireMaru Год назад

@@joyfulrealtor they obviously didn’t exist

@AkireMaru Год назад

Being a “boss” isn’t feminine. Unfortunately you can’t have your cake and eat it to. You must give up boss tendencies to step into your feminine presence and that starts by yielding and trusting in someone other than yourself. A boss woman has to be a boss because she is choosing or has no choice but to rely on her own provision.

@LoquaciousPint Год назад

That back rub @14:50 😂😂

@BluDrop5 Год назад

That was a "thank you for offering your opinion, honey".

@markmoore4089 Год назад

Most women who help men that are down on their luck their gonna turn right on around & leave them for a higher value woman. I have seen this happened countless of times including my own mother. That’s right my mother had helped my father come up from nothing when she was making Six figures a month & when my dad had left my mom for another woman she had went down hill from there & that’s why I tell women don’t do jack cramp for a man financially because he’s gonna turn right on around & leave for a woman who has something higher then you & that’s true. Not all men stick around with a woman who has helped them out like these men are on A.O’s panel.😢

@CaramelCali Год назад

💯

@iyanaray9458 Год назад

💯 I agree

@slickdawg5976 Год назад

From the perspective of a twice married man, I would add its crucial to discuss marital variables during courtship. The single most important topic being "expectations." Allow me to suggest that none of men seated on the panel are expressing opinions that are "wrong." Each individual has simply expressed expectations and criteria they've identified as necessities when selecting a potential spouse. Men who desire wives that subscribe to traditional ideological roles/values, simply will refrain from women who's character/values are geared toward modern western ideologies, and vice-versa. Neither ideological perspective is "wrong," however if mixed incorrectly the combination routinely results in a toxic marriage.

@ItsMe-dr7ir Год назад

I agree!

@KadeemJames Год назад

Word ‼️

@lolacole5653 Год назад

Proverbs 31:24. The Bible speaks of a capable wife in Proverbs 31. God said she sells (works). Men are trying to make stepford wives. That is not real. Genesis 21:12

@darkangel686868 Год назад

The first guy, pharmacist guy…he need some relationship mentoring! You can not operate like that in a relationship. Decisions are meant to be joint, taking into account each others views. To the older man whose now wife put 100% and him nothing at the beginning…it’s good they are still together. But no wise woman or man should do that. He could have just as easily not stuck with her when he reached the top, and ditched her for someone else, like Betty Broderick. Don’t invest more than you are willing to loose….especially at the start.

@renatafnedab3003 Год назад

The part about submitting to one another is pertaining to couples in marriage. He wasn’t playing with the Bible. 💯

@simplify_ Год назад

Gentlemen, boss chick is defined in Proverbs 31:10 and onwards. Too many gems to quote from there, such as 'the heart of her husband safely trusts her, so HE will have no lack of gain'. So yes, you might want this kind of boss chick in your household! Women are often made the subject though :) Would be great to hear more talk about what calibre of man gets to get a Prov 31 boss chick!

@reginaclaxtonministries Год назад

The kind of man described in the verses before verse 10 gets her. All of Proverbs 31 is a good read.

@Entrepreneur1017 Год назад

Men do not want a boss chicken. A whole panel of men just told you they don't want that. So how about women be what men want instead of trying to force us to want what we don't want

@simplify_ Год назад

@@Entrepreneur1017 Heyy, the term boss chick needs Biblical context. Actually, it's defined in Proverbs 31:10-31. If this context was used in the convo, perhaps some responses would have been different. Also, if you check out that context, what's your favorite verse?

@SS-in1ts Год назад

Thank you to the men who are commenting! Helpful to us women who have had to be the boss all our lives and struggle leaning back to make space for you!

@didactic02 Год назад

Definitely. It’s difficult out here

@moreinformationneeded1310 Год назад

Totally needed a whole hour show 👏👏👏

@TheCouchwithJoyFriends Год назад

3 more episodes scheduled

@ThatsSoLea Год назад

@@TheCouchwithJoyFriends that’s exactly what I needed to know!!

@calikeisha365 Год назад

The conversation of submission should start with service. How is my husband serving the family, what is his plan and then I can talk about how I fit into his plan. It shouldn’t start with how am I submissive because no one should submit unless there’s a plan in place worth submitting to. Furthermore, many men say they want a cheerleader but end up needing a partner in their plan. If you want someone to jump in and help that’s not a cheerleader a cheerleader cheers you on from the sidelines. A boss chick with experience might really be needed. It’s best to be flexible and not as rigid when it comes to business and life most are not sure what they need until they need it.

@nappyscribe1987 Год назад

I like what Dr. Bobby Price said about taking the pressure off the woman and her fibroids shrink!

@your.beautiful.mind.now. Год назад

I agree with the ladies. There was no definition of what these men meant by "Boss Lady." There are PLENTY of Boss Ladies with feminine energy. Really the only time a woman ends up walking in masculine energy is when a man is dealing with arrested masculine development.

@msgatlin357 Год назад

You also have to pray about who you are marrying. If he’s a visionary you’ll see it before you say I do. You have a choice then to be in or out before the marriage even begins. So I’m Not understanding why a problem would exist. I’m Married by the way!

@BronzeGirl Год назад

would we say Proverbs 31 lady was a boss chick?

@cynthiaspencer9994 Год назад

This was a great discussion, all view points are different. The bible has it right. God made the man and woman a certain way for a reason. It's biblical. Also I would suggest not to make financial investments with someone unless your married. If you do these things in an engagement that is not a marriage. Please be married first and these things get covered in marriage counseling. Find a good bible based church and read the bible for yourself. Also God speaks to men and women. Men lead but God commanded them the love their wife as Christ loved the church. So men and women with God in the center makes for a successful marriage.

@chyrellegraham5788 Год назад

I’m a boss that is married. I’m pretty up there in rank in position in the military. My assistant is a male and I counsel males on the daily. My day starts when it’s still dark outside. Sometimes ends that way too. My husband was in the military as well but decided to get out while I decided to retire. I say all that to say just like the guy in the coat, we use to be 50/50 now we are 70/30 until my husband gets into the profession he feels valuable in. Do I care if it ever switches? Yes because I know it matters to my husband but I’ll continue to work until we are at the place we need to be. Now I do everything under my husband’s leadership. That’s my husband who chose me and I don’t care how much money he brings home he runs it. He’s a great husband and a great father. I know my husband is eventually going to try to retire me to the couch but until then I’m not and he will never ever see me treat him less or like I treat my troops when I’m at work. I respect him on a different level. Yes sometimes I’m not happy when he tells me I can’t do something in our house that I contribute to but I shake that off and I ask why. Ladies if we ask our men the why question more, and really listen to what he’s saying. we will find that they are protecting us with order because they are designed to do that. Am I perfect? no but when I step foot into my home I don’t ever get it twisted. My husband is the boss now. He will remain the boss until he tells me to take over. I also have a man after God’s heart so he’ has the proper authority over him. Once I submitted it shifted my husband, because we definitely didn’t start off this way. He was a daggon tyrant. However, my submission and femininity (delicate/not argumentative) changed him and now the team we are building is amazing. I will always encourage my husband to lead