I think as ladies with color and as some one who lives in Korea,the first thing one can do is know their worth.If you are coming to Korea to find a partner it’s a good thing coz there are many good Korean men but you need to know that just like any other country there will always be good and bad guys out there. You can always know when the guy is just interested in sex and nothing else .Also I think it’s ok for Koreans to have their preferences of the kind of ladies they want to date or marry as the same goes for ladies of color. Korea is a great place filled with great people but just like life itself you just have to make the right decisions while living here so you won’t regret ❤
And please note that the young men from better backgrounds said they prefer to meet naturally. If you want a RELATIONSHIP, you want to meet someone from school or a hobby club NOT a nightclub or on a dating app. Language exchange is often used as a pretext for dating but that can get a little dicey too. Go with someone that people you know know. That's how Koreans do it. You've been warned! LOL
What a heartbreaking sight to behold..... To have to write long essays and soliloquys in an attempt to launder and hide the insidious nature of this question and video. I tears me apart to see my sisters engage in these mental gymnastics to defend themselves.
@@kerenk.5919 well mainly because most foregin girls are there temporarily. They don't want to marry sometime who is only in korea for 4 months on a student visa. And likewise, people go there temporarily, trying to find a husband, which is stupid. If you aren't staying in the country permanently, don't expect someone to propose to you and try to build a life with you.
I believe that what you're saying is valid but from personal experience (quite a long history dating korean men) I strongly believe that for black women and girls trying to seek out that "good man" while sorting through the bad guys is a lost cause that will only lead to heartbreak, unbelievable amounts of sexual objectifation and dehumanization and trauma. In the end its not worth it. The "good guys" may be out there, but is it really worth the risk just to find one? 🤔
As a black woman I will never understand these questions black women are people too, we aren’t another species. We are just a beautiful and wonderful as any other woman. It doesn’t feel nice to be debased and devalued in videos and in comments sections. What did I do wrong because I was born black and a woman. I’m kind I’m pretty (I’ve been told) I’ve been told I’m smart and funny and I’ve always been reserved and quite shy. I hate these types of videos and I always will they make my heart drop.
lol thy treat you like some piece of conquest lmaooooooooooooooooo, would you date a black woman , honey black or no black, people are more than their skin but nope black woman are ass and tits, the whole conversation is so cringy focused on skin tone, lol the guys answering were making most sense atleast they said it would depen on the person not on their skin colour lmfaooooo
It breaks my heart that we have to constantly defend ourselves and "ain't I a woman" ourselves, trying to convince the masses to take a second look, reconsider..... Like honestly it's gut wrenching. We don't have to do this. Like yall don't like us? Shoot! OKAY! BE GONE THEN!.
You can be all things positive and if someone else doesn't see it, they just won't see it. It's ok. Someone else will see it & they won't need to be persuaded by you, in order to see it! They'll be letting YOU know how AMAZING YOU ARE.
im an indian girl but its like so weird objectifying women down to their ethnic features instead of appreciating them respectfully..."big boobs" wtf kinda weird
Im a fellow Pakistani south asian and I completely agree,it's disgusting how they fetishize black women but thankfully in this interview they was only one dumb guy who did that!
Honestly, everyone does it, including women. If you ask most people what they like in a partner a lot will go into the physical characteristics. Yes, you can appreciate them for more than there physical characteristics but the bottom line is you will never want to be with someone you find physically unattractive. In your part of the world being dark skin is something that is viewed negatively, not different in my opinion when you talk of objectifying people, so I'm not sure how this surprises you or does that only happen when it affects you?
You can definitely tell the difference between the Korean men that could actually take dating a foreigner/black woman as someone as their future wife. Than the ones that see foreigner/black women as object/fling/hookups. Mr.Jerry I appreciate these interviews that you post asking the bold questions. Thank you for doing them. May TMH bless you abundantly and protect your endeavors. 🌻
@@sisanababy5884 I believe everyone is in entailed to their preferences and if black women takes what any nationality says from them not being attracted to us harshly. Reveals that we should start loving ourselves first.As well remember we are loved by TMH ultimately who created us. If someone doesn’t find us beautiful so what 🤷🏾♀️ we shouldn’t care. The person that is ment to be with us will see our beauty inside and out should ultimately be the opinion we even care to seek and keep that person’s attention.
I'm so glad to see that black women in the comments aren't pressed for these men's validation. It's worthless lol as Mr. "bIG bOObs" clearly showed us 😂
@@CoolNumber1 This comment doesn’t even make sense lmao. Black women are dating out to and regardless so you are only dating out to stick it to black women? Maybe you should get some therapy for your self hate issues .. being so desperate to be with other races that hate you is kind of pathetic. It doesn’t make you a winner but the opposite Lmao.
It bothers me because they always ask questions like this about black women..... And on the flip side, there are a lot of black girls throwing themselves at Korean men and embarrassing themselves.
@@TelzAll honestly that pisses me off. And it's usually the way they speak of black people like we are some kind of unknown species. The girlies really be embarrassing the rest of us but what can we do lol
@@Lamagwabane I disown them lol am half black and I disown the half immediately lol like babe stand up you’re cute and I’m sure you don’t need Korean men that bad lol
I don't understand the hype about any race like korean men or women's preferences in love. The world is getting smaller and everywhere you meet different kind of people based on different races, beauty standards etc.. so don't seek validation from another specific race, just find a person that genuinely love you as a person not because of their nationality, skin tone.
It’s weird when people say a race is their type or exclude a race as non attractive. If people truly want to fall in love, their type would be what kind of character they are and what they stand for along with finding them attractive in general-without focusing on race. I can understand someone focusing on a specific culture because that influences their beliefs or values. Same with religion. But race? That shouldn’t be a factor because that doesn’t affect someone’s mindset like a culture or religion does. Also it’s just as creepy when people fetishize a race. It’s not a compliment because that means their affection for you relies on your features in respect to race-not necessarily just simply finding someone generally attractive. Like saying they find a black woman or Latina attractive because they’re more curvy, that’s not a compliment. When someone says they like East Asians because of their pale skin, that’s not a compliment. Those are all a types of fetishization. There are beautiful people from every race in this world and it’s not because of their race. Beautiful people are simply beautiful and even more so when they are uniquely beautiful to the person falling in love.
@Raven115 Fetishism is definitely an issue going both ways. People fetishizing black women is nothing new. People fetishizing Asian men and more specifically Korean men, seems to be pretty recent in western cultures. As black women, we need to be equipped to tell the difference between being loved as a human being and being fetishized based on phenotype or other physical features. The younger ones may be more vulnerable to this than an ajuma like me. The consequences can be devastating for the fetishized individual and any children which might come from the relationship...
uh this is the same shit every American "influencer" does when asking people if they would ever date an Asian man.. with Asian men always being on the end of never ending demeaning and emasculating stereotypes.
@@awithaj437 " I would date Korean man, because I like jimin from BTS and they are intelligent...", It sounded like that. And just in case that u are not getting: both affirmations sound really bad. Dating people based on a celebrity and on a stereotyped "quality" of a certain group - it's extremely problematic and almost times lead to bad ending economically, mentally and physically.
@@awithaj437 It just means he thinks Beyoncé is representative of black women. She's not, so "because I like Beyoncé " is a stupid answer to "would you date a black woman, if yes, why?". A stupid answer rooted in ignorance, objectification of the other and so many other problematic beliefs. If I was saying I don't want to date Asian men because they are smaller than black men where it matters, people would be outraged and rightfully so as there is no justification for believing and saying such a thing about an entire group of men. It's a cliché that needs to go. Some may be small, others may be big and really, at this point of the conversation it shouldn't even be on anyone's mind because we're not trying to date body parts or an entire racial group. We're trying to date an individual.
@@DieezahArts I dno man, I like to take things at face value. If you try read between the lines you end up over analysing what people think. To me it didn’t sound like he was tryna be disrespectful so I’ll just take it as that.
First of all, a big thank you to the ones who said they wouldn't mind if they like the woman's personality. The truly open-minded ones. Second, to the ones who said they couldn't date a black woman, thank you for the honesty, although I have to say the reasons you give to support your answer show you're young and completely lost in assumptions. Not every black woman speaks English. Black women like any other women can be the argumentative type (who you'd butt heads with) or be very peaceful beings who hate confrontations. The same goes for physical traits. Not all of us look like Beyoncé or Rihanna. We come in all shades, sizes and shapes. There are black women who are flat-chested, it doesn't make them less beautiful. And as for cultural differences, something someone mentioned as the big obstacle, you'd be surprised to know that some of us come from cultures which have a few things in common with Korean culture, even if the age hierarchy thing isn't as big of a thing as in Korea, respect for the elders, spicy food and other little things you may not expect foreigners to be okay with are present in some spaces black people call home. I get that we all have preferences even if that can shift over time. Your preference in terms of ethno-cultural group doesn't have to stop you from meeting someone who'd otherwise qualify to be your soul mate...
Again, he wasnt saying black women are argumentative. What he said was that because of CULTURAL differences and the language barrier, it could lead to misunderstanding/argument
@@lilmamagc I know what he was saying and what he wasn't. It seems you didn't get what I, on the other hand, was saying. Never mind... (please don't bother replying, I wouldn't respond as I hate arguments, especially with people who don't really try to understand what they're hearing or reading).
I actually like answer and whole heartedly agree 👍🏾💪🏾. I’m Black British of Caribbean descent, so naturally speak English 😂, but there’s black people from Brazil, Peru, Costa Rica.. Spain etc. and true, not all of us are like Beyoncé 🤦🏾♀️. The truth is that, as you said the open minded ones show their maturity, some of the others, show their immaturity. However, at least they give their honest views. 👍🏾 I know an old ex of mine who has a very discriminatory way of thinking. He’s English (white), and wants to go to South Korea for a Korean woman (his words). Because why? They like white men😒. Like, it’s some men from any race who may look at women in such a disgusting way.
I'm not saying that you're doing this, but I hope people can stop shaming Korean men for preferring to date Koreans. Foreigners immediately frame these men for being "uneducated" without knowing anything about how it's like to be raised in a racially homogeneous country. There are nuances that POC from multiracial countries will never understand. And there are MANY women from these multiracial countries who say that they'll never date an Asian men too without knowing a thing or two about them. It's usually the people who are exposed to Kpop or Kdramas that think differently about Asian men.
What people don't realize is that most women tend to attract men that prefer them. The advantage that women have over us men is that they attract men who are interested in them. As men we pursue women so we have to guess whether or not that woman we are into will like us back. This means to get an accurate answer from women you ask the source (black women) not the general population. These studies rarely factor that in. As a Korean I dated my wife (who is black) because I prefer her. Asking random people makes the answers to the question flawed because the general population prefers Korean women or white because of widespread dominance of western culture. The men that are open to dating black women will seek one out.
men attract women that like them too lol. its just been proven by studies that women are better at picking up micro-expressions, so maybe that is why they can tell when someone is flirting? but also i don't know if this is true because no one has ever confessed any feelings for me.
@@ache4634 that’s not what the video is about. It’s about finding out what people think in other countries and how their culture shapes their perception of people and culture outside of their world.
@@Max25670 it's not just about him it's just in general. There are so many videos about "what do "...." think about black women" it's highly embarrassing and weird 💀
I always find these videos interesting - I'm mixed race (Scottish-Nigerian), live in Korea, am in a relationship with a Korean man and have met his mum who welcomed me with open arms and never seemed to bat an eyelid about my skin colour 💛 We live in a mid-sized city here (I'm the only foreigner I've seen in my neighbourhood) and I must admit, a lot of people stare when we're out in public but it never feels like it's coming from a bad place but more just shock or curiousity. Living in a country that is still 99% homogenous is not for the faint hearted 😭 It hurts but attitudes are changing quickly IMO... I'm not in any way defending close-minded views or racism, I'm just saying it's important to understand that the presence of Black people is not yet something many Koreans have experienced directly in their lives. There's education required in recognising prejudice and even knowing how to correctly speak when referring to BIPOC.
Are black women really asking for such videos? I'm a black woman and I dont. Who cares if they would or wouldn't like to date us because we're black ? Let's just all enjoy life ( as corny as it sounds)
@@BearingMySeoul I mean I get that but even then, it is impossible to change your race so what's the point of asking. But also let's not forget that it is different for this kind of videos knowing what the beauty standards are over there and how black women dont fallunder those standerds and white women might
In all countries, people have preferences and tastes, many times we are not the choice, it is frustrating. However, when the concern for the opinion that others have about our decisions and choices is stronger, when we miss the opportunity to meet someone wonderful because of prejudice, fear and ignorance, then it is disappointing and pathetic. . Skin color does not make a person more or less attractive, our behavior does. Thanks for your channel, I love it. I look forward to your next interview.
Disappointing for who? Do you want a prejudiced person to suddenly dismiss their beliefs for you? Because I'm sure they're not disappointed to NOT have someone they don't want, as a partner 🤣 you feel disappointment, as if they're pathetic, on their behalf? But they'll be too busy not caring what you feel, as they search for the partner they do want 😳
As my Spanish language teacher used to say, the thought in front and the language behind. It's disappointing because nobody likes to be rejected, that doesn't mean you're going to die of unrequited love 😏, that's extremely ridiculous, but it's true that humans get disappointed if we don't get what we want... Then you think, Oh, come on! He misses it, or she misses it, there are more fish in the sea, but we feel the sting of rejection, and that's human. It is evident that we dont need someone who doesn't value us for who we really are, we don't need someone who tramples on us but even though we know it, feelings are free, our job is to control them later.
Foreigners don’t like that type! But they’re the one lasting and more chance to build a serious one compare to those calm and perfectionist and disappear after a few months 😂
*I don’t understand the obsession unless it’s to draw attention to their channel. I’m always surprised that these videos are recent and not 3-5 yrs ago. It’s broadly known that Korea is a predominantly RACIST country and this has been said by KOREANS! I’m not making it up. Racist NOT prejudice [learn the difference] but that happens whether the culture is homogenous or not. They feel a sense of superiority due to their cultural identity and that’s okay. Are they prejudice as well? Yes. Try to be overweight or “ugly” and in need of plastic surgery and see if you make it out unscathed.*
I don’t understand why you guys are feeling like these videos are attacking your or your race. They also do the same things for other westerners and asians and latinos.
As a black woman I loved this. The big boobs guy was super funny. I never take things like this to heart at all. I see a lot of pressed ppl in the comments (You’re entitled to your feelings) but if this is triggering you and breaking you… it’s gonna be rough for you. I did a lot of work on myself mentally and I came to the understanding as a dark complexion black girl is I’m gonna be dope af regardless😅. No one’s words or beliefs about me can ever hurt me bc ik myself and treat myself with the worth I intend to garner. I don’t care if someone“prefer” me or my ethnicity it’s over 7 billon ppl in the world! But big boobs guy had me lmao😂. Hope you do more interviews like this! 😊
Thank you for asking this question and engaging in this topic with respect and class. I’ve seen others use this topic to exploit for cringey click bait content, but your approach was so respectful and thoughtful. I really appreciate the work you put in to make this video.
Black women have endured unspoken atrocities yet, 'we rise' again & again. Our worth is not determined by others' opinions of us.. if that were so, we'd have been wiped out a long time ago. I understand the Korean sensibilities are just opening up to different ethnicities but tell you what... you can meet us on the other side once you've evolved & can appreciate the magic of who we are..but we sure not hanging on or around for your appreciation. as a Jamaican, a soh mi feel and yu dun know every yardie born think dem is a star... so nobody can dim we light. One Love.
@@lilmamagc thats true but our parents aren’t. Im muslim and he’s christian i worry all the time about our future his parents nor my parents will accept us
As a black girl, the comments are, yet again, black women putting themselves down, and assuming these guys are lying 🙄. Gosh you guys are the one with the inferiority complex. Stop projecting it onto these guys. They all (except fpr one dude) seem pretty decent. They aren't being racist and none of them even put BW down or said bad things. I'm so tired of us acting like this. JUST FREAKIN TAKE THE COMPLIMENT. Stop reading between the lines and thinking these guys are "lying". I take offense to that because I've met a couple men that happen to be korean and they were SUPER kind and respectful to me. Stop putting everyone in a box and go out there and meet people. You ASSUMING they hate you , just because they are korean, actually makes you look very prejudiced and closed minded. Jerry you are doing a great job, keep up the good work
Thank you! Black women need to start having more confidence in themselves. I think a lot of them do it because the black community has taught us that we're not allowed to date outside,and if someone outside do like us,they're using us. Black women,there's bad men in EVERY RACE. Stop putting yourselves down when a man of another race says they like you.
@@ksubyslowed they keep looking for validation and yet when they get one they second doubt themselves and accused the Korean of lying in front of camera or call them racist for not finding Black attractive. Inferioty complex is off the roof. I have seen similar videos of black man, they hype themselves saying "all woman like black man" then when they interviewed girls and some say they are not interested in dating black man they accuse them as racist and cry their eyes out like pls it's embarassing to watch.
A suggestion: perhaps asking people in Korea about marrying a non-Korean. As someone who lives in Korea there is a difference between dating and marriage. I believe most Koreans date for marriage not just to “date”. Of course with time and more non-Koreans living in Korea this mindset will change. So instead of “would you date a non-Korean?” ask instead “would you marry a non-Korean?”.
I thought about this very topic but had no one to ask. I always knew I liked people outside my ethnicity but I've been too afraid to think of the prospect that they would be attracted to me and, not because of my personality or so forth, but because of my ethnicity. It gets uncomfortable for me because I know that I don't really think about ethnicity as a factor for loving someone but I realize that other people do (which is valid). So it's nice to know that I don't have to demonize feeling attracted to people who look different from me. Because no lie, I had an attachment to race that I wasn't aware of and it has low key kept me in a bubble I don't like to live in. But now I feel guilty for wanting to leave that mental space because I was afraid I was being wrong. This video removed a boundary I had that was built on a lack of knowledge and being to shy to ask. I may not date someone Korean but it's good to know that the world has the potential to be open for those who need it (in order to be themselves and feel free to express their thoughts and feelings).
the way you tried to hold in your laugh at the "i like beyonce." so appreciative of these interviews and the questions you pose. this is such a great series.
I don’t think its a big deal. Everyone has their own type. I am Indian and I feel like korean men are really cute and black guys are handsome too but when it comes to marrying or settling together i will marry an Indian because its easier to communicate and under each others feelings
as a Black woman who’s lived in asia and is attracted to different types of men, i don’t see the issue in asking these questions, especially since BW and AM are by-and-large viewed as less attractive by societal standards. but if i’m a single cishet BW thinking of going to a foreign country, i’d wanna know what their thoughts were on me too 😵💫🫣 no shade lol
I wonder how Korean men who aren't born or raised in Korea think about these interviews or the huge focus on how Koreans view being in a relationship with a black woman. This is just a curiosity that came to mind, as a black woman from America who did like kpop, had to figure out their cultural beliefs, and not really understand when you take a lot of cultural influence, especially in the music industry, from black Americans. It's strange that we're expected to keep an open mind and not take their comments to heart, when if it was in the same context, we would be seen as being prejudice or racist. So it's like that to me. But since there are Korean people outside of Korea who aren't brainwashed by a lot of their outdated ideologies or the obsession on white people(who I don't know why they don't realize it's a fetishization unless white people don't care. But y'all can speak for yourselves). It's just I wonder if they feel some type of way that it's not Korean men. It's Korean men born and raised in Korea. And that isn't all of them. And it's weird when people will use open mindedness, like that will negate that if this question is still a "trending" topic, Korea, just like most of the world, aren't progressive and don't try too hard to change the deep rooted issues instead of acting like the people you are being prejudice or racist towards have to change. It's you, not them.
@@user-fb2me3th6z Speak for yourself. I am Korean, my wife is black. Yes we are different but we are also similar in many ways too. You can't know a person unless you interact with them. It's your ignorance that keeps you thinking that your so different. Reminds me of how my parents use to think but they are from a different time and they have grown to love my wife.
@@lilmamagc I think that's something everyone knows unless you're oblivious. I only asked if white people care that it's a worship complex or fetish and how Korean men who aren't the ones they ask this question to think about it. The ones that don't live or were raised on Korean societal beliefs. Plus you have to go to places not caring when you aren't the race they care for. It's the only way you can enjoy yourself. Let them hate you. It has always been weird to spend your life hating someone bc of a race we don't choose.
This is applicable to every country... Most people would most relaxed with people they can relate with better than people they don't know from Adam...and has a different race.. But I just like the fact that most of the said.. they're open minded and would like to meet the person naturally... It shows how responsible they are...🥰
I get it. Their culture is constructed a certain way and all that.... But really, I'm just fine with being an after or nonexistent thought to *them* and anyone else that even has to be asked such a question 😊
@@shansson5130 easy fix for black women: Date a man and let him know you want to wait until marriage or at least till you are engaged before sex. If he agrees then you know he wants more then just sex.
Mainly because most foreigners are not in korea long term. they aren't tryna to marry someone that's in the country for 2 months. And that's not long enough to get to know someone. Unless you are committed to being in korea long term or making frequent visits back, they ain't marrying you.
I greatly appreciate your videos and interviews, and while this is a bit old, I have an interesting take on this. I wonder what their answers would be if you were Korean because I know sometimes Koreans don't feel comfortable giving their real answers to other foreigners especially when you are black yourself. Also I've learned in living here the past 4 years that Koreans view dating and marrying as 2 separate things. I've found that Koreans may be open to the idea of dating a black girl for the experience and to be able to say they did it but as far as marrying one and bringing them around their parents, that's a completely different topic and subject itself. Like so many others in the comments said, I roll my eyes when I see these videos because at the end of the day I'm a woman just like any others. I shouldn't be seen as any different just because of my skin color or because of how my "body is shaped". I know you have no ill-intent with these videos. It just can come across as cringey and sometimes the answers remind us that we're not desirable and that we're an experiment/experience. Again love your videos and content. I just wanted to share my thoughts.
Guy in the bubble jacket gives a frank response. Even nowadays in 2023, there are not that many foreigners in Korea, compared to the nation as a whole. I believe Korea is what .... 95% 96% homogenous. Most have never seen a black man or woman and what they think they know, both positive and negative is from what they've learned through media (internet, tv). Frankly, same goes for other ethnicities. Koreans are open to interracial dating as there are numerous videos on RU-vid showing successful (married or dating) black / korean relationships, but it's not common. Glad to see Korea is opening up compared to in the 90s, 2000s, etc. But there's still a long road ahead. What does give me hope is watching successful black / korean couples on RU-vid. There are often grandchildren whom their grandparent's adore and the Korean mothers and fathers have grown and learned, as well as the couple who were married, to become a family.
it's not an issue. Black women don't need validation from Korean or any other man for that matter. Really whether Korean men are are open to relationships or sex with black women is not an issue.
I am a Black woman and I am open to dating a Korean man. For me, the personality, heart condition and open acceptance and respect of ppl and their cultures are very important.
I noticed that some of the Korean men are very mature. Some think that the heart, values, personality, and character are the most important. It is normal for young men to be first attracted to the face. Some look for attractiveness and personality. I heard only one mention that the body is the most important. He was the one who said that his family and friends would be shocked if he dated a black woman. A few were honest that they have never considered dating black women. Their preference is Korean women. It is better if they are honest. If the Korean men do not want serious relationships with black women, they should let them know from the start.
Yeah, it's better to be honest about what you like or don't like than to be politically correct and say something you don't mean it (insincere). The truth may be brutal but it's better than being told a lie. Flip it on the other side and you can ask western/black people why they don't date asian (whatever, chinese, korean, indian etc) and I'd only want to know the true reasons.
@@ymhktravel Some Western/black/African American people are receptive to dating Asian people. Some people are open to different races and different cultures. However, there are some people who will only date within their race or culture. I know black people who will only date black people. Also, I know black people who date different races/cultures.
I wish they would understand, or at least take into consideration, the fact that we would even pick up our life and move to their country. Of all the countries that we could’ve chosen, we chose theirs. So obviously, we have interest in the lifestyle, the people, the food, the culture and everything that comes with it. Some of the most naturally respectful people in the world are black women. We are chameleons, we can blend in to any scenario when necessary. I wish they would be more open to getting to know us, and potentially dating us. I understand how much it means to them how society views them, and we’re not that much different. We are constantly having to prove stereotypes to be wrong. We’re not all loud and obnoxious. Yes there are black women who are like that, but it’s not all of us. And if they were worried about their parents, they should give their parents a little credit. They may be more open minded than they think. And I personally have yet to meet a parent that doesn’t love me lol.
Why does it matter if they like us or not, it's not important.. They seem close minded, and I don't blame them, I guess they're some that aren't that way. But the "will you date a black woman" question, sounds like "will you eat a rotten apple if you're really hungry and there's no food. That's how I see it
Been ages since i commented on something one thing i noticed there is a major part of the Korean society who are basic af and superficial af not spreading hate and no offense just talking about immature boys who are just talking about the foreigner appearance 🤦🏻 but ur videos never disappointed
Facts. The red flags were def red flagging in some of these dudes. I cannot imagine thinking that a person’s appearance is more important than their personality, values and interests. It’s very much giving weirdo energy. Since the topic focused on black women (and foreign women in general), I wonder if they would’ve had the same response if they had been asked about what’s most important to them when dating Korean women 🤔😑
I’ve noticed that depending where a Korean has gone to study, live, or travel abroad for a while, they’re English accent will literally sound like that place ….it’s so funny but cute at the same time 😄
I really enjoy your content!! Wanted to suggest, maybe doing a short outro or a small pause before the video cuts off. I get caught off guard every time the video ends so suddenly haha
thank you for this. i have always left comment under your videos asking for this video and now i got it. i dont know exactly how i feel about or what i think about some of the answers from the korean men, but they were all very young so its good that they are open minded. i didnt like the response of the korean girls who were standing around the young man as you were asking him if he would date one of US....as he said NO for whatever his reasons were....they shook their heads YES in full agreement with his NO knowing full well that korean girls like dating black guys.....that hurt a little....and yeah...i get it....the culture difference....however they consume our culture everyday as they listen to and mimic hip-hop culture and music as well as indulge in western movies which they all do i am sure.....the black influence culturally is heavy in the world so to say that OUR culture would or may present a problem because it's "NEW" or they "DONT KNOW or UNDERSTAND" it would be far from the truth i believe....yet on OUR side....i can see how it could become problematic, but we are used to taking in and accepting anothers culture....anyway....thanks for the video.
I think these types of videos make certain women look like they are different in a bad way and I think the point of the video isn't good. But I do find it very interesting to see the different kind of values and mindset that each persona has.
Going off topic. The Aussie accent at the end just topped this whole video off 🇦🇺 Aussie isnt boring, theres quite some nice places to visit and activities to do 🤷♀️ everyones different, I guess.
It is cool most of the ones you interviewed would date a black woman.I am a Black woman & my first and only boyfriend was Korean & from Korea.He had the cute accent too when he spoke English.😁So, don't loose hope anyone.
The Korean guy at the end😂! He blew me away when he come with the Aussie accent! That was classic! However, you can see the ones who are are open to possible dating a black woman in this instance, and have a more open minded approach and maturity. Vs a few with the childlike/teenage mindset of big boobs🤦🏾♀️😂😂
This was interesting but I would also like to see the reverse. Asking Black Women if they would date Korean men and why? (Unless the video is already done and I didn't see it) I'm curious as to when the tables turn back over.
@@lilmamagc or we can watch and comment, or just comment without watching since it's obvious what the subject is, and you can just understand that's how RU-vid works.
Spilling fact is that all over the world people tend to prefer bright skin people. Not only in US.. In euroupe, India, Brazil, Countries in asia. Generally.
I really do not care about their opinions, I don’t even think I can date outside my culture and I would not even want my kids to date outside my culture cos we have to preserve our traditions and keep the blood line pure.. it’s saved everyone
I got a recommendation from RU-vid after this video of Japanese men's thoughts on dating foreign women. I am amazed by the contrast between these two countries. Their first preference was kind and respectful and then came appearance which only included big eyes or short hair. Which I feel is only basic. So much better than 'BIG B**BS'. It's really fascinating how each culture treats women differently.
I know you won't believe this but, anyways here i go. That guy was speaking comically, asian humor is just like that, vile and stupid af but never with the intent of harming. Anyways, just dropping some knowledge, adios.
everyone has a unique sense of humor, and asians who havent completely been exposed to western culture will probably not understand what westerners find disgusting or unfunny.
He is not a representative of an entire culture. You would only say that because He is Asian. White people say problematic stuff all day and nobody sees it as representative for a culture
Let people be happy. Don't ask Koreans if they would date a black woman because they will only tell you what you want to hear..there are many black men who won't date outside their race either. I rolled my eyes at this one.
I, a black woman, thank you for this video. Please continue what you’re doing. Those that don’t like these videos don’t have to watch. What’s embarrassing is the low self esteem and inferiority complexes in the comments.
Thank you! I guess some insecure black womens feel that asking this question is begging for love. I think people do this types of videos because they are curious about other cultures mindset. He’s done videos about dating black men & foreigners in general but somehow only the bw video is seen as begging for love.
@@kimleemoon please stop copying and pasting your comment, thank you. Besides your logic of insecure black women is..., asides from this particular video, there's been waaay too many videos about this In the past five years. Huge scandals with a Korean RU-vidr guy that based his entire channel of this particular topic, so if people feel uncomfortable cause of its there's an actual reason that has nothing to with insecurity, you can literally type the title of this video and find all the cringeworthy videos off this topic.
@@kimleemoon I wonder where I mentioned that I was uncomfortable with the video, your all over the comment section guessing that its the insecurity of some black women that make them uncomfortable with the vidoe, so I was trying to clarify thats there's a reason and its not insecurity as you were guessing. If I knew disapproving their insecurity will bother you so much I won't have commented, my bad.
So... basically, they are saying they will date the beauty standard black women for their bodies (but I bet you a lot of them don't marry black women).
As a black curvy tall woman i find this a bit confusing because it seems like they only like black women this makes me question everything right now on I'm a curvaceous and voluptuous tall black woman i find this Heartbreakers that we black women have to Defend ourselves I may not know much about South Korea but the fact that we black women have to Defend ourselves this really makes me question everything I'm processing at the moment I'll never understand why Korean men want tall curvy black women
I think as an American, Black American Women are over going to Korea looking for relationships for the most part. It was a fad to begin with. Kpop became popular and interest grew. BTS was one of the biggest attractions for American Black and White, Some kdrama's also played a part. Now BTS has started solo careers the interest has slowed down. I think the most effective force and influences for the reality was the internet experiences that Black Women have had visiting the country. No matter how you slice it the negative always out weighs the positive. The people are nice, The culture is nice, The food is great but it's too limited and discriminatory for the average American especially Black. You will find very few Americans that would stay there even if there are things they like.. I think it;s time to ask a more important Question. What is your knowledge or imagine of black people in general ? could or would you like to see Korea more integrated and diverse and would you support and embrace it. What are your visions for Korea in your life time?. Does it bother you when people of a different race takes residency in your country. There are so many great Questions that people need to ask. Right now the Black culture and Korean culture have a long way to go to unite not only in Korea but also here in the US. Although I understand the interest I also understand the reality. I think years from now there will be a change just like with black and white relations in America. I also think it will start in America where the tolerance and acceptance is like no other. I am a Black woman who has traveled Asia and dated Asian men and other. For me the culture differences with Asian men were to big. My sense of freedom and independence felt like a fault. If you are American and find it difficult to sustain a relationship with Asian men here than all I can say is good luck in trying to sustain one there. At the end of the day it's not a Kdrama it's real life.
The Australian-Korean man really THREW me when he started speaking English. His accent when speaking Korean into the Australian accent while speaking English was incredible
I said this in another comment reply to someone else but I feel like its so normal in different cultures to keep it within their own race / culture. Even Asian living in America, ESPECIALLY Amrican Asians (Chinese, Japanese and Korean) they always date amongst each other. I have seen quite a few American asian youtubers like Stephanie Soo and a couple others who show a lot of their family, they always date other asians. That is less of a thing in the UK though, you see loads of asians with english. Except for black people, even in the UK and especially in America most black people only go for people from their own race. Its very rare, and if you ask if they'd date a white person most look appalllled at the idea.
I am a korean guy and I met more than 5 black girls in my life and the reason why I don't prefer black girl is.. Sadly most of black girls victimized themselves and it was so hard to listen and agree with that. I never listen those things from other ethnic girls like South asian girls, before soviet union area girls, Caucasian girls, Latin girls.. Only from Black girls.. its quite sad and I hope them to stop victimized themselves and be confidence!
Interesting. I think that black women who live in countries with a black majority (Brazil is not a good example), I'm talking about African countries, have more confidence in themselves. Because when I lived outside my country, Angola, I was a 9-year-old child, constantly compared to the beauty standard of another country, the standard of white Brazilian women. I started comparing myself too and that didn't do me any good but luckily, my mother's postgraduate studies ended, I returned to my country, I'm at ease. I'm no longer afraid of being compared or being called ugly for any reason. Comparing and being compared to your whole life or during part of your life is very sad, but it happens and there is no stopping it. What matters is how we feel and react to it.
As a black woman, it’s very very hard finding a Asian man who’s really genuinely wanting to date, be faithful and wanting a future/ learn my culture along with theirs. I find it annoying that my type is Asians only because I struggle to find nice genuine serious ones.
So why not just date black men who will easily relate to you and already follow your culture? I will never understand how women will chase men who don’t want them especially if they look nothing like them.
@I Like Pancakes I talked with quite a lot of black girls and many of black girls in S.Korea prefer Asian guys and white guys. When they have this preference it's okay but when black guys try to meet Asian girls or white girls black girls don't like it.
Why would you assume that if you date a Black woman that she's gonna be combative? That's wild to me. Where would you get something like that from? Not only is it racist as hell, but men who are worried about women being combative with them are often abusers who want women who won't argue with them, so I'm raising an eyebrow at that guy. The one in the bubble jacket is HILARIOUS. Objectification at its finest and its own red flag but at least he's funny.
He didn't say it was because they were black. He said that because of language barrier and CULTURAL differences, which applies to everyone that is not culturally Korean, it can lead to misunderstandings and arguments. And he is right. He literally never implied black women being combative. That is YOU internalizing a stereotype and projecting it on him.
I am a black woman and I really lovethat Korean men mostly will date their own women and not outside. Black men do that too, but a large part also date outside of their race in the Black community and alot of the times it is because black people don’t love their own race as much (and I am not talking about the black men that date outside without that in mind)
I’ve heard from multiple foreigners, KOREAN MEN WILL DATE YOU, BUT NOT MARRY YOU IF YOURE NON KOREAN. The few exceptions might be another fair Asian, or a white woman. Latin women, black women, brown women, are fetishized. Which is so so disgusting. Cause it’s one thing to have preferences and stick to it, it’s understandable. BUT TO COMPLETELY DEHUMANIZE WOMEN OF OTHER ETHNICITIES?
Umm i would like to just share 2 reason why international couple can't reach to marriage. First of all, Korea is not multicultural country. And our culture tend to force to people has to be similar. For example, same style hair, fashion, and lifestyle as well. It has been changed a lot recently, and people are getting more open-minded compared to the past but still, people scared to be look different. It is not about where you are from but just culture. And second it is actually hard to make serious relation between people who from different conturies unless you are fully available to speak or understand the language. Because sometime the language gives deep connection and make understand each other's difference more and more. While in the other hands they feel frustrated and sometime give up to express. So it hard to deeply fall in love if you have the other culture and also can't fully understand the language. I am living in Au which is well known multicultural area, but I have been facing the same problem with men. I thought the guys here only wanted casual and made me so disappointed many times but later on, I just realized back that moment, my barrier of language made them less connected which lead them don't think of serious relationships. After I understand most of the cultural things and also get better languages skill then able to make healthy deep relationships with normal people 😅😆😆 I think Korea would be harder to get serious relationships than in other multicultural centuries unless you can speak Korean at least 60% of the level
I’m confused why so many of y’all click on videos like these, more than likely KNOWING what’s gonna be said in these streets and that the creator wants to get a reaction from you, and then continue to get mad. Like stop watching these videos, stop commenting and go on with your beautiful life sis.
People are entitled to like what they like but stop talking about us gah damn lol😂 This topic is so tired. At the end of the day bw are some of the most beautiful,kindest and educated in the world whether guys from across the pond thinks so or not,.Also on a weird note Why is it always would they date bw,not the other way around,does our opinion not matter.
