Chapters 00:00 Lobby Music 23:00 Intro 28:09 Candle and fragrances of the evening 29:36 Observations 42:30 Get the French toast likes up! 45:39 Like the video or else! 48:00 Monologue 1:17:31 Money World 1:20:34 Call setup 1:21:50 1st caller 1:32:28 2nd caller 1:42:15 3rd caller 1:55:51 Closing remarks
It's amazing how Kevin literally transformed his platform in under a year. He literally got the ball and ran with it, upgraded the quality of his content to match the demand, on the fly. I mean as a business man that's beyond commendable. That alone is a testament to the Black males capabilities.
Mr. Samuels, I have seen your channel since two months ago. I live in Buenos Aires, I'm in middle forties. I must confess your message has crumbled down many things I used to believe, and it's fair to say from the other corner of the world, the topics you talk now are universal. I congratulate you to be sharp and blunt. As grown-up, I have to face the truth about my mistakes, my flaws and so on. You were the first that made me think how wrong I was, the ways I misconducted myself through my entire life. But, now I know that and can't hide anymore. Your message exceeds races, religions and social status. Fear, unrealism, delusion is strongly present in mankind. Wish we learn to be the best versions of us, males and females, black people, white people, to have a proper and better future. Thanks.
Modern Code Words: Starting with "I feel like" "I hear what you're saying, but" "I believe" "I understand, however" "I don't think" "Can I ask you a question" "Well...I think" "That's true, but" "I'm trying to be respectful" "I've never seen your show" "A friend referred me to your show" "I understand, but" "Well...I dont see it that way" "If you knew me, you'd understand" "People I know or knew" "I was with a high value man, but..." "I've dated high value men, but..." "I don't think that's fair..." "I want to introduce a different perspective..." "I have options too..." "I appreciate your show, but..." "Well...look at it this way..." "How do you know..." "Yes & no..." "Me personally...." "Femininity depends on..." "What do you mean by..." "I dont have to..." "I was engaged, but" "I filed for divorce" "I broke off the engagement" "But kevin...." "Okay mr samuels" "Do you have problems with black women" "Well...men do it too" 'Why do women have to need men" "Who hurt you..." "You hate black women" "I'm speaking my truth..." "I know plenty of women that did etc, but" "I knew what I was doing, but" "That's a great point kevin, but" "I have a question for you" "Not all men are great men, but" "I'm not trying to make excuses for women but" "I dont think I'm overweight..." "Some women won't ever be skinny or healthy, so I believe" "As a woman myself, I don't think" "Yeah, but alot of black men are broken" "Black women still love black men, even though..." "I had kids with him, but he was crazy" "Well...I was young & dumb.." "Do you think...etc...no judgement though.." "Well...when a woman does it..etc.." "I felt like it was a toxic situation I was in" "I decide when I want to get married" "My father taught me how to be a wife...but I'm still learning" "May I say one thing" "I was done with the relationship.." "He cheated.." "Marriage wasn't a big deal on my end.." "I don't personally believe that a man should...." "Well, I never had to or needed a reason to" "Some women don't see marriage that way" "You know what I'm trying to say" "That's just me..." "I haven't met the man that made me want to...." "Yes we do need families, but.."
They are truly in the vegetable aisle . Oftentimes in gym attire. Lol Ladies, go to bars solo (but be safe and vigilant for predators), play a co-ed sport, hit the gym, etc. These are things my friends and I did and we are all married. When we were in relationships the end goal was marriage and if a guy wasn't on the same page. We were out, no time for games. We were all very Independent and have paying careers BUT that Ms. Independent shit goes out the door when in a relationship. For example, instead of using a ladder to get something I need. I ask my husband for help as he is taller. Just don't be a freeloader and have this I am the prize mentality. He is the prize too and a man with standards will bounce as they know their worth.
Fitness is part of a lifetime lifestyle choice, and it has to be adapted to things as life changes and evolves and you age. You can start any time. That said, poor lifestyle choices are like alcoholism, and if you spend all your time with unfit people, it is easier to get fat and do nothing than it is to get fit. Even so, it requires effort. The cool thing is, if you’re healthy and fit when you’re young, getting old is going to be a whole lot better than if you aren’t.
Omg im so glad you touched on the socially awkward behavior of women when it comes to picking up a man. Just watch a group of girls around guys, they'll start roasting or bitching at the ones they like, get loud for no reason, randomly twerk, high pitched baby voice, aggressive swearing, bullying a friend to seem witty, parroting guy behavior to be more like " one of the guys"
I was (still am) a bit socially awkward but I have always been more of a nerd. I never heard the term socially awkward referred to something different than being a nerd.
@@yungbfresh1 yep. I know one that’s naturally thin, but has 2 mismatched kids. She can’t see for the life of her why I’m not attracted to her and her liabilities.
Gentlemen, always be weary of a woman who says, "I can be supportive." This is a very narcissistic thing to say. It means they will only support you on their terms. Even their support of you will always circle back to being about them.
its men fault for trusting the parasites. we are told that snakes are liars and if you follow, listen or trust a vampire you will fall from your grace. it is what happened to adam, what happened to samson.
@@nancydenicea5591 society is out here telling men that they’re trash, all women are the prize and brainwashing boys from a young age to worship the fe-fails. So what do you expect? Women need to start checking and keep checking other women when they talk this feminist nonsense.
This man has a daughter in her early 20, all of us should just be grateful this man is going this far to impart this knowledge to his daughter and in doing so is helping the black community. Black men care about their children. Don't believe the false narrative
agree and you can't diet for life. Healthy food choices and exercise frequently so you can grow old without being on MEDICATION - try it because it works
The modern woman has what I like to call the three pack when socializing in public: she has her headphones in, phone out, and mask on; completely unapproachable and in their own little isolated world. Yet they complain about not meeting anyone. Can’t make this stuff up!
Don't forget that for the past decade or so, there has been a concerted effort to convince women that they should be offended when men approach/engage them...that's why there was this WHOLE CAMPAIGN about street harassment...when most of what they were calling harassment were just men saying "hi" or asking them why they're so serious...when that whole thing was going on, I predicted that women would turn around and blame men for them being lonely...so said, so done. They've built all these walls to keep men away, now the women can't escape from behind those walls...
Yeah and if you go approach them to try to get to know them if your not rich or super goodlooking they will label you a creep. It's like I'm not a creep I got balls to go talk to u buy your just upset that I ain't what your looking for
What's worse is when their SURROUNDED by their other friends... Imagine how shy most people are at just approaching someone for a date, then try that when they're in front of a whole group of them.
That's a serious problem! You should be man enough to know your purpose & do that.... Black men biggest issue is waiting on someone to do the hard work! Man tf up & take control but that would require you to be a "man".
@@AveMcree You just made a bunch of insults and assumptions based on nothing, Nothing in his comment has anything to do with what you just said, you one of those people on the internet just looking to start an argument.
@@southsidesaiyan8641 don’t worry fam I gave him no energy. I do agree that all of us should our part to repair our community. But their nothing wrong with having a leader or someone that at least gets the ball rolling.
I know for a fact i need a man, knew it from a young age. I just got lucky i found a good man very early in life. Sometimes i look at my man doing something for me and think “what can I ever do without him”
@@focusedonfuture3255 Lykis was one of the OG's but Kevin is in a different lane because he is hitting on all of the unique nuances of the black community that's what makes his shows special. Even Patrice had similar content but he was very unique in his message and the points that he made.
@@focusedonfuture3255 Kevin is changing lives I don’t care who said it first, I didn’t hear anything about any of these conversations before Kevin. He has the entire black community having uncomfortable conversations
Kevin is the truth , he’s helped me so much i met my wife a year ago. Our house is being built right now with the in ground pool we wanted . Life is good and having a good partner to share it with is even better. Communication is everything and we never go to bed mad . Thank you mr Samuels !
Out of all the criticism that Kevin has received, I’ve never heard a single person say his information was wrong and was able to back it up. That says it all.
I have been married for 20 years to a woman with a Masters in Psychology and has been a LMFT for 15 of them. She will tell you that about 70% of therapists should have never gotten into the field because they feed their clients thru their own emotional filter rather than using actual clinical principles. When Kevin talks about women who never graduate from therapy, it is often the therapist’s crap therapy as well as women’s desire to stay in therapy for years upon years beating the same dead horse for 50 minutes at a time.
I had enough of ind, couples and group to say: Not ONE woman on this show who claimed to be in anything related to what EYE know as a therapy/social work/psychology should be anywhere near handling someone else's emotional issues. I've seen some pretty dangerous personalities that know how to make friends 50 mins at a time though.
Guys are less likely to approach a girl in a group, especially when the group is openly giving out signals that they are going to turn down anyone who attempts to approach her. So usually the guys who do approach such a group, or not the type of men these women want for the long term, they are the short term excitement types
When I would approach, it was usually the less attractive women in the group that protect the prettier ones. It's like they don't want to lose the ones that bring attention to their group.
@@JoshNtheedrifter right. They want to avoid being single and alone so they try to keep their friend group intact by sabotaging their friend's chances at relationships.
I say when u in a relationship, male or female, never get comfortable. Always be in your purpose, never let your self image go. Love yourself. Think of compromising outcomes, and Respect your spouse, reputation. Be authentic and without compassion or communication relationships of all fail. Don’t see a man as a bank account. Be happy with the little things and ladies he will try his hardest to always improve for more. Men with purpose are to be celebrated✌🏼
@@massboogie6100 thanks mass, and I’m a woman that must say, I always need improvement ❤️ so I find ways to improve myself to stay inspirational to my spouse and family and colleagues
Same thing I've been telling a friend of mine. She's 5'11" and teeters between 260-300. Beautiful woman, used to model when younger. Will be 40 next year, no kids and wonders why she can't find a man. I've tried to explain why but she hasn't been consistent with the weight loss. She does run/walk tho, I'll give her that (used to run marathons), and she dabbled in the gym for a hot minute. But it's quite frustrating to watch. She's a Godly woman, friendly, and pretty as she wanna be. I'm still pulling for her to get the weight down, to be her best self, and to find that man.
The reason I love K S content is because I’ve been saying this for years when I saw women chasing everything but the right things. They did not listen and now they are the reason KS had to go public! “I TOLD YALL “!
Same here, I've been telling black girls to grow up and look at men not little bad boys who are themselves underdeveloped. Too many times they will find a decent guy and break up with him and go for a punk and end up a baby mama.... Its stupid
@@gamesmaster919 This is were black fathers are needed...girls can't be expected to get something right they've never got the proper training on. That's why back when black marriage was high is was because black fathers picked the husbands for their daughters. And with black men saying their the most active fathers, this is an area they can try to improve on as well.
@@gamesmaster919 I feel like KS speaks so much truth that people are just not ready. I’ve always been ahead of my time and instinctively I just knew certain things. Not that I was perfect but I learn my lessons quick! It was 1 bad dude at 18 and I was one and done! Afterwards I met a guy we got married and we’ve been married now 25 years! But nobody modeled me and now they all ringing my damn phone. But I’m busy with my husband hunny! You have to figure this ish out now at 50 plus…Lol.
@GC GC Nah knowledge is nothing without discipline, man. I know too many intelligent people that don't really do anything with it because they are LAZY.
Untrue statement. You have to have true, useful knowledge and apply it by being disciplined when you act. Knowledge alone is not enough but it's necessary. Discipline alone using a bad method (knowledge) leads to undesireable outcomes.
Here’s what a lot of you men REALLY need pay attention to with Kevin. And that is he’s actually teaching a financial course here; He’s identifying a desire, creating a platform to provide insight first along with a problem or issues, and he’s gonna create another platform to provide answers. It is brilliant.
well i think they do listen but everyone has different side point of view on things though. So some may see this as a help for both parties and some to just create drama for it. Like the whole " winter is coming" thing from the fans of kevin samuals.
They are tired of being alone but their pride won't let them admit it. Let them continue going on girls trips, listening to their toxic friends advice on sleeping around and not committing to one man and being "Free" and not getting to be a mother and wife even though they want to because of a stupid agenda that wasn't even designed to benefit BW in the first place. They'll regret it tremendously when they are still single at 40.
This was a beautiful comment, it encapsulate everything in a nutshell. It doesn’t matter that they are tired of being alone, their pride will never let them admit it nor will it let them actually make different decisions to try to attain the goal of not being alone. I have come to the sad realization that they will never be fixed until they are ready to fix themselves, and there really isn’t much that we can do about it. It’s to the point I am completely passed the black pill, and I have just decided to embrace the clown pill instead and just laugh at them for their own stupidity
@@aselyne5631 Nope, she must feel the pain that 90% of men feel when women do the same to men...use her, and reject her its more pain, and I like it...lol😁
I don’t mind weathering the storms and sunshines of a LTR with a woman, but I’m not coddling a grown woman's feelings and insecurities for a lifetime just because either.
he is being nice! you all think kevin is hard, dont dare go to other communities where they spit the real facts. kevin is very kind and humane compared to other places that look in disgust at women over 30. He is really trying to help and not asking for a lot. Common getting in shape should not be seen as a bad thing... it extends your life.
The first woman talk as if she is already a single mom. She acts as if she’ll be the only provider in the household, and her husband should be grateful to get ONE child out of her.
Have you seen Denzel Washington’s wife? I guess it was back when black men didn’t think they were too good for women that looked just like them. Now if you want a high value black man you must be biracial.
I swear that's true , I try to help my female friends all the time and they always say I dont want to do this or that and I'm like your goal requires this or that. Her: I don't want to do it. Me: well you can't get what you want because you don't want to cross the bridge to get it. So Someone else will get it .
As an African I feel Kevin’s message transcends all regions. I wish Kevin would one day discuss the effect of Tinder, instagram and Tik-Tok on how women value themselves.
Instagram and Tik Tok hurts the hammer to me was tinder. I was in college and saw the change in real time. I had friends going on 3 dates a week one would be a date the other two just free food. Girls who were 3’s who a guy approached them once in a while get on tinder gets 100 matches in a day. A guy who girls see as a three might not get 100 matches in a month. It really broke the market. Like it was easier to get a date before than after for a regular guy. But now a 3 will sleep with nothing but 8 and is confused on why they are around for a day or two.
Broke the rating system a girl who’s a 1 thinks she’s a 5 because a 5 will sleep with them. When you look at the rating system idt I’ve seen any women rate herself below 5. Essentially no women thinks they are below average which logically makes no sense.
Celebration! !!! Size 4-6 pants this Fall season instead of 8-10. Keeping it feminine with lots of fluffy sweaters and soft scarves and hats. Even workout gear has peach and pink.
The chick who looked like Carl Winslow that weighed 285 who said she didn't wanna cam up should be ashamed of herself 😏 how you gone want to not be alone and want a high value man and you can't even get on a treadmill and put down the fried chicken wings lol she started sweating cholesterol when Kevin told her to get a trainer 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭 these women keep me rolling 😁
As a fitness trainer this really bothers me how many black women don't believe in working out and so lazy. Every black woman I have trained never came back. 2 women I had stopped, went and got BBLs, and gained all that weight back! I literally stopped training one to one for that reason because these girls would waste my time and it's frustrating.
This is what you should’ve done to keep them coming back. I assume you were training in a local gym. You should’ve pointed out the best looking black man and then the hottest white woman….leaned in close and whispered in her ear, “You can choose to not come back but are you REALLY going to leave her with him or are you going to come back to complete?” I guarantee this will boost your retention.
I’m an IT professional, extremely busy and I still go to the gym 4 times a week… as odd as my time is at the gym, I have never seen a black lady or woman. ==> I own the gym and I check the videos regularly to make sure things are in order. The black females I see are there to cheer someone or come to pick someone. So, I concur with your experience
@@xeightysix563 yes !! When people tell me they don't have time I'm like no you just don't want to make time. And when you look at what they make time for its actually time wasted where they could've been working out. It literally takes 1 hour out the day, just 1 hour!!
KS....I love you! Keep doing what you're doing.....I put you in my ear every morning and getting my fitness back. Been listening for two months now. 6ft., 268 to 217.... and on no medication thanks to you....you're the father most of us need. Please protect this man.
Shows should always stay updated and cant be doing the same things over and over. It's why he is always updating his studio. Same goes for the stream and the content that is put in front of your eyes.
The thing I like about Kevin is he don't claim sides though he's for the men. Truth be told he's really not for the men. He's for the outcomes and I respect that.
I’m an only child and that first caller was out of her french toast mind. It took until my early twenties to undo the social damage that being an only causes. As a result, my husband and I are having no fewer than two kids. I’m pregnant with my first, loving it, and even if labor is crazy difficult I’m 100% having a second. You do not want to purposefully make an only child, people.
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I used a match-maker to find my current woman. I was surprised when my top matches came back as Asian women. I don’t even find Asian women attractive. I gave it a shot and went out with my woman. On the second date, she screwed my brains out, on top of already doing the things that I actually wanted from a woman. It’s almost been 3 years now!
I was with my female friends explaining how men are ok with getting 75% of what they want in a woman as long as she treats him well but women want 100% of what she wants in a man. Their response was why would a man accept less than 100%
Most traditional men and woman would find someone who had most of what they were looking for, and "made a deal." The marital vows and commitment were sacrosanct. The issue is that there are still a lot of traditional type men, and few traditional type women. I am a traditional man and was trained to be a husband. I don't even recognize these women. They certainly have no training to be wives.
@@bauttiet.h.u.g.5900 AGREED men we think legacy & survival alot of times when picking a partner so we may have our desires but a amazing woman that can most of what we won't to the table & something else we didn't know that we needed we will love her like that dream woman we built in our mind
@@menopillion9853 INDEED I honestly don't think it's that hard to find a like-minded person that won't the same things in life when it comes to building a family & being happy I see it all the time man & woman living a decent life with 5 kids off of 2 $40,000 a year incomes
I'm not concern about her having a degree because that doesn't automatically give her common sense or make her witty. It would be awesome if I could just have an intelligent conversation I'm fine with that!
Funny thing is most women that are book smart are game goofy like a relative of mines. Smart as a whip, 43 years old registered nurse, divorcee who was in an abusive marriage still wants a "rough neck"
Plus size women who are married usually was small before marriage, and got bigger after child birth. Come on blk women!! We can be our correct BMI, intermittently fasting, I don't eat after 4pm, no carbs, and no sugar other than natural fruits. Let's also hold each other accountable!
Nah, false. Believe it or not, aLOT of men love big women. I'm definitely not advocating for excess weight but I won't pretend like we should be alone and miserable bc of it
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ Salute to the Godfather ✊🏾 Just give him a little time and the Godfather will eventually get to the crux of the issue. Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
I always argued with girls when that Ariana Grande song “Thank You, Next” came out that you don’t learn anything from guy to guy and they always went against me. Talking about I learned patience or this or that. No you didn’t , you just wasted years and added mileage lmao
😎 I'm waiting for the day that Kevin walks to the ring on WWE with that music playing grabs the mic from some wrestler, and Lays a Verbal smackdown on some Wrestling Pookie or big Shirley
I don't think that's rock music. Sounds more like Jazz, Funk, or Blues. Kevin is a black man who grew up in the 70's. He's gonna play something with some funk rubbed on it.
I agree with therapy. No relationship trauma but after losing a loved one from Covid and just for me...I was overwhelmed. I decided to get therapy. I SPECIFICALLY SOUGHT AFTER A MALE THERAPIST. It's working well and he has a great manner. I am glad I did it. Therapy is not just for negative problems. Sometimes you just need that professional who is not going to judge you and will listen and assist. 🙂
The women who want everything for free are ridiculous. I set up a date with a beautiful woman in her late 30s who is a nice accomplished accountant. She lived in Orlando and I live about 45 minutes from Orlando so I said I will find us a restaurant. I booked us a table in a high-end restaurant and when I told her which restaurant she said “oh no, that’s almost 8 miles from me. I’m not driving that far.” I just laughed and said “OK, we are done here.”
LOL reminds me of a man I was speaking to from a date site. About 7 years younger than me. Our interests were the same. He picked a restaurant that was like 5 miles from his home, knowing that I lived about 25 miles away from there.
I could never understand how many modern BW come into dating & committed relationships expecting it to fail then have the audacity to get mad when it does. You bought negative into your relationships, so you got what you bought in.
It’s “RARE” When a Woman Can Enter The Dating Scene With PURE Generosity And Loving Spirit To Connect With A Man ,,, A Woman Can Literally Find Her SoulMate In Days If She Stop Acting Special And Being PICKY over Standards….. Nowadays It’s All About “LOOKS & LUST” 😒🎯
