No lie watching your videos convinced me to get divorced and it was the best decision of my life thank you kevin I really mean it bro and I'm a 31 year old white man I was miserable in the relationship I was in and listening to you gave me the strength to take the leap and go for a woman That deserved my resources and attention i worked hard my whole life and i am really grateful to you for what you have taught me and what you are teaching woman around my age
I must salute my late grandmother. She was the epitome of top-notch femininity. When Monique spoke out about the bonnet crisis, one particular thing my grandmother told me stuck out: "When you travel, that is especially when you need to look your best. That means if you didn't pay for first-class seats but they need to fill those seats to balance the plane, they'll pick you because you LOOK like you belong in first-class." My grandmother was the type who'd wear fur on a train, and get dressed up to go to the mailbox. Don't you dare show up at her house unannounced. Grandchild or not, you're waiting outside or sitting in the living room with my grandaddy until she fixed herself up. As dainty and classy as she was, she was just as intelligent. An amazing woman overall.
Curious, how did this work out for her? Was she able to pass down generational wealth. Because sadly, from what I learned it doesn’t matter how great you look or how furry your fur coat is. You’re still a black women or man in America….
@@FF-fd4tm actually she did you are reading the wealth she passed to her in that statement all wealth isn't money. Cause with nuggets like that and Kevin's she could end up being a HVM's pepper Potts. Then she definitely wins.
@@wakandaforever616 i seen a lot of women she described everyday. Walking around like their wealthy, spending so much money to “look like wealth”. I always laughed at them. Most are broke because they was too busy trying to look an image instead of actually being it. The richest white men never spend crazy money on clothes. To look an image…. I’m just saying it’s a waste to me. Always looking like money just attracts the wrong people. I get off looking regular knowing I live in a house that’s paid off. I teach my sons to be clean and NEVER buy name brands! Because it will only attract gold diggers. Besides at the end of the day YOUR STILL BLK. Stop buying them expensive white owned clothing!
@@FF-fd4tm men and women are not the same and your comparing the two. Idc what old wealthy white men do, but I 100% want my lady looking good at all times. Telling a woman not to worry about looking sexy is like telling a man not to worry about being successful or productive.
I started working in a warehouse 18 years ago, making $6.50. Today, I operate 3 Fortune 500 warehouses along the east coast. I make over a 100k, and after watching Kevin for the past year, I have filed for divorce from my wife of 8 years. I understand there are women who'll understand what it is I want and need, and I do not have settle for anyone who isn't willing to work with me. Done arguing about nothing when I pay every bill in the home. Thank you, Kevin. I greatly appreciate you, brother.
This is so on point, when I met my wife 12 years ago, this is one of the reasons why I married her, I didn't have to tell her anything, she knew exactly what to do as a woman, and I was like damn! This woman is a wife, not a girlfriend. 12 years later, she hasn't changed a bit, just more submissive to her man.
I would like to know what she did exactly. Was it being Johnny on the spot? At your beckon call , Sex Extra in bed? Inquiring minds needs to know?! Oh. Was she working when you met her?
I want to know how many of these YT male followers have Sungle moms at home that raised them That are now telling their Mothets to buy a dog and Die alone! Do you men really wish that for your moms or sisters?! Please I need an Answer
This is so true! I competed for Miss Arkansas- miss America and they have beauty standards and ranking. Of course you have to be smart but you have to have THE LOOK to even compete! I love your videos! I try to tell women this and they don’t like it but that’s ok! 💗💚
@Brian Fitch If you're going to require beauty, you need to be attractive as well. Women desire attractive men as well. So you shouldn't comment on looks because you don't make the ✂️.
I prayed that God removed this noncooperative combative woman out of my life and He blessed me with a feminine submissive athletic woman that wanted to be my wife at 33, 6yrs in and 2 kids later, my life never felt fuller. God is good. KS is a truth teller!!!
And a healer of our community 🙌🏽 Healing can be painful and I believe that's why many women (and men) cannot receive his message but I've been on this journey over 10 years now and am grateful that he saved my life. I literally wept for days the first day I heard one of his messages and repented to the black men in my life. I am now getting married this year after being a single, independent, divorced mom of 2 daughters for over 10 years. 💕
True. It’s crazy to hear dudes disagree with him like woman do. Or men who say “If we listen to Kevin we will have trouble with woman.” I said we already in trouble. 😂 can’t be afraid to tell our woman.
Not just a mentor. He’s an advocate for healthy relationships based on gender roles for men and women that have existed for generations. He has my respect.
Nailed it! I'm 40 have a luxury apartment, in the garage of my apartment is a decked out Laramie crew cab, touring motorcycle, and a paramotor "aircraft". I bring close to but not quite 6 figures $86K right now, working on getting to that 6 figure salary in the sky. I wake up at 0500 go to work, get off go to gym for 2 hours, be a single dad in the evening to my 12 year old son I have full custody of, then spend my nights grinding on college and secondary income till close to midnight every single day. I have ZERO time or patience for difficult women who are unhappy or not fun to be around. This shit they throw out about "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve my best", cool take your worst and best elsewhere because there's lots of women who look damn good without the entitled boss girl bullshit. I've had to bust my ass since I was 17 to be where I am, if a woman wants to have a piece of the lifestyle I have she can at least be pleasurable to be around. Especially when I get attention daily from 18-25 year old girls, I don't NEED to put up with bitter angry, temperamental bs.
Damn son. This is dope but dont burn yourself out. You must be a super sleeper, 4 hours a night? Yikes, sounds like you on Deployment time. Shit WILL catch up to though. Im guessing its work hard play harder for you?
KS was on 10 thousand !!!! He definitely said some astounding points. especially when he said we don’t have to ask for a woman’s permission to be a man. That struck me to my core bc ever since I became self-aware, I stopped treading lightly as man and I start to make a bigger impact on the people around me.
Uncle Bob Gaming Facts! Yeah don't tread lightly around these females. They can handle any truth you need to give them, they grown ups. They not some delicate flower that can't be touched. They independent and grown, so nothing is off limits that they need to hear.
A lot of women don't want to change so they say men belittle them..its called TRUTH..most times. We, as women really need to hear from brothers such as this becuz so many have forgotten, rather never know their PURPOSE! This is why I love working with the elderly, they provide such WISDOM! WE NEED MORE CONVO SUCH AS THIS!! And I'm a female! That loves men, strictly dickly, I'm not butch and I swear, we would be so much more ahead of the game if more women wud learn TO LISTEN, what men think.. KEEP THE WISDOM COMING!!😍💯💪🏾
Much respect to you. I think certain women don't understand the power of words. A lot of women call us their "brothers", then treat us like enemies. Doesn't make a lick of sense to me but 🤷🏿♂️ I celebrate the ones that know better and do better
THIS IS WILD. I make 75k on a down year. I never thought I was in the top 10-15%. I got to this level and I'm looking to see what I can do next to improve on that. All the while getting treated like I'm common. My girl doesn't even call me that much only texts. And I'm blocked from her Social media. Only come around when it's party time or to wash clothes. Like today I paid for her nails all she said was thank you. No conversation how am I what am I doing who am I with etc. After listening I think it's time to cut my losses and stop trying to fix it
Dude she blocked you from her social media? She is fckn other guys already. Don't be a beta male provider. And if you are one just don't love'em. Sex only. Have a budget on that 304.
Trying to tell you. Once I realized how mad they got just off being told no I began to say to every women I came in contact with. The ladies at work began to complain lol
Kevin is right.... It's always the big, single, unattractive, or women with alot of kids who aren't getting what they want and be complaining about men who hate KS
This is because the Sistahood has a "come as you are" policy. The membership includes blind validation between each other, instant unearned Queenships and unaccountablity support. They have a "ALL, NOT SOME" policy when it come to the best of the women.
Women should understand that, when we have to handle them, then they are another kind of job for us. Which guy, who is already working 10h+ a day wants another job, which is even costing money and not bringing any value or peace. Mr Samuels said it the best. We want peace and cooperation, when we are coming home. I don't need any drama. Greetings from a German engineer with 100k+/year, who is also tired of demanding women, who bring nothing to the table except a big mouth. I don't see me as an high value man, because there is more to it than money, this is why I try to keep my expectations on a realistic level. But even finding a woman with a 5 or 6 on the looks scale, which is feminine and simply a nice person is so hard to find these days, I could not believe 10 years ago. Men, don't try to handle women. Find women, who will enrich your life and skip those wannabe Alpha chicks.
@@amerokeewiya1320 Nothing against conquering once, but I heard stuff like we must be "conquered every week" again to keep the attraction. Here we are back at handling. And also why is it always men to do that? Relationships must be earned from both sides. If the woman puts in no effort, then why should the man invest a lot of time/work? This would be even against the equality wanted by so many women.
Being married to someone who supports, loves, and nurtures you makes you want to provide for and protect them even harder. Watching single people speak on Kevin's show lets me know their is a huge misconception on what a good functional marriage is.
@@handyman1016 I'll tell you this, in my world men in the mid to late 20s and early 30s are mostly married. High paying professions with wives who predominantly stay at home... especially when the kids are pre kindergarten age. You are an anomaly if you are not married...and your earning potential is in jeopardy if you want to move up and are single. I'm here to state for a fact there is an alternate reality to what is broadcasted on mainstream media. Birds of a feather flock together and our circles are with other married families. Something has to be beneficial for all of us with different backgrounds to overwhelmingly choose a union.
My father and brother taught me these lessons when I was a boy. These lessons kept me focused and strong and free from most of the bullshit out here. Thank you, Godfather, for preaching and teaching what all men need to learn.
@@Osunshoney409 that’s if you can’t get both .. so clearly that means the cooperation is more important but all in all you’re going to want the most beautiful that you can get .. based on your status.
I am not a high value man yet. I’m working on that climb each day. It’s not easy but I do believe that I can at least become a HENRY. Thank you for both humbling and inspiring me to become the best version of myself. I appreciate you man God bless.
I retired from Investment banking at 37, my advise is to stay focused, avoid relationships, improve your standing, don't be anxious, work hard, avoid those who have no value. You will make it.
I learned from my MGTOW awakening that women hate to be excluded from male spaces. They absolutely MUST have a place at the table to feel better and give their feedback and demands. See Ice Cube and the women on that show.
Sounds like my ex, no accountability, bad attitude, always has to be right, never satisfied, always complaining. Not to mention she has been divorced with 3 kids and acted as if she was the prize! I have no kids, two degrees a good job, own my home, along with a 800 credit score. I realized that, i can find a woman with a bad attitude with 3 kids thats been divorced anywhere! She can't find a man like me growing on trees everyday. I wasn't happy and got out of that toxic relationship. I took charge and understood my self worth and couldn't be happier. Why settle for trash! when you are worth more.
And fellas *you* are responsible for your own success with women. So don't be letting other people hook you up with chicks and talk you into going on blind dates because alot of people really wanna see you doing bad. Case in point my friends recently sent me on a blind date and the Bish really was blind. Be careful.
This was a good conversation. I would like to see more of the age differences side by side like this, because it shows the maturity and intelligence level.. it was embarrassing to see a 27 year old that had the characteristics of 17 year old, 21 year old (a baby ) still learning and she observed the 37 year old and began looking confused.. that was bothersome the oldest was very immature. I too would have been saying WTH is she talking about? 27 year old had a reality check .
29:45 There may technically be a "five star general", who would be called general of the army. Four star rank insignia is just "General". Three stars is Lieutenant General. Two stars is Major General. One star is Brigadier General.
Kevin you give me hope that Men whom MGTOW in our lives! Most I remember when I was engaged to Model about just before her 4 year (I graduated the year before from College) she cheated me in college and wanted my forgiveness and I said NO it's was over! I then went into the Army!
Hopefully u got some good army training, became an officer and have a great retirement plan. Being retired at 42/43...you can still pick something else up anytime you want.
Four star and five star are both technically O-10 (the highest officer rank) but the difference is a lateral transfer. When you become the General of the Army you still are technically an O-10 but you get the extra star designating that special position. In the navy its a little different, both are still O-10 but the 5 star is known as a Fleet Admiral, however nobody holds that title at the moment
Im a third grade teacher with predominately black students. I wish Kevin could teach a class and they would be forced to take the class all the way to high school. My student’s parents are about 30 and need I say more! I can talk to the boyfriends better than the mother's!
God bless you for that. My best friend girl, is a primary education and special needs teacher. If the fathers ARE there, she prefers to talk to them over the mothers. So, yea I can confirm what youre talking about.
High Value Men put themselves last and women should put us first. That's the coldest thing I heard today. ✊🏾 I never tell women what they want to hear. I can only tell the truth so, I tell women what they NEED to hear.
Been alone for too long of my life, I hate it and I don't want to be alone my whole life. We are social creatures, we are meant to socialize and have friends and more, period. Life is way too short to waste it being alone. Yes, we should get used to being alone but we shouldn't be alone.
He is definitely a healer of our community 🙌🏽 Healing can be painful and I believe that's why many women cannot receive his message. I've been on this journey over 10 years now and am grateful that he saved my impending 40 (at the time) life. I literally wept for days the first time I heard one of his messages when I realized the seeds of bitterness, hatred, and dislike that was planted in our (black women's) hearts towards them (black men) from a young age to keep us divided. I repented to every black man in my life and gained such a higher level of honor, respect and reverence towards them knowing that the world hates them, women tear them down, and cops are killing them. If they can't find a safe place at home/with their woman, then WHERE do they find it 😭 So much healing has taken place in my life since following KS and I am now getting married this year after being a single, independent, divorced mom of 2 daughters for over 10 years. 💕 Bless you Jason, I wish nothing but the best for your life.
Just a thought: Women fake sexual sincerity for men. Men fake general interest, for women. - respect, gents. Play when you have power Play when its your game.
We are all differen we don"t have the same finger print man need too bring peace they bring native bagage in past relationship its both ways be i ntergity i gave my man respect he did'nt know self game at the start i what Too love selfpresivation learning me its difficult why should i observe another individual when learning self by sam
I really, really appreciated you telling women that it’s better to be alone than to just accept any man for the purpose of getting the outcomes we really want, and not just settling because we’re afraid of being alone. That meant a lot to me to hear you say. Thank you
Omg. Of course I knew. But this is something that he doesn’t talk about. Remember, he’s an advocate for men and their standards. I support that, but most of his haters and detractors say that he asks women to settle but he is saying the exact opposite here. I appreciated him shutting the haters up. Smh
I’m single, because i internally and externally feel like I’m settling for 90% of the women I meet. The thing is, a lot of women overvalue themselves, when they come with all types of BS, such as being overweight, lack of domestic skills, multiple children, by multiple men, large amounts of consumer debt, an extensive sexual reputation, disagreeable, selfish, self serving, etc…need I go on
Kevin, during times of "peace" the highest rank a general will be is 4. In wartime, a 5-star general can be appointed. I'm a chief warrant officer in the Army 😎🤙🏾
@@robertp7209 I disagree. The wife should work hard to make her husband happy. Especially, since it’s hard for women to find a man that’ll make him his wife.
@@ShesooBreezy she should, but can’t no matter how hard she tries. It’s not in them. Can’t be done. There is only one solution for him to end the misery and regrets.
Without Kevin, all his detractors wouldn’t have food on their plates that reacting to him paid for. You gotta respect how no matter how many “friends” betray him, how many fat women wanna see him on a noose, the brotha shows up to work every day professionally and let’s his enemies punch themselves out. Says a lot about a man’s character how he reacts to his inner circle betraying him.
I'm an old guy and have NO concept of this new music. HOWEVER, I very much enjoy the opening music to Kevin's shows. Who is that and what is that song ?
Most women are crap in bed, especially the 9-10s. They know it as well and realise why men ghost them. It breaks their egos and they become alpha widows.
Absolutely right , I tell women that I'm complete by myself. I'm with you cause I want to be and that's it , if you bring headaches I'm out. Get on my program and I'll give you the world , if not deuces . I don't negotiate with neo-feminists. Top 5 percent here looking for peaceful.
God Father to the wprld,your being felt in the Bahamas. we need you this way like yesterday. may the Must Highest continue to favor guide and keep you in all your ways.
What’s interesting is most of the men who follow Kevin are not in the 1% or even 10% of HV men. I don’t think they realize while Kevin mostly speaks about black women telling them they can’t have a HV man because of their rank. He’s actually telling women they need to accept the average man which is most of the men who follow him and comment on his posts. It’s nothing wrong with that but I thought it was worth pointing out. Women and men have to be agreeable to each other’s situation and it’s easy after that. If she’s feisty but you like that go for it… if she’s chill like Sunday morning go for it. If anybody you’re pursuing is difficult (man or woman) run. Small penis might be okay and big might be preferred. Masculine men prefer feminine women. Regular men are attractive but not preferred. ? is what’s agreeable to you but if marriage is what you want be open to things you may not like but you’re agreeable to.
The usual smart answer is silence this is what I tell my girlfriend every day as a guy in the top 3% dealing with a woman that doesn’t do anything for a living I shouldn’t have to say shit you should already have shit done before I say it this video hit home some much thanks a lot
I had a woman last year who literaly told me: "i am afraid you are not mentaly strong enough to handle me". As if i am not able to put up with her daily tantrums. Must say she is a hot peace of @ss. I told her: "i don't have to handle sht" Dumped her and got myself a beutiful girl from Colombia 12 years younger.
Yep. That seems to be the case with so many modern women nowadays. That’s their ‘go to’ excuse when men get fed up of putting up with their bullshit. When they say to a man: ‘You are not mentally strong enough to handle me’, it means that they just realized that you, as a man, will quickly get fed up and will NOT put up with any of her bullshit, her manipulating, passive-aggressive behavior, cheating, selfishness, dependance, equality only when it suits them, laziness, victim mentality, daily tantrums, constant nagging, abusive behaviors, shit, you name it…. I’m not saying it’s impossible to find a good woman in today’s society, but it’s damn hard. Us men know that we are not going to find the perfect woman, that’s delusional, and we know we ain’t perfect either, but we are REALLY simple to figure out, there are only a few basic things we ask for, few things that we require to be happy in a relationship, and it’s very simple: we want peace and quiet, mutual respect, not to be mind readers, and most important of all… ass! a steady, yet reasonable supply of ass! That’s it! If those basic things are met, on a fairly constant and reasonable basis, we are willing to put up with a lot of other nonsense and bullshit (reasonably though, we ain’t gonna put up with none of the shit I listed in the first part).
Clap 👏👏 yessah. "he can't handle me" is the most ignorant thing a woman says in my opinion. That is a masculine aggressive attitude that will leave you alone with the cat/dog
54:52. Monkey branching a common theme especially for women who have not found a Suitor by age 28 and married off. The next phase is the tendency to get involved with married men. The Affair usually last for a year-and-a-half because the married man says things that is so believable to the woman that she thinks he will actually leave his wife and level up with her. Then they enter the dofer stages come become pregnant for the first time by men with three other children they are building taken care of. Others are content with the inability to have children and the cycle goes on into the cougar years.
I watched that jubilee with Brandon Tatum...brutal. (He was way too nice in that appearance, but he was dealing with she-males...). I've been watching him for about five years now...that guy has it completely together.