Are Quality Filipina Relationships a Thing of the Past? | Is the Philippines Played Out? 

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Meeting of the OGs.. pretty cool

It’s very difficult for an expat who had a bad relationship to resist the kindness of a nice and nice looking female..like you said, it takes a lot of restraint from just diving in 🙏🏻😱

I agree with each of you guys but I guess I just got lucky. I talked to a few girls online during the Pandemic then I meet my fiancé. She’s closer to my age she’s from the city but grew up in the province. I’ve been to the Philippines a couple times since to see her. She has no close family same as me and we have everything in common. She received her PR visa so I’m bringing her to Canada to get married and be together.

If you want to have fun, date city girls, if you want to get married, date a girl in a province far far away from a city

Good to see Paul back ! nice chats !

In the usa, that's where I'm finding conservative women. On ranches an hour out of the cities.

The tragedy is where, just like women in the West, an average looking Filipina gets online and is told she's gorgeous by guys around the world. She's a hard "5" out of 10, but now thinks she's an 8 or 10. So now she dates a guy that's a 5 or 6 and secretly feels like she's settling for less than she deserves, even though this guy is objectively right at her SMV or even above. Eventually resentment and restlessness set in and she makes him miserable to the point he leaves or she pulls the ejection switch herself.

Over 7,000 islands in the Philippines to look for a good girl and find one.. I found mine in the mountains of Cebu Island working on a farm and living with her parents.. now I can bring my Filipino fiance / wife anywhere in the world and she is willing and ready to go.. making money and plenty of Love is out there in the world somewhere for everyone.. of course happiness is a state of mind wherever you are in the world.."seek and ye shall find" "patience is a virtue".. Anything can be accomplished with patience and persistence and a little research 😮😊

Great to see you guys together

Guys with limited options are going to have limited options ..Filipina are women and they want the hottest guy they can get lol. Hence why most foreigners date province girls..they are easy to get in the provinces. The quality city professionals Filipina are the diamonds as they are modern and don’t have they expectations of extreme cultural differences. It’s a fallacy that they are not family oriented…they are and generally Christian too.

Y'all are in Cebu, I've been here a week. I find the people are more kind and approachable than Manila. Bangkok was also great. Manila seems more modern and creature comforts, but Cebu is drawing me in!

Welcome back Paul !!!

I think the best thing to take away from this video. Is take your time and go for the highest quality woman that checks all your boxes. And be willing to walk away from her.have an abundance mindset. Cheers.

Love it haven't seen Paul in forever...

I've been practically all over the Philippines, and if your only goal is to meet Filipina's then that is your problem. It's not going matter where you go. Try picking an area based on your interest first - I can imagine Dumaguete being an awesome place for learning and taking college classes - Siliman Univeristy offers a cool laid back atmosphere for that. If your intentions are ONLY to seek young filipinas, you will always come across as the creepy guy.

Great having all three of you guys together for this discussion. just wish you had gone on longer for more thoughts.

Reekay hit the nail on the head. Average looking Filipinas (in the Philippines) are finding out that they are considered exotic beauties in the U.S. and in Europe. Filipinas with RU-vid channels, Facebook, TikTok, etc… are being messaged by hundreds or even thousands of men from outside of the Philippines. They basically have their choice of potential suitors overseas while in the Philippines they’re getting some, but not nearly as much attention. The competition is definitely picking up for the expats between expats.

Very cool , im glad I left about 5 weeks ago. The quality didn't seem great on Leyte. Just got burned out on the same routine. Nice show. Latin Countries are way more fun

Good information. I met my girlfriend on a dating website, but stayed away from girls and looked at women (40’s and 50’s). Recently came to the Philippines (CDO) and spent a month with her. Looking forward to coming back in four months and spending more time with her.

Paul you Lucky Devil...Hey Reekay, I'm in PI now ...No this had better not be played out, I went through too much Hell to get here.

Reekay is golden. His videos and real life dating and relationship insights are timeless and treasured. I’ve listened to multiple videos of his repeatedly and his wisdom has helped me decide wonderful daring experiences. I listen to Reekay. Thanks Reekay 🙏🏼

Cool to see you old married guys together.

Actually your all good guys ..two thumbs-up..stuff like this is priceless priceless

Dumaguete will never run out of opportunities to meet girls. First and foremost Dumaguete is a college town and a great majority of the girls come here just for college. Second, If you want marriage material girls go to churches.. I went to a local church and saw about 50 single girls who have almost no dating experience and don't go to bars... Finally, I would never date any female who dated expats. Your guest Reekay has a reputation of pump and dump. I'm certain he has many stories about meeting Filipinas.

Guy's what you are talking about is not groundbreaking, but for some of us old guy's is refreshing! When I spent a large amount of time in the Phil"s in the early and mid 80's it was the same! At first as a young man you run amok with every girl that paid you interest! Yet as you aged and became wiser you became much more selective, back then you didn't have social media to deal with! It was boot's on the ground and face to face, most guy's never travelled outside Olongapo or Barrio! After trial by fire and wanting something different you push out past where 75 percent will go and you discover something completely different! A whole new world and it was amazing at that time! A pace of life that is very enjoyable and refreshing, a people that was very friendly and just great to be around! It is enjoyable to see your take on it in the more modern age, so I hope you keep us up to date on your experiences! Yet my biggest hope is you keep it real and never fall into the trap of clicks and likes for money! It sure seem's that is the way of thing's these days, selling your soul for money! These people deserve so much more than that, so if you think I enjoyed my time amongst the people of the Philippines you would be correct! Yet someone should be forthcoming with those travelling abroad that you face the same challenges, as anywhere on this little blue rock we call home!

Reekay has been there and did it and been doing it for many years.. he has had his failures and put them out there on his RU-vid channel for everybody in the world to see and learn from.. I have learned a lot from him and I will thank him personally when I finally meet him.. I would call him the wise older owl of the three.. all of their channels have good information 😊😊

Good info once again Gio. What ever happened to your friend Sean who was living in Cebu ?

Very interesting! Please do a part 2 and 3! 👍

What was with the sound, it kept going up and down (not a biggie but annoying). Great meeting, you could do a couple of editions of this and maybe have the Filipina Pea interview you? LOL

55 million women in the Philippines. Clearly all 55 million have given up on marriage and serious dating. I'm messing with you... :-)

Thank you for the content Gio, it is very informative. Queston: What modern city do you think is best for expats when the expat doesn't want to be around a lot of well, expats.

How nice to see Reekay and Norwegian Paul. Three guys is ideal for an interview. Think too many of girls are getting too "experienced". Good subject matter. Thanks, Gio.

AI according to a Oxford University study the Philippines will use over one million jobs in the next 3 to 5 years. Increasing the dating pool

Does maybe seem that way to some. Perhaps it is more rare than it used to be in certain areas ? Location or regional areas likely differ in the availability of what many men seek.

Gio I really have a hard time understanding why any American man would want to travel to the Philippines to find a woman. There are 2.2 million Filipina women in the US alone. The largest concentration of them are in places like California, Washington and Hawaii to name a few. I met my Filipina 37 years ago in California, although she was raised in Hawaii. We’ve been 36 years Kasal (married). Finding a good Pinay isn’t really hard here. Plus you don’t have the added burden of “ Utang na loob”. Anyway, I’m not trying to beat you up. I’m just stating things as I see them. In-fact I’d like your take on what I just said.

Thanks. You guys really provided tons of helpful info.

Very pertinent information on this video, I already have the one I want but would be following your guidelines if I didn't. 🥂

Great to see the 3 of you together. 🤭😊 Great to hear your opinions. Enrique though, he summarizes the situation so accurately lol. My advice is to walk before you run! 🤭💪😅

Btw Gio the sound quality was poor, it was like you were using a hidden camera

Wow nice to see the three of you….please do a part 2 and 3😊

Seems like you and your boys have the common airport mentally but I also understand. Try to find a couple success stories and hear the other side. Just a simple comment. Congrats on the wedding

Considering the life changing choices you've made, the three of you should call yourselves "The Maximalists."

Nice to get three experienced expats together!

Thats a big misconception that you have to go out the city to find a good girl. Mostly hard working good girls are working in the big cities. Mostly province girls dont have jobs and stays at the internet all day long. I meet my girl at the coffee shop shes having coffee with her coworkers and i approach them had a friendly chats and the rest is history. When you find a good girl you find one thats it.

The more outside the cities you are the less likely she'll have a career job. The job markets are in the cities. This is not to say that you can't find a Filipina on her purpose outside of the city world but they are more scarce outside of the cities. It's truly unpredictable and the world of dating in general is very unpredictable and subjective on circumstances. There are no rules or set guidelines to follow.

great job guys!

Great interview both excellent guests 👍

Maybe it is the foreigner and not the girl

I live in Maigo and I’m the only foreigner there, love it!!!!

Great to see all 3 inn one time ,all the best from Norway

Great video guys

Reekay is the casey-cassum of Philippines youtube.🙂 ... on a separate note: we broke every 'dating rule' you mentioned 😁 we committed online, we met at the airport, and didn't date around the Filipina-pool. It could make a good video gio 😁 "they broke all the rules and still made it happen" 🙂 we're in Mindanao. Together for over a year total

I thought Paul was in my old stomping grounds, Saudi Arabia. I spent two years in Riyadh managing a construction project. Three old married guys.

Gio....just married! hmmm you already on the bus of the past?

Good video. So i guess the conclusion is the philippines is changing but its still a much better option than the west as far as dating goes?

Great to have all ,3 of you together...I have a question, if I go to Devo ,is there near by areas from there that would be safe, to find a woman

Great interview, Gio. I've never seen Norwegian Paul before, he seems to be an interesting guy. I plan on coming to the Philippines later this year for vacation, but at 75 years old I will want to mostly lay on the beach and relax. Maybe a beautiful Filipina will bring me some drinks.

Thousand's of Beautiful Filipina in the Philippines its not rocket science just stay away from places like Dumaguete

What about people like me who want to take a girl back to Europe? I only got maybe 4 weeks time of vacation, not 1 year „just for dates“

You need 3 mics. Just constructive. The audio is jumping.

Now this is the meet of a lifetime. Where is old dog?

Reeky back in Philippines..OK

3 good utubers, very good. Rekays expertise shines thru. No cap or sunnies on an overcast day. Rekay is the expert.

There are many many fine women within 40 klm of the city take a drive guys dumagute is a great place

I disagree with you I think the dating sites serve a good purpose

If you want to snag a good Filipina, don't look in the Philippines. Go to a place where there are ample OFWs, and meet them there. They work. They work hard and 6 days a week, and they send their income home, keeping very little for themselves. I met my (eventual wife) in Hong Kong. I visited her province alone (without her) and met her family. I learned Tagalog. My theme tune is "If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife, from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you."

Have some trips to Dipolog and Dapitan City, Zamboanga Del Norte 🎉 ❤❤❤

Wow! The Dream Team about the Philippines 🎉. Great Job Gio and congratulations Paul. 😊

I made that mistake of having someone meet me at The airport but after three days I was able to say goodbye to her since we were not s match. Good advise to walk away from the hotel and stay out there f the malls.,😊

It is for you all being married

Why has it gotten so hard to find a spouse? Is it because we have so many requirements and choices. Maybe arranged marriage wasnt such a bad thing.

Where is Sean ? Is he still in the Philippines?

Gua Lisi Duang yes most do have that fear

If I was living in the Philippines. I'd become like Leonado Dicaprio. Keep rotating woman & date woman under 25.

1:18 I found a qaulity girl on Pinalove, we have been together a year. We live in Illocos Norte

Gr8 Video Guys, the 3 Amigos back in the saddle again. :) gr8 to see you all together again, i plan to visit the Phz for 3 months in 24, visited for a month in 23 and it was gr8. Enjoy the holidays everyone and happy Thanksgiving to you all, and Blessings for all.

Don't go to the Phillipines you'll end up married. You been warned. 😂

What country is Paul the engineer from originally? He has a strange accent. Eastern Europe?

Wow

Good to see my favorite guys all in one place. Really enjoyed the discussion.

Get real why would a young attractive philipino be interested in someone in there seventy or eightys money dont kid yourself they dont love you just your wallet i know i speak from experience i was unfortune to marry one she scammed me i now live on my own with a maid that looks after me

Yes, relationships are a thing of the past for you married guys.😅. Otherwise there's plenty of quality girls in the province. 4 years ago now, I met a 19 year old Filipina from the province online. Had a 2.5 year LDR due to COVID to get to know each other. We're still madly in Love and living in the Philippines.

Great video again Gio - we guys outside watching that and learning a lot. What are you guys thinking about that true story and where are the red flags : A friend of me met a woman online - Single Mom , not working - he fly to the Philippines 🇵🇭 - only a few days - ( She picked him up at the airport ) they fall in love. 🥰 Home again he sells everything even the house and the cars and fly ( now retired ) back to her and her son. First month they rent a Condo, Now he bought land to build a house ( 60% her land ) I always tell him it’s too fast…..

Is there a place for nice guys in PH? Men of substance and character - not just intriguing because we are novel, exotic and have a good exchange rate? There wasn’t much said about BEING a good partner vs. finding one. That said, it was fun to have this glimpse into your conversation. Thanks for sharing!

Hayst....saan ko kaya ma meet ang aking husband material...😊😊😊😅😅😅

I never had those problems. I guess I am smarter then all of you. 🤣 3 years LDR. Got engaged 26 days after first meet. Living together one year. Still going hard. 🎉

Yes some Filipina are forgetting how is it to be a real Filipino I guess to much Westernize or too much American influence.

Is Paul back just visit or to stay ?

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