I think people who cheat would still feel bad about their partner doing it to them. But they still want a real relationship in their life, not just hook-ups
Sometimes your under the influence, maybe your pure pressures, or maybe your in a relationship but feel like exploring without wanting to break up….honestly couldn’t tell you
Choices have consequences if you get black out drunk and kill somebody in a car you still catching that manslaughter charge. No one forced you to get messy you can have a drink or too but if you turning up the bottle what happens afterwards is on you.
there's absolutely no way you compared cheating to murdering somebody. As someone who's been cheated on multiple times and never cheated on anyone, even I know that's dumb asf
@@tiiadica Obviously their not saying it’s the same, it’s just an extreme example of to how your actions have consequences. If you put yourself in the situation were you’re THAT messy you have no control over your actions, that’s on you and nobody else 🤷🏽♂️
Alcohol isn’t an excuse. Alcohol doesn’t change your character I’ve been black out drunk never cheated, I wouldn’t even let my wife take my shirt off once when I was black out drunk. If you cheat when you’re drunk you would cheat when you’re sober
That’s not really true. People I’ve known, me included have done stuff we’ve literally never done before or after while drunk other times I’ve been completely normal while black out. There’s not some magical behavior while drunk black out you’re guaranteed to do.
I’ve been mad drunk before and yes you feel looser, but your still have it within your character to do some sneaky shit. Like imagine a rapist or murder said “oh I was drunk” that doesn’t mean anything
Agreed I feel like part of being faithful means not putting yourself in a position to even be that drunk. I agree that being drunk means you can’t consent but that’s why I avoid putting myself in that situation. I’ve gotten black out drunk once in my life to where I don’t remember the night at all and all I’ve heard was stories about what I was doing. Thankfully I was only with family members who watched me the whole night. But I decided I’d never do that again because I don’t like not feeling accountable for myself. So I have a drink limit around people in public.
If getting black out drunk makes you have sex with strangers, shouldn’t you avoid getting black out drunk for your own safety? Why are so many people acting like it’s impossible to have a few drinks at a party and still maintain your self control? At least have a game plan with friends that make sure you stay safe. I know myself enough to know that I can have about 4 drinks to feel nice but still in control. Who wants to have “fun” when you can’t remember anything the next day and are all hungover?
People say watching porn is cheating….how?! My boyfriend stated that he doesn’t watch it anymore but sometimes he does and it was banned were I live but I watched it and we both don’t care because it’s just something to look at but we love each other. Also we communicate like crazy so it’s more so comfortable with someone you trust.
@@topdon.goldist watching porn isn’t cheating, it’s like reading a steamy romance novel except you see it yourself. It’s like saying watching a horror movie is murder lol
I’ve cheated young and dumb. Even when you don’t get caught it ruins the relationship fucks with the vibe. Maybe I’m just a serial single person or an in the closet polyamorous person. I just want the cheeks and now I don’t lie or cheat lol
@@zuluthesecond its about avoiding putting yourself in situations that could lead to something more. It doesn't doesnt go to 100 out of nowhere , it starts from somewhere. And many people let their guard down easily around others and end up in situations
@Rainbows so everytime u get drunk or high around someone it turns into something? That's insane to me Just exercise some self control and not get black out drunk
I mean when using the word "cheat" is defining it as a bad thing, but two people within a romantic relationship can agree to fuck other people if it gets boring or whatever
But even if you're blackout drunk, you generally act on instinct at that point & if your instinct is to fuck someone in that moment & you got a partner, you're not ready for commitment. Maybe I can't comment because when I'm blackout drunk my instict is survival 😭
