Just go outside man. I’m legit being honest, even by yourself. Hell, even working out I’ve meet a lot of people that I get good advice from and still talk to this day. Not everything gotta be romantic, just find people you’ll enjoy doing stuff with.
I feel bad for those who lack social skills to find a partner. But those who join incel sites and blame women for their inability to find a partner is so scary
I have a friend who’s never kissed a girl but he don’t have an attitude about it like this, and to blame women is so lazy, it’s basically admitting they don’t want to put in any effort to attract women and they should just want to be with them because they will “be nice to them”. That should be a basic thing you should do for most people, not the greatest thing you can offer in a relationship. Girls like bad boys because they do shit and are fun, sitting on the couch watching tv then being asked to have sex awkwardly isn’t something most women want that’s boring
Ong im a 21 year old virgin (I kissed a girl so not the same situation) and I don’t bane women I blame my lack willingness to talk to people idk how dudes ever get to it’s the women’s fault stage
These are the guys that will complain that women "don't like nice guys and only go after guys who treat them like trash" when they aren't genuinely being kind because it's the right way to treat people but because they expect the women to go after them in exchange for treating them "nice". Guys like this will have nothing going on in their lives from their careers, dreams, social skills, personality, etc. and be mad because girls aren't falling for them.
You dont have to be a 'bad boy', just practice conversational skills, genuinely love and take care of yourself first before trying to love someone else and put an effort into making new friends. Relationships come naturally afterwards. Now if all you're looking for is sex, then yeah follow the comment above me and just 'get money' lol
The easiest solution is to go outside and meet people and stop giving a damn about getting a girlfriend/boyfriend. Hell, depending on how your coworkers are, you can become friends with them and meet their friends, potentially getting with someone. I recently joined the Air Force and have met awesome people from working with them or going out and meeting people where i hang out. Either thats playing volleyball at the gym, hiking, or playing airsoft. The best advice that i can give is get used to being by yourself and stop putting emphasis on getting a partner. If you get one you get one, if you don't you don't. It is what it is.
thats what im saying,,, life is way more than just having a partner. finding an hobby and building that up to better yourself will stick forever than looking needy for a GF
I watched this months ago and didn’t realize a lot of the trends on tik tok stem from incel ideology. Like having a positive canthal tilt, the face checking etc…
I used to work with a guy who has severe eczema, it can get so bad that his entire head, neck & upper body will be covered in rash with parts of his skin flaking off. Despite having a condition that would completely demoralise him, he still goes out & finds women who are willing to be with him. There are people who genuinely have some sort of mental problem that stops them from being able/learn to socialize, but i feel the greater majority of incels/femcels just don't want to try.
I think these dudes have the tism it is kind of evident because they have severe social issues. There’s a massive difference between social anxiety and can’t determining social cues etc.
I know autistic people who are fine and have got loving relationships. Maybe its not you but generall speaking people blaming all these social issues on autism is just weird
@@tofuteh2348 I am friends with people with autism and they aren't like these guys but struggle with socializing. Some people just have bad social anxiety. Who knows
Get good at things that you actually enjoy doing. Go outside and find an existing community surrounding that. Learn how to be friends and get along with anyone. Focus on your own health and well being. Learn more about yourself. You think therefore you are. "I'm brave and confident, therefore I am". Be your number one supporter.
From being rejected constantly, it’s really how you present yo self and I had to be honest about the guys I wanted to date; “bad boys” just understand how to get a girl by doing simple things that ppl who don’t like you don’t do, it’ll get you hook if you aren’t aware and have low self esteem. Create a personality and to remain humble and kind; be confident in what you love and someone will come to fill in the pieces, don’t feel entitled nobody’s obligated to date you because of what you have or do. Just be chill and well spoken be confident not cocky, be a asshole ina comedic way understand your social cues. While also maintaining your mental and physical health. A funny guy still get the ladies.
Half of 'em would benefit from a trip to the barbershop and a clothing store. It's simpe ... on the surface. For these types, lack of social skills is the biggest struggle for 'em.
I didn't realize how long the incel and pack analogies have been used in dating and relationships like this. Only matter of time before it becomes cliché
i was laughing so hard the lights of the whole condo went out, praying my 25% battery left and mobile data carry til the end of the video or at least till the lights come back
Mr. C has had 2 gf's since the movie was shot but has generally remained private about it. UWT, the pickup artist, had a gf but nothing else has come out While the long hair guy moved to China
I have an idea for the first kid… Spot on about looks for a guy doesn’t matter for real!!! This guy has no confidence in himself whatsoever, but one thing he could do is goth put some lipstick on and lean into it and believe it or not. I think he would find some girls out there that would be interested because he kinda has that androgynous good looking lady boy!!!
As someone whose hometown was boring, i can guarantee some places are 10 years behind the rest of the world. Although this looks like 2001 it was actually 2011
