@@osku2290 nope. He would take away his daughters autonomy to decide when she is ready to date but would not interfere with his sons autonomy. That is straight up sexist. This whole narrative that a girls virginity has to be protected (but not a boys) is really harmful.
@@greenbandit6691 I agree, I understand to the extent that girls are generally more likely to be targeted by bad people, but just saying never isn't a logical solution.
@@lennycurlis849 It ain't sexist. It's just all dads. Like if your son falls and breaks his bones, dads are like walk it off. But if the daughter falls and just grazes her knee, dads be like honey let go to the hospital
Imagine turning 16 and finally being allowed to stay at home alone while your sibling who's 14 was already allowed to stay home alone since they were 12.
@The Stranger true I mean I’ve been allowed to stay home alone since like 6 but at the same time I wouldn’t trust my kids same as I wouldn’t trust myself lol
hey my parents are strict heres 1 example when I was young my parents once forced me to drink coffee even tho I was to young the punishment for not drinking it or eating it with a biscuit= I’m grounded( my mom is extra strict sometimes( my dads slightly more strict although the things he give me are worth it
He not worried about his daughter. He’s worried about what other people could do to his daughter. A boy could most likely protect himself against anyone. Boys also can’t get pregnant
I mean, my father told me he'd let me drive when i turn 18, i started learning to drive on his car when i was 11, it comes from gut feeling that your kid is ready for something
@AP8140well then that's ur fault as a parent. U shouldn't be allowing her to go on a date with a 35 year old man 💀. She should be going out with kids her age
Bro by his sense he can probably watch his son get beat to a pulp and die but he can't take it when it makes his daughter sad or cry. So you're the ones at problem here not ready to understand their intentions and always rebellious.
@@youre764 ah OK you don't plan to be a parent makes sense. I'll try break it down for you. Men and women are different you can't raise them the same so cope.
Girls mature faster than men, therefore we should be able to stay home alone at the same age. And if your son wants to date girls then there wont be any to date if they cant date. ✨ Logic ✨
@AP8140 13 to 14 is not unreasonable. Most girls dating around that age and it really helps them learn skills later in life. It's not unreasonable at all they are a teenager. Obviously they don't have to date but it should be an option. I'm no out of my mind lmao I see 6th graders dating all the time. Which I think is a bit wild but I can't speak for other people. 13-14 is acceptable, they are old enough to understand how a relationship works and if there are boundaries then it's fine. schoolwork is barely and issue lmao
@AP8140 nah I'm in school now. And it's not a huge issue. But some of that makes sense. I think they can if they have time for it. But Im not just going to say no jus bc they are 13 or 14
@AP8140 I can agree with It's easier to focus and is part of the reason why I'm not really looking rn. But my opinions are changing. But saying that they won't hold a relationship for longer than 2 weeks isn't necessarily the case. I know tons of people my age and younger that can hold relationships for months and they can't drive either they just see each other on the weekends and hang out in school. Like my best friend he held a relationship for like 6 to 7 months at 14. But fun story Mario kart a dub fr 😂
bro y’all gotta stop. y’all aren’t funny. “iTs NoT tHaT dEeP” you’re 12😐 it really messed up and really isn’t funny. i don’t get why someone would joke ab such things as double standards when it really does exist edit: to all of u spamming it’s not that deep, stop you’re not making a change in what i said and i still stand by it. edit2: y’all still going?😂😂
I’d say the double standards are what makes him make them different, girls are treated a lot different than boys. If a boy is home alone and someone breaks in they’re way more likely to think they could be dangerous than a girl which is a sucky double standard but unfortunately exists and our feelings don’t change that 🤷🏾♀️
@@CalAgrii I think the idea is that a boy would be able to defend themselves better, which is biologically true, but if an adult breaks in, the kids getting annihilated no matter the gender until highschool. And if the intruder has a gun… 🪦.
@@winchesters4life34 while I agree with you sometimes. If something genuinely upsets someone, don't sh** on them. Understand the angle they're coming from. 🙄
@@mikuu144 first of all, I refuse to take anyone seriously who ends a comment with an eye rolling emoji, and secondly, there's nothing to get offended at, as his whole schtick is that he says something wacky in response to these questions. like how he said in one that he prefers chicken raw, or in another that he doesn't shower. it's just a joke and that's all. a joke that plays on the reality of overprotective fathers. that's it. it's not that deep. so I'm not shitting on them for being upset, I'm shitting on them for acting like something that was clearly satire should get the poor dude canceled. it couldn't be more clear that he was joking. you'd have to have a room temperature IQ to believe that this man is somehow sexist.
I am a child from 9 - 16 years old, here are mine: 1. At what age would you let your kids date? I have to say probably 14 years old, not mattering what gender, and I have to know them. 2. Sleepover at a friend's house? probably 6 years old, if I am *friends* with their parents. I just need to know their parents after being like 10 years old. 3. Social Media I would allow my kids to be on RU-vid *kids* at 6 years to 10 years old. I will allow them to get on RU-vid once they hit 11. (screen time limited and monitored) 4. Staying home alone I will allow my child to stay home alone for and hour or more if they are comfortable with it, at the age of 13, making sure they have the device to call me right by them. 5. Watching rated R movies. This depends on whether they are sensitive to scary movies. I would let them watch Rated R movies at the age of 14. 6. Cursing 0 - 10 No. 10 - 13 Only the H word. 14 - 16 Only to music. 16+ Alright, just not in my house. 7. Drink caffeine I mean, I'll let them try it when they're younger, but I doubt they'll like it. I guess I'll let them drink caffeine at like 12 - 13. (like starbucks)
For the dating one, The son is more likely to not be abused or taken advantage of, And for the home alone one, Let’s say a robber enters their house. If the son is there, The robber will most likely just steal items, If the daughter is there, The robber would most likely rape the daughter as well.
If your son dates someone he shouldn't have, all he gets is a heartbreak. If your daughter does, she might end up with a baby. Teenagers are hornier than discord mods, and they are probably too embarrassed to buy a condom, or just forgot about them, so yeah.
Dude y’all are punks.bro it’s like that tho for a mom she don’t won’t her son doin sht and for a dad he don’t want his daughter doin sht like it’s just like that
@@Savage-v3 so parents can’t equally love their children because they have to love the one that’s their gender? at this point your becoming the sexist one lol.
Dads are much less strict on their sons because they already know how bring a kid/teenager is like at that age, and typically try to let them be more free and have more fun.
It’s not fair for the daughter because she has to stay home like it’s jail( PARENTS please treat both son and daughter the same way let them go to a friends house and don’t make the daughter cry and ground them because they just want to do something outside and play with their friends or whatever they want to do but if they don’t want to do the thing that you tell them just let them do it later ✨)
But seriously I don't speak English very well so idk if my sentence was clear I mean, since I was 3, I used to come back from nursery school and stay at home alone waiting for my parents to come back from work If I misspelled the sentence, please correct me
Go leave your 12 yo daughter home alone and see how things go. My parents left me home alone since age 12 went perfect they always came back to a clean house. My sister was homealone first time at age 15 for first time. She invited all kinds of friends and the house was a mess because nobody wanted to help her clean. Ofcourse this is 1 situation but it kinda does proof a point.
@@thursdaytractiontuesdaytit1325 ofcourse that why I said its ofcourse only 1 situation. In general I do think its normal to let your boy be home alone at an earlier age then your girl. Ofcourse depends per individual. Yall acting like men and women are the same which they are not.
@@ButtaToastIsEpic I never went on a sleepover or a friends house ever either, there was a time when a close friend of mine invited me to her birthday but my dad didn't let me go, i was very upset, but later I found out Some child traffikers kidnapped a kid in her neighborhood and also her Home tutor was addicted to weird stuff online and was a creep and overall a VERY creepy neighborhood. Thank God i never went there as a child cuz my "dora the explora type of personality" was gonna lead to no good. Sometimes we dont realize that parents using preventive measures such as restricting somethings for us is actually for our good, otherwise its easier to just neglect your kids safety and let them wander on the streets whenever they want. We realize this stuff later on in life but i realized at 14 Thankfully. I dont hate them. Though i do think sometimes its stupid to get babied like that but i trust them, better to be safe than sorry.
Tbh I feel like parents should start giving their daughters more independence. Like they should be taught how to fight or smth lol at least instead of them never being able to go out like take them boxing.
“At what age would you let your kid be born?” Him: My son whenever the water breaks and he is ready to come out of the womb. My daughter when she is 100.
@@panmichgaming if you don't want protection , then good for you.. but don't "speak" for all the girls out there.. trust me they don't need you to speak for them.. (i'm not here to judge)
@@sirultor648 Okay. Then he shouldn’t be surprised when the daughter starts treating him differently when she gets financial independence. Off to the nursing home for old pop’s 👋😢
I am a young lady (21 years) in South Africa. It seems like you will be a great father in the future. Don't worry about what others say. Girls need to be extra protected, more especially in these days. My mom was and is very protective of me and I'm grateful for that. I avoided a lot of things because of that ❤
Overall, it might not be fair for the boy but i’m the parent at the end of the day and this gen z shit about “the girl can do whatever she wants” can go cause they can make they own decisions when their like 25+
Date: 16 (Boy) 17 (Girl) Sleepover: 5 Social media: 10 Home alone: 12 R movie: 15 Curse: Outta the womb Caffeine: 10 (yes I want my kids to be coffee addict like me)
I get if it’s a slight difference because they are being more protective but WTF I think it is still sexist. Like what does slight body differences have to do with what age we will be able to stay home alone... dude is sexist
him: “if it’s my daughter, never” also him in the future: Penny, why aren’t you married yet? you’re 17! do you wanna live alone for the rest of your life?
@@Sohailhgfggggh6 bruh i meant to show how women most HAVE to have their life planned from the beginning to the end. -find a job at 16 -find a bf at 17 -get a house at 18 -marry at 19 -have a baby at 20 (it’s just an american stereotype, a lot of people have normal lives and found a boyfriend and married him when they’re both, it’s just that some adults are and will gonna treat their daughter like that)
@@mvjkaa same goes with men too. I’m a teenager, I would know. If I can’t drive and don’t have a job by 16 I’m pretty sure my dads kicking me out. Plus by 18 I have to move our. And if I don’t have a gf by 17 everyone’s gonna say I get no bitches 💀💀
I thought having different times to go to bed for ages was bad but "If it's my son *younger age*" "If it's my daughter *14-20*" ... I'm really glad my parents aren't like that
Because the daughter CANT be as strong and independent as the son 💀 there are gender roles women can do some things men can do others one gender is not superior over all but either can be superior in certain things.
As a 12 yer old, this is my opinion. 15 11 6 11 11 I'm Sri lankan and althouse cursing infront of friends is normal for 9,10 y.o, cursing infrot of parents is not socially accepted even if it's a 30 y.o man according to culture. No limit
"When are they allowed to eat?" Him: for my son, whenever he's hungry, but my daughter will have to wait until she's 20 Edit- Jeez I just started a war in the replies
My opinion as a young adult w/ no kids yet- -Date: ~14/15 (depends on there personality’s and if they could stick up for themselves and communicate any issues there having) also would have to have talks about red flags and issues to look for heavily beforehand. Tho most kids will do as they please. -sleepovers: ~11/12 (once they hit middle school), want them to be mature enough and prepared about abuse or unsafe situations that could happen at others houses friends or not. -Social Media: +RU-vid Kids: ~7 +RU-vid: ~10 +Others: ~13/14 (Sometime in middle school probably 🤷🏻♀️) Would want to slowly Introduce the internet and media at a younger age and talk about the positives, negatives, and dangers before I throw it at them. My parents never talked about the dangers they just gave me technology and let me do whatever I wanted and I don’t think I was prepared at all for most of anything concerning these questions. -Home Alone: ~10 (really depends on the kid and where we lived; gonna treat a city apartment different then a house in a small town). They have to be able to know how to not blow up the home, my number, and what to do in emergency’s -R rated movies: ~13 for swearing and gore (Once you hit middle school your gonna hear a bunch of foul stuff anyways) ~15/16 for anything that shows more skin/nudity, I would make sure they know about body’s and reproduction by then so they don’t make bad decisions/exposed to how normal these parts of us are. My parents didn’t want me to be afraid of seeing parts I already had/ normal parts of a human being (saw a movie of a naked lady getting into a bathtub; 1st nudity in media) -Cursing: ~10/12 (As long as they arnt using it at someone else and it’s nothing that pushes the line, swearing is a normal part of all languages) -Coffee: Try some in upper elementary on occasion but nothing consistent till high school. (Coffee can be addicting and in the long run not the greatest long term financial expense).
@@anokartist2352 do you not realize the consequences that can happen dating young what if your 14-14 year old daughter got pregnant then what. A male doesn’t have to deal with the damage that pregnancy can do especially when not mature all those extra hormones and changes to the body ain’t good plus what about there education
My opinion! Date: they can have a crush at any age but dating is like at 10 Sleepover: at any age as long as they ain’t strict parents Get on social media: at 4 sounds good 👌 Stay home alone: at 8 with cameras around the house Rated r movies: 9 because a lot of them are weird Cursing: at whatever age idc Drink coffee: at 10 :) The end!
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu there is no guarantee abt this. Also, maybe if this did happen, I wonder why. Maybe because the dad is keeping his daughter in a prison
@@Kskdidkkj... This is sexism. 2nd of all, No not really. In fact we can handle more pain considering we have period pain almost everyday, Are more sensitive to pain plus we have to give birth 🤔
@eyeofthepyramid wtf is wrong with you💀I'll never get people like you, where tf did you get this statistic from?! Dudeee you really need to check your brain, there must be something wrong because what the actual f did i just read?
