Bhad baby , chrisean rock and blueface and ekane and Chris. Are all in relationships where they have toxic partners Follow my instagram: www.instagram....
Social media has distorted all our minds. Why have we normalized this. I can only imagine what teens and some adults watching this type of content think violence in relationship is okay and a form of love.
Not all of us. Some of us don't normalize this type of behavior but rather push against it. We're looked at as jealous or bitter or something along those lines.
One part of this video that really stuck with me is how easy it is for people to be so easily swayed by lovebombing videos in these abusive relationships. If viewing small snippets of those romantic moments causes so many people to blindly fall for the perpetrator's manipulation, imagine being the victim in the relationship.
@@archivesunset4214 emotionally and mentally they may never move on, but for the sake of their physical well-being (and their children’s) they should leave. it’s sad to think these women feel as though they don’t deserve any better, but it’s even sadder to think they don’t think their kids deserve any better. i’m sure on a conscious level they fear for the safety of their children, but realistically that means nothing if they’re not willing to do anything about it. it’s incredibly dangerous to leave your abuser but the alternative is staying with them for life, which in many of these situations isn’t any better.
@@ahmarindungu9010 I had a friend like this and cut her off I’m sorry and I am not victim blaming but people like this don’t be good people/ friends. I told her about her toxic relationship because she asked and she got mad at me so I told her to stop talking to me about her relationship issues and she called me out my name and then played victim to our other friend so I lost two friends
the definition of “victim” is “a person who is deceived or cheated”, not “a person who is deceived or cheated who doesn’t monetize their abuse”. they’re still a victim at the end of the day
With the Draya and Ari situation, I was so focused on the gun violence aspect that I didn’t pay any attention to the fact they said “I want him to like me so much…”, this is their idea of love & ur right, it’s probably what they’ve seen.
I hate that so many people are addicted to trauma and drama. This is the result of getting internet "fame" from unfortunate situations. Now those people are constantly seeking the attention they get for poor decisions.
Sorry don't believe that.. Do you believe that seriously? I mean for real, do you believe that of yourself? Were you ever in love in the wrong relationship? I mean in the beginning honeymoon phase, were you searching for love you dreamt of and thought you found a perfect partner for you or were you searching for a partner full of chaos and unnatural treatment for you because you felt like that's what you deserve... Sorry I just feel like you should elaborate more on this topic
Yeah they like it that’s why they don’t leave 🤷🏼♀️ they love the money and drama that comes with it and some actually have a “thing” for it behind the scenes
@@ButterfacedBriI really don't think anyone actually deep down " likes " being abused... Like and what's " a thing" mean? Like a fetish? I feel like people will do some crazy shit for money and disrespecting one's self is at the top of the list of it and that is sad to me
@@jenniferrhyder568 yes the f word you said…I like rough stuff that people would call toxic but some women are into more extreme stuff 🤐 People have fantasies that you wouldn’t believe
Are they victims? Yes. Letting a man do you this way and think you’re getting clout is literally a DV mindset. Dv victims don’t make the best decisions < no shade
Problem with bad bhabie is if your going to stay with that man dont expose him. Now she looks worse than him. Guessing from her logic she feels exposing him will change his behavior.
agreed but i have to wonder if she’s leaving a paper trail to her abuse… scary to think about but if that man ends up k*lling her, we’ll know exactly who did it. it’s unfortunately very common for victims of dv to leave documentation of their abuse in case anything happens.
@@ButterfacedBri if you are abused by your partner, you are a victim of dv. being a victim of dv doesn’t mean you can’t be complacent or enable the abuse, it just means your a victim of dv. that’s it.
Yes I love this video. I always feel like I’m in the twilight zone because the comments normally disagree with my thoughts and opinions and make me feel like I am some odd lonely duck and in the wrong when really it’s just the algorithm playing kind games with me. That’s why I always do my own research when people present me with information because not everyone with a mic and Camera is an expert.
I thought about telling my story, and I believe my heart was in the right place, but I didn't want that to be what people knew me for. I didn't want to be labeled as "the victim" even though those things happened. So I decided not to do it. I am happy I didn't do it, though. Best decision.
Totally agree. We call these toxic shows and people " guilty pleasures" but as adults we slowly copy them. I stopped watching reality shows when Evelyn Lozada jumped across the table. I told myself I'd never be friends with these type of women in real life so why feed it to my soul. I used to feel heavy. Same way I stopped certain rap and pop music and been selective. It helps your cognitive perception and mood. Save ourselves because these corporations aren't trying to preserve us 😢
The girl begging her abus3r to come over is crazy. I'm convinced that some of these women in these abus!ve relationships enjoy the toxicity because they don't love themselves. How are you begging your so called abus3r to come over and beat you???! Nahhh
There’s definitely a lot of cognitive dissonance in the comment section…no one is saying these women aren’t victims, however, they are capitalizing and romanticizing domestic abuse!!! Can two things not be right at once? These women are definitely grown enough to know better and do better for their kids…
Youre not married and hes hitting you? there is no excuse to stay though. you cant even get a ring and you think he is gonna change when you stay? no you need to hear this. i had to leave and you need to leave.
I agree with you but I do have a question? Does it matter if a person is married or not when they are experiencing DV with their partners? Domestic V is wrong either way. No disrespect 🌞
Another banger. It’s so interesting how you can discuss topics that are popular but come at it from a different perspective. It’s refreshing! Love from Dallas Texas ❤
The Ekane video was terrible and Chrisean is just as abusive as blueface so I feel nothing for her and I always feel for people who get abused but definitely not her. I
Love your content! But I will counter that I don’t think at the time these women post about their abuse or go online to broadcast it, they have the intention of trying to gain views and popularity. I don’t think monetizing the moment is on their minds. They just want the validation. Plus I’m not sure if posting the abuse has actually helped their platforms grow. If it’s a viewer like me, I’m going to watch less- not more. Just a thought.
I get this but influence happens everywhere. You have to have a strong mind. I mean that’s all that happens in school is the kids are influenced by others and trying to Matter, and see where they stand. Some parts of social media is nothing but a do-over of elementary, middle and highschool. That’s just my take on it.
Every single one of these people has obviously been through alot of pain and trauma. With no one to help guide them through it. This is what happens when you don't protect kids, physically, emotionally and psychologically. This is a "rather the devil you know" situation 💔. God heal them all.
All i can say is this, people accept the love they think they deserve if they feel like they should have more they get it but if they feel like they should have less than they have that
You’re a victim regardless if you’re monetized on social media or not. I don’t understand the purpose of this video nor the question because does this really need to asked? Like seriously, why would a woman be less of a victim of dv just because she makes money on social media?? Does that change the fact that she’s being beaten? And all the women in your thumbnail all got monetized before people even knew about the DV situations. I understand that they’re probably getting more views and money after the fact because the world loves to watch negativity, but this question is silly at best in my opinion and disrespectful to victims of DV. Y’all are also saying that no one feels bad once these women go back like y’all have never heard or researched Stockholm’ Syndrome. Like be please so serious and use your brains!
Doesn't matter this is why no one gets taken seriously because they go back especially when those people trying to help them which is not okay.. And have children just sick and disgusting putting them in that environment. The children are the real victims
@@asiaroderick3006 The women and the children are both victims. If you’re not willing to do the research on the mental behind domestic violence and going back to their abusers, then please just be quiet. You aren’t adding anything of value to this conversation, and you’re simply just talking out of the side of your neck.
@@karizmawise1200I said what I said their children did not ask to be here you're disgusting they are the real victims they should be taken away to a better family !! And this is why no one taken seriously !
@@karizmawise1200chissean rock is literally an abuser you're talking to the side of your neck ! She abuses her own dog your disgusting she was drinking when she was pregnant that child abuse !
@@karizmawise1200I said what I said the children did not ask to be here the children did not ask to be put in the environment !! They should be taken away to a better family period
sorry not sorry I don’t feel bad for these girls 🤷🏽♀️it’s one thing to not like your situation, making moves to leave the situation & staying away from the man but these girls make this their personality & make sure the dude is right there & they know it isn’t right yet they continue to stay
well the thing that is messed up is she has the means to leave but doesnt. i ran the first real chance i had and that means staying with my grandma who has dementia and its not at all fun but im not being hit anymore... so youre kind of choosing to stay a victim which idt is the same as a victim like we normies see our friends and family going through a lot of the time.they have a kid though so its different in that regard.. but you cant let your kids see you getting / partaking in abuse. that is abuse in and of itself.
1. I feel bad for Ekane but it’s hard when people don’t want to get the help they need , there was a comment that said “you can’t expose the devil and then protect him” 2. Generational trauma and Stockholm syndrome is a very real thing and I wish nothing but the best for victims 3. As much as you want to help some one you can’t save someone who doesn’t want to be saved 4. These clips of people promoting toxic/abusive behavior like drea and ari, as much as I hate it I think the best thing is to ignore them bc rotten fruit will fall on its own and god forbid but some people will unfortunately find out the hard way
THAK YOU THANK YOU 16:43 my parents aren't healthy my mom abuses my dad and ever time they have a Happy moment I still think about the abuse. My my dad went through with my mom yelled at him because he threw away my cake by accident. She called him slurs ☠️ I cant forget that
I find it disgusting that these people make these videos of being abused or abusing someone else and desensitizing abuse and putting it all over the Internet for younger people to view and think this kind of shit is normal or something. What happened to being a good role model? This is what is wrong with people!! What goes up must come down, remember that!! The money they make from views and fans will still never be enough and money isn't shit when your whole being is degraded and humiliated time and time again! Have some self respect, like damn!!
a couple days ago on twitter there was a video of a girl fighting another girl cuz she was stalking her man and someone said how it should be. then i said no one should conduct themselves in that way there are better wways to handle that. so everyone was like i would want my "bitch" to do the same that shows how much she loves me and if she didn't i would question her love. i was saying to that that no i wouldn't want my woman to put herself in danger and risk her safety over me and if i would that means my love for her would be in question wanting that. then people just said so you saying that you would let a man mess with your girl or would get mad then i realized that people didn't know the difference between being mad and being physical. so i say this to say that young adults due to social media are normalizing toxic behavior in relationship and want there partners to be crazy and immature because they are confusing that behavior with love smh.
Everyone talking about ari and gherbo. And had sympathy for them because violence should not be in a true relationship especially with children involved. And once i saw dani posted kissing him but didn’t take that down yet the abusive posts down. I unfollowed once i seen her and him. Like and she’s younger than me!!
I think that I layer of this video is kind of victims blaming and I hope this video gets a part two for further conversation or taking down and redone.
Whaaattt??? That’s wild for you to compare people who go on live to talk about their present DV situations (showing autonomy and free will) with a situation where you’re literally trapped and due to be sold elsewhere. When people are trafficked, do they have access to social media to complain about the same situation that they keep themselves in? Are they able to talk to their thousand Subbies and maybe blink in morse code for help?? Just wondering.
