Honestly, I don't even believe she is HR. All she said was HR. Wyf do you do in HR? She let the 3rd guy give the details, and she looked as if she was unsure of what HR does
When the 36yr old popped her balloon and said “you’re the first guy, I’m waiting for others” I said to myself “she’ll be leaving this place with no one” 😭
Arlette is the epitome of elegance, class, and beauty. She is always dressed so impeccably. The lavender outfit is one of her best. All female guests should take cues from her.
The fist guy very very respectful i quote "i respect every person i meet". Despite rejection he still says good things about every lady that really shows respect i salute you brother
A true sucka. Women don’t like these kind of men regardless of what they say. Even in a previous episode one of the girls said that she would t want to date a type of man that be showering other females with compliments even worst if those same females rejected him beforehand.
As a 5’9er woman, sheeee as long as you are at least my height, I’m cool with that. Some of these women be reaching. Like fr, at 5’0, girl almost the world is taller than you. Be freaking for real lol
11:14 dude is clearly in shape.. paralegal last semester of law school (so has money).. about as as tall as Arlette he's 5'8" and you are 5'0" and 29 years old 🤣🤣🤣... this is why dudes get their passports ..
So true,,,you could tell he was feeling her even thou she popped her ballon prematurely.!! I was truly happy for them because she seems so sweet as well!!!
Yes on the surface they do seen like a cute couple but I don’t see them together long term only because he’s finishing law school and is well spoken. No shade to her but she doesn’t fit into those circles. She’s more like the homegirl, round the way type.
She makes us wake up and remember to happy for them!!! 😂😂😂 it’s crazy we get so caught up in the process that we can forget it’s time to celebrate like her 😅💯🙏🏽
Every time they say that, they don’t end up matching. You’ve seen the show before, if you see someone you like. Go for him, waiting till the end will have u still standing there when Arlette says thank you everyone for tuning in at the end of the episode
Yep. Just shows how wild it is out there being single. Respectful, career, in shape, no criminal record, and a gentleman doesn't go for what it used to lol.
@@meloran2571 Especially the one in green-she looks like robo cop without the helmet with that cranium. I don't why brothas wanna deal with black women as other women look better and have their real hair and treat u like kings!
1M views in a day is CRAZY WORK! EVERY episode is over 1Milly! Congrats to Arlette. Everyone is addicted to this show because it's genuinely the best. Classy & not trashy. Salute, keep going.
@@AyeGameBae I just think it’s bc of how she said “stick to the code” with no reason or solid explanation that just made me assume she was an airhead. But nah 100% right tho
The first gentleman was truly a gentleman....seeing the way someone reacts to rejection gives alot of insight into how they may be during a conflict. I love that he stayed super respectful and kind. He didnt take rejection as a personal attack.
I agree with you. You could come from a 2 family household that was toxic af and a single parent with lots of love. Doesn't necessarily determine how you'll turn out..
My mom called me recently. She said “Have you seen this balloon pop show? What’s wrong with these girls? They pop balloons for the solid men and keep their balloons for the simpletons.” 😂😂😂😂
She is delusional. Take that wig and triple eye lashes off and she might snap back to reality. Mean while, I’ll give her Prince Ajibola’s number. He sends me emails biweekly asking for 400$ in exchange for 4 million.
Arlette is an excellent host. The way she managed the show speaks volumes about her personality. She skillfully draws conversation out of the participants, making the show very engaging.
Agreed. A person is secure when they know what they want and have the confidence and conviction to pursue or wait on the right one. Insecurity is when you accept someone you don’t want just bc you don’t want to be alone.
I literally gasped and almost choked when he said the outfit is giving Rainbow😂😂😂 and the zoom in on NO SOCKS is absolutely incredible 😂😂😂😂 us the people appreciate the zooms 😂
I just became aware that this show even existed..I hate reality TV and game shows so for me to be intrigued is saying ALOT .I've been binge watching for about a week now..I have ventured over to other channels to check out the different brands of this game..And hands down Arlette got this on lock..I'm realizing the host sets the tone for the entire show.. Arlette is just very sweet and beautiful, very humble yet confident and graceful wit it.. Salute Queen
Bro the girl on the end got me Dying 😂😂😂He said no smokers. She popped her ballon and said I don’t smoke but I know people that do and it helps with there there ptsd so yea it’s a no for me wtf is going on???!
Most of the men on these shows are so respectful and kind and take criticism so well no rude come backs or nothing just straight up "yes very beautiful and I would approach her" so sweet lol
I am getting nervous vibes from her. Some people can’t think clearly under nervous and stressful situations.i don’t think she’s an airhead. Please have more compassion and grace for others
A man not wanting his girl to be an exotic dancer does not make him "insecure". It actually makes him very secure because he knows exactly what he wants. He doesn't want his girl around promiscuity.
@@evilcapcap4262 That’s what I’m saying man. Women always try to belittle men for having standards in a woman. I don’t wanna be with no stripper wtf. Imagine pulling up to a function with yo girl and niggas start saying “ain’t that so and so from the club”. Man hell nah
When I was a dancer I had a couple maybe like 2 men say that. You can’t do anything but respect it. And I completely understand. I can’t debate someone’s preferences and I didn’t. I had a bigger picture and dancing got me there. They definitely respected me and my hustle and my plan but they couldn’t be in a relationship with me while I was dancing and I completely get it. I would never call them insecure. Just respect each other. Name calling and assuming someone’s mindset is so immature.
The first guy seems genuine and sincere. I didn't think an individual being a law enforcement would automatically disqualify you. Especially with grown women.
Are you aware of the historical context as it relates to black folks and police? Also, I would like to ask what has caused you to develop an appreciation for the police?
I agree that he was very respectful and well mannered, simply a breath of fresh air nowadays. But I thought it's pretty obvious why women, especially grown women, would be wary of cops: they have all the legal means to destroy their potential partner's life if they want to.
Lets be lenient with each other. Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I really want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart now, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is big. I really miss her, and I'm determined to bring her back. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to fix things.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is valued. I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly.
As a woman i’m noticing the men balloon episodes they normally give the woman a chance to speak first before determining if they will pop. The women always pop their balloon for dumb reasons and then when asked why they popped they give dumb answers.
You can tell the difference btw the men and women. Men will humble accept the rejection and women will pop because they think they’re going to get rejected instead of letting it play out.
Being a man myself I have to say........Ladies!!!! You DO NOT want a man that makes you his top priority. You want him focused on his health, goals, finances, family and his relationship with God. As long as he makes you ONE of his priorities then you're good because you will reap the fruit from everything else that he prioritizes.
TO sit here and be in your mid 30's with 3 kids talking about you are selfish is crazy. You are on a dating show, and you are telling men you have absolutely nothing to offer them, but you want them to give you all of their attention and make you top priority. You don't even want to give him a kid, you are just looking for a dude to take care of you.
the guy in the white suit and the one before him were so nice. I'm so mad they turned them down. I wouldn't mind a date with either of them. They're so chill and I love it
Exactly this😂 You GOTTA be secure enough to apply for this show! I commend EVERY PERSON who has the guts to stand before other black folk & pretty much rush not being chosen PERSON after PERSON & whole being be judged literally square HEAD to ugly TOES and permanently be on the internet with those judgments publicly for EVER lol I could do it if it wasn’t RECORDED but whether they seem timid or not…round of applause from me for THE GUTS! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽🙏🏽😅
It’s Arlette for me 🙌🏾 her facial expressions, messy questions, funny comments, constant giggles, and pushing the mic up their mouths are my absolute favorite things about this show 😂
Pushing people so hard to answer a question that she knows will embarrass the participant. I get making sure the show is entertaining but sometimes she pushes it a little tooo far 😅
This guy is friendly but he's the type to scam you out of your entire bank account. Trust me. I have a friend that behaves exactly like him. He's a bs smooth talker
@@loverofhumanity So you know this person and somehow this guy reminds you of them with a few minutes screen time 🤔😂 damn that's a wild comparison considering you don't even know this guy