JazakAllah Mufti. Very relevant talk. After 20 years of marriage, there is still room for improvement. May Allah reward you and your team for all your efforts.❤ from SA.
Perhaps you did not mean to the way you said it but ADHD is not a light thing my brother. Please don’t throw that around so lightly. It is very hard to deal with. Someone with ADHD has a different brain structure and they can’t help it. Also it has nothing to do with having a good or bad marriage.
@@deFreijtas i hav a 10 yr old nephew with ADHD. I know first hand how hard it is to deal with . By ADHD, i meant the not so patient, very impatient, tik tok generation of nibba nibbis that are too hot headed , can't handle reality and aren't practical and always lives inside a fantasised bubble. All this i coined shortly as ADHD , even though i know it's a mental health issue/term.
I have question from mufti sb : in his lecture mufti sb mentioned lots of responsibility on men but on women he said only two things to look after his wealth and to provide herself to him . As far as we have seen women should cook for husband and look after his other needs,like getting his cloths ready etc . I’m (myself woman) really confused now as being married for 21 years . We have seen this as beauty in our marriage to cook to make his cloths etc . Now it’s time near to marry our sons and daughters, how can we teach this yu our daughters that you have only these two responsibilities and your husband has more . From lecture : husband has to provide for women at the level she was spending before marriage , he has to provide her own house if she doesn’t want to live with his parents . He can’t ask her to cook food for her and anything else bcoz food is one of basic necessity of life . I have been hearing that our girls are now becoming feminists and that Islamic feminists are more dangerous than normal feminists . Now I knew the reason bcoz they ask mufti’s about their rights and they are told only two responsibilities and they are done for ever . Then both struggle in marriage and eventually divorce . I always listen to mufti sb and love all of his lectures and bayans and the books that he reads and the silsila that he follows but this topic has made me confused .