When it comes to someone I have a crush on I'm always the one to make the first move. I don't even care. If anything it helps me get over them quickly if they don't reciprocate but at least they are given the information. I'm not gonna wait around and waste my time.
I don't know if it's an Intp thing but I realized I'm obsessed with efficiency in a way that puts me in trouble. Even if the issue is urgent I will delay things at all cost just because I don't feel confident in what's the best thing to do. It's awful
Yeah INTPs' cognitive function stack is Ti, Ne, Si, Fe, in that order. I think most types with the extroverted intuition (Ne) up high in their function stack can seem a bit ADHD, because their minds are always "channel changing" to different ideas and connections. It's likely when we get stuck in our Ti-Si (very introverted often isolated) loop that we seem more autistic.