Arranged Marriage & Expectations | Ft. Hina Azad 

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This video touches core of husband wife relationship,,very nicely presented, hats off

@@buddha2845 Thanks a lot

Instead I want to thank you for putting some unique points, which are key to success of a married life,my marriage duration is almost 30 years,and we fought over several issues, and some were very serious,, which could lead to divorce, infact,we still have many difference of opinions at this stage,but most of the time मैने उसका हाथ पकड़ रखा था क्योंकि मुझे शुरू से पता था कि वो थोड़ी बेवकूफ, नादान,जिद्दी स्वभाव की थी,पर थोड़ी सी समजाइस से पटरी पर आ जाती है, इसलिए दोनों में से एक को समझदारी दिखाना जरूरी है, यही बात आपकी वीडियो में मुझे पसंद आई👍👍👍

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Exactly yr

Absolutely correct ur thinking

Then find your love , don't do arrange marriage

Actually That's the problem ... Because usually mentality doesn't matches most of the time you will see that husband and wife are complimentary to each other ...

Absolutely right.Virgin deserves a virgin whether it is boy or a girl.

Exactly......Virgin Desreves Virgin...👍👍

Virgin deserves virgin .both

Ye sab jo boys upar comment kar rhe h or girls ko galat bol rhe h harami h sab

Right

Very well said Kavya and Thanks a lot for detailed information. You may like part 2. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-G01GIAtBhIA.html

actually that was Sati, Parvati in previous life

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शायद जो इंसान प्यार बाँटना जानता है वो हैप्पी रहता है । हर हाल मै

I am single or mai Khush huu

@@shilpaverma8684 india mein ho parents ek time mein shaadi karwa hi denge single rehne nhi denge !! dekh lena coz yeh indian society h and indian parents h!!

are Bhai bhai bhai 😂😂😂😂

Ghada khahika

@@ankitarawat7013 tumhare soch bhi sahi nahi hai kyu ki ladka faka hua use karna bala bastu ko nahi uthata jo ladki ladko ko saman nahi karti asha ladki se sadhi nahi karni chahiye kyu ki ladki me ladka se adhik kamvasna paisa ki bhukhi laccha ghamand hota apane ghamand ka samana khud ko bahut pada samajata hai ladkia purush se adhik charitraheen hai asha ladki sadhi nahi karni chahiye kyu ki ya ladki pati ka samana nahi karega khud par unka ghamand adhik raha ga ya ladki ya ghar todaga samaja jo stri apane pati ka samana nahi karti parivar ka saman nahi karta apna baccha ko nahi samajhti khud ko heroin manta hai asha ladki se sadhi nahi karna chahiye kyu aisha ladki se sadhi karna matlab apane purushta tum ladki ladko se jada ayyashi karti hai jo apane pati ke control me nahi hai aisha ladki khush bhi karati hai aisha ladki se sadhi karna tumhare keshi ladki se sadhi karna jivan barbad karna hai ma hama in ladkiyon se sadhi nahi karni hai

@@ankitarawat7013 me manta hu vargin ladki acchi hai asha ladki se sadhi karna jivan barbad karna hai hama aisha ladki ki jarurat nahi hai ladka jitna bhi kara yo ladka upar depend raha hai ladkiyon ki ajadi desh ki barbadi hai

@@ankitarawat7013 kyu hamare sanskriti me jo likha hai isha ladki se shadi karna chahiye hai yo ladki hamare liya tumhare jeshi ladki se sadhi karka hama kya milage

As a man in early 30s, I agree with you 100%. not married yet, Lived in foreign countries for years, But always stayed away from girls in this matter. I hope god will never disappoint me.

Ya thats true....but also guys who r virgin r also made fun of ....not only by boys.....also by girls who have actually lost their virginity and thinks thats cool and sign of manliness or it looks cool...

In my opinion.....anyone can easily lose virginity before marriage.....if they can wait till that.....its mature thinking....not like he/she couldnt do anything

@Aj mast jawab

A man have a testosterone Harmon ,man have a natural rights ,to satisfy him self. If a girl want to fuck , she is called prostitute

System pad dayange jai baba ki 😂😂

Maybe... But, some women are too busy building their career than sleeping around so... It depends.

@@jahnavirainlover I just mentioned about on a average.. there are always exceptions..

@@kavisiddu Yes :)

True

But they will check there background

@@saiprasad751 kahe ka background jo har time pe jhoot bolte h and shaadi ke baad sab paata chalta h!! jiske saath aap long time spend karte ho ussi se shaadi karo kam se kam shaadi se pehle hi sab samjh aa jata h and agar kuch galat nikla tho break up kar sakte ho but shaadi ke baad india mein divorce lene se achha zeher khana easy h!!

Correct

Dam correct man 👍

The whole concept of virginity is baseless and bullshit . Why would u want your spouse to b a virgin? A person's virginity doesn't represent anything.

@@navyapatil5055 If gf/ bf is legal then what is the purpose of marriage.? If human lives like animals then marriage should be overrate

@@navyapatil5055 it's personal choice, and you have no right to question it, virgin deserves virgin.

Mai agr shiv bn jaunga to vo kya parwati bn jayegi

@@ajaysingh-tg8eg mast bola dosst ..hehehe

@@ajaysingh-tg8eg nahi iska jawab ni milega kuinki vo hypocite hai

Yes look at himself first sin is sin for both men and women

boys ka chhoro pehle ye batao larki kai ghar kai log jaise ki bhai, baap ya maa ko pta chale to kya wo virgin nahi hai to kya bardast karengai wo nahi na to fir bhi larka to anjan log hai or agar larka virgin ho to kya larki virginity ki gurienty deti hai hameaha apnai side sai sochna akalmandhi nahi hai

u dont understand the reality of life. Why pay more respect to mother in our culture than father ? there is a reason. u r not educated about how a mother is important in rearing the next generation of humanity. U r only trained to compete with men and u developed ur masculinity. Its a disgrace for lifetime u have not understood the soft power of felinity.

Hum toh Shiv ke bhakt shiv jaise hi hai...par kya parvati jaisi ladkiyan bacchi hai kahi sansar mein.... ladkiyan Virgin kyu nahi hai...bcoz woh unki marzi thi shaadi se pehle virginity lose karna pasand hai...koi unka raoe nahi karta. Waisi ladkiya ab ki generation mein hai hi nahi ki joh shaadi tak intajar kare ye sab karne keliye. Apne pati aur saas sasur ko izaat de...ghar sambhalkar job bhi kare...agar pati ko uski job se problem ho toh job bhi chode de....aise ladkiya bacchi kaha hai... Agar simple si ghar sambhalne ki expectations rakho..toh bhi new generations hai duniya badal gayi kheke ..tumhari family...tumhara ghar...tumhare bacche kehke mein tumhari kam kiyu karu...mein existence hai ki nahi bolti hai. Means jab children pe haq jamana hota hai toh mere bacche ..mera ghar....mera pati...aur jab kam aaya toh sab tumhara/pati ka..👏👏 Hypocrisy ki had hoti hai Aur jaha tak rah sawal maa ke ghar mein kam karne ka toh woh toh ladki ki maa bhi karti hai...toh woh kya phir kamwali hui...aur aagar ladki apne maa-baap ke ghar maa ko help karti hai ...toh same help apni saas ko kare....waha uske Pati se kam nahi karwana chahiye....aur jab woh patni koi ladki ko janam degi...toh phir usi ladki se kam karwana chahiye. Ladka kiyu ghar ka kam kare. "Soch purani hai...galat soch hai " yeh sab kehna bas iseliye ki ek ladkiyon ki generation ne keh diya ki woh ab ghar ka kaam nahi karna chahte.🤣🤷 Aise hai toh ladko ki generation ne bhi shaadi nahi karni chahiye...aur live in relationship ko support karna chahiye.✌🏻 Bcoz agar ladki "Patni" jaise nahi rehna chahti aur "feminist modern world" ke jaise nakre mein rehna chahti hai.. toh Pati kiyu aise ladki ke sath shaadi karke unake nahkre jhelta rahe. Woh bhi free rahe alag alsg ladki se relationship rakhe keliye .. Ladki ki asset unki beauty hoti hai....🥰 Ladke ka asset unki property💸💰 or relationship status...agar single hai toh ladke ki demand high hai warna nahi. Toh ladki ko freedom hai apni beauty show off karne ki koi bhi kapde pehen ke.💃...toh ladke ko freedom kiyu nahi apne maan ke hisab se ek je jada ladkiyon se shaadi karne ka.🎉🥰 Phele ek adami ki 2,3 patiniya rehti thi legally allowed tha polygamy...toh tab ladkon ko kitna demand tha ...sab ladkiya chup chap shaadi ke bad apne pati ki har baat manti thi...unko dar tha ki pati dusri patni ke pass nah chala jaye. Toh yeh ladkon ka freedom kiyu china gaya...unki life unki marzi....ladkon ki koi existence hai ki nahi🤨🤨🤨😉 Agar in ladkiyon ko thodi si freedom or Equality kya dedi... yeh ladkiya ab sab law and democracy ke seer pe bhet chuki hai ...ab lagta hai inko hila ke nichee girana hoga. Ladkiyon jaise yehsaan phramosh log kahi aur nahi hote .

Hum shiv hai aur Hume parvati hi chahiye

Hum sab me mahadev baste he...aur Mata Parvati prakrati he...unko Mera sat sat pranam...

Parvati yadi prakriti hai, toh Mahadev bhi param Satya hai...aur Prakriti ko anta mein Param Satya mein hi vilin hona hai...ek hona hai... Yadi Stri swayam ko Prakriti ka roop manti hai. toh use Prakriti ki tarah komal, dayalu aur Agyakari hona chahiye....Aur usee bhoolna nahi chahiye ki har Purush bhi us Shiv ki tarah hona chahiye jiske sath hamesha Satya ho.

Ysyyhujjj .. L 00

Khud k sis p bt aai tb smjh aata h ldko Ko

true af

BAS YAHI TOH BOYS SOCHTE HAI KI KHUD KUCH BHI KAR LEKIN LADKI SAAF HO KAI BAAR LADKI BHI GALT HOTI HAI AUR LADKIYA SOCHTI HAI KYA FARK PARTA HAI "WO LADKA KONSA SHARIF HOGA " BEFORE MARRIAGE PLS AVOID SEXUAL ACTIVITY APNI AUR APNE MAA BAAP KI IJAAT KA DHYAN RAKHO

Hm ram jaise hi hai quinki hm apne career pe focus karte hai lekin hamara point of view rakha hi nhi jata hm kuch puche to choti soch lekin salary ke basis ladke se minle jaye to modern vichar waa

Shukriya Ji

@@ashayeinfilms Ghatia channel

Gatia channel

Yes that's right. I am virgin and need virgin girl only or I will marry with rape victim.

@@AdityaRaj-gj4dl dude better to marry a gal with pure soul.. is that one hymen is so imp. For u.. and being virgin is or not is Ur choice and Ur decision .. jab sab Kuch hi update kr rhe ho toh dimag bhi update kr lo. And we r humans not shiv and Parvati so plz don't compare with them. Unse hum bane Hain. Hum kbhi wo Nahi BN skte..

@@priyayadav1548 saaf saaf bol na ki tu non virgin hai

Yas you are right 👍🏻

@@priyayadav1548 I have no interest in sex before marriage. There I said it.

Nice one bro ..well said.. similar of ny thinking 😀

Toh kya tere jaise so called modern ladke baan kar randi se shaadi kaare.. Ha par woh girls clothes n work se stop nahi karna cahiye.. par characterless ko modern hona nahi hota..

Good Man....

Saale jab infection hoga na tab pta chalega

Nice 👍 may god give you a non virgin girl god bless you😊🙏🏻

What's wrong with it? Konse jamane me ji rahe hai?

Watch part 2 here ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-G01GIAtBhIA.html

Good 👍 bro

Yes ❤❤

True

Aa gya dharmik keeda

Thank You

@@ashayeinfilms Thank you very much that you liked my comments. It gives me pleasure and motivation.

@@ashayeinfilms many thanks.

Thank you very much that you liked my comments. It gives me pleasure and motivation.❤️

Yeah. I'm a virgin boy myself. I have no interest in sex before marriage. I know I'll have arranged marriage so I will tell the girl that I'm virgin and I expect her to be virgin. If she's not then I will leave. It's just gender equality

well you have written a paragraph and with such good quality of language thats great However i agree to your thought

I agree you all but not in one case.Just tell me if a girl or boy marries for what so that they can live together or to get some personal space😂.It's true that personal space is important for everyone in the life but for the personal space separating from one another(whether for long or shory period)without any cause it's ridiculous.i will give you my own family example my uncle is DM and he always gets transfer.So he decided that his wife and son would live in his hometown inspite of living with him.So that his study is not affected due to the transfer.Dont take it otherwise. I have told this because your sense of saying wasn't appropriate.After marriage the life becomes hectic not only for women but also or I belive more for men.Because you have to care and see your family.

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Sahi bola vai..

Isko 21 topo ki salami do re..... ekdam sahi bola...... ladke na..... bahut jyada single ... bahut jyada sach bol gaya bhai

Bhai sahi bola. Last me ladko ka hi band bajti hai.

Nhi milegi virgin Guarantee deta hu 😂

Definitely you should deserve a virgin if you are a virgin guy.....and you can ask for it there is no shame, this nonsense RU-vid channels are promoting non-virginity see the producer or the director of this video or people related to them are non virgin may be...

Same bhai☺

@@Ashishsah69 Not everyone is like your sisters and female family members 🥵

@@Ashishsah69 sabko apne ghar ki aurton jaisa samjha h kya

Thank You so much. Please share with everyone 🙏

😂😂😂😂really u need to clear ur mindset.....also theres no word called bestest........well i can judge u frm ur language.....u really need to grow .....😂😂😂 literally u made me smile

@@bucky3967 Bro ye virgin nhi hai 😂

@@Ashishsah69 ab ku6 kahenge to gender discrimination.......universal truth to ye log ne banaya hai ki ladke virgin nahi hote....... 🤷

@@bucky3967 😂 kalyug hai bhai

Ya hypocrisy pasand hai

Very good think. Bt Sirf show kr rhe ho ya sch me aishi soch h b jnab.

Show nhi kr rha ji yhi sach yha tak ki jab bhi mai kisi se sadi kruga to usse uski parsanol life k bare ne nhi puchuga bas itna kruga ki aaj se mere partnar ban jao aur life hum khud banayege

madhuri nice Bhjan midla ji dono agar kam hi krnge to ghar ka kam kam kon karega aur bacche to whats app pe ho bada ho jainge

इतनी पर जाने के बाद कोई लड़की हाउसवाइफ बनना नहीं चाहेंगी घर भी संभालो पति को भी संभालो औरत तेरी यही कहानी है करो तो मरो ना करो तो भी मरो

@@ravibhushan8590 to khali bachhe aurat ke hi hai kya adami ke nahi hai kya . Aur jo adami ko aurat se ghar ka kaam karana hai padhi likhi job wali ladkiyo se shadi karte hi kyu hai jake houswife type se hi kare na . Working woman ki life kyu waste karte hai aur ghar ke kaam na 2 log mil kar bhi kar sakte sath me . Par tum jaise ko housewife ke kharche uthane bhi takleef ( unpaid maid chahiye bas) aur working woman ki ke sath ghar ke kaam karne par bhi . Fir ladaki gold digger n tum jaise raam ke avtar

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Yea we will. Please share with everyone

What happen if he is a virgin then fit kya uss non vergin laski ka face kala karke donkey pe batake ghumana chahiye. Kyuki ek gandi fish pure pond ko ganda karti hai.😡😡😡

Not your property what the hell, then why the hell is marriage both of them have to be open and kind towards each, lady get back to your senses!!

Thanks a ton for such a wonderful comment.

Boys bank balance also does not matter....make film about that also....

pyar krte he to sexual experience lena jaruri nahi he...pyar ke naam pr sb galt ho rha he...tabhi to ye sb vergin jase issue aa rhe he..

YES SOON WE WILL BE LIKE THE WEST

😂 .... virginity just means no sexual experience.....not intact hymen 😂

U need to grow up both physically and mentally.

Good bro, well said, but fake feminists will never understand this.

@@SJ-lc4ip first have guts to comment from your real account, then come here to debate.

@@chitranshshrivas8752Dude, with ur pea sized brain and absurd mindset u live happily. This is my real account.

It's really shameful for any female to argue with a shitty person like u. Let me enlighten u a bit, testing virginity is one of the worst sign of patriarchal society, where women are treated as an object. A female as a teenager can loose it while playing, running or can never loose it even after having sexual intercourse. Male with dirty mindset check all these and define a girl's character depending upon this. A girl can loose it while growing up without having sex, or a girl might suffer with physical abuse with someone known or can be raped. Virginity is nothing which defines anyone's character. Most of the male marry a girl and they themselves have several relationship outside, they can leave her to suffer or can bully her in the name of virginity. Every human, every gender has equal right to live his/her life respectfully. At the end , it's the honesty, loyalty and respectfulness makes a marriage happy.

Thank You

@Åbbe Šaale 😂😂😂 Aise kisne bola ki hame milti nahi, bhai mere female friends bhot he lekin me in jhamelo me padna nahi chahta mera education aur mera career mera top priority hai samje

@Åbbe Šaale ofc me expect kar sakta hu, har ek insan ke expectations hote he ladkiya khud 5 ft se chote height wale ladko ko khula reject karti he kyu ? Usme kya kharabi he ? Kya voh acha insan nahi ? Kya voh pyar deserve nahi karta ? Lekin hum kya bole ye to unka preference he, similarly hamari bhi kuch preferences hoti hi hai, bas hypocrite mat bano

Thank You

Matlab tu b wahi he .. nukri ke chakkar me kuch or hena..😂

You are lucky to have such a liberal and broad minded husband. In fact this is how one should be. Good luck.

@@MrDebapriyaRoy correct bro and even mine is arrange marriage. How are u are u married

@@beautifulkp760 actually I am male even though my name confuses many. I am doing good sister. I am actually searching for matrimonial alliance. Wish you and your husband good luck for your married life. Stay blessed

@@MrDebapriyaRoy ok bro thanks

So being a virgin before marriage is bullshit for you? Sleep around as much as you can without parents' knowledge but marry as per parent's choice. Enjoying best of both worlds. Congratulations!

Hum nahi be tu hai swarthi agar me ram hu toh mujhe bhi sita milni chaiye a

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Rande mard dhanda chhalta h en jese bf ka g*nd chhude hua or ladki chhahiye vargin ..

Thank You Thank You so much. Your comment has made my day.

Ghapa ghap kaun karega

@@sugandhgaurav21 shaadi k baad karlengay....😉😉

@@sugandhgaurav21 he is saying till marriage not till death so chill

Yes correct bro, but these nonsense RU-vid channels will promote non-virginity every time, And they will show it such a way that if you are a virgin then you are kind of a fool, and who are Jon virgin they are similar to some kind of hero or something

Its not 100% true, we r not living in 1950s this is just an act not real life.

What happened?

Hi

Well saif👍

Exactly

And then they say people judge them ......y not....

Yes sir u r right

Thanks

Thanks a lot. Please share with everyone

ladiya kisi aurr ke sath kand karke ulta pati ko attitude dikhaye vo sahi hai ek toh chori upper se sina jori

@@AnjaliSingh-wz2es apni soch sudharo pehle ladke kare to kuch nhi !

@@Devrajsingh7575 apni soch sudhar pehle

@@vaibhavijaiswal6754 behen dono ke lie hai dono ka characters acha hona zaruri hai society ka choro khudpe bharosa hona chiye hi hum sahi kadam uthaye hain crime is crime crime ka koi gender nhi hota

@@surjapradhan1448 okay bro😁✌👏👏👏

Great...🙏🙏

70% ladke virgin hote hai?? Kisne bol diya bahi tujhe,ladke kam hote hai kya is mamle me 😂😂😂

@@digvijayrana7559 ladke 40 percent ladkiya 60 percent kyuki jyadatar ladko ko gf nhi milti aur jyadatar ladkiyo ko gf wale bande pasand aate h

Thank you so much. Please share this video with everyone & let the good message reach everywhere

Right kushi कौर......

you are correct what purity is not achieved after a lifeboy bath right?

Thank You. Please share with all your friends

Bro💯🙏🏻

Ji ye video real story par base nhi madam ji

Acha ladki expectations nhi rakhti Kia? Rich husband bungalow ye saab expection nhi h Kia? To ladka virgin ladki expect karta h to galat Kia h USS m. Zadatar girls koi middle class admi se Shadi Karke uski struggle m uska sath nhi dena jathi. Choti height Vali ladki ko back height Vala ladka chaiye. And choti height and middle class vale ladke ko uhi reject kar deti h kiyu Bhai?