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Ask A Gay Family Ep. 7 BI Canadians

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So time for another episode of Ask A Gay Family.
First, check out this great video by gunnarolla:
• Canadian, Please | gun...
We started making "Gay Family Values" videos as a response to prop 8 here in Ca. These videos have been a huge hit. We have come to understand that the reason these videos are so popular is that people dont get to see what it means to be a gay couple in a long term relationship raising children. Our family is no better and no worse then any other family.
We have been getting lots of questions about our family and in the past we would respond to every email we received. We have decided to open our family up to questions you may have.
Question 1. Have you ever considered moving to Canada?
By Brittany: BILONG92:
/ bilong92
Question #2. What are your views on Bisexuality?
By Tracy ALIFEINTHELENS:
/ alifeinthelens
Thank you for taking the time to watch this episode of Ask A Gay Family.

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11 ноя 2009

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@UnBlastRadius 11 лет назад

Your children are so happy in this video, you guys are such great parents. It's hilarious. Sorry for commenting on every one of your videos hahaha I just found them and I'm hooked...

@manoramarr 11 лет назад

Raji from Dubai again - I just discovered your videos and absolutely love it - and you have such a beautiful family xxx

@Jhaaghon 14 лет назад

Just when I think you guys can't get any cooler, you go and put some 'Canadian Please' in your post. Fantastic video. :)

@tommy2tone 14 лет назад

Once again Thank You Leffew family for a great video. Many gay people have thought about moving and some have left this country because of not being able to marry the one they love. I have thought about it countless times myself and what keeps holding me back is my nephews. If i would leave this country it would tear them apart. They are so use to seeing their uncle Thom 3 to 4 times a week. Keep posting the Gay Family Values, people are listening and it is making a impact on lives.

@sarah4hp 14 лет назад

Haha,..... I love, love, love your family! So cozy seeing you all in your pj's and all ready for bed. Selena and Daniel were having such a good time, and I love their laughs. How can you not adore those amazing kids? Thanks for sharing your amazing family with all of us. It always brings a smile to my face whenever I see a new video from you. Love Sarah.

@regemo 14 лет назад

wow great video. best handling of the topic of bisexuality i have heard in a long time.

@Flanole 14 лет назад

It is so great to see a gay couple raising kids. Being a parent is the hardest job in the world if done correctly. Kudos to you both. As a retired teacher I know good parents make all the difference in the world to the life of a child.

@vnorthru 13 лет назад

You guys are amazing and you have and absolutely beautiful family. My little sister is bisexual and seeing the challenges she faces, mainly with our mother who is a fundamentalist preacher, is probably the main thing that motivates me to speak out on LGBT rights. My sister is not out to my parents and is terrified they will find out. I think I was the first family member she came out to, after she made me worry for a week it was something bad, but I love her no matter what

@emgoat 14 лет назад

I'm Canadian and I thought I would throw this out there... my facts might be a little skewed but in highschool I remember I learned that over 50% of Canadians would not even qualify for Canadian immigration. So don't take it personally! I'm 100% straight and Canadian and yet I love and appreciate everything you are doing with your family and with the rights movement in California... I was enraged when I heard about prop 8. You guys are fantastic.

@vnorthru 13 лет назад

con't.. I have told my sister that I do not care what gender she ends up with in the end, and all I care about is the person makes her happy and treats her right. I realize that if she does end up with a female she will eventually have to come out to our parents, especially our mother, which is why I have been working on waring my mother down on the issue (and I can be stubborn and extremely protective of my sister). I love the work you guys are doing and keep it up.

@Aaron741963 14 лет назад

Thank you guys so much! You are great people!

@clairewilson3173 11 лет назад

Thank you for answering the question on BI sexuality. Its helped me allot in understanding where my son is coming from. He's time to work out what form of sexuality fits and works for him being a teenager. All I want is for him to be with someone who loves him and treats him right and I get another son or daughter to love.

@cenbergjr 14 лет назад

Another great video! I can't wait for the next one!

@audiomuse 14 лет назад

Heya depfox. I was just wondering: what's the music playing at the beginning of the video. It's so catchy!

@copman109a 14 лет назад

Yep- as a police officer I know about those long shifts - I just got off work now on Sunday evening . Don't have regular weekends off usually. I guess its a cop's life. LOL

@stoner829 14 лет назад

Great vid guys! I still remember when I was about 10 or 12 sitting on the swing in the summer our back yard and being visually GLUED to watching our 30 something muscular neighbor mowing the grass with a t-shirt that seemed to be sprayed on. I did not know what it meant at the time. Now I do. Some people still think being gay is a choice..I think not .. Cheers! (PS...I still would sit on a swing TODAY if we had one and watch the same show!! LOL :)

@StraightActingGayGuy 14 лет назад

good video. I understood where you were coming from this week. Maine was a big disappointment. =) Erik

@baroozles 14 лет назад

YAAAAAYYYYY YOU ANSWERED MY QUESTION! I couldn't agree more, I think that everyone is bisexual to a certain degree. I was so excited that you chose my question by the way that I had to link the video to all of my friends haha. I basically sounded like Selena does in this video giggling with happiness. And yes, Brian, a lot of people claim bisexuality as an easy way of coming out as a gay man or woman, but it definitely does exist in full for others.

@Alonsomusica 14 лет назад

HELLO....THIS IS THE SECOND VIDEO I WATCH OF U GUYS.....AND MAY I START BY SAYING WHAT A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY U HAVE. I LOVE UR VIDEOS, I THINK THEY R VERY INSPIRATIONAL AND EDUCATIONAL. THANK U FOR MAKING VIDEOS AND SHARING UR WONDERFUL FAMILY WITH US. UR KIDS ARE ADORABLE! I HOPE THAT ONE DAY ILL HAVE MY FAMILY AND BE AS HAPPY AS U ALL ARE. GOD BLESS U AND PLS DONT STOP MAKING VIDEOS, SUCH A GREAT THING U GUYS R DOING FOR THE GAY COMMUNITY. HUGS ALONSO

@rextrek 14 лет назад

very good vid as usual guys ..... Nite! :) Rex

@llamagirl96 12 лет назад

You are defiantly cool enough for Canada!! In fact, you guys may be too cool for Canada. But if you do move here you should move to B.C. because we are really cool here. Especially in my town Maple Ridge.

@93matheu 11 лет назад

I want a family like this

@Comixbear1 14 лет назад

I agree with you about moving to Canada. It seems too much to me like running away from our problems and issues. That sets a bad precedence in your mind.

@gallaxi219 14 лет назад

don't say your not cool enough for canada! as a canadian I think your very cool and we should have more people like you to stand up for our community ! you give me insparation for the future :) and I say thank you ! keep up the good work wish you all the happiness the world can offer to you. your kids are so amazing as you two !! :s sorry for mistakes i'm from Montréal (Québec, so i'm french canadian) I hope I will have the chance one day too see you here in the most gay-friendly city !

@Thebestofitalloffcial 14 лет назад

@oscarrs13 thats what i thought to lol. I didnt realize we had a point base system to see if your good enough. tho it probably does help kep the bad eggs out. but This family are CLEARLY not bad eggs. I wish they would have moved here. It would of made Canada that much better.

@delightglow 11 лет назад

I've read the Kinsey report and agree there is a spectrum. I am definitely gay! I tried to fool myself as a teen, but was never attracted to girls. I had good female friends, but never was the least attracted. Love your discussions. I think they lead to understanding.

@kendims 14 лет назад

I have gay friends who, like Bryan, came out as bi first because it was easier. But I think in the long term, being bi is in some ways less accepted because of it's ambiguity. I've heard some deeply offensive and all-too prevalent stereotypes about bis - that we're promiscuous, that we're indecisive, that we're selfish, that we benefit from passing as straight... It can be very alienating. However, I think attitudes are changing as dialogues about sexuality become more widespread and accepted.

@HurricaneKyle2 14 лет назад

I held on to the bisexual label while I was in the military, but that label quickly dropped it after I was discharged.

@baroozles 14 лет назад

Bryan- Ohhh no I got that, I'm sorry if I came off the wrong way. I think you both did a gracious job in explaining yourselves and your views.

@DAIGORO14 14 лет назад

Well as a Canadian I just wanted to say that even though I have gay marriage I will still fight the good fight so my neighbours to the south can enjoy it as well. Love your vids keep up the love for each-other. hope all is well.

@seanchapin1 14 лет назад

Sometimes we have to choose between what is right and what is easy. I have a lot of respect for those who are gay in countries like Iran and Iraq who could lose their lives just for being somewhat out, especially those who chose to stay in their country and fight the oppression by being out where they are.

@sleekcartim 14 лет назад

my rents live in canada, they will let you use their ocean boat dock & sneek ya in lol.

@orangegoblin82 14 лет назад

American ex-pats can still vote from anywhere in the world. My colleague at work can vote in elections and she has never even lived in the USA, she just has a passport because she was born on a US army base.

@AstralFrost 14 лет назад

While I agree with the points system in Canada, it sucks that you didn't qualify. You clearly have experience in your own fields. I think you guys should have been allowed citizenship no doubt. My cousin is married to the man he loves, and I'm so thankful that we've got equality here. But the fact that you guys are still in the US tells me that there is hope! The world needs people like you bringing equality to the places that need it. Keep fighting the good fight. You inspire us!

@lawrence5584 12 лет назад

I did the same thing when I was coming to terms with my sexuality. I called myself straight until I logically couldn't justify the label(by that point my sexual experience was and still is only with men).What I find funny was the justification that I was having sex with men because it was so easy to find, but if the right girl came around I'd be with her. It wasn't until I had several "straight" relationship that I had to admit my true desires. Glad to hear I'm not alone in that phenomena.

@halifaxx55 14 лет назад

Aww you guys are so cute together. As a bi guy i agree that everyone is on a scale, I may lean more to the straight or to the gay I don't care as long as I meet someone I love :D. May the force be with you.

@beautifulpaperflower 14 лет назад

:D thank u! Alot of ppl think its made up but its not theirs a whole spectrum of sexuality!

@ro4691 13 лет назад

I AM A GAY JAMAICAN BUT I AM AFRAID TO SHOW MY GAY SIDE BECUZ IF I DO THEN I DIE.I AM LONELY,BORED AND CONFUSED IN JAMAICA AND WOULD LOVE TO GET MARRIED TO A GUY ONE DAY AND FOSTER CHILDREN BUT I CAN NOT MEET A NICE GUY WHO WANT A RELATIONSHIP.NICE VIDEO I ADMIRE U TWO.LONG LIVE GAY PEOPLE.

@candycane520 14 лет назад

its so funny watching the kidz laugh xD

@WerewolfOfTheWater 14 лет назад

Very true about what you said about bisexuality. When it comes to me I find bi to be the best label for me since I only have a slight preference towards guys. I think the only difference is just that I'm a little more picky with girls. I do agree that everyone is probably a little bit bisexual at least even if it's just minuscule. I think as a social species we use sex as a social bonding thing rather than just for reproduction so it makes sense.

@wallacedai 14 лет назад

im japanese and i like to watch you families video :) coz im also gay. but i dont understand all of your talk because of my listening english skill... im trying to train it!

@Cyprusa 14 лет назад

Kids sometimes were too loud :)) But.. still a good video!

@orangegoblin82 14 лет назад

That is so cool you came out triked14! She just wants to hold on to some little hope that you wont get a boyfriend. She will get over it I am sure.

@Thebestofitalloffcial 14 лет назад

@rainbowpagan well we would be happy to have you :-)

@MrK3v1n28 14 лет назад

thanks for this vid... ive been struggling so much being bisexual... until now i couldn't accept it but maybe one day if the right person comes then i can be me...

@chrised79 14 лет назад

good talk on bisexuality :D...yea, it's not easy to migrate to another country...in fact, it's complicated!!! the immigration requires this & that and most of all "the money"...i wanted to migrate to hawaii and to be with my former girlfriend of 4 years (yea, we had separated due to the distance & she couldnt bear the loneliness) but it didn't work out good. in the end, im bck in my dull hometown...anyway, life goes on...hahahaha...God bless!!! :D

@stoner829 14 лет назад

Perhaps Jay. There is just something about the uniform that oozes with masculinity..I wonder how many gay men go into the business??? Now THAT would be a great video or 60 Minutes segment!!! BTW..we saw you in your uniform. The three letter word describing you begins with the letter "H" and ends with the letter "T". (excuse me-being bad here!)

@Thebestofitalloffcial 14 лет назад

well if your family moved to Canada (which is where i live :-) ) it would get that much better. I love your family.

@warmgulfwind 14 лет назад

Boys, you are SO cool enough for Canada. If it comes to that, maybe you can start a small business and get yourselves up here. How 'bout publishing an on-line magazine? It'd be a perfect fit for Bryan. If you intend to hire Canadian staff, that just might get you the points you need. I still think America needs you more right now though. Until then: bon nuit. PS Canadians aren't so big on croissants, try offering the officials poutine (fries and gravy with cheese- a French Canadian invention).

@kittycathappy 14 лет назад

bag of croissant (hope i spell it right) priceless. but its true. you need to be almost like a millionaire to be here.

@Awakening_Sunshine 11 лет назад

If the supreme court ruled gay marriage unconstitutional in California, wouldn't it be easier to move to another state that does allow it, like Connecticut?

@LoveEarthHereAndNow 14 лет назад

please don't get me wrong, but her laughing, may have been her (conscious or unconscious) way of saying she didn't want to be in the vid. also, suggestion, you may try playing some background music with your vids.

@iraqidolphin 14 лет назад

Canada -foreign !!

@debbieomi 14 лет назад

My thoughts are that we should just all live and love as humans. I don't understand the need for labels. How much angst has been caused by someone's need to define their sexuality for other people? To turn back the hands of time.... There are several countries looking good to me lately. I've always been one of those "There's no better place to live than America" people. I'm learning how that is just not the truth. :-(

@konrox 14 лет назад

lol thanks, meh i think im too worked up with this "labling" withing the gay community, aha i think ppl sud just be happy PERIOD

@beautifulpaperflower 14 лет назад

I was wondering what are ur kids fav tv shows and singers?

@orgay3 14 лет назад

Come to Sweden!! :) You can even marrie in the Swedish church here and we do have exactly the same rights as heteros have!

@Omfcody1 14 лет назад

When I realized I wasn't straight, I knew I was completely gay, but as strange as it sounds, I was trying to force myself to like girls, but that didn't work out lol. But that was before I accepted myself and now I wouldn't change a thing :)

@Evandarks 11 лет назад

uhm I know it's been a year, so maybe you dont have that confusion anymore but... I consider myself as gay but I also believe that's just for putting a label... when I think about me getting married or something like that it always is with a man. But no one can be sure about their future... maybe in the future I will love a woman and marry her and have kids... I dont actually think that will happen but it COULD happen. what I try to say is... forget about "gay" or "straight" and start loving

@saintfletcher 14 лет назад

I wish you guys could come to Australia and have a better time down here, but it's no better down here. We will probably follow the US. But NZ is all legal and way ahead of us. It is beautiful in NZ, especially if you like fresh air and mountains. But it really is isolated from the rest of the world. Maybe the US does need you more than you need the US. It is all a matter of time and I guess more work...

@sleekcartim 14 лет назад

^^^Just so you guys know... I have spoken to many married guys about this on a gay helpline... too many guys in this situation worried me more than the gay teens trying to deal with being gay. They take it very bad that they "wrecked" their family by not being able to BE GAY. DONT FOOL URSELF, It DEF takes a toll, many of them feel like they have wasted their best years. 1 LIFE

@1DRock37167 14 лет назад

It is shameful that you even have to consider leaving the US! Ive thougt of moving to New Zealand myself...

@lailaagrado 14 лет назад

wow poor Selena ,she must be so tired ..my lil sis use to be like her when she was little,after 10 she became like Selena ,but nowadays as a grown up ,she is just just tired and go straight to the bed :P

@holymufffinz 11 лет назад

I believe that people can have love and affection towards not only the same or opposite sex but other animals as well (bestiality) and inanimate objects (such as cars which I try not to judge but sometimes it’s just hard). These people who love animals or inanimate objects sometimes have other people they also express love to, so of course bisexuality is plausible. It happens in nature all the time.

@JollyOrangeEntertainment 14 лет назад

@depfox - but there is problem being bisexual is there?

@chrised79 14 лет назад

hopefully & someday, we (LGBT) would have that law for same-sex marriage/domestic partnership in terms of immigration :)

@TheGingerLady 14 лет назад

Oh God you guis are brave! thihi thank you for the vid! ^^ and soo true I get the question (I'm bi) which do you prefer and it's almost as if you HAVE to choose and for me it's a complete impossibility. I totally in the middle of middles. I can be attracted to eny type of human male female trasnvestites and transexuals. I honestly don't care what the persen may be as long as I feel the litle IT that i recognise as atraction in a sexual way i won't deny it I may not you know go for the persen but

@sleekcartim 14 лет назад

i have a faved vid where an iranian father of gay boy hung him in the livingroom of his house in front of his younger brother, so he wouldnt "choose" the same gay path. i was completely stunned by this. religions, know & take responsibility for ur damage. 1 LIFE

@pkmn7777777 13 лет назад

im only 15 and still in the closet. im still trying to figure out my "status". i know i am definently gay and i am way more attracted to men than women but there still is a little bit of striaghtness in me. i consider myself 80% gay and 20% straight but in the end i want to marry a guy... so does that make me gay? who knows. i'll figure it out eventually

@snowangel223 13 лет назад

@pkmn7777777 Imagine a line, on one side is straight, middle is bi & on the other side is gay. Everyone is on this line somewhere, rarely completely 100% gay or 100% straight... but at 80% you would be gay. However, being a young boy.. you can have some fun! Try dating a girl for the heck of it! Experiment in your college years, no problem. But in end if you feel like marrying a man, do it! good luck

@robertuk2006 10 лет назад

The notion that everyone is a bit bi, is nonsense! Nearly all of the statistics I've saw, have shown that there are more gay people than bisexuals. Yes you do get bisexuals. But they aren't as common and some people think. Not that is matters. Everyone should be treated with love.

@HorrorTvProuductions 12 лет назад

HAhahaha i luv her

@sleekcartim 14 лет назад

PLEASE PLEASE dont try to force urself to be str8. always ends in pain for urself & relationship with women. If you want to make the worst mistake in ur life then get married knowing ur gay.

@mgtowp.l.7756 5 лет назад

I Could Not Understand Them Talk Because Of All The Unpleasant Unnecessary Noise.

@konrox 14 лет назад

lol strangly i came out as gay and everyone is fine with that but then i am slowly EASINg into Bi? O+o thats kinda awkward hahah lol but i dont think i AM bi? i just think i APPRECIATE women LOL is that bi? :S

@MaleOrderBride 14 лет назад

I'd like to ask why your profile says you're "a very private family" yet you have no problem very publicly showing your family to millions of viewers across the world for cheap political gain?

@konrox 14 лет назад

ahah now if only the "straight" guys wud asks gays out LOL

@sleekcartim 14 лет назад

BIsexuality does exist. period. case closed. that is all.

@larrymick7287 5 лет назад

It's not gay----it's sodomy!The anus is not a dual function orifice.Leave your depravities to yourselves.What sane person would want to say they are sexually perverted?