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Ask Better Questions to Build Better Connections | Amber L. Wright | TEDxCSULB 

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Asking better questions isn’t simply another way to make small talk. Instead, it’s a path to creating real connection with the people around you, in a thoughtful and genuine way. This talk by communication expert and certified life coach, Amber L. Wright, explores how to ask better questions and invest in one of life’s greatest currencies: relationships. Amber L. Wright, CSULB Alumna, is a communication expert, certified life coach, and speaker who helps people find their voice during moments that matter. An award-winning educator, she holds a master’s degree in Interpersonal Communication. Well versed in the power of storytelling, she is known for giving dynamics presentations on how to communicate effectively and live authentically.
Amber has shared her expertise on what it means to speak, live, and lead with confidence in notable media outlets such as Forbes, Mashable, Fast Company, and Black Enterprise. She is the host of the Talk to Amber Podcast and author of, “Can We Talk? 10 Life Lessons on Finding Your Voice and Finding Yourself,” a wildly popular personal development book. She is a married mom of two, proud lefty, and a card-carrying member of Beyonce’s BeyHive. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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Комментарии : 99   
@roolshool
@roolshool 2 года назад
Criminally underrated talk
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Wow, thank you so much, Ruhul!
@50tenspro
@50tenspro 2 года назад
Agreed Ruhul! So glad this came across my feed. Dr. Wright gets to the crux of what constitutes meaningful communication. Thank you Mrs. Wright. 😊
@tomherald
@tomherald 6 месяцев назад
I agree!
@januarsalonga2170
@januarsalonga2170 2 года назад
"I'm not doing my best today but I'm trying my best." Powerful. Thank you Amber,
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you for watching, Januar!
@EngrushOfficial
@EngrushOfficial Год назад
@@wordswellsaid Thank you for enlightening us through your valuable words. Love you from India.
@MrValod818
@MrValod818 Год назад
So much compassion in her voice.
@silondilejali5473
@silondilejali5473 Год назад
I did yesterday, I wasn't having the greatest day and when asked how I am - my response was "I'm not having the best day but I'm doing my best". And let me tell you how goooood that felt, to be honest and vulnerable yet still able to maintain my privacy. Thank you Amber
@MissHuergo
@MissHuergo 2 года назад
Thank you Amber, what an amazing speech. I had the same situation a week ago with my very close friends or (Big Sister) Pamela. I always smile even when I cry but this time I was sinking from the inside. We gather up at her house and we’re talking about life. For the past weeks and months I wasn’t fine and she took the momentum to not ask me but to tell me; I know you are not okay. WOW! that was powerful I literally couldn’t hold my tears., It was a very emotional time. My best friend committed suicide two months ago and after that day I been so aware of these feelings, so harsh. If you are reading this and consider yourself a good friend pay attention and good luck 🍀
@spyram31
@spyram31 3 года назад
Wow, “Communicating with intention”, I love it.
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you, Stan!
@ajordan1847
@ajordan1847 3 года назад
Amber you are such an inspiring communicator!!! Grateful to be able to witness your, "genius zone" in action. I plan to implement what you shared with others, the intentionality in questioning and showing empathy, resonated. Awesomeness all around.😊 (by the way this is Alethea J from class).
@kristinedreimane1454
@kristinedreimane1454 2 года назад
Absolutely love this speach! Thank you ❤
@yassirislam5223
@yassirislam5223 2 года назад
An excellent talk..warm, engaging ,and full of insight..thank you!
@frany7493
@frany7493 2 года назад
Brilliant, sweet, caring, powerfully humble and effective. Thank you 💕💕💕
@aqmeriamen-wint6313
@aqmeriamen-wint6313 4 месяца назад
This is really amazing! Thank you Amber!
@inyango9055
@inyango9055 Год назад
Just love her energy and her voice
@91choudhariazam
@91choudhariazam 6 месяцев назад
Love you Professor. You are the best one.
@AmeliaFeng-rd4nc
@AmeliaFeng-rd4nc 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for this talk!!! Just what I was looking for. Very well presented.
@raeg5257
@raeg5257 Год назад
This was incredible!! I have been feeling like my relationships have been superficial the last while. And it made me feel like for some reason I was at fault. But I’m going to try to ask more insightful questions. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experiences!!
@roopakurup3931
@roopakurup3931 Год назад
Such a powerful and amazing talk. Loved it. Thank you Dr Wright for such an inspiring talk .
@user-rf5cm2if2t
@user-rf5cm2if2t 2 месяца назад
Meaningful speech, thank you Amber ❤
@jordantoronto863
@jordantoronto863 Год назад
I love this talk so much!!!!
@reginabass4515
@reginabass4515 2 года назад
Thank you for helping me through your speech recognize it is okay not to be okay.
@dorothyedwards7225
@dorothyedwards7225 11 месяцев назад
Thank you, that was uplifting and connecting.
@VernettaRFreeney
@VernettaRFreeney 3 года назад
Great talk Amber. Definitely need to do better asking better questions myself.
@CEOLife
@CEOLife 22 дня назад
Thank you so much! These are great, community is everything!
@pranayraycha9974
@pranayraycha9974 2 года назад
I had been wondering for a long time how to connect things in order to remember them and how to remember to connect things. And suddenly I see this video in my recommendation and yeah I found one answer. Thank you.
@mrterrygivens
@mrterrygivens 2 года назад
What a wonderful explanation of this skill. Thank you Amber.
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you, Terry!
@06.phamvomybinh44
@06.phamvomybinh44 9 месяцев назад
love your talk. really inspired. thanks a lot amber
@darchabennett7917
@darchabennett7917 11 месяцев назад
That was awesome and much needed, thanks for the transparency 😊
@tashajackson6751
@tashajackson6751 3 года назад
I saw this talk live several months ago (pre-covid). It has stayed with me. Truly inflicted the way I talk to my youngest. Thank you for this gift. Your talk has had impact! 🙏
@deborahcox4242
@deborahcox4242 2 месяца назад
@deborahcox4242
@deborahcox4242 2 месяца назад
@deborahcox4242
@deborahcox4242 2 месяца назад
❤❤❤
@user-xd7gd6rg8j
@user-xd7gd6rg8j 7 месяцев назад
Love every single words of this
@JOwens
@JOwens 3 года назад
Love this, Amber Authentic Communication bonds, builds and helps us grow positive relationships . Thanks - it’s the best mentoring.
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you for watching!
@priscaisimoya
@priscaisimoya Год назад
I really enjoyed this speech!
@caneysherfield
@caneysherfield Год назад
Very insightful thank you for sharing!
@wildfireol
@wildfireol 2 года назад
Brilliant talk 💜
@flossa1960
@flossa1960 7 месяцев назад
this talk is amazing, it’s really changed my outlook! thank you amber
@eclips3354
@eclips3354 2 года назад
Amazing talk!!!
@trameldavis7763
@trameldavis7763 5 месяцев назад
Well said Ms. Amber.
@ajinkyadeshmukh6324
@ajinkyadeshmukh6324 6 месяцев назад
Thank you so so much for this info! It changed my perspective and made me think deeply about relationship building!
@kaimurphy7953
@kaimurphy7953 Год назад
GREAT TED TALK!!!
@ambermack7243
@ambermack7243 Год назад
I loved this
@Ms76Cocoa
@Ms76Cocoa 3 года назад
This was so good Amber! Thank you!
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you for watching!
@Abahale11
@Abahale11 2 года назад
Its amazing how deep we are in this "education narrative", besides accepting the fact that we all are learning and all we can do is try to communicate this learning to others. There's no such thing as "teaching".
@yordanostemesgen1417
@yordanostemesgen1417 Год назад
This is such an interesting topic to talk about !!
@michelleb4035
@michelleb4035 3 месяца назад
Wonderful advice.
@kwamechristianesq.4558
@kwamechristianesq.4558 18 дней назад
Incredible talk!
@maureenclement2553
@maureenclement2553 Год назад
Wonderful!
@carololiveira6889
@carololiveira6889 Год назад
Just beautiful !!
@tebogoikaneng727
@tebogoikaneng727 10 месяцев назад
Love the talk, and I learnt a lot...
@user-cj7xw4bk6j
@user-cj7xw4bk6j 3 месяца назад
I love her.
@tomato3347
@tomato3347 Год назад
Amazing talk, learned Hundred things
@carmensumlin4294
@carmensumlin4294 Год назад
AWESOME!
@justinaez4029
@justinaez4029 2 года назад
Đã là fan thì mãi mãi là fan😉💗
@strainwashed
@strainwashed Месяц назад
Thank you amber
@NaturalieOne
@NaturalieOne 3 года назад
Ambert is amazing.
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you, Lenita!
@tushararan9222
@tushararan9222 5 месяцев назад
Beautiful!
@Sky_11029
@Sky_11029 3 года назад
One of the best ted talks I've seen I wonder why so little visibility
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
I appreciate that, Diane. Thank you!
@tamannaarora8892
@tamannaarora8892 2 месяца назад
You are phenomenal
@prenapoetry
@prenapoetry 7 месяцев назад
Thank you
@jameskovach1210
@jameskovach1210 2 года назад
Much appreciation Amber, for sharing, and for enduring and/or moving through whatever obstacles “could have” stopped your work from getting to the rest of us. Is the phenomenon of -the entire universe being made up of nothing but answers (the only action necessary is to ask Questions [quality questions] to receive them) a common observation? Is this observation incorrect? If individual people are an aggregate that make up a more complex being, then you are a healthy cell and I’m grateful. Being Human is weird huh? Hope you enjoy these questions and many thanks. Is a “rhetorical question” just a phrase for a statement? Why are there so many important definitions for the word “just,” such a commonly used word? Sorry for yammering, I JUST have so many questions. 😂 Your speech has brought about an action in me, to make an effort to be aware of questions asked-and to react in a pleasant way to the curious and information seekers encountered throughout the day. To be aware when I am making statements rather than connections and so much more.
@mosytube
@mosytube 11 месяцев назад
Solid. Very.
@ContentCanvasYT
@ContentCanvasYT 2 года назад
This is profound.
@danaa.leblanc2543
@danaa.leblanc2543 9 месяцев назад
Excellent. Clear and concise. Thank you.
@TheStreetsurfer06
@TheStreetsurfer06 2 года назад
Amazing
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you, Gian!
@joshaquino8189
@joshaquino8189 Год назад
thoughtfully curious
@Hervebutoyi
@Hervebutoyi 2 года назад
Way too few views! thanks for the talk Amber. All the way from Denmark.
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you for watching, all the way in Denmark!
@rosedevereux2391
@rosedevereux2391 Год назад
4:18-7:30 💝💖💞 "You young AND you old at the same _toime_ " Sooo Cali!!
@BobF510
@BobF510 7 месяцев назад
This is an amazing reservoir of knowledge. A book I read with similar wisdom was a paradigm shift for me. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
@TellSamyra
@TellSamyra 3 года назад
Helpful
@wordswellsaid
@wordswellsaid 2 года назад
Thank you, Samyra! I'm glad you found it helpful.
@jasonhewitt2150
@jasonhewitt2150 8 месяцев назад
You are good
@bizhustle3741
@bizhustle3741 Год назад
Perception shattered, Connection made... Nice!
@antjr54
@antjr54 10 месяцев назад
Interesting
@catchyme135
@catchyme135 Год назад
7:40
@catchyme135
@catchyme135 Год назад
10:05
@catchyme135
@catchyme135 Год назад
3:30
@HilalIbnKhalifat
@HilalIbnKhalifat Год назад
"Relationships are life's greatest currency" can a metaphor be more American than that 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@christinadone774
@christinadone774 2 месяца назад
Today is all I have
@user-mx5vr5ce7m
@user-mx5vr5ce7m 28 дней назад
Kendrick Lamar is even talked about in Ted talks 🔥🔥🔥🔥 drake stood no chance
@robrobusa
@robrobusa 6 месяцев назад
I wonder - how does one stop oneself from oversharing, then? :D
@naphtalieh.gbolahan2568
@naphtalieh.gbolahan2568 5 месяцев назад
😊
@MekonenMeteor123
@MekonenMeteor123 4 месяца назад
I lose sleep by that opener of this talk I have the worst icebreaking questions
@Arachne-qw1vr
@Arachne-qw1vr Год назад
Nah. I used to be like that. It's only good in micro doses.
@pazzodi3
@pazzodi3 27 дней назад
This is corporate nonsense. True meaningful questions are the most difficult ones to ask.. how about asking, what's the most difficult thing about being you, what's the hardest thing about being a child/sibling/young, what's the easiest thing about being you? Etc.... Superficial questions will lead to superficial relationships.
@parisrealick
@parisrealick Год назад
"Go deep, not wild" @tykwondoe
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