Asalamualakum My uncle is in intensive care and he is in ICU too and he won’t wake up in 48 hours everyone please dua for him because there is a deadly infection spreading in the throat.
@@RohailFawadwell this confirms that allah will never live in my home! This is scary. Music has changed my life and is one of the most beautiful things in existence. It makes me sad y’all live in fear of feeling love from music. 😢😢
@@mitigamespro8757 I don’t decide anything but I’m continuing my journey through music weather your god likes it or not. I don’t understand why it’s so bad?
The fact that Mufti Menk called this child „my son“ made me tear up. May Allah bless and reward you for this and for everything good that you do. May Allah give you a long, blessed and islamic life, so that you can keep teach the young muslim community. And may Allah guide all muslims and forgive us. Indeed we are weak and in the need of Allahs mercy. Allahuma Amin.
For people trying to quit music I recommend listening to nahseeds and cover nasheeds that have vocals. Siedd is one of the nasheed artist that does a phenomenal job on this, and mashllah Maher Zains nahseeds are amazing as well.
@@lamp193 I respectfully disagree, I think if drums and instruments are not allowed in Islam, muslims should do their best to avoid songs that has them.
Whenever the Prophet (ﷺ) went to bed every night, he used to cup his hands together and blow over it after reciting Surat Al-Ikhlas, Surat Al-Falaq and Surat An-Nas, and then rub his hands over whatever parts of his body he was able to rub, starting with his head, face and front of his body. He used to do that three times. Sahih al-Bukhari 5017 Book 66, Hadith 39 Vol. 6, Book 61, Hadith 536
Jesus loves you all, He saves and knows you!! Repent please for the hour is near He is coming back! It is not religion it is relationship 🤍😊God bless you see you in heaven🤍
My life started by being a musician and singing. I loved it so much that I totally forgot about who allah was. Then I started to like dancing with music. I was having a feeling that this was all wrong. At the age of 9 my parents told me to do hifz as it will be the MOST important thing in your life. So I stopped listening and dancing with music subhanallah! And now I have learnt that Allah is the most beneficent and most merciful. Mashallah I am now 13 years old and inspired by other sheikhs. Plz pray for me to complete my hifz AMEEN
Assalamu alaikum May Allah guide you and guide us also to a better path. And may Allah grant you all the wishes in this world and the hereafter and make you the best of the peoples. Aameen
As someone who listened to music all my life, am on over a week without music now and my mental health is so much better. Am less emotional, less moody, more focused and positive. Am enjoying the silence more than ever now. In just 3 days I felt so much better I couldn't believe it. Less noise more peace.
I was today just thinking that music is haram or not and allah taala gave me the correct path ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAHU AKBAR SUBHANALLAH MASHALLAH
@@hadiyazaheer9773 Iran Enforced 10 Stupid Laws 1. Women are not allowed to show their hair 2. Women are not allowed to sing 3. Women are not allowed to dance 4. Women are not allowed to divorce 5. Women are not allowed to enter stadium 6. Women are not allowed to ride a motorbike 7. Women are not allowed to travel overseas alone 8. Women are not allowed to join military 9. Women are not allowed to be a witness 10. Women are not allowed to be a judge
@@takiyaazrin7562 i don’t know what the point of that was but i’m muslim and i disagree with those rules. In the quran it says u should treat people equally and it’s a bad impression of islam by having these rules
Jesus loves you all, He saves and knows you!! Repent please for the hour is near He is coming back! It is not religion it is relationship 🤍😊God bless you see you in heaven🤍
@Noah Fanhos It's not about what he says, it's about the way he does it. Arshad just said something nice to his fellow muslim brothers and sisters, and this guy comments false information for no reason at all. The words might not be directly offending, but if you objectively look at it, there's no positivity (from Islamic perspectice) at all.
May Allah guide you dear brother/sister 😇 İ will recommend you to watch the interviews of non Muslims that reverted😃 iam sure you will change your mind inşallah May Allah help you 🌹❤️
The problem with most people who are claiming loving the preacher is : 1. They are not trying to imitated them You will find them with appearance like Kufar. Dressing like them. 2. They are not wearing hijab, not even praying. Mufti Menk is calling you to change your way of living and adapt it to the Islamic way. When you love someone you behave, dress, speak, walk like him. But are we seeing those people ?
Frere Umar Mansare True point, this is why it's mentioned, to truly get guidance from Allah you need to strive 'in the path of Allah'. It will not come to you sitting at home as it didn't for the Sahabah. They left their homes to learn and propagate Deen. People need to understand that along with learning from Ulema, you also need to propagate Deen yourself to others so you stay steadfast. On the other hand, people propagate everyday about the greatness of the world and its materialistic things, hence their lifestyle does not change. Learn and propagate Islam as no more prophets are to come.
بلغوا عني ولو آية" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Convey from me even an Ayah of the Qur'an; "Acquire knowledge and impart it to the people." Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 107
@@gtv3582 I could agree with you more--music now is not like what it used to be. Artistic expression has become negative, violent, and sexual. Then again, if you listen to Tom Jones' 1967 hit "Delilah" today, you will see how it's taken on a very psychotic meaning.
once you fall in love with the recitation of the quran, it doesn’t really matter anymore whether music is haram or not. you will just simply find music not appealing.
One must realise that anything good is Halal. And similarly, anything bad is Haraam. If you are going to worship Allah by performing the prayers, then you have to have a clear mindset. I used to listen to music and when I performed the prayers I wasn't focused. Sometimes, you tend to think of the tune in your head without realising. It took a lot of effort and self-belief to give it up. Alhamdulillah, I can now focus properly during prayer. There is a lot of peace when you think of only Allah during worship. It gives me assurance that I can rely 100% on Allah's help and He is listening to me. The way to give it up is by reading the Qura'an, reading other Islamic books and listening to the Qura'an (I found this most helpful). It is not just music which can make you loose focus. Other things such as dramas, movies, etc can also affect the mind. Why should Allah listen to our prayers when we are not fully committed and pure? 'The right course has become clear from the wrong.' Surah Baqarah, verse 256.
I want my prayer to be recorded as 100% correct, rather then to have my prayer recorded but it is not 100% just because my thoughts were somewhere else...so yeah, music is out of my system for almost 2 months now and I feel so much better...The Almighty God made it easy for me to quit. Alhamdulillah
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so basically it means that you can listen to music only if it has not bad dirty lyrics and it is not promoting any awful thing ,as we all know there are musics out there which have a great meaning in them and promotes your mental to achieve higher goals in life
@@toshinahnaf8272 gold is haram to wear because you're showing off while others don't have any money, I don't see any negative effects of listening to a violin
@@toshinahnaf8272 I am not making things up, have you ever watched Naik Zakir or Mufti Menk? God has a reasoning for everything. That's why he orders us to learn and discover as mentioned in the Quran. When you blindly follow you are nothing else than a christian who follows the Roman church back in the middle ages. Why do you think the Islamic Golden Ages existed? It's because people went on gathering knowledge on why things were forbidden or allowed.
thats what im saying,phonk for example is very popular nowadays and doesnt have any dirty lyrics just aggresive and gives courage but google yet doesn't have an answer.
@@danooble2053 i have a question, but wouldn’t that just be a test They’re millions (i can bet my life on this) who listen to dirty music but don’t act on it. If you are god fearing you would have no problem listening and not replicating the things you hear
@@shayde3428 it’s not guaranteed tho? You may think that you can get a grip on yourself and not fall into making sins as you’re listening to “dirty” lyrics. This is syaitan’s way of making you jeopardize your iman because simply thinking it’s okay to listen without acting on it is like a shortcut to produce the sin
@@shayde3428 however in these days it’s hard to avoid music when you’re in public especially but we can make the effort by not enjoying the music or getting into it too much! It can affect that purity of the heart and play with our emotions, hope this helps
A melody, a zikr or a nath shareef that brings us close to Allah is something we should seek. We cannot deny that we are charmed by music but let's make good use of it❤️
My dear people As an orthodox christian, who thanks to his speeches i know more for islam than any other person who is ignorant in my country I want to ask you Christian music( East) is not haram if its not dirty It makes you bow and be silent. I hope more people come to listen( only listen or want to know more( i dont want anyone to change anything without permisson) but to acknoledge something.)
Sir, I'm a hindu though but I appreciate you a lot. In my personal opinion, music, like the one these days 'item songs' as a haram is right. Because we never realise how the dirty lyrics slowly with time diverts our minds. But I feel that traditional music, ghazal, qawwali, bhajan, saaregama.., and hindustani classical one, are really good to listen, or some good peaceful movie based songs. In general I feel, some singers regardless of the nation to which they belong have completely changed the meaning of songs and music from a pure thing to a horrible dirty one.
Shubhangi pant Music hides even the wrong ideas in songs and makes us listen, be it old songs or new songs, listen to it with your family without music and you will know.,,,
Salam brother, its right i live in the west part of the world and look at the lyrics of reaggeton (its a genre of music) over here its completly wrong, so much sexualisation, and sin in those lyrics and promote young generations to think completly wrong. it's insane my brother. Thanks Allah I just only like to listen to instrumental now, and in the way i see i will look in those genres that you mention
I feel sorry for so many who only focus on the negative songs apposed to the millions of beautiful songs with loving messages. People in the East seem to not have a very good knowledge base on music in the west at all. Only pop songs...which is one of dozens of genres. For shame on you all. Research properly before putting all your eggs in one basket.
I was a sinner but after hearing this around 6 years back I have deleted Spotify masha allah and I have deactivated Apple Music. Now I do salah 5 times a day Been to Mecca 10 times And now deen is my music Masha allah May allah grant me jannah
@@flowerboy_9Music isn't Haram 5.87] O you who believe! do not forbid (yourselves) the good things which Allah has made lawful for you and do not exceed the limits; surely Allah does not love those who exceed the limits. Allah makes it clear that he does not love the ones who exceed his limits, forbidding music is exceeding limits. “Say, "Did you note how God sends down to you all kinds of provisions, then you render some of them unlawful, and some lawful?" Say, "Did God give you permission to do this? Or, do you fabricate lies and attribute them to God? “ (Al Quran # 10:59) Allah has made it permissible for mankind to listen to music. But people fabricated lies and attributed it to Allah. “Ibn Abbas said, ‘Aishah gave a girl relative of hers in marriage to a man of the Ansar. The Prophet (s.a.w) came and asked, ‘Did you send a singer along with her?’ ‘No,’ she said. The Messenger of Allah then said: ‘The Ansar are a people who love poetry. You should have sent along someone who would sing, ‘here we come, to you we come, greet us as we greet you.'” Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) encouraged music when he went to see the people of Ansar “Volume 6, Book 61, Number 568: Narrated Abu Musa: That the Prophet said to him’ ‘O Abu Musa! You have been given one of the musical wind-instruments of the family of David .’” Abu Musa was given a wind instrument, if instruments are haram why has this happened? Psalms/Zabur, a holy book in Islam. Did you know that Psalms actually translates to "To play a stringed instrument"? If music is haram would it mean that I cannot read the Psalms? If a hadith has contradictory towards the Psalms, then it is not authentic. There is not one verse in the Quran that explicitly references music as prohibited, if there was music would have been haram. And no, Surah al Luqman 31:6 will not save you And of mankind is he who purchases idle talks (i.e. music, singing, etc.) to mislead (men) from the Path of Allah without knowledge, and takes it (the Path of Allah, the Verses of the Quran) by way of mockery. For such there will be a humiliating torment (in the Hell-fire). This verse states that people that purchase Idle talks (Singing or Music) without knowledge that misleads people from the Path of Allah, then they will be residents of Hellfire. Nowhere in this verse does it say that all music is haram Whoever says that all music is prohibited, let him also claim that the songs of birds are prohibited. - Imam Ghazali. Not all music is haram, only some aspects of music. Music that encourages Zina and intoxicants are haram, not music that encourages the deen and joy. Chart of Halal toHaram music I love Allah Subhana wa ta'ala and I always do my Salah Halal: Encourages the deen The war is long and my companions are gone Mubah: Does not affect the deen I got a gun, went to the church, shot up and had some fun Haram: Encourages Haram things
The most amazing and outstanding answer i have ever heard related to the topic. He conveyed the answer in a very relaxing way differentiating between the music of the modern era and classical music. It is really important to point out the difference between the types of music as mufti did. I myself hear only to instrumental music just to relax and to english and urdu poetry such as ghalib, iqbal, Shakespeare etc with a little beats in the bg. I don't know if what i do is right or wrong but may Allah forgive me for this if this is wrong. But really he answer given in this video is outstanding
@@zein555 Brother I visited this page after long time and I'm telling u by the grace and guidance of Allah my parents didn't allow me fall to such low acts of indecency. Love u too brother for the sake of Islam 😍👍
@@zein555 Brother if u have the right atmosphere and influence u can do anything and if u dont then u should that place because in the end Allah will judge you according to who u were with so having positive supporters who direct u towards deen is really important . Btw Kaneki, I 'Lowkey' hope we can be brothers in deen 💪😍
@zulu bubWhere did you get this ridiculously incorrect number from? Whom did you count? You are stupid folk, you can't even count correctly, but what to expect from the inbreds.
@@George-iv1hi You realise how pathetic your life is to stay in muslim videos insulting and saying those things? You're just proving that muslims are great and better than you little hater. Hope you will find a decent mind in cha Allah. Oh and islam is going to be the first religion in 50 years statistics say, poor you
@@Whitina77 Muslims never were great, they only destroyed everything they put their hands on. Islam will never rule the world - it is your stupid, unrealistic dream only - islam is dying. Statisctics say that you and a dog have three legs.
It of course is,but you heard that "shaking your body on music tunes that's sound dirty" said mufti menk. And here l am saying you can hear sad songs when your sad you can hear happy ones just to cheer up your mood but, search the halal ones yes l am saying "SEARCH THE HALAL SONGS" which are not dirty my heart says you can hear songs "BECAUSE HUMAN BRAIN CAN BE RELAXED BY HEARING MUSIC" Don't take me ln a wrong way nothing is wrong in just hearing songs either then dancing on them in a Haram way.
@@zoyashaik1663 As a muslim, I believe that human brain can be relaxed by hearing the Quran, not music. Allah has sent down his melodious book to us and that is enough. I think we don't need to listen to songs to remove sadness, It will not effect anything. The sad songs will make you more sad. But it would be better if you listen to the recitation of Quran. Allah said in the Quran, ''Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah hearts are assured." [Quran - 13:28] Ok, if you need something extra, I would suggest you to hear Islamic nasheeds. There are many beautiful nasheeds which are far better than music. I can recommend you some if you want 😄
you dont know how much he's helping me with this situation because he doesnt force the information onto you but just firmly informes you and now, im pretty sure ill have less trouble giving it up now (IA)
He approached it with a common ground in mind that even the Christians and the Jews would agree upon. Yet, our own Ummah is tearing each other apart by pushing down their opinions on other ummah's throat.
@@wahidpawana424 i agree, some people just dont understand how to keep their own thoughts to themselves. Other people dont understand that other have opinions too
“People are tampering with our minds.” Man this man kept it very honest and he’s very right about that. Nowadays everyone thinks: the opposite sex “ain’t sh%t.” Or that guys/girls want is “sex.” Or that you can’t “trust anyone.” Or they promote use of vanity. It’s creating a toxic mindset in people who listen to such music.. As a Christian, personally I love techno and music without lyrics. Something very primal that speaks to my human nature.
yes, the subconscious mind doesn't have the ability to tell what is right or wrong, the lyrics we keep listening to get fed to the subconscious mind and then those things get fed to the conscious mind. These lyrics literally affect us even if we realize it or not.
@@gokulskumar7156 | everything indoctrinates everyone, our environment is filled with things that effect us on a personal level even if we don't realize it. our subconscious mind is always taking in information. but what we must do is to prevent ourselves from the negative influences and move towards positive influenced. and I think if we stop teaching religion, then we are by default promoting atheism. so I think it at the end of the day, it comes down to personal preference. Would YOU choose to refrain from teaching your children religion? but since my preference is religion, I will teach my children religion. and since there is such a big divide in society between religion and atheism that it is impossible to make society one way or another. so yea, we don't need to force beliefs on each other, at the end of the day we are all going to die... and no one knows what comes after...
I’m a Christian and I respect and love my muslim brothers, I often learn from them, and what he says is totally true, I used to listen dirty raps, with awful lyrics, but now I realize how dirty they were and I feel disgusted, embrace God, control your vocabulary and don’t get fake desires from those dirty songs, remember to listen to the wise, much respect from Bolivia 🇧🇴
May allah help us and guide us to not go on the wrong paths.. And i request my brothers and sisters to make dua for me in quitting music totally and replacing it with beauty of quran
Alhamdulillah ❤️ I’m glad music with a good message isn’t haram inshallah. Because I don’t know how I would live without music. God comes first always, but music is also a big part of me.
@Dan Lumo Hadhrat Abu Maalik Ash'ari (radhiyallahu anhu) says that he heard Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) say: "Most certainly, there will be in my Ummah people who will make lawful fornication, silk, liquor and musical instruments." (Bukhaari) Hadhrat Ali Bin Abi Taalib (radhiyallahu anhu) narrates that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said: "When my Ummah indulges in fifteen misdeeds, calamities will settle on them. Among these are singing girls and musical instruments." (Tirmizi) Hadhrat Abdullah Bin Umar (radhiyallahu anhu) narrates: "Verily, Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) made haraam liquor, gambling, the musical drum and the tambourine. And, every intoxicant is haraam." (Ahmad and Abu Dawood) Hadhrat Ibn Abbaas (radhiyallahu anhu) narrated: "The musical drum (tablah) is haraam. Liquor is haraam, and musical instruments are haraam." (Kaf-fur Ruaa') Hadhrat Ali (radhiyallahu anhu) narrated: "Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) forbade beating the duff, playing the harp and blowing the flute." (Kanzul Ummaal) Music is indeed haram, there are many more hadiths that state this. Why do you have awra as your pfp? Has the haram of music led you to zina?
I am speaking from Bangladesh. My honors 4th year exam, final year. I want dua from everyone. May Allah give me the ability to get good results. Give me permission to do something good. Ameen.
what is if the music is just motivating and non sexual, like for example "Legends Never Die" or "Believer" I mean these songs clearly doesnt encourage any sort of love, sexual or hate speech, its just giving you adrenaline for what it could for work or maybe gym. So is that kind of music still considered haram or is permissible as long as it doesnt involves any slangs in it.
A question I wonder about too. This topic is really thrown under the rug. I have seen a friday salaah rap in english. And it was a very interesting and enjoyable music, describing friday prayer. My thoughts would be music is like sword, and you can use it to kill, or make miso soup.
@Jay SinghIslam is the lie - where is this truth in it? Allah is pagan moon deity worshiped by pagan Arabs in the time of this fraud, muhammad. Read the history, the real history, not muslim propaganda.
But he only gave one side to the music about it sexually "hyping" you up as he says? What about other type of music? One that relaxes you for example? Or helps you concentrate?
He had mentioned the fact about substituting the Quran with music. Why do this when we have our own melody with the Quran that will indeed help you relax and concentrate. Music is just something that we should avoid if we strive to become closer to Allah
Shiro Allahu alam, but the bottom line is if you want to please your creator then it should be in your best interest to avoid music as it is considered Laghv meaning that it is just a distraction from the remembrance of Allah which is what is important. Not only is music considered to be laghv but also movies, shows, games etc. May Allah protect us all from laghv آمين يا رب العالمين
Dear muslim brothers and sisters, I really need a dua to help me go through hard times. I am falling down a dark path, I feel I want to better myself as a muslim, but at the same time I am disencouraged to for some reason. I focus solely on trying to be successful and grant my family a better life, yet I am ashamed to say I have forgotten about the most important part of my life. Islam. I haven't forgotten it completely, I'm just beginning to stray away from it day by day, and I feel as if I crawl and climb this very large ladder to go back into it. But I fall off the ladder, and repeat it constantly. Please give me Dua.
This answer resonated with my thinking I listened to music for couple of years of my life Nearly Not a single artist is there which i have not listened but music brings discomfort to you soul and mind no doubt about that especially todays music. So refrain from it. Its not better for us believers we are seeking Allah(subhanahuta'la 's )pleasure listen to the quran what an amazing variety of reciters are there I personally love omar hisham al arabi But everyone has a different taste
xzxy its not the musics fault if you’re a rotten human being. if you do bad things, thats on you, you yourself are to blame for doing stupid things, not music
since i stop listen music , now im become more easier learn quran etc. and can focus pray etc, rather than remembering lyrics, i prefer remembering quran/surah
you do realize you can memorize surah's and music lyrics right? You don't have to do one or the other, you can do both at the same time. Just make sure the music you choose to listen to is clean or has a positive meaning
@@nutcoatz6230 depend on the music. if music from nicky minaj or etc which is content nasty,sex,drugs lyrics...no thank u. Anyway morethan 60-80% lyrics of music is about sex,love,dating,drugs etc. so i prefer not listen at all.
@@ibrahim15ibrahim ok idk who told you that 60-80% of music is innapropriate, but I already told you that as long as the music you listen to has a positive meaning then its fine. You aint gotta just stop listening to all music lol
The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said: (1) "Allah Mighty and Majestic sent me as a guidance and mercy to believers and commanded me to do away with musical instruments, flutes, strings, crucifixes, and the affair of the pre-Islamic period of ignorance."
*To all Muslims* (Who listen to kpop or other music), if you are seeing this hear me out and just quickly read this message as a reminder (try to read all) Trust me this fangirling/fanboying does not get you anywhere in the long run. (I am not hating on BTS at all, just a reminder to my fellow brothers and sisters). They are merely humans and obsessiveness can easily take over people as it does to lots of Armys (and to me), but tbh true peace does not come from their music, but the word of Allah (God). I also used to be really into music, but true peace is found when you let go even if you think this music is different (meaning does not support the use of alcohol, using drugs, or objectifying women). I used to be a huge fan for 6 years, and I tried to improve my depression/happiness by constantly listening to BTS and other groups, but in the end I saw no real benefit even though the music seemed to make me happy, it was momentary (very short) and then life went back to the depressive state. Trust me true peace is when you take God's path... try it, just listen to the Quran consistently with translations whenever you feel like listening to music (I suggest Ibrahim Walk's translation with Mishary Alafasy)... Cause I used to be that one to say that this type of music is not haram. Truth is, it is haram based on authentic hadiths, but just think about it; is it getting you closer to Allah or farther away. Without you knowing you will see yourself wasting your time. I sincerely do not mean to hate or call Armys out, but I just want to let you know that the solution to the emptiness or depression you have is not the music. You may think it is, but it is temporary happiness that will you lead further away from God in the long run. Now the real Question needs to be asked... Don't you want to hear what God is trying to tell you (from the Quran)? Or is wasting your time on these things more beneficial, because the average teen spends 5 hours listening to music every day; 45% of it including inappropriate lyrics that will damage your brain and thinking pattern even if you think it won't. So ask yourself, isn't it time for change? Assalamualykum, sorry if it sounded preachy, but my only point is to help the youth like me who are suffering from depression or wanting happiness from music, and they think music will fully solve their problems.
everything you said is on point and i strongly agree with you!! Most of the bts songs are about self love and confidence but it is addictive and we spend so much time listening to music . I’ve been trying to limit hours of listening to songs. I literally can’t do anything without some music in the background. i think it’s the reason why it’s not allowed . anything in excess is bad for humans.it’s impossible to listen to one or two songs daily for relaxation . it’s addictive and you will always want more ..
Heyy i agree with u completely i am still an army but not because of their music because of then cuz i love them n i prayed that they get the guidance of allah inshallah if not in thiis world we shall meet in jannat💯💜
Assalamualaykum, Please read all of this as I am sincerely trying to help you (Allah is the best helper), but I am only a reminder. *The best way to give up BTS/KPOP obsession would be to* : Understand they are wasting your time, or the content they produce is wasting your time in the long run. Which you already did in your comment, so that's a good start. You said "When they smile it makes me happy." You need to understand that true happiness/contentment lies with Allah, which means obeying him will lead you to true success in this life and the hereafter. So anything that makes you happy is only a deceptive tool to make you happy in a temporary/fake way. Allah says in the Quran, in Surah Ali Imran 3: 185: "The life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception." The next thing to understand is that they are normal people like us, so why should we idolize them based on their appearance on the camera. So can you like them for who they really are? I mean sure you can say they are this and that, but you do not truly know what type of people they are in their private lives so why should you be obsessed about them. Rather you should be a follower of the best man who existed on the earth, who is Prophet Muhammad. We know about his life from his private relatives, he never raised his voice at people and his personality was the best of anyone. So why should we not read about his life and try to follow his example? One thing that is very important that you said, which was wrong, is when you said: "But sadly they won't be happy after their death". This is completely wrong to say because they could likely become Muslims that have the highest level in Paradise, and we could be the opposite. But we ask Allah to guide us to the straight path in every instance. So this is wrong to say because only knows. And yes you can pray for them to become Muslim. So try to make alternatives for the KPOP content you watch, like : Quran, lectures, etc. It will be tough at first because your desires will kick in and want you to go back, but you will get use to a healthy lifestyle for your soul, inshaAllah (God Willing). These are things for you to understand, but the best way is to make Dua because Allah says in the Quran (40:60): "Call upon me, I will respond to you" That is the best way. Another reminder, some people think that if their duas are not accepted immediately or they are not accepted the way they wanted that Allah is not accepting their dua. But really the example can be given like when a boy is young. He asks for a car from his dad at that age. Will his dad give him the car or will he say no, I will give it to you when the right time comes. They want the best for you, the same way Allah does and Allah loves us more than our parents, remember. So Allah knows what's best for you, so never give up on dua because every dua is accepted. Be strong and don't give up because this life is short and if we don't change now, and better ourselves; it might be too late. I would like to propose you to watch a video in your free time (One of my favorite sheiks): m.ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-FNT9Q362yF4.html Peace be upon you, Assalamualaykum
I couldn't have said it any better mashaAllah, you've articulated ur thoughts so perfectly. its just so hard to make your friends/acquaintances realize how momentary these things are...how they're not ACTUALLY benefitting you at all in the long run, just momentary happiness. I really pray Allah guides us, allows us to remain steadfast on our Imaan and blesses us with good company. Ameen.
@@freddiem6805 Oh dear, I'm quite sorry. I meant only to say that the elements of his speech were true, but you are correct when you say that only God can be absolute. This man's speech can always be improved or changed to be closer to the truth; only one being _is_ the truth. Thanks.
@@scar3xcr0 the way you said it makes it look like you are ignorant and being sarcastic. This is the difference between him saying 'my son' and someone like you saying it.
@@archerverse13 it was normal for people to marry when they hit puberty a long time ago. Not only for Muslims but everyone. This was about 1450ish years ago. A lot has changed since then.. even my grandparents got married when they were 16
@@archerverse13 before you say a 6 year old hasn’t reached puberty, you’re wrong because it’s different for everyone I have a sister who’s 6 and she had reached puberty when she was 5.
The more I study Islam, the more grateful I am to be an ex-muslim and atheist free from religious, especially Islam. Music = Expression of Love, creativity and life. They are afraid of people expanding their thinking and learning they are indoctrinated into a terrible cult.
not me.. He is kind of wrong you see it's not about music exactly it's about how u see music. I don't see it as a sexual thing I see it as a good beat i could dance to, not twerk, DANCE.. so you could listen to it but not if your gonna imagine you with some girl just listen to that beat and dance. NOT TWERK....
music is bad, no matter classic or modern. I can explain. after my converting to Islam the brother told me:" make experiment, don't listen to music 2 weeks and then you can start listening to it again, but please listen to your heart " it was hard for me as experiment, because I awoke with music and fell asleep with music, though I already started practicing solat 5 times per day. so I want to say, that when I stopped listening to music and I noticed my heart was clear during solat when I was praying, it was very delicious solat. after 2 weeks I started listening to music again and I lost that sweet feeling in my heart during solat. then I made my choice. I stopped listening to music and do not tolerate it anymore
+Cao Mengde It's your choice, same as many of weak people. Because it's really takes a lot of strength not to be a follower of own desires, to be on the right way in the meaning how prophet Muhammad (may Allah bless him) and his friends understood Islam. I studied that question about music. Please study it, too. It may change all your life to the better. Just note, in Quran we see "many people" they don't know(7/187), they don't believe(11/17), they aren't thankful (2/243).We see "many among people" are reprobates (5/59), don't know (6/111), turn away (21/24), don't listen (8/21). We see "only few" are thankful to Allah (34/13). Ibn AL Kayim told:" follow the truth, and don't be sad for the reason of loneliness that only few follow the truth , be careful about way of lie, and don't make yourself be fooled with multiplicity or greatness of sinners". I know it's hard to confirm Allah dislikes music and shaitan loves it. But if you belong to yourself, you'll make a right choice from the truth. May Allah help you.
from last year i don't doubt in number of raka't of salah just because i stop listening music otherwise i always forget how many rakat i have prayed and how many i have left. so yes stop listening music is beneficial for concentration(for sure) and memory(maybe).
