@Emily Rockefeller actually, men tend to lead which is the exact opposite of doing what youre told so... yeah. I get why you say what you say because it benefits you, but we both know its untrue.
My boyfriend used to buy me flowers on every date until I told him to stop spending on that cause flowers don't last long and I feel bad throwing them away 😂💐
I love that about my wife. She says what she means and is ready to overlook my still stupid "mistakes". Steve is exactly right. Tell me what you expect from me and we can all live happily everafter!
I really like this advice. Tell the man your standards - I like a guy that's on time, that follows through with his word, that acts with kindness and respect. I also like chocolates...
We also like a woman that’s ready at the time she’s supposed to be ready. If she says 8 be ready at 8 not 8:30. And like Chappelle said. Chivalry is dead. Women killed it.
@@TheOneAndOnlyHypnotist I don't think that men are intelligent enough to get it. "Mind games" is another phrase for too "stupid to understand". Even literall meaning is too much for quys.
True words. I hate to read in between the lines especially with women. I like straight forwards sentences. Even if it can hurt a little but then i know whats wrong and what i can do about it.
If She Has to tell Him to send her Flowers, that's not any fun and she really won't appreciate it. She has to notice what is romantic about him and appreciate it or accept that he's not a romantic kind of person and move on if she's not happy.
Writing under a family member's account here I'm 35 and male...never expect a guy to pick up on hints...just tell him what you want. Maybe she doesn't want flowers if the guy knows to get them. Then that means she has to figure out what she really does want and ask him for that. It takes two people exerting effort to make a relationship work. Don't be that woman that doesn't know what they want and expect others to figure it out. Thats how you end up in your 50s single with cats.
But, but, but.... What do I like? I like a man who's NOT stupid. And that doesn't mean he gives me flowers. It means neither of us have to play extravagant games like sending flowers just to get some back.
Hmmm... not exactly the same as a GIFT you know?? Or maybe you really don't know!! Which is so extremely sad! My man bought me gifts that were a surprise and he knocked them out the park!! Sore there are some mistakes (really so tiny not worth mentioning) but if he really loves you he's not going to be this lazy and go out and really put some thought and effort into this!!
@@laurendixon278 well we can't really take what women say like that. Either consciously or unconciously you are lying :) Men are honest and we know what we want thats why its so easy to like or dislike a guy. But women tend to hide their tendecies and its harder to understand yall, because your sexual dreams and your romantic and logical dreams of what you want are sometimes on the other sides of the spectrum. Thats why. Don't make it to be a sexist thing like "You wouldn't to listen a woman" We just don't like to listen to people who don't know what they want and what they are :)
if it's just a couple of Months don't ask yet. but if he gives you the title you have to tell him what you like. I did this to my Man, he never sent anyone flowers in his life but because I told him this is my standard and told him what I want, he does what I want to please and make me happy. He even started planning good feel dates because it is my requirement. Men do not read between the lines and they do not take hints. Just be straight forward with him, if he really loves you he will give you what you want. If NOT then at least you know when to end the relationship.
So that's why you're still Ms. Because you treat your man like a dog. Pet your guy for me and tell him he's "a good boy" getting you flowers and holding up to your standards.
Floyboy Luciano - You are so correct, these women who come on his show, they have got to be paid because no woman with sense would be asking a three time married man for any type of relationship advice.
BUT HERE IN THE PHILIPPINES, COURTING IS JUST ONE WAY OF SHOWING APPRECIATIONS OF A GIRLS/WOMANs PRESENCE... and HAVING FLOWERS at HAND is our GESTURE of SHOWING our LOVE and UNDERSTANDING towards the WOMAN we LOVE... that's how MEN in the PHILIPPINES treat their WOMEN...
Tbh me personally i'm not always clueless when a lady is trying sumthing. Ik what girls are trynna say or get me to do most of the time. I just act clueless n dumb cuz of me being really shy. And as much as I see what they're trynna do, I still let em be sneaky or w.e cuz I could be wrong and if I tried what I believe what they want from me, theres a chance of me embarrassing myself and for someone who deals with anxiety, I'd hate to be embarrassed for trying be a "know it all" although it may be obvious what shes doin. Idk, it'll help more if you just be straight up with me 😬
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0:03-0:15 That blonde woman in the back making faces is killing me, i haven't laughed like this in a while! :D I hope nothings wrong with her, i would feel like an idiot for laughing so much.
Poor man, Steve ruined the chance of getting flowers 💐. I am a man and I love flower 🌺. I used to help my Mom in her garden and the love for flowers grew from there .
Steve is actually very intelligent, what he is saying is actually a man and woman problem. She is trying to get flowers, honesty is the way out don't go buying stuff to prove your point if you weren't honest about who you are in the first place.
My girl asked why i don't give her flowers,i told the bills that you are supposed to help pay but don't,then you always short on gas money when you haven't help with bills,those are your flowers,enjoy while they last
I remember, once my gf (ex now) gave me a flower. I just put it inside my suitcase and got crushed between the books. I couldn't walk one hand carrying my suitcase and the other taking the flower... that day didn't end well...
Maybe you just need to get used to it? I know I was a bit uncomfortable to it when I was younger, because I just wasn't treated well by guys back then! But now! Once you meet a gent it comes much more naturally!!
When that man is the One, you won't need to beg or do anything but trust the Lord for it. If they ask you, tell them whatever you're led to say but it's all just for communication and confirmation as time goes by.
Upset because a man doesn't indulge her in materialism. Every man has their own love language. Does he cook and clean for you? Does he treat you like a princess. Is he thoughtful and considerate. Do you buy him video games every now and then? Get your own flowers seriously.
This is funny I just searched for “why do women go out with idiots?” But this is a great video because the women asking the question is obviously in a crap relationship and should leave and find a better bloke
Here’s a thought: Instead of trying to “sneak in the flower comment,” why not just do the simple thing and tell him from the start…”I love flowers.” See how simple that is? No guessing games, no trying to read minds, no confusion. Just tell him ladies…and of course, vice versa.
So let me get this straight... WHAT ABOUT THE MEN WHO DO HELP THEIR WIVES OUT!!! I bet a man could treat a female with plenty of respect like buy her dinner, get her flowers, pretty much respect her in every way THEN SHE WOULD HAVE THE FUCKING NERVE TO SAY! "Hey I am a girl and I am smarter then you" Girl: Yep really... Guy: Okay then... Girl: Sucker... Guy: Just let me know when you finished fixing my ford F-350 pickup truck. Girl: ? Guy: Oh and when your done with that the pipes to the sink under the house need repairs.. Guy: THANKS BABE! Girl: Wtf?
This is the basic thing that women have trouble with. If you want a man to do something, or to stop doing something, you have to actually say it. As in speak the actual words clearly. Don't expect us to "take the hint" or "read between the lines" cause we won't. We really are that daft.
You have a very unique circle of men in your life. Your average man isn't into getting flowers. I would be puzzled if my girlfriend or wife bought flowers for me.
I'm a woman . An tbh I do less an I get more..I do more an I get less Men aren't stupid sometimes a guy will see your gift and think your trying to buy him off.. not even narcissistic men they the worst when accepting gifts an being thankful. Thats why narcissistic men will use gifts as a way to dishonor u because they see you as silly.honestly. i believe the less you do for a man the more the man do. Because a man is always going to want to feel like a man in the relationship. An what I have notice sometimes a man listen to us when we are complaining..like my boyfriend. I use to tell him I want him to act right and stuff I didn't ask for materialistic thing. An the time I thought he wasn't listening he actually was listening. An he changed an he brought my wedding right an we are getting married. A man will ask you guys for money to test you. My man i knew for 8 years and dated for 2 going on 3 years. Money was a test in our relationship..a man doesn't need a woman cash he was surviving with and without u. A healthy guy will see if u are able to come threw when hes in need. A healthy man A narcissistic man will use it as a form to manipulate you an control you. The less u make to them or what they consider less. They discard u because u cannot help them..in they eye. But a healthy man will use your money to tell if you can help him financially in struggling. So they make up a lie to see if you will come threw an most woman mess up right here. Just like women test men ..men also test women
Let's not forget that Steve Harvey is a comedian so if you are taking his comments to heart and as good advice then I don't know what to tell you. I think he's just funny to watch. Men and women just need better communication between each other...none of us can mind read
Right? I've never been asked that question. Maybe the guys I've dated didn't care, or maybe I just haven't dated trash who obsess over overly-defined gender roles.
I admit that sometimes man are clueless but men are not stupid that statement is not true are good that's like saying women are stupid which they are not asking God for forgiveness Steve because God created good men in this world and some of us are very smart and intelligent and wise
