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I really love how the guy on the end kind of lightened the tension between everyone when he made the joke about competing with girls like even I laughed and he seems like a nice person 😭😭❤
honestly i think it's not going to change anything, koreans don't have an American or French mentality, there are plenty of mentalities which has been present for centuries and which aren't likely to change so soon
@@grace2128 Could be, could not be. Depends on the person. I personally know many korean ppl who could have been described as racist/sexist/homophobic/bigoted at that age but grew up & changed their mentality once they got educated about the world.
@@infpya Wwo that's a good development, I really hope they change their mentality on these kinds of things because because of their homophobia they are being boycotted by thai people I hope that even if it's little by little their mentality will change because it's too much
I really like the girl she seems more open minded but was mostly quiet, maybe caz she thought they wouldnt agree with her but im sure she wanted to say smtg more. feel bad for the guy who got hurt when the middle dude said he would cut him off if he was gay lol anyway thanks queenie for another great vid!!💙
Why would you feel bad about an hypothetical situation 😂😂 Even if it came to pass, they're all grown ups, it's okay to reject someone when you don't like them (if they try to make a move obviously).
the guy in the middle was an absolute d*ck. too bad to see that homophobia still perpetuates amongst Korea's young generations. still a veryyyyy long way to go compared to Japan
@@yamiletsoler3464 yeah but to hear a close friend of yours say that they would stop being friends with you just because you were queer is really messed up (as a bisexual myself)
Well, to each their own. It's amazing they were quite honest about their opinions, although I don't agree with all of them. I think people should be able to have civilized conversations like this even if we have differing opinions, so this was good to see.
I’m glad that this was a constructive conversation with differing opinions, it really puts into perspective that Korea holds many people with different opinions, same as America. I really hope that people stop hating on the people in the video because this is one of the first videos I’ve seen that is more honest about the reality of Korea, and I worry that the hate people get in this video might be taken into consideration the next time someone makes a video on Korea and others will be wary of being entirely truthful because they’ll be worried about getting hated on. The people who clicked on this video clearly wanted truthful and honest opinions so it’s time to be respectful when disagreeing with them in the comments, please have a little empathy that some people in the video were not raised the same as you and therefore do not have the same knowledge as you about the world and it’s important to treat them with care as well and hope that they will try to make an effort to learn more.
People will always judge others based on their own biases. It doesn’t matter where you are from. Folks should be themselves, always, no matter how others will see them. Stand for what you believe. You will learn things are not always how you see life through different experiences. Only you can change perspective through those. But, never be afraid to be you. Not everyone has to like you, nor do you have to like everyone. It’s ok.
He said, there is misunderstanding and ppl like "clean" skin, so it doesn't have to be white/pale skin. (not always). as a south korean, I agree with him. it's true that many koreans like white, bright, or clean skin (especially about women), but clean skin matters than skin color. Also surely, there are koreans who like darker skin too and many koreans don't have pale skin either! 🙂 and i have darker skin as a SK woman. (but korean women tend to try to have more white/bright skin..) and all skin color should be respected. i think koreans don't discriminate by skin color, but if you have white or clean skin, especially as a woman, many koreans who like white skin will like it. that's all..!
@@seren6cher8ryso basically you said he’s both right & wrong😂let’s be honest east asia mainly likes white skin whether it be for colorism or do to poor farmers being darker from being out the sun & the wealthy being paler mentality they got😭all that trying to add in clean skin shit to that topic was just bs lol
Koreans have fairly light skin by default so people who have darker skin get it by getting tanned which inevitably comes other kinds of sun damage like freckles and uneven skin tone. That's why Koreans think of pale and clear almost equivalently. They come together. If korea had been multi ethnic for some time we would've differentiated those two more clearly but these perceptions are generated by Koreans looking at other Koreans
Right, I’m bi and I get not agreeing with our lifestyle, just be respectful about it. But saying gay ppl should hide it is so yucky, that’s what a lot of gay people have been doing for literal decades.
@@strudelh I have no problems with the lifestyle as long as they know I'm not. All the gay guys always hit on me, which is the problem when they know I'm not gay. Guys are always horny, so they constantly hit on people, but if their target isn't female, they know that if a man rejects them. the guy being hit on negatively with remarks as are you homophobic and such, whereas if a man hits on a female and the female rejects him, the guy doing the hitting will be looked upon negatively.
@@strudelh I have no problems with the lifestyle as long as they know I'm not. All the gay guys always hit on me, which is the problem when they know I'm not gay. Guys are always horny, so they constantly hit on people, but if their target isn't female, they know that if a man rejects them. the guy being hit on negatively with remarks as are you homophobic and such, whereas if a man hits on a female and the female rejects him, the guy doing the hitting will be looked upon negatively.
the most shocking part of this video was when the guy in the middle said gay people should hide who they are 💀but then he has the audacity to say we're all the same ???
I think that people like him have no awareness about history or the realities of the world, they need to take time to educate themselves, because if their opinion or beliefs are to judge or degrade others for their identity or personal differences that is an issue between them and their God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. Thank God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today Human Rights exist. Which they also enjoy and protect equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
@Jhnkiyvfdc Because he's brainwashed. In his mind he shouldn't have to hide who he is, that would be persecution. But anyone he doesn't like should hide who they are. 💀💀 So individualistic and self centered.
The only way to prove if being gay is natural is to look at animals in how they engage with one another. If they aren’t naturally having relations of the same sex as their own, then why do humans think it’s natural to do so?
Everyone in the comments saying what the middle guy said isn't homophobic is baffling. He literally said if his friend came out as gay he would slowly cut him off is literally homophobia. Putting someone around you in a position where they need to choose whether to be open and true to themselves or keep a friendship is literal homophobia and not a preference. He has his opinion which everyone is entitled to but his opinion is if you're gay hide it. Like??? And for everyone who thinks gay people are all loud about their sexuality and you know....pride and cross-dressing that is such a small representation of queer people and sadly the most depicted.
He’s just following his religion🤡 + would he cut off his religion and believes for a friend? Ofc not because he cares about where would he end up at the end no one will matter to you ur family friends pets money and everything else you’re gonna only think about YOURSELF wether ur going to hell or heaven but suit yourself don’t come at the day of judgement crying
@@nuggs9999 because those people who disapprove are real Christians!! Many Cristians these days are Christians by name only they dont even do any worshiping but call themselves Christians I am a muslim and its considered haram to support or be one of the community the same thing with Christians and i think jewish people too (not sure) it is forbidden.
@@ninabessaiah1388 in a way that’s what i was referring to but i doubt he’s actually read even one of the books, probably hates just to hate. he brought up religion but didn’t say how it ties into religion which even i could have brought up. if i debated him i bet he’d have no actual reason that he could state on my he isn’t okay with it. can’t just say christianity without bringing up factual scripture references
thank you for the q&a! this is by far the best one i’ve seen with the most accurate and understandable answers. also about the homophobia, honestly it just shows more like obviously not everyone is on the same page about every single issue and no matter what there will be people who think like that, but the good news is that there are also wonderful people who will accept you or at the very least try to understand you if you put in the same effort.
It's crazy to me that people are so bothered by others life choices. (LGBT+) Like if it has no effect on you, why do you care so much?!? I just don't get it 🤦🏽♀️ like let people live their lives & be happy.
Given Donggeun's religion, his environment, and how he was raised, I'm not shocked. Korea is very conservative. I actually commend him for being willing to talk openly about how he feels even though we fundamentally disagree. I hope that he doesn't continue to confine himself to these beliefs as he gets older, because anybody has the capacity to find love and be attracted to anybody else, even when you're least expecting it. If he were to ever develop those sorts of feelings later on in life, he'd feel so ashamed. We deserve to celebrate love and be happy and treat people kindly.
Just cause he doesn't share the same open mentality as you do it doesn't mean he is wrong for following what he accepts as the right thing, lgbt people always want to be respected but you can't respect a religion of someone just cause you don't agree, nobody have to accept you, and that's just how life is, there's so many people u don't like also and there will be so many people that won't like you
@@cynthiagauthier8897 do you really think that a some kid really was biological born as homosexual? They just chosen what they prefer as they get older, and why beliefs shouldn't be respected? It means that If I truly believe that I'm a dinosaur so I'm biological Born as one? I don't hate lgbt but why do you have to try to prove to everyone that you're some kind of "special" gender instead of just living as everyone minding your own business. Black people don't go around telling everyone they're black and should be respected as one, they are just humans like everyone and that's why they deserve to be respected as a human being, it is just about YOUR identity so just keep it to yourself, nobody has to look at a man wearing a dress and call him as she just cause he prefer to have relation with man, that's just he's personal life nobody have to know about your personal life and agree with you, everyone is different and we should celebrate the difference but why should not we celebrate or even just respect a opinion or beliefs that doesn't agree with yours?
Being homosexual is not a biological fact it's a way of life, and not everyone has to accept it for there own reasons. As long as we are respectful to each other we can have peace.
The one who didn't support the same sex attraction? Nahh he was just voicing his opinions. I think it was pretty brave of him to be honest. He stood up for his religion when everyone else in the room clearly disagreed.
@@ChicaLocaForever16Yh but if he would want to unfriend gay people simply for that, it would make sense that people who support LGBT would want to unfriend him too I feel?🤷🏻♀️
If you wear makeup than you're doing the same thing, right? Essentially? Making yourself look better than you really are? Same deal with hair styling and conditioner and various skin creams. This is the same as that - no worse than wearing makeup, and but nobody sees wearing makeup as problematic because everyone does it, it's normalised. This is just a different method that western people are not used to. And by the way, the 'white' skin thing in Korea comes from a completely different circumstance and history to the traditional western 'racist against people with black skin' thing. The western 'white skin' thing and the Korean 'white skin' thing are not related at all.
@@fransmith3255how is making yourself whiter, making yourself look better ? also it doesn’t matter if those don’t have the exact same roots, at the end of the day It’s about discrimination which is wrong. doesn’t matter if it’s a race matter or a classism matter
@@na-xw8rt You are relating this to western culture and western racism. The Korean wish to look paler has nothing to do with western racism between black and white people. Absolutely nothing!! It's not related at all. It is to do with Korean culture and Korean history. Western culture is not the only culture on Earth and other cultures don't necessarily relate to western culture at all. It's exactly the same principle as wearing makeup - better looking people are treated better. That's discrimination done by makeup. Is makeup discrimination?
@@na-xw8rt Yes. It's rooted in historical classism. So do other countries have classism - just expressed differently. In America classism is much, MUCH worse, right? Classism in America is being accosted and arrested just because people have dark skin. Western prejudices are much MUCH worse than they are in Korea. We don't exactly have the right to judge...
I love the honesty of the group and everyone is entitled to their opinion. I see some hostility about the alphabet people but hey, even they are entitled to their opinions too. Be safe out there.
you are so right. He has a right to have his opinions and there is nothing wrong about it. I think he was talking about this. Forcing other people to like and accept Alphabet ppl and not allowing honesty is so wrong.
"I don't have a reason, I just don't like it" .... I mean I get it and appreciate his honesty, but personally I hope to always be able to unpack and understand my feelings vs just being told what not to like and being like "ok yeah" when told how to feel/think
This!! Im a christian myself and I don’t personally agree with homosexuality as it goes against God’s teachings but I don’t hate on them either because I get the liberty to believe in God and I get free will. By that, I mean that others also get free will too and I can’t force them to believe in God. I can tell them about Him if they are curious but that’s it. All I can do is respect them as human beings and not condemn them because it’s not my job. Does not mean I support homosexuality itself though. I just won’t treat someone differently for being part of it.
@@Yurina-d9m let me ask you, just out of curiosity really, if you were to be seated in a restaurant and the people lets say in eyesight of you are obviously gay. Be that holding hands, sitting close together or something around those lines, would you get up and move or continue with your day?
@@disorderlymatron5534I personally have and had LGBTQ+ friends. I’ve literally gone right after church with fellow christians to a restaurant where our favorite gay waiter works because he’s such a funny and kind guy. I don’t mind people doing with their life whatever they want. I’m not interested in their sexual or romantic life. This is what I tell judgy christians. Now if they are being extremely sexual in front of my kids (and they don’t even have to be LGBTQ) like twerking, tongue kissing, grabbing each other’s parts (I’ve seen people like that) then obviously I will walk away. This is what I tell judgy christians. You can call yourself a christian and be a bad christian and end up in hell and someone that’s gay, accept Jesus with all their heart, even if it’s right before dying, and go to heaven so don’t judge. hope that helps.
Aw im so glad u did this. I dated a girl from corea when i was in my late teens. Dating me she was only around black americans n first gen west african Americans. They loved her and she loved them. I asked her what her first impressions were bc in america, a lot of ppl r shy around black folks out of fear. But she said she was shy… but not for the same reasons. She said black ppls perception in corea is that they are cool, ladies men, etc. So it was more starstruck type ish. And that was the first time I heard of a perception of black ppl being widely positive. Ur friends echoing that is so on point. I get the clear skin thing being the main thing. But i do think pale is a positive factor as well. BUT pale has only been popping in corea for like a decade. In the 90s and 00s they were all tan. Like Brazilian type skin. But they still liked it clear. So the pale thing is i think just the beauty standards evolving like anywhere else in the world. When i visit corea i see plenty of tan ppl and ppl married to african immigrants, etc. I think the bottom line is the clear skin/healthy/taking care of yourself. I DO think pale got way popular at the same time. But tan skin is still a preference too. Peace.
this was interesting but i wish they were actually honest… these are things i really want to know, but you can definitely tell they were holding some things back…
Real reason a lot of Koreans prefer light skin: It’s a symbol of wealth. Back in the day, only rich people had pale skin. They could afford skin-whitening creams/makeup and could afford to stay indoors all day. They didn’t have to go outside and had umbrellas to cover themselves and protect themselves from sunlight. The poor people had dark skin because they had to be outside all day, working in the rice fields. They were subjected to the harsh sun without any protection, thus they tanned.
@@Kenzi11505 In Korea, over 99% of the population isn’t black. People born with a browner tint often bleach their skin. Like how light-skinned people tan their skin. People will never be happy wit how they look.
@franciscovilcheavila960 They want to be globalized and use cheap foreign labor, but they also want to treat anyone who isn't a straight Korean like 💩. I would legit never want to live there.
He wants gay people to hide who they are bc it makes him uncomfortable but straight people partake in PDA, they go to gatherings filled with people and talk about their boyfriends or girlfriends or husbands and wives with no problem. But if a gay person does the same it makes him uncomfortable. He will be alright.
@@lilacfields Depends on why you're rethinking---you're saying I should change my religion and my thinking because of other people's beliefs and opinions? Why should I change? For others? That's ridiculous. But don't get me wrong, the others shouldn't change either. Everyone's entitled to his opinion.
Great video but my heart broke into pieces when the guy in the middle gave his opinion on gay people. I know it happens but it still shocks me to see it said so coldly and openly.
I agree but its also just bc Korea isn't used to being around lgbtq people and it not as glamorized there as it is in America which btw I have nothing against the lgbtq community I think he was saying that he wasn't comfortable around them and so he doesn't want to make them uncomfortable by making himself be around them I think he was trying to be respectful towards them by not lying and saying that he didn't want to make them uncomfortable by lying and going against his religion and I understand how that can be hurtful its almost like idk if you know this but there is this Japanese Kpop idol who was only 17 or so at the time and was asked if he would do anything gay and he said no bc he wasn't gay and didn't feel comfortable doing anything more then hugging other men ( which is reasonable cause he is straight) and he got nailed in the comments they all said he was being homophobic when he clearly didn't mean to be rude of offensive and to remind you he is only 17/18 at the time and he wasn't fluent in Korean so it was hard for him to word everything correctly then after the fact people started calling him fat and saying he needed to eat less (which wasn't true he was and still id perfectly healthy)I know this is off topic a bit but It just reminded me of him also if you would like to know his name and where to find the video his name is haruto and he is from the group treasure pls make sure to find the whole video bc people made him out to look like a bad guy and he clearly isn't he is a good person and I know bc I have seen how kind he is to everyone I hope you understand my long rant and I hope you look into him i hope you have a nice day/week ❤
I never understood people who use their religion as an excuse for homophobia. No sin is greater than another, you'll keep friends who lie, cheat, steal and commit infidelity but draw the line at same gendered relationships. If you're going to pick friends and judge people based on one sin, do it for ALL sins. This is why people see Christianity as a joke these days
All sin is sin, but all sins are not equal: John 19:11 Jesus answered: Thou shouldst not have any power against me, unless it were given thee from above. Therefore, he that hath delivered me to thee, hath the greater sin. “And so I tell you, every kind of sin and slander can be forgiven, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come” (Matthew 12:31-32). According to Jesus, some sins are greater than others. All sins are not the same.
You have right to disagree with someone life style choice. That does not mean you hate the person. Being respectful and kind to one another doesn’t mean, I have accepted your life style. They two different things.
I’m a Christian, but I’m not homophobic. I believe that homosexuality is a sin, but I’m not homophobic just because I don’t support your behavior 😭. I still love you, but it’s my duty as a Christ follower to steer myself in the right direction and not feed into that sin
@@velmalegaspi1741 I never said that one would have to thrust themselves into a homosexual lifestyle just bc their friends have one. But using the name of God to say that gay people should hide their lifestyle bc it offends people IS homophobic and disgusting. That's exactly what the guy in the middle said. How someone lives their life should not affect you in anyway if it has nothing to directly do with you
@@Leidyybug And that's fine. That's not at all what the problem is for anyone who is upset in the comments lol. It's simply him saying that he takes OFFENSE to another person's lifestyle. As a black person I can think of it as a white person not knowing me at all but saying I've offended them or made them mad simply because of my skin color. At the end of the day it's God that passes judgement when death comes, not Christians who preach what they say is the word of God and Jesus
Without watching the video my guess on pale skin would be that it stems from the joseon dynasty where if you were upperclass you likely had paler skin because you didnt have to work out in the fields so darker skin meant you were of lower class. Even these days you see so many examples of people showing off their wealth & status on tiktok & other social media. Kids these days may not make the same connection consciously but they've just grown up with paler skin often being seen associated with beauty. This is the same with any kind of beauty standard in any country or time period. Why are hour glass figures considered sexy? Beards? Remember when metal corsets were a thing? Everyone has their own beauty standards & thats fine as long as its not discriminatory or harmful (like the metal corsets or mutilating body parts)
@@junz8675 You should watch the video. Cause they said it's not about pale skin, actually. So thanks for confirming that they were capping, I guess lmao.
Thank you for asking them the questions. Even tho it was a small group it probably did give a good representation of the way most Koreans are. I think it holds true in a lot of countries as a foreigner…be friendly and learn at least some of the language and try to use it. It proves you are interested in meeting part way to communicate.
Girl, I’m proud you didn’t cut off the LGBTQ+ question to save that guy in the middle, so ignorant of him the way he thinks we as a community have to hide from society
It's not ignorant to have a faith and values. Why the always force acceptance that's literally against what you value in life. It's never going to work.
@@byyrd2194you can’t disagree or not accept what someone is, in the same way you can’t disagree with someone’s race, because its biologically given to them. it’s a logical fallacy.
@@niko13613I can disagree on a ideology and a lifestyle that's not natural, that has been statistically proven to produce an increase of STD's and cannot produce life. But i wouldn't go that far to tell people to hide what they chose to indulge in (like sharing they're gay WHEN somebody actually asks them, which I don't think anyone should be asking those type of questions, so I don't think anyone regardless of their sexual orientation should be discussing their sexual lifestyle and tendencies with other people [who are not very close and intimate], somethings are private and is very low class to discuss them in public) but my approach would be more like don't be overly immoral, obnoxious and perverted in front of other people, especially children.
@@yamiletsoler3464 then you are the misaducated one. Because what you are writing in your comment is false. Homoexuality ca be found in many species and do not increase sexual transmissed deseases. What seems to be immoral for you is not for another. You should not mix science with moral belief.
I know a Korean man who is Christian and have gay friends. He is so kind... but when I first met him, I thought he was homophobic because of his religion. I'm glad I was wrong. BTW he is a famous Korean musical theatre actor.
Honestly the answer in regard to the question about pale skin had nothign to do with the question. Having clean clear skin is a diff topic than colorism. So the middle guy is homophobic and he doesn't even know why he's homophobic smh. I'm glad Queenie told the other guy that lgbtqhave standards cuz for someone reason heterosexual men think just cuz their a man they would get chose 😂
He actually has a reason to be homophobic because he is a CHRISTIAN!!! he said that so you should respect his opinion not every body would welcome gays or whatever
I think the kid you are calling homophobic was quite brave to state his real feelings. People say we all have a right to our beliefs but when someone like him says what he really feels he is attacked. I feel he has the right to his opinion just like gays have their rights!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im korean and I have very bright skin since I was born. It's just depends on my genetic. And It's so rude that someone to said white washing things(?) to me. I never heard of 'white washing' in my life so I don't even know the meaning until last year😦. Many east asian has natural pale skin and I like tan skin too. Thank you.
I liked how they were all honest in their opinions, even if it may have been controversial. I do hope the guy in the middle thinks about why he’s offended at gay people telling him they’re gay though. I hope he gains the understanding that all people have free will and are allowed to love who they love 😊
@@Jess-yp9fo You’re right. I never said he has to like them. I’m just saying I hope he realizes that people have the right to love who they love, as long as it doesn’t hurt the people involved. And people have the right to free speech and should be able to come out and say they’re gay, if they want to.
For generations the poor working classes were in the field got tan under the sun, and those who were of the upper class stayed in the shade with their books. Light skin was coveted as a status symbol, the mindset has been passed down. This is not only true historically of Korea, but also in places in europe and america.
I love getting their honest perspectives, even if I disagreed with them. I'd rather have honesty. On the question of Gays, I would like to share with your friends from Korea that, as a Christian someone get mixed up on this:discussion. We are called loved everyone as a Christian and not to set ourselves up as anyone's judge and jury..So, it's a Christian's goal to love others as we love ourselves. All people should be welcomed, kept safe and loved etc... I have lived as a Christian my entire life and I have known many Gay people, which include children during my childhood, they were just another friend or neighbor. They were not not picked on and I grew up in Chicago. My mom also thought it was important to be with around people that did not look like you, so I went to a n integrated nursery school, what people call Preschool all the way through to grade school. Even our sports, and hobbies were integrated. So, I have been friends my whole life with friends who were from different nationalities and I love it. As Asian friends goes I've had, Chinese, Japanese, Filipino and I was the manager of a couple of Korean, but I did not know them on a personal level. I actually had more in common with my Asian friends than I did with my Black or White friends because my mom was very education focus and walking the straight and narrow, (a tiger mom) so we shared similar experiences and bond over them. I guess it worked since She and her 4 children all graduated from college. My son is a high achiever too, but I parent very different! I started watching Kdramas about 2 yrs ago and I love them for so many reasons and thus I became interested in the Korean culture and I follow several Korean influencers on RU-vid. I also love seeing people of color or African- Americans living there and sharing their lives and friendships. I can't wait to visit and soak up the different cultures and sites. People are people as long as you lead with respect and love. Thank you for doing this video. I learned so much and your friends seem lovely and open.감사합니다
I don’t support lgbtq but i wouldn’t hate on them. i’m definitely not offended when it’s not my life. God wants us to love all people. There’s no reason to be offended over their decision..
@@Twothree8126 a serve a lot of people, especially Spanish people that don’t speak English at all. And I do agree with you, it’s better to learn the language before you go to the country.
lol most ppl aren't against it. so no everyone isn't pretending. like 3/4 of the people in this video were perfectly fine with lgbtq friends. however it was goof thst he was honest
growing up where gay/lesbian are seen normal and finding out others have so much discussion and inputs on other people's preferences was shocking. Gay relationship are not legal here but nobody cares or reports anything. We just let them be. Going to an all girls school 85% of the girls had lesbian tendencies 😂😂 I think I was the only one asexual lol
I find guy in the middles refreshing, he said what he said and doesn't care what anyone thinks, and that is ok. People are can feel the way they feel even if I disagree with it
hearing the part about how he said gays cannot like their (straight) friend, instead of helping navigate feeling is just sad 😭😭 (especially when feelings always have the chance to develop without them even knowing)
THIS IS HONESTLYS SUCH A WHOLSOME VIDIO THISS IS SO CUTE (also omg GIRL you ARE STUNNING omg extubixbtgubixiugbexyigbexybigeygbxgb UR LIKE GLOWING😭)✋💗💗🫶🫶
Girl, this is my first time seeing your videos and now I am invested in the saga that is the half second of eye contact you made with that one guy, and that little look to camera you gave. For reference <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="297">4:57</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="300">5:00</a>
The homophobic dude says oh don't come out you make ppl uncomfortable When South Korea’s Supreme Court Affirms Rights of Same-Sex Partners after this vid with few days lmao💀❤
As a Christian as well we are taught to be accepting and loving of everyone regardless. No sin is greater then the other so if he doesn’t go around gay people because he sees it as a sin not only should he not judge because judging is a sin within it self but he should also self reflect because I’m sure he’s not perfect he probably cusses it’s clear he also judges gay people. You are just as bad. Cutting someone off or fully avoiding them because they are sinning is judging them based off that. we all have our own journey we’re on to be better Christians even he himself is. You can’t play the role of god and judge others when that directly goes against gods word. What you do in the situation instead is pray for them and show them kindness and fair treatment because you are not above anyone. We should be loving and accepting of everyone regardless. If you were to cut off and not talk to any sinner you’d be left with no one on earth. So cutting a person off because they are gay is not only hypocritical but contradicting as well. I hope he learns from this and reads up on what being a Christian truly is because he’s directly thinking and acting against it but uses it as a justification to act that way.
I think that people like him have no awareness about history or the realities of the world, they need to take time to educate themselves, because if their opinion or beliefs are to judge, degrade or murder others for their identity or personal differences that is an issue between them and their God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. Thank God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today Human Rights exist. Which they also enjoy and protect equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
The Bible does not say judging is a sin it’s says to judge righteously and there is a difference between sinning and knowing it’s wrong and changing and embracing your sin like the lgbtq community does
@@melvinakamara7732 “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly” (John 7:24).” These people are still capable of being prayed for and loved unconditionally. U disregarded everything I said. Every human being is a sinner. No sin is greater than the other. So if you are judging someone for sinning but also sinning yourself that’s indeed not judging correctly because that is hypocritical and contradicting. Jesus didn't teach against judging. He taught against a specific kind of judging. The type of judging he spoke against was a blind, ignorant, hypocritical, self-righteous judging that overlooks one's own faults, failures and sins and only sees faults, failures and sins in other people. And that’s what I was talking about in my comment.
If S. Koreans discriminate South East Asians for being darker, then we know the real reason. It’s colorism. They connote “being pale” as being “better or more beautiful”. In reality it makes little difference but their society still has discriminatory values. Also I hear they like black people from western countries not really other black people from anywhere else. But that like still doesn’t exclude hidden racism.
The guy in the middle does most of the talking and it’s funny that the girl covered her mouth when speaking about gay ppl and did he actually say it’s illegal for gay ppl to marry. No wonder some ppl don’t say anything or want to hang out with them. And the part about people’s skin, most ppl in all countries would like a person more will clearer skin. Obviously this is not only in Korea
My bro in the middle keeping it real lol. Don't hate on him guys, he's te product of his society just like any of us. You accept gays not bc you're better people than him but bc it's accepted in your country now. If it was just 20 years ago most of you would say the same thing as him. Plus he's a christian and it's forbiden in the bible. Just appreciate the honesty and move on.
not agreeing with someone else's way of life but still remianung cordial is one thing but discrimination is a no go for me in terms of the pale skin thing have your preference for lighter skin thats a whatever sandwich but again dont mistreat those with darker skin
I'm a bit shocked they are not exploring these things honestly. There is still a lot of bias against people of color - ironically. I think it is true, largely due to the co-opting of hip-hop, that the younger generations are less racist, but there are still racist young Koreans and there are still a lot of older racist Koreans. Dark skin is associated with manual labor, which is looked down on; the three Ds: Dangerous, Dirty and Difficult. Some Koreans, like in many countries, look down on people in such jobs, not just foreigners doing those jobs. The racism against other Asians in those jobs in Korea is pervasive. Korean culture is changing, but has not fully changed. (And, yes, these things exist in pretty much every country to some degree or other.)
It's quite sad and disappointing how prejudiced and ignorant those guys are about gay people. Religion should never be an excuse for this, some people choose to keep the negative aspects instead of the positive ones.
It is stated in The Bible that God is against homosexuality. Leviticus 18:22 "Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin." (NLT) Leviticus 20:13 "If a man practices homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman, both men have committed a detestable act. They must both be put to death, for they are guilty of a capital offense." So that is his faith and there’s no point in him being a Christian if he doesn’t believe in The Word of God. We are taught to abide by The Word and not to pick and choose what suits us.
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D. I wish you a happy and loving life. ~🌹
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D.: I wish you a happy and loving life.~🌹
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D.: I wish you a happy and loving life.~🌹
I find the pale skin thing interesting, I recently went to Korea and all their makeup had a very narrow colour range - it was actually too dark for me(im irish) but it was too light or completely lacked any dark skin tones for my friends
This hurts as a bisexual girl... Obviously he can't just change his opinion on queer people but he could at least be respectful 😕 I have a homophobic granddad but he still loves and respects me which is fine enough for me. I'm not asking this guy to change his views because for some it's impossible and is literally what they grew up with so it's ingrained in their head, but the least you could do is to not openly show your dislike for queer people
yeah I’m Christian and that is not how a Christian person should treat the lgbtq+ community. if he considers being gay to be a sin he should judge the sin, not the person. i personally don’t think being gay is a sin, but im not the one who should decide if it is or isn’t. hope that all makes sense
@@HalleRGright! i see a lot of hypocrisy about it. people refusing to be friends with gay people yet are friends with people who engage in premarital sex, are immodest, lie, etc etc. even if you consider homosexuality a sin, why is it seen as more grave than any other sin? it’s just pure homophobia honestly
