ASKING OUR 7 CHILDREN HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT DATING WHEN THEY'RE OLDER??? 

A man who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD

These are very wise children. Good job parents 🎉They are truly blessed because of Christian parents who obey God’s word.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I admire you guys for not being ashamed and being bold to share with us your faith and how God is a huge part of your family ❤. It just goes to show in your lives putting God first leads to many blessings. You guys are so blessed x

Some of the smartest children I’ve ever seen May God bless every single one of you

Ephesians 5:33. Says it all. I Love the way you guys teach your children the word of God in life lessons, it's beautiful to watch.❤😊

Awww these children are filled with so much wisdom 🙏🏽 . You're doing an amazing job, Mommy and Daddy raising these gorgeous kids ❤️

Rue is so cute "the man is the leader" and Houston's hair is really growing and Hosanna has a good head on her shoulders when it comes to finding a marriage partner.

5:08 pure sexism don’t teach children that it’s 2023

should not be teaching young girls to be 'submissive' and young boys that their wives should be submissive to them. Exact reason they need to go to school

Rue was so positive when he stated " the husband is like a leader..."all the children were bold and quite sure of what they wanted to say. It is good to see parents having this type of discussion with children of various ages👍kudos to both Tim and Ella and continue to guide your children as well as encouraging open discussion which allows them to think.....I just have to share this video.

I am impressed by these kids education! We can see how does love interfere in a children’s moral values! Congratulations to you parents! It’s so rare to see a family like that nowadays!

You guys are just wonderful. I love the fact that you guys are not afraid of sharing your belief about Jesus being the most important thing in life and bringing up your children the same way! God bless you guys!!

Your children are dolls and so lovely. Well spoken. I’m smiling when they speak. So lovely and elk mannered. You both parent them soooo well. I love it. You guys don’t hide anything from them which is great. I have three daughters and I don’t sugar coat anything with them.

Oh my goodness. This video made me so sad. Brain-washed, indoctrinated children.

Anything for a vlog, and really nothing personal you have little respect for their privacy.. they are becoming little robots

Hi Tim and Ella.Your children are so intelligent and well rounded. God's love should be taught in every household .You're a beautiful Family indeed.

It’s a good topic however as a Christian myself I don’t agree with the woman needs to be submissive … I think that is very very backwards

Wrong. A husband and wife must be United in a marriage to be a family. They’re a couple and there are no leaders in it. Both have to be on the same page!

Great conversation with your children. Hosanna & Hez are wise & have the wisdom beyond years. I like to see another video in two or three years. Hallie, Harper, & Reu shared with some good points. Houston commented, 'I love Mommy & Daddy'. Cute. Amazing rare family. God bless

Do you think they will think the same when they get older. Or will there be challenges. In the same why Ella challenged her family and almost left them when she met Tim.

Out of the mouths of babes...Well done. Setting a strong foundation is very important. May GOD continue to keep them strong in their convictions, understanding and knowledge gained...❤

I love their accents. I think the parents are so precious. YES! Raise children up to love and serve the Lord. Beautiful💫

Your kids are so thoughtful, mature and well grounded in Christ🙌🏾❤

ELLA YOU AND TIM HAVE ONE OF THE WORLDS GREATEST PARENTING SKILLS AND I JUST LOVE YOU GUY'S

How would you feel if your children decided they didn't want to be christian?

Awesome parents whom engage thair kids in different subject's and conversations. You listen to all of your children making everything that is said by them by them important, I respect you all so much!!!!😊❤

I enjoyed this family discussion. I never thought about relationships that young but it's a good idea to know how your children may feel. You are guiding them. Only the future will know. I pray they will all have a great life ❤️ Be leaders themselves ❤️

Talking about relationships, but these kids don’t even have friends. They don’t even know how it works with relationships between friends. Let them interact with other kids

None of these kids have hit the teenage years yet!!.. it comes with many emotions from them!. you start questioning your parents views,.. you definitely have your own opinions.. I do feel these kids have a very sheltered lives.. none seem to go out on their own, also there doesn't appear to be many friends around their own ages.. a big world out there, which they are definitely not being prepared for... and they will find other girls will not want to be submissive to their husbands..

That was excellent parents! I hope this inspires parents to start talking and listening to their children. I had a childhood friend who got pregnant at 10 years old. I was 11 but that was weird for me. What you did was encourage your kids to come to you and talk about everything. That was really good! Your kids are so smart and beautiful. ❤

Ella, put that big ole girl down! Why do you have to hold her so much? You hold her more than the baby!

Children are led by example and you both are exemplary models to teach and guide them toward cultivating a sound and healthy family for themselves in the future. Well done!

How will they no when they have found the one when they have never had a bf or a gf. I think they are a bit young to ask them that question. If this is the case what if they are a different religion than your children will the person not be the one. God is one. I don’t believe to be submissive to my husband marriage has to be equal. This is we’re a lot of marriages go wrong when either the wife or the husband thinks they own one or the other or maybe both think they own each other that don’t work that way .

You are so right Ella, parents should not wait till their children bring someone home. Because it is too late to have this type of conversation. They have already had crushes like we discovered Hosanna has had. I can attest. I had cute little crushes in the 1st and 2nd grade. In the US that is 6 or 7 yrs old. I am not worried about your kids. It appears you and Tim have created a firm foundation for your kids to come to you and tell you just about anything. God Bless your family.

Yall teaching your kids something! No worry about them. Just keep guiding them this way, they will be fine. A great beautiful family

I’ve been a long time subscriber to you guys and I think you have done a great job in bringing your family up and your faith is clearly at the forefront of your mind in terms of relationships, it’s admirable. However the submission comment is very backwards and the idea that they couldn’t fall in love or find “the one” with someone from a different religion or no religion is very restrictive for them😬😬

I love your channel guys but these kids are just repeating the same things as each other which indicates its the same things you're telling them, its not truly their own opinion. Saying that "our God is the right God", what about Allah? Teaching children that their religion trumps all religions & that someone cant be their soul mate if their not Christian doesnt seem healthy to me.

Good evening blessed family...You are the reason why I Thank God for technology, RU-vid for that matter.. I love being a part of ur conversations...what a great topic of discussion and these kids are raised so well, 1stly Loving God so much...My dad's favorite Bible verse 'Train a child in the way they should go and when they are old they WILL NOT depart from it...I pray that God cover them with His wings protect them from all negativity and bad influences of thos world....im am 1 of 11 kids that God has blessed my parents with...dad gone to be with the Lord almost 15 years ago and mom will be 5 years later this year they were married for 43 years with his passing...I count myself blessed...Take care and have a lovely evening..Love and hugs to u all..Dad I feel sorry for u with the majority girls that u have to 1 day God willing having to give them to someone else's son 🤭..Lets pray for our children spouses

Love love love that you have these conversations with your children- it's so important that they can come to you & build a foundation- conversely they can pick up anything from the streets

These kids are so great they very understanding caring and loving God bless there hearts thank you mom and dad for sharing them with us.

What did Hosanna say "I had a crush in the past" that was a surprising shock to all🙂😘 Rue bear is a bit quite these days. Great conversation with your children teach them well. Ella and Tim you are great mentors❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Crud...this video just disappointed me so much. I have watched you for so long, but OMG! Really? Wow. Tolerance? Paternalist.. and you bring Jesus...you are basically teaching your kids to be bigots.

These types of conversation are needed, I truly believe that a child that has a open relationship with the parents are in great shape to a good life.

Look at Houston~she ADORES HER MOM SO MUCH! No offense Tim, but she has a favorite parent. I see this in all her active vids. I love you guys so much. Keep uplifting the grimwade gang. Oh, Rue was awesome! He’s very aware and smart in his response~BRILLIANT! Tim and Ella, you guys are training your kids well. They can’t be fooled. Good job guys. Morality rules and leads life.

Ella your children are wise be yond their years. They have two great examples to learn from.

I like Houston's age appropriate answer. "I love mummy and daddy " so cute.

My boyfriend is much more religious than I am. We both believe in the same God, but I'm more spiritual whereas he is more religious. I don't think we're a bad match because we don't believe in the exact same thing. That's part of being an adult and being in a healthy relationship is learning to love people despite.

God bless your family, thank you for glorifying God through your family so inspiring.

Love this family keep up the hard and amazing work you guys do ❤

I’m not submissive to my husband, we are equals, but I love your family ! 😊

Oh wow. These children are so wise and well educated. When I was their age I knew nothing about what they're talking about 😅😅. I've come to learn these principles now when am older plus going through many relationships because am a Christian and I was not compartible with most of the people I dated in the past. Going forward am going to teach my children about this when they're younger. Thank you Grimwade family ❤❤

Wow these kids are very smart and intelligent I love the way how bout of them respond to the question there parents ask them.

I think the only one who’s a teenager is heze; why is the conversation about marriage and mates and not hobbies and future income and skills? I love watching this channel and family but it’s a lot more to life than marriage. I come from married parents of 30+ years same for my grand parents and aunts uncles on both sides of my family. I just think it’s weird that you’d have this conversation with children so young

I like when mom and dad said WHAT when she said like when I had a crush. Lol. Great parenting to have these conversations with your children

No offense to my older siblings (I’m the baby of 4) but my GOSH! I wish i had a Hosanna, Heze and Halle to talk to about relationships and what to look for! Omg, they’re super wise and beyond their years! I’m almost 28 and I’m married and my husband and i are stunned at how much SENSE and WISDOM they have at 12, 10 and 9 and especially about God and relationships! Amen!!! We need more children like them Jesus! 🙌🏾 I swear this family never cease to amaze me! They’re so brilliant, kind and beautiful. Definitely taking notes for how we will raise our future kids. When Hosanna mentioned she had a crush…she started blushing and Tim was like “wait, who is this young boy!?” We know Tim will be the protective dad (in a good way of course) and i love it! Hosanna and the others will be great partners due to their parents showing an amazing example! ❤ I loved this video, honestly it’s so much i can say! Great job Tim and Ella Grimwade!!!

I love how your family puts God first!!! I believe that too for my family. You mentioned Jesus died for us. Great sacrifice so true!!! Love you all for not being ashamed of God and Jesus our savior!!!! . I am a Christian too. The Grimwade family is such a blessing to watch!!!! I love the way the kids express themselves so wise. I thank God for you all are awesome parents raising outstanding kids to love God and what to look for when finding the right person!!! God bless you all!!!

Women do not need to be submissive to their husband…Just because someone is male doesn’t mean their desires/wishes/opinions are inherently more important.

I love the way you guys keep possible hard conversations fluid and no pressure with your kids. They are never too young to deal with real life when it is presented in such a safe manor. It keeps the values you want them to posses in the forefront of their minds. It is a kind and supportive platform to discuss these things before the situation. Good Job😊

Your family is so beautiful. Love u guys. May God bless you🙏💗

These kids are so wise & mature beyond their years. Wonderful topic & cconversation. They communicated well. Absolutely, they must love God & as another G..Gang said the mam/husband as a leader has to allow God to lead him. Great job kids & well done mom & dad🙏🌹

Ella and Tim are very good parents to their children and awesome amazing A Teacher too thanks for sharing 💜💜💜💜💜💜💙💙💙

Yes it's very important to have open conversation with ur kids!!. that they will know when the right person.comes along 👍 and won't be.afraid to come & share stuff with you 😊❤ it because they are growing up!

I absolutely love your bold & unwavering faith in the Lord Jesus Christ as husband/wife & you can see the wonderful seeds you have planted in your handsome guys/beautiful ladies. They’re already bold, unashamed & lights in this world. God bless you’ll!

Very thoughtful responses They are very mature and wise kids ❤

Yes grimwade family back with a banger!!!❤

While it is important to talk to your children about these matters in my opinion this should have been a conversation for the two older children. It was not appropriate for the younger ones.

Great topic and real conversation to have with your children as well as being the example of a godly kingdom marriage!

His conversation is great.and Houston being cute ❤

This is a very good and meaningful discussion and having it at their ages now is great. Your children are so wise!

Why do you tell your daughters to be submissive to their husband? OMGGGG what do you teach these girls 😳

Saw you from a short, NEW SUB because of this video!!! BASED! Love you you have taught your children so beautifully of God, the FIRST thing your daughter said was LOVE GOD! So impressed/proud of how you are raising your children, ❤all y’all, Kristy in Missouri 😃🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🙏🙏🙏

Love the rapport! Love how you guys talk to and train your children. God bless your family! ❤️❤️

I am Jewish, but really loving this conversation.

My heart is so full watching the reactions of these amazing childrens hearts. I am very similar in my beliefs. Love your family so much.

While I have slightly different views of the religious aspects....I have come across people that are of the same religion as me but have completely different views of what that means...I do like the discussions that you have with your children.

Good morning Ella and Tim , I have to keep watching you guys void because it so inspirational to other families.Watching you teach your children about how to choose a mate is fantastic. Open a little office in London some where and teach what your showing your viewers. Great loving it all.Let s Big up the Grimwade family.

Tim and Ella, it good to talk to your children about future relationships. However, Houston & Reu are much too young to be in the conversation at this time. This is more for Heze, Hosanna & Holly. Harper too should have not been in the conversation as well. She's wise from older sisters but it not her time. I see Hosanna has had a crush already. It's good to sit down around the table with the three older kids and talk to them more often. Both of you are good role models. USA

‼️😭🙏🙏💝I love love love y’all and I don’t intend any disrespect BUT come on Ella & Tim! This is getting to be ridiculous! I’m going to tell you this because I don’t think (obviously) your friends and family don’t have the strength or guts or whatever to tell you guys this. 🙏PLEASE 🙏PLEASE 🙏PLEASR stop and think about what you’re doing. I know your intent is good BUT here’s a perspective you’re probably not thinking about…..You didn’t ask the older kids those questions (nor would you have dared talk about a miscarriage) when they were younger like the little ones. I can understand maybe asking the older 2 kids this question (and talking with them about the miscarriage) but the little little kids are having their childhood stolen from them. You’re forcing them to start thinking about mature topics way beyond what they should be thinking about at that age. They can barely understand NOR should they! You’re forcing the younger kids to grow up too fast just because they have older siblings! Give them something to look forward to. You guys can have that conversation with them (the little kids) when they are Heze and Hosana’s age. Some conversations shouldn’t be had until the kids are at least double-digits….like maybe 10 or 11 years old. I beg you to please please please stop and think about what you’re doing. Let them be kids as long as they can because they will have the whole rest of their lives to be adults after they at least reach 18 years old. I understand they’re your children and you can raise them however you choose. I don’t intend any disrespect. Wishing you all the absolute very best. 🙏💝🤗

The best RU-vid channel on planet earth 🌎❤️✝️⚽🐐

As a Muslim following your channel these are very vital principles and ethics you are teaching your children. That go hand in hand with Islam and something that is completely fought against in our society. The man is the leader and should be followed, the man has a role and the woman has a role and should not be fought against.

Great job!!! It is good to see what your children are thinking. These days, there are so many outside influences and peer pressure that you must speak with them and guide them. The younger the better. Young children are some fast studies. Stay on top of it!!! Great job!!!

Hosana's crush comment 😅😅

Let them be kids they are copying what there parent views are.

Go Rue!!! All children gave brilliant contributions to the discussion. 😊

❤Great conversation with your kids .

Is was a great start but super short,we need more of these guys. We need to be able to read their minds as Reu have said 😂😂😂😂😂😂. I like watching them everytime,they fascinate me. To be continued.... well I hope the next video will be a continuation of this one. Thanks for sharing. Have a blessed weekend ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

These parents have wisdom/understanding thru the holy spirit yes I admire their desire to give their children all the tools to live in today's society world 21st century beyond,, GOD/JESUS is the foundation,

Marrying someone who loves God means, as a man, you will let God lead you as you lead your family; as a woman you want to be submissive to a husband that’s being led by God and nothing else. Wonderful conversation Grimwade family ❤.

I have to admit when we were kids our parents knew it would be embarrassing for them to have ‘the talk’ with us all together (I’m the youngest of 17 kids) so they did it 1 by one when they thought it would be appropriate for our age 👍🏻 it’s not a bad thing, it’s just preparing us for another side to life that we weren’t familiar with but I’m glad it was our parents who taught us and not school or a tv program (we also didn’t have the internet when we were kids either lol, I guess I’m just showing my age now haha) I’m totally on board with this right now very well done xx

This family is amazing. Thank God that we should not be unequally yoked 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

You are amazing parents, I seriously mean this ! Thank you for being on RU-vid and being a light in this dark world. God bless you!

So wonderful how you have raised your children with The LORD has most important! Not being unequally Yoked! Knowing GOD and having a relationship will lead and direct them! GOD bless your family!

Teach the kids what the Holy Bible say about dating. Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 2 Cor. 6:14. Amen. 99% of the time, they gonna learn the hard way. But as long the parents train up a child in the way he should go, they will stray but they will come back. Like the prodigal son.

Halle saying she don’t want a passive man 😂😂 she ain’t even kidding!! That’s true Halle, no woman should want a passive, weak, lazy man for a husband.

God bless ❤️ beautiful Grimwade Gang, I hope the girls find a man like Tim and the boys find ❤️ a lady like Ella 👍 ❤❤❤❤ !!

Hez love the braces cutie pie God Bless this family in JESUS name always. Amen

Unequally yoke. One God, One Jesus and the Holy Spirit. ❤😊. Praise God for godly parents, living by example 🙌 🙏.

Rue is so chill I love it 😎

Very good conversation with the kids they are so smart and will take their time and fund the right person. No one is going to be perfect but they have to decide what's most important. Cant waif to see how it pans out. Hope you share some with us. Love your little family

Their level of understanding the leader being the husband and the wife following but still being important, is amazing to see that they are modeling after what their parents are teaching and living. Love it ❤️