EXPLAINING TO OUR 7 KIDS MUMMY'S HAD HER FIRST MISCARRIAGE || GENUINELY EMOTIONAL... 

What a great brother Heze is holding his sisters and his moms hands.....your family is beautiful

Heze is the sweetest young man. The love he shows in every vlog for his siblings is so beautiful to watch. He is going to be an absolutely wonderful partner and father someday ❤

Heze is going to be the best husband someday. He thought nothing to immediately comfort his momma and hold her hand. The respect these kids have is refreshing to see and the parents are the ones who do a phenomenal job raising these kids. The love for one another is unbreakable.

This is too much for Rue and Harper. Sorry about your loss...Ella you dont have easy labor, maybe give your body time to heal. God forbid something happens to you due to age and rough time you have with your pregnancies, and 7 children are left without you.😮You are a phenomenal mom, wife and overall lovely individual. In the bible the number 7 is one of completion...May God's perfect will be done and you completely recover.

Heze is such a great older brother the love and support he shows his sister's is amazing..keep shining young man.sending love and prayers to you all🙏🙏💜💙💖

The love that these children are showing each other is so incredible, regardless if they totally understand it or not!!! They definitely have been taught the right thing about GOD, and that will take them through life!!! We know that GOD gives life and takes life, that’s why children are blessings and not burdens!!!✝️🛐

Love this family. The children are so sensitive, caring, and articulate. The parents are so loving and patient.

Tim & Ella, you are fantastic examples of parenting, you are able to bring real life topics to educate your children on communication, empathy, struggles, supporting one another, emotional processing and life skills. You give them space to choose, you allow them room to form and develop themselves as individuals to become self aware to make choices on how they will navigate difficult situations in there own lives. Your children are so loved, wanted and accepted by you both and it is so evident. This is why you can brave these topics! As someone who works within mental health, counselling, educational sector with children, youth and young adults over 15years. You are setting up your children to be emotionally intelligent and navigate through the difficulties of the world in this day and age! Thankyou for continuing to embark on this journey and have the difficult conversations, allowing your children to accept vulnerability and be vulnerable! May your family continue to flourish and grow and May God comfort you all in this season! ❤

Hosanna & Heze are the strong ones in the family helping out the younger ones and she knew her mother wasn't feeling well and to rub her back was so sweet.

Ohk when people are adopted they always want a family it's the feeling of abandonment which is something most people need therapy for. Ella's body might not be the best to continue giving birth. 7 children is such a blessing and give God the praises and glory for what you already have. 🙏🏽

It doesn’t matter how many kids we have had before the miscarriage. Loss is loss. A feeling is a feeling. And you don’t need to shut your feelings down or lessen them because you have had other kids. This also happened to me when I was pregnant at 16 wks and I had 3 other kids. I remember one of the doctors at the hospital after my d&c (I also had a miscarriage) said to me “well you have 3 others”. Like what the heck!!! Thankfully I was blessed a year after that with the birth of my 4th child. I am so sorry this has happened to you. It has been amazing to see your family grow over the years. You are the most sweetest and precious family on RU-vid. I see you and I hear you ❤!

Sorry grimade family...this seems to be traumatizing to the kids

Sorry for yr loss, Please, please tell me tho I can't be the only person here whether yr a fan or not, to be filming yr own children's response to this is shocking, truly shocking, of course its sad for all involved, but dear lord speak to the children in private not in front of a bloody camera!!!

When Harper started crying I couldn’t hold back my tears. Tim and Ella you are amazing parents may God bless you on this journey and comfort you at this difficult time 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Sorry for your loss. Maybe try using birth control and heal your body for another year or two before getting pregnant again. You just had the last baby just a year or less ago. You guys have a large family already, be thankful and enjoy the children that are with you now. God bless you and your beautiful family. Take good care of yourself Mum.

I really admire this video, thank you for putting this out there. I had a missed miscarriage too after trying for 18 months to get pregnant with my first. I had a scan at 6 weeks & saw a heartbeat, when my symptoms stopped at 11 weeks I went in for a scan & the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks, it destroyed me & can understand your emotions. Thank the Lord I now have my son!! ❤

ELLA YOU NEED REST AND PRAYERS 🙏 U KNOW GOD KNOWS BEST, YOUR VERY STRONG BUT EVEN THE STRONGEST OF US NEED TO BE TAKEN CARE OF SOME TIME'S AND GRIMWADE GANG THIS IS ONE OF THOSE TIMES ELLA NEEDS YOU I LOVE YOU GRIMWADES.

I love how your kids knew exactly what was going on even without saying just goes to show how close and In tuned your kids are with you as there parents. I’m so sorry for you guys and you can have a million kids if you want your married and committed raising beautiful talented kids

I think this is too much for Ella. She is a great mum. Probably her body needs rest. You have 7 healthy babies and you're the smartest mum l know. Your kids are always clean. ❤ you all. Sorry for your loss.

I like you and watch you often but I woud have talked to them off camera before putting it out there. It can be hard for them down the line. I am so sorry you have lost your baby and you will be blessed with more. But not everything should be shown. Even though you want to share your experiences some things just somethings should be private or without the children. I have decided not to continue watching as its really uncomfortable to watch with all the children there. God bless you all and hope you are blessed with one soon. ❤

I’m so sorry Grimwade family 🥺 I sympathize with you 🫶🏾 . Not to be rude but I think Ella’s body has gone through a lot and it would be wise if you put in measures to stop for now until her body is fully recovered (that’s just my unsolicited opinion out of concern) ..sending you prayers hugs and kisses 🙏🏾

I’m very sorry for your loss!❤Hugs to you all!

Very sorry for what happened but at least u have so many children dear hold on to them just concentrate on raising them they are enough as it is and they all want your love one on one

Consider this, if you will, Tim. Grimwade Gang saw how Ella suffered while in labor with Halo. Frankly, I was very worried about her. What if God took back that child because it might have been so difficult for Ella that she wouldn't have survived the birth? Please allow that horrible thought to provoke a degree of gratitude that if it had to be either the child or Ella. God chose to take back the child. I shared that with you because I had a niece who didn't make it through the birth of her 8th child. That happened about 20 years ago. The siblings ended up having to raise each other because the father, if I remember correctly, also died, at some point. They're members of our New York family, so I didn't get to help out as my sister struggled to help raise my niece's 8 children.

I’m so sorry. As soon as the seed meets the egg it’s a little person. Breaks my heart but for what ever reason baby is with God now.

birth control can be good for a womans health especially as we age. Prevention is an option. I hope you get whatever you desire and with the best outcome

I really donot understand why share this with public? Didn ding ding🤔

Little Miss “Halo” is in her own little world!😂😂😂

I love how open you guys are with your kids and allow them to vocalise their feelings. Your parenting style is amazing!!! Definitely learning a lot from you guys❤

Isn't there a surgical procedure for Ella to stop having children for her health sake ...sorry for being so personal ...sorry for your loss 😢 OR can your husband get a vasectomy You guys already have seven wonderful children ❤

Wow. The bond with your family through this difficult time is so beautiful and inspiring. I am so sorry for your lost and I pray for comfort and healing for your family. I’ve experienced a miscarriage and an ectopic pregnancy and it is not easy. Currently 18 weeks pregnant after 3 years of trying and it’s still very difficult to not still feel the fear and hurt of the past loses. My heart is with you all. God Bless your family and May your hearts receive the peace of the Lord to surround you through this. ❤❤❤❤

Sorry for the loss. Ella maybe this is your body telling you that it needs rest now.

Love you Grimwades. Sorry for your loss. Many hugs. Miscarriages are not easy.. been through this a few times. Thanks for being vulnerable with us. May God hold you all and comfort you Ella. Hosanna is such a responsible big sister. And the children are all well raised. Good job Ella and Tim..

my heart goes out to those who have lost a child, and those UNABLE to have children- as you deal with loss EVERYDAY 😢

Heze, you’re the man!!! I’m so sorry for your loss, fam. This will make you all even more closer. Let the healing begin. It would have been so exciting to hear the news of another baby, though.

Hosanna is so in tune with her surroundings, so perspicacious and attentive.

My heartfelt prayers for health and healing, hunz! Perhaps your body may need to rest after just recently given birth to luvly Halo, I pray that you will take refuge in the 7 beauties that you have been blessed with!!! #R.I.P. Lil' One 💝💞💖

My prayers are with you all. May the Lord comfort you all during this difficult time. Peace and Blessings.

Enough is really enough

Tim & Ella you two are absolutely exceptional parents!! I love how you two sit all the children down & explain everything to them in a way that they can understand it & then give them each a chance to ask questions. I think this is a exceptional way to raise children & you & Ella have done an amazing job since day one. I want you all to know how sorry I am for the loss of you all’s precious baby. It’s absolutely heartbreaking to hear & to watch each one of you suffering with such a hard loss. Tim & Ella don’t ever be sorry for sharing y’all’s grief & feelings. This is the way we should all cope is sharing our feelings. My heart just broke listening to each one of the children talking about their sibling they just lost. Tell them it’s ok to keep talking about their sibling & bringing them up in every day conversations because that’s what keeps their memory alive. Get a beautiful tree or flowers you can plant in the babies memory as well. I miscarried my baby at 12 weeks. I had a 2 year old daughter at the time. It tore me up for awhile. I have five living children now & they have always known about their angel👼🏻 in Heaven. You all are in my thoughts & Prayers ❤️❤️🙏🏻✝️👼🏻👣🕊️

My condolences. God knows best. The kid's tears, 💔 broke me. The way Heze and Hossa immediately consoles. The way Reu gave mom extra love. The way Halle and Harper expressed their love, was heartwarming and heartbreaking. All these beautiful babies have definitely been here before, because they're wiser, far beyond their years. They perceive and digest way better than folks older than their parents. Because even some go their entire lives and aren't perspective as the Grimway babies. Even Halo picked up on mom's loss, and was trying to console her with the sweetest, periodic "mom." Babies know! May God continue to hold this family, in their time of bereavement. May he comfort your pain and help you remember that pain may endureth for one night, but joy will cometh in the morning! Continue to hold each other close. You have another 😇 looking over you. God bless!

Sending love to everyone who's going through pregnancy loss. ❤ I've just gone through my first pregnancy, that was an etopic pregnancy, 12 weeks bleeding and 10 weeks painful contractions. It's hard. Awareness is important.

I hope all the kids, but especially Halle given her situation, know that their feelings, reactions, emotions are all valid and it's more than okay to feel those things. And to Ella and Tim, you shouldn't feel guilty for being upset when you were mourning the loss of your unborn child

Sorry for your loss. I think it's good to share with the children but be mindful of their age group. Sometimes too much information is upsetting for them.

Be careful. My friend had her 8 th baby After the birth she suffered a fallen uterus and bladder. The lord knows what your body can take ☮️

So very sorry! My heart is deeply saddened for your loss. May God continue to bless your beautiful and lovely family during this difficult time in your lives and give you all comfort!🙏🏽💕

Such a beautiful and blessed family!!! GOD continues to keep your family, how proud you are of all your children! Heze is the greatest big brother! GOD knows what is best for us!!! Love the Grimwade's!!!!!!!!!

Idk why they felt the need to traumatize them ..

As a subscriber who has watched you for years with my children. Sorry for your loss but anyone else feel like this is a bit much

Too hard to watch the children be so sad. Sending prayers for Tim and Ella and these beautiful children that they do have. I have two children, but I have been pregnant eight times. My miscarriages were never easy. Rest dear Ella.

Remember my dear your body can only take so much so be careful. My condolence god bless. 🙏🏾

oh my God,Heze is such a sweet loving young man....cant wait to see him grow with all of his siblings

Hezi and Hosanna are spot on, they are so intelligent Hali and Harper are so emotional but you just got to love em. Beautiful family ❤️❤️

I’m soooo sorry for your loss. Sending hugs, support, prayers and love from the USA! I just LOVE this family. You all are the true definition of what FAMILY is and should be like. I love how supportive you all of one another and great JOB HEZE AND HOSANNA for comforting your siblings and parents. Halle had me in tears (i was already in tears) when she talked about her twin and how thankful she is for her life. A 9 year old understanding all of that and expressing her emotions is AMAZING. Harper and Reu had me in tears due to them crying as well. Omg, such a sad video but I’m glad you guys decided to share it! I’m pro life as well and my husband and i are on the journey to starting our family. I love how Ella and Tim share the ins and outs of pregnancy and the good and bad. I’ve learned so much from this beautiful family! You all are such a blessing to others and keep your head up. Praying for your healing! Love you guys!!!

Tim & Ella, for better or worst, sickness and in health. Tim, people focus on the mother during this difficult time, as they should. Fathers feel the lost but can express it differently. When you guys go back to the hospital ask for a referral for grief counseling. To Heze and Hosanna, your parents are blessed to have you. ❤❤❤❤

YOU NEED TO LET THE WOMB TO HAVE A REST A LEAST TWO YEARS.... IS TOO SHORT GAP WITH (7) BABY GIVE A TIME TO THE WOMB AND THE REST OF BODY FIXE EVERYTHING!! SO SORRY!!❤❤❤

Hosanna your a brave preteen growing. Your the oldest and I see the pain and tears your holding back. Your the oldest you and brothers ,I grew up seven girls and Hosanna was me being strong for everyone.👏👏 We who is just the viewers is with all of you .

I'm so sorry for your loss. Something very similar happened to me when I miscarried. The part where the technician goes silent while watching the screen and you both know something is wrong is heartbreaking. The fact that you are sharing your journey will help someone else know that they're not alone. Praying for God's grace and peace as you walk through this season of your life.

I started crying the minute I read the title. All my babies are in Heaven Guys our babies are in Heaven awaiting us . That's how I take comfort. Nothing else can take away the pain. And yes the minute they were conceived, I believe they are human beings. I pray your strength, I know your pain. ❤🙏🏽

It is Well! Praying for peace and comfort for the whole family! Love you all! Hez and Hosanna, you two are honestly such great older siblings. The support and care you have and even giving space for you fam to express their emotions is something most kids your age don’t have.

I've prayed for all 3 babies you've lost, Ella, that they're in Heaven together. Prayers for you all now. I understand. When my daughter was a couple months old, I believed I was pregnant again. I was so happy! Turns out, I wasn't pregnant, even though I had all the signs. I felt there was a baby so I cried and cried!! It was so hard! What gets me through life here is knowing that we will all see our loved ones again in Heaven. God's got all of us in His Hands! I pray that comforts all of you right now. Hugs and love from Canada. XO

Thank you for sharing this news. I’m praying for you guys. This is so hard to bear, but I love how you have not hidden this from us. This makes me feel like I’m a part of your family! I love you all! God is walking through this trial with you!

I lost 4 babies I totally know how you felt at that moment. One of my loves passed right In front of me on the monitors at a check up. They were all hard especially that one and one had a heartbeat and no features growing. The nurse went to hurry and the monitor off and I told her to stop, this is my baby and if I have to let it go I will cherish every moment I get to see my angel! The other 2 idk what God had planned! It was his timing and his everything and I just know they are up there with their dad. He passed in 2015. Maybe God knew he was going to need them up there with him! I know this is an older video but you never forget them and I always say my angel babies are in a better place! Love you guys and your strength and your faith! I just found you guys and I feel like God led me to this channel! 🫶🏻

I appreciate your love that you are so open to us. I am praying for you all. Huggy hugs to your children! Keep up your awesome compassion and openness! Your on here helping us so this is your destiny!

Tim & Ella, your feelings are valid. Thank you for even sharing this with us, with the world. Bless you both and may God continue to bless you and your beautiful family. Keeping you all prayed up and sending y’all love 💕

First, I want to say that I’m really sorry for your loss. Secondly, watching your family brings me so much joy. During this video, I watched your wonderful children comfort each other, and it has me in tears! Your family is exactly what the Lord wants! I’m one of those who have never been able to have children, but I so enjoy watching your videos and watching your family! If I had a family, I would’ve wanted to look just like yours!

Such a very special family…you are teaching your children compassion, openness, and kindness. ❤

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this moment with us. I really love how open and mature you are with your children and your parenting really shines through in how they all comfort you and each other. God’s love resonates in your family and it’s an incredible thing to witness. Much love to all of you 💕

My prayers and condolences go out to the whole family...a person is a person, no matter how small. Yes, you are blessed with 7 beautiful children, but that little life was real, and mattered, and will be missed, no matter how many children you have. HUGS!

I’m so sorry for your loss Grimwade fam 😢❤️. The way everyone’s consoling each other is so heartwarming. Sending you love & prayers. Jesus be with you all x

You are the sweetest, most compassionate family I've ever seen. Hugs for all and Thank you for sharing❤

What a beautiful and loving family! You lift the hearts of so many in this world. My sincerest sympathy goes out to you all. Keep up the strong love and happy ways you have for each other and us too! LOVE YA! Houston, TX

Sending prayers of healing, strength, and peace… We love you Grimwade Family!!!

So sorry for the loss of another Grimwade angel. God's plans are not always our plans. He NEVER makes a mistake. I'm so proud of each of the children being able to express their feelings. Love you Grimwade Family. 💞 🕊🕊 💞

Love, Hugs and Prayers Grimwade Family. I know this is a difficult time for you all. I have had 8 miscarraiges, and know the pain you're feeling. I take solace in knowing that I will see my babies one day. I have been blessed with 2 adopted daughters and a grandson!! Your angels are always with you smiling on your beautiful family. More love!!

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending the Grimwade family much love , joy, and peace! 🙏🏽💕

Ella, I am sorry for your loss. I can relate to your pain, I also experienced having a miscarriage shortly after discovering that I was pregnant for the third time back on January 7,2014 when I was 45. I had morning sickness,bleeding and cramping beforehand and that was also my first miscarriage. I was about 4 or 5 weeks pregnant. I hope that you and Tim will be blessed with another pregnancy, please rest and just know that God heard your cry and will answer the desires of your heart. I give you and your family much love and hugs from 🇺🇸❤

So sorry for your loss Tim and Ella 😔. Please don't take this the wrong way, but sometimes it's best to be content with what God has already given you. Your body probably needs rest aswell. So sorry again and God bless you all 🙏🏾

It’s really amazing to hear the situation from the kids point of view and how much children know and pick up on. People think that kids don’t know what’s going on but they are always more aware than we think. It was beautiful to hear the things that they said in response to the situation, you can really see the upbringing they’ve had!

You guys do a wonderful job teaching your kids about life! Your personal experience and staying in the loop about about everything! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I applaud you for this😊

Sorry fr you loss but ella maybe your body just needs a break

Sincere condolences for the loss of Baby #8! You're in our prayers family and we love you all!🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

TRULY SORRY FOR THE LOSS. Broken my heart to watch the children sit and cry in front of a rolling camera was just to much to take onboard, so didn’t watch much. I wonder if this was a necessary thing to put the children through, if so was it right to film it, I think these children may struggle in the future, due a few childhood decisions made for them. And before anyone gets cross, no one is a perfect parent, I shared things with my now grown children, which in hindsight and speaking about it in adulthood , there were things that they had rather not had known. A missed miscarriage is called that because normally you wouldn’t know, maybe somethings should remain private or within the older family circle, even now it hurts to see my adult children cry. Just feel devastated to be honest.

Thank you for doing this video, honestly there needs to be more conversation around this, especially to include the men out here who support us when we go through such sad times; my husband was amazing and I can see Tim is! Your kids are amazing and such understanding, beautiful souls. All I can say is thank you 🙏🏾 😘

The love being shown within everyone is absolutely beautiful 💖 a physical loss turning into a spiritual angel. God bless u guys. Much love n prayers.

So sorry for your loss! Love to your family. I love how you cherish each and everyone of your children.

Thank you for sharing! Most families do not know how to communicate thru good and bad times. Thank you for being an example of what a family is. This will help people who are struggling with how to talk things like this through with their kids. It shows kid that it’s ok to be sad and how to talk thru their sadness! I love you guys!💖

Such a beautiful family. The amount of love shown by you ALL can literally be felt! May God continue to bless you all.

Harper and Hallie broke my heart, the older ones are just amazing, and tim and Ella are too!!! Sending thoughts and prayers to the whole family this seemed like such an although very sad video, wholesome and necessary to, the way you speak to your kids is so healthy. Bless you all 💗

My prayers 🙏 and thoughts go out to you and the family. Heze with his maturity and strength, which he obviously gets from his dad. Hosanna, with her pure heart and insight, growing up and so supportive her mummy's twin, Halle dear Hallelujah Rose. She expressed herself with such grace and gratitude. Dear Dear Harper. The words and tears of a little angel. OUR hearts ached for them. To Mr Tim and Mrs Ella. Thank you for trusting us, Grimwade Gang members with such personal deep issues. I know this has already helped so many. Your channel is something me and my family, and I look forward to our notification when we see a new video. Blessings 🙌 and again our deepest sympathy 🙏, but as the wise young man Hezekiah said GOD'S PLAN. AMEN!

I am so sorry for your loss guys. When little Harper started crying, it literally had me balling. Been watching you guys very since Harper was a little baby so I felt that for her. Thank you for sharing and praying for you all.❤

I’ve not posted in a very long time but through my tears,I had to take time to extend my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Stay strong and I must say that Ella is a perfect role model for a mother in far more than words can say . God bless the entire family. Love y’all🙏👏🏾❤️

Rightfully said Ella. We may never know. God gives His toughest battles to His strongest soldiers. We love you all so much and we are keeping you all in our prayer from your sister in Trinidad!!!

We love you all! My prayers go out to your beautiful, loving family. ❤🙏

So sorry for your loss 🫂, no loss at all is ever easy to process and I respect and commend you Ella and Tim for sharing such information with us. I’m happy that you all have each other in this time especially the kids they are so empathetic and loving.

Dang she is still suffering from being told her twin sister died. Wow can't they see how being to open about things are affecting the children. Some things should be kept between the parents.

Sending love and prayers to you all…my heartfelt condolences.

The loss is regretted, but God be praised. Your family has blessed with SEVEN (7) kids, some couples have been trying for almost a decade and can't conceive even one! 😢 God has been MORE THAN good to the Grimwade family. Still give God thanks.

To share such a private sorrow with us is amazing. My prayers go out to you Ella and Tim for the loss of your baby. Your children are amazing and beautiful. The love and support that they share for each other is absolutely beautiful.

Sorry for your loss. Your children are a tremendous support at this time. Thank you for sharing at this very difficult time, I'm sure someone will derive great comfort from this. Peace and love to you all.