ASMR In A Graveyard 

I can see both points of this. But he does show big respect while he taps, he is careful, describing and being careful, at the same time I can see how people find it disturbing. But no ones is destroying anything, no one is actually being rude or disrespectful. Most likely there is no relatives left, it doesn’t look like that (or no one care fo them). And maybe this is the first time in a longtime anyone actually visit just those gravestones, now we are thousands of people thinking of these peoples in the grave. They are brought back “to life” in our thoughts.

Imma keep it real...he didn’t go to a modern cemetery. I live around the same area as him and there are a lot of historical graveyards/cemeteries where there are historical sections where the only visitors are people who come in to do the paper and crayon grave rubbing thing. If he was in a modern cemetery and was visiting people who died within recent years with fresh flowers on their graves, then sure, super rude...but these people who passed in 1900 are not getting visitors.

it’s the calling them “vintage” for me LMFAO

Some of y'all talk about how dean disrespects the dead when most of you can't even respect the living 💀💀

"maybe this gravestone was for like a dog or a cat or something. it's very tiny." the infant most likely buried there: not quite

People forget that graveyards originally were used as parks to eat and laugh near their dead friends and family.

Personally, I think it’s nice to shed some light on tombstones that most likely don’t get as many visitors. The ones shown were from long ago. As a side note, the little stones are likely due to having less money than those with larger tombstones, animals are not typically buried among humans in graveyards.

Why must we keep graveyards so damn depressing? Graveyards were originally made to celebrate lives and represent parks. When i’m dead I HOPE people visit where I lay & have fun around me.

May all of their souls Rest In Peace.

"They died 1892, wow that's like a thousand years ago" Deans math is on point 😂

The anchors can mean that the person was a sailor and/or died on sea

Imagine dying and sitting on your grave and suddenly a guy came around the corner and started whispering and tapping on your grave. I'd want that

Fun Fact😋😋: The anchor is actually a symbol of hope, steadfastness, and eternal life. It's mostly found on sailors' headstones. Masons used it as a symbol of well-grounded hope. Early Christians used it as a disguised symbol of the cross.

Ghosts meanwhile : wtf is this dude doing? we must go to his home and do the same on doors

Oh no this is gonna be controversial-

“He died in 1918 back during the Cold War 💕”

I think it’s nice to “introduce” us to tombs who probably don’t even get visitors anymore like those from 100 years ago. Coco taught me spirits loved to be remembered. Now I know Preston, Melvin, the wife of A.W Murphy, etc. If you get offended then click off.

This dude be calling the tombstones vintage like he’s shopping in urban outfitters

Day 3 of requesting: *Conan Gray does your make up and gossips about Heather*

7:28 “that’s like 1000 years ago.” I’m dead 💀✋🏼😭

I was expecting a "sassy" one or many jokes. But this was actually respectful and appropriate, and sweet he thanked the gravestones. The only disrespect was towards History dates lmao

if dean doesn’t tap on my gravestone I’m haunting him

I used to work at a graveyard and I have no idea why some people think this is disrespectful. He didn't cause any commotion and it's not like you're not allowed to touch the stones. I've seen people do way worse things (sit on them etc)

More people should visit old graveyards, read the tombstones and reflect on what the people's lives might have been like.

people are like "i would be offended if he did that to my relatives gravestones" be honest,, when was the last time you visited them? if i was one of the spirits there, i would appreciate the company. no one really visits graveyards anymore because of the stigmas that they're haunted or that bad things happen in them. he's only lightly tapping the gravestones and being sarcastic i dont know what the big deal is.

as someone who walked through a cemetrary everyday to get to school, this is not disrespectful. I've seen people in costumes and alcohol containers on the ground, worse has been done in a cemetary

*Sees 1918 tombstone and guesses Civil War and Cold War* WWI: "Am I a joke to you?"

POV: you’re scrolling through the comments trying to find the triggered pplz

when I first clicked the video I was a little frightened because some people are kinda disrespectful doing videos at graveyard. but trevor was so polite and respectful the whole video🥺🥺

POV a ghost is watching this right now

I found these sounds very relaxing, and personally I think it’s sweet that he’s giving attention to these graves that have honestly probably been forgotten. He even thanks a lot of them after tapping, I think that’s a good thing to do

Tbh, I think him being relaxing and giving attention to the graves is actually rather sweet

"for a dog or a cat maybe" :'( honey babies die too

If I was dead I would like if someone was tapping on my gravestone :)

Imagine if a ghost just pop-up and say ”ok, could you repeat that trigger at night?”

Gen Z in a graveyard be like: "This is so vintage" "It's giving me Egypt vibes" "I don't think any negative energy will come to me because they are all dead" "They died in 1882, that's a long time, that's like a thousand years ago" "It's kinda creepy because we are the only people here and a kinda expensive car just pulled up" "The anchor is giving me Hampton's home vibes" "This is like a giant rock" "This is like granite vibes" "This looks like a good place for a thumbnail" I CAN'T💀🤚

I lived next to a cemetery for almost 10 years of my life and I can say this was not rude or disrespectful and he was actually very respectful and polite, you guys need to chill, I've seen people pee on gravestones

Yall acting like he destroyed these stones, painted them or whatever. Do you realize that if in few years someones gonna buy that place he will bprobably destroy all the stones?

His asmr: amazing✨ His knowledge of history: amusing✨ (Just a joke)

" Hopefully, They Will Feel My Respects When I Tap On Them" THAT'S WHY HE'S MY FAV

dean rlly said: “REST in peace ✌🏼😋”

"I'm getting like mold in my nails, it's kinda gross"

Btw, this video is really not offensive at all. He's just walking around showing us the different kinds of tombstones that's there. He didn't bring an spirit board or any of that. He's just showing us the graves and tapping on the tombstones. If your sensitive to that, simply don't watch the video. Not trying to be disrespectful or anything, just gotta let ppl know bc everyone gets offended by everything these days....

His tapping is so powerful he puts people to sleep permanently

"Hopefully they can feel my respects when I'm tapping on their gravestones" 💀💀 I'm dead (No pun intended)

10:45 she died a day before her birthday...

He literally said multiple times that he respects these people that have passed. He is being gentle and quiet and had said thank you multiple times. He has no mal intent and made multiple disclaimers. I think this is being blown out of proportion as usual.

there is a very old and historic cemetery in my town. amazing place. i go frequently just to look around. i don’t touch anything and try to avoid stepping on graves but when the graveyard is older and has less order, it’s hard to not. i go to just read the graves and look around at the scenery. i really don’t think there’s anything wrong with this. it’s also a historic cemetery so no family will be there. the graves are from the 1800s and it’s with good intentions.

at first i was a bit sceptical and afraid that this would go into the wrong direction (aka the "goth" that danced on graves lmao) but i was pleasantly surprised! you were respectful in the way you treated the gravestones (being gentle, pointing out what you like about them, thanking them after you were done tapping). you also chose old gravestones, which i liked for two reasons: it ensures nobody sees you tapping on the grave on their recently passend grandma and gives some love to the gravestones that aren't visited often! and while i can see how people could find this video disturbing and disrespectful, i have to agree with the people that think this is an oddly wholesome way to honor the death. and if anything, dean isn't disturbing them, he is only tapping them into further peace! :>

There’s reasons this isn’t illegal.don’t get me wrong, people are sensitive about different things and that’s fine but please click off if your not interested or get offended. He gave a tw at the start, he isnt saying anything offensive(he was saying thank you and saying he was trying to be respectful ab it)personally I wouldn’t care if someone was tapping my tomb stone(I’m dead ffs, I would literally be a corpse getting eaten by bugs in the ground). If I saw someone tapping my grandads tombstone for example, I would be a bit weirded out but not angry. I would politely ask them to leave and go to another one to give me space. Half these tombstones are really old so nobody’s visiting them anymore like I’m hardly gonna track down my great great great grandmas tombstone and visit it.Also like he said, no one was there so what they don’t know can’t hurt them

here before he deletes the video 🙋🏽‍♂️

People: *Why disrespect* Dean: gives the dead souls asmr

Graveyards were originally a place for people to have picnics and be happy near their deceased loved ones. Nowadays they’ve become more abandoned & lonely because they’ve almost been turned into something negative & people are so scared of being disrespectful. Which I think is kinda sad in a way.

Just wanted to let you know, World War 1 was around 1918, not the Civil War.

Maybe I’m weird but I don’t find this disrespectful at all 🤣

As a mortuary science student this is so right up my alley! Also I appreciate how respectful you were. I think this video is a beautiful way to remember these people who we don’t know and who may not have living relatives. 🖤

This one is rated “N” for “not everyone is going to like this”

Personally, I don’t think this specific graveyard is offensive. If he did it to fresh graves sure I’d understand it being offensive but these are from like the 1900s, none of their family members will be upset, they’re dead too

i feel like the spirits would be very pleased to have visitors though? it's not like he's saying anything bad or disrespectful to them. as someone who visits the graveyard often, I found this pretty comforting. that's just me though :|

I loved how he said “Thank you so much” to the grave stone😭

it’s people who do worser than this like piss, spit, or vandalize on tomb stones . i see nothing wrong in this & plus he gave a disclaimer in the beginning of the video .

he really thought cold war and civil war happened in 1918 💀💀💀

Personally I don’t really see how this is offensive hes not being rude or disrespectful to the tombstones in anyway and he’s showing repsoect towards them

The anchor means hope. It’s often used when it’s believe, hope and love. It’s a Christian thing ⚓️✝️❤️ i’m from Norway (a Christian land) and there it means tro, håp og kjærlighet

the ghost: Which war did u just say bro

dean idk if this is appropriate...not hating, just giving you a heads up, wouldnt like u to face backlash

I love how he refers to the graves as ✨vintage✨

so i live right by a cemetery and let me tell u first going there i had the stigma in my mind that it’s “creepy” or bad to be going there, but as time went on i grew on to it . i could get out alone (wether i rly needed to get out of my house or just needed some fresh air) and look at all the stones dating all the way back to 1790 !! i’ve done research on some of these people and have really admired a lot of them . now bc of the dumb snow i haven’t been there in a bit and tbh it makes me feel bad ... almost like i left that small cemetery alone for a while . no one ever visits it either :(

*honey, there's a big storm comin.* this is probably gonna receive a LOT of backlash-

Not gonna lie The first thing that came to my mind Imagine a person getting out of their car and starts to walk with flowers and then sees a boy tapping on the grave of someone they really loved...

Dean: Oops I broke a piece.. The mummy/ ghost: you better put that back boi

I am personally not offended by this but I can see how others would be. At least he refrained from tapping on the newer graves, which I think would have been incredibly disrespectful.

I'm happy you're showing old gravestones attention and I'm sure they appreciate it. He's gentle and sweet. Stop disrespecting him, go disrespect the people who take pictures on gravestones without thanks or respect to them.

Chill out you guys. There’s literally nothing disrespectful with this video, he’s doing nothing to be called insolence to those dead people. I think you guys don’t even know why you’re saying that this is disrespectful. Please think about this concept, like why you think that this is disrespectful. Probably because no reason but because of some thoughts that are imposed to you by society which make no sense.

Dean: tapping on the gravestones Spirits: feeling tingles ✨

why are people mad at this saying its disrespectful like hes literally only TAPPING on them gently what is wronggg

“Comment down below if you’re a mortician” 😂😂😂

We’ve had art classes and outdoor movie nights in our cemetery in Philly. And a lot of events and historical nights. There isn’t anything offensive about this

I don’t find this disrespectful at all. These people that have passed we’re from longgg ago and probably don’t get visitors. Love you Dean!

I could smell the backlash from a mile away

Like someone else mentioned, it’s good that he didn’t show him standing on or tapping newer graves. Those losses could still be fresh with the people who knew them. Also there is a certain history element to seeing all the older graves, most of which looked military related.

Y’all out here acting like dean made a tik tok on top of people’s gravesites like he’s was respectful chill.

At 10:30 in the video I felt bad for that lady she died right before her birthday😢

I feel like the spirits of these people would be happy to have someone visit their graves. Most of these are from over 100 years ago so they probably don’t have many visitors anymore.

this ones like vintage * points to a grave * LMAO PLEASEEE

"He died in 1918, that might have been when the cold war or the civil war was happening" neither one was even close💀

I understand both point of views here. But in the end, it's Dean's channel, and his videos. As long as no harm was intended (which, of course, he didn't do this with the intention of hurting anyone). If someone got hurt in the end, then it was a mistake/accident. We all make mistakes.

To everyone saying that what he did was disrespectful: •He tried to show some respect to the dead people. •You guys are saying he should’ve done his reasearch, but not much people even do that. Even if he did I’m guessing your comments of him being disrespectful wouldn’t even change much. •At least these graves are being seen, I’m assuming half of them don’t get visited anymore because of how old it is. Gravestones dont often get much visitors. It's nice that he was visiting them. •Even if you think it’s disrespectful at least know that there is good stuff about this. •No one is getting hurt and he shows big respect while tapping. You can tell that he was trying to be careful with his words. - 11 year old (By the way if your going to say “You're just supporting him because you're a fan” then I would like to remind you 60 percent of the comments are like this or shorter.)

as a ghost i would crying laughing if someone was tapping on my grave

It’s the “vintage” vibe for me

How is this disrespectful? Like dudes, go actually say that to people being disrespectful irl..smh. Dean literally did nothing wrong lmao Nive video buddy, I found it relaxing. Just like when SouthernAsmr did it

dean to spirits: damn ma' your gravestone is huge... so u rich RICH huh 😌

I actually found this so relaxing and interesting to watch!

May all of their souls, Rest peacefully in Heaven.

Tbh you're the definition of Gen Z

Man said 1918: “so maybe when the cold war, the civil war was happening” i......

“Also, I wore this shirt that says holy spirit on it to be protected. In case any bad energy wants to come to me, but I don’t think so because ✨ they’re all dead ✨ “

I think this video was great, he visited people who probably havent had visitors in years he even thanked them, there is far more worse things in this world to worry about then a harmless asmr video

The ghosts gonna sleep good tonight with that good asmr 😌

Imagine your going to see your grandpas tombstone the. you see this guy just fucking tapping on it calling it ancient😭😭