Oh btw, for some reason when ever I clean graves I always find big bones. I normally through but recently I have been collecting them, do you know what animal they are from?
@@kenlion8161 coins?? Are you talking about things that get left on the headstones? You’d take them off while cleaning and then replace them as accurately as you can because they are gifts for the buried or trinkets that the buried loved when alive
I actually think this is a really nice way to remember those who came before us, graves which probably never get visits anymore and are long gone in a line of distant relatives, it's nice that they are getting some sort of recognition. It's actually nice to think in 200 years, someone will read my grave stone and for that moment think about me when I'm long gone.
@@creole9596 at least it's getting some attention and someone is reading their names. I'm not religious so I believe when you're dead, you're dead. These people are long gone but thanks to people in the future visiting the graves, they're still remembered, they existed. He's hardly vandalising the graves, tapping on hard stone isn't going to do damage.
I agree dean is giving them spotlight they have been long gone forgotten because how old they are Like in Australian schools we always say we pay our respect to PAST present and emerging it would be Nice knowing your still getting recognised after a few hundred years after
I walk through and say RIP to all of them. Almost always I get some kind of ghostlike sign - usually my spotify crashing when I’ve left, and ghosts are commonly known to interfere with technology. I think the souls are trying to tell me that they could hear me. That they are thankful.
I mean... I can kinda see how people can be offended, but I do think that this is done with good intentions. However, I fully support the grave cleaning. That's a wonderful idea!
@@brayden2502 respect where someone is buried. It provides some peace. We should respect it because they also went through a lot before they died. That’s why it’s offensive. “If you get offended by this *you’re* a baby” No. Be a responsible and a respectful individual.
Yeah, unfortunately. You can actually find quite a few unmarked baby graves when you go searching for them. It’s insane how many there are & makes me extremely sad. :(
Honestly, based on the title, you'd assume this video would be bad, but this guy seems very genuine and like he had good intention with the video. Those graves look old and forgotten as well, please don't hate on the video without looking at it in another perspective.
Bruh this guy is tapping on gravestones there are no genuine good intentions his only defence was that they’re old and forgotten he has no respect for them tf
honestly, i feel like this is paying tribute to the dead. just think of how many of these people’s names haven’t been said in years. i love saying the names off of headstones when i visit graveyards because it breathes life into these people again. 🪦✨
our town has a cemetery so old that we have a revolutionary war veteran buried there. It fell into total disrepair until a few years ago when a semi-famous ghost hunting crew visited. Some people got mad about the crew "disrespecting" the people at rest there, but they brought a lot of attention to the damage and pushed the city to revitalize it.
People used to hang in graveyards like parks! It’s not weird, and shouldn’t be weird. Humans have existed for like 200,000 years so there are dead humans and animals everywhere anyway 🙄
@@whiteboah5820 read a history book or just look up the origins of graveyards people would have full on family gatherings with meals to celebrate life and they wanted the dead family members to be apart of it they were all happy eating no sadness stuff like that is still very normal in many cultures today
Tbh in a way it’s true. You only continue to live after death when people carry on your memory and some of these gravestones are old enough that likely the progeny of the occupants don’t speak of them much if at all anymore.
as someone who spends a lot of time on graveyards, has studied the etiquette, and all that, i don't find this disrespectful. whether you believe in the supernatural or not, from my own personal experiences, if they had issues with this, dean would have known full well. but clearly, the vibes there were chill.
I'm not surprised that u spend a lot of time in graveyards, cus ur profile is Souichi Tsujii whos also my second favourite Junji Ito character xD But ye I also dont find this disrespectful
@@yungdiddy475 it’s not that serious. They’re dead. We’re all probably living on top of graves from a millennium ago. Stop looking for weird reasons to hate and be annoyed lmao don’t watch if it bothers you
@@yungdiddy475 first off, they're bodies are 6 feet under the ground, it's not like they're on the surface and he's trampling corpses. secondly, people walk over graves all the time, it's normal especially if it's an older graveyard like this one with little to no walkways. it actually used to be normal to have picnics in graveyard during the victorian era, literally sitting on top of them and eating lunch. third, it's been a hot minute since these people passed. if they're chilling in the afterlife, chances are they're not sticking around some old graveyard. fourth, people do far worse things like vandalize, move, and straight up smash graves. i don't even like dean but what he's doing is perfectly fine.
Real talk, I like to believe that the ghosts in that graveyard love him and feel appreciated by him because clearly their graves aren't being visited anymore (I mean, I assume since they are sadly not getting taken care of) and it must be nice for them to be visited by anyone, especially someone who is there with the purpose of making thousands of people feel good and also literally says how he wants to give the graves some love and even mentions wanting to clean them, that is so pure and sweet, we stan 🥺❤
@Sut Nack at those times yeah very likely no but you never know, the ghosts could have adapted to our times and they might actually love seeing such an interesting, flamboyant as you put it, person.
@@danryb I don’t think that’s what they were saying, just that a majority of people around then and before then (and even now) were homophobic as hell sadly.
For those offended: Have you went on a cemetery tour out of state? Kids will climb all over graves, people walk over it, touch it ETC.. in my opinion at least he is speaking names. Speaking light of the dead and keeping their memory alive! I would 100% be okay with him tapping on my mom because he’s patient, he’s being respectful and not beating on it, he’s thinking then for allowing him to tap ETC
i understand some ppl might be uncomfortable with this video bc of their beliefs, but they can just not watch. hes gently touching them and literally just looking at them and reading their names, scraping away some dirt. i think its interesting to see old headstones, and its true even if hes using it for content hes still giving them attention they probably dont usually get
For real though, I like to believe the souls that passed who are being loved on and recognized by dean feel some sort of comfort and appreciation from him. I don’t find this is disrespectful at all honestly. He’s in an area that is clearly not too fragile to where he could cause damage, nor are they given a lot of attention. He’s also tidying up some of the ones that are hard to read and even mentions possibly cleaning them and taking care of them in the future, as well as mentioning their name and paying respects to them as if they had recently passed. It seems much more comforting and appreciative than disrespectful.
First part was my absolute favorite video I would watch it on repeat. When I was stressed with work, school LITERALLY ANYTHING. I’m so excited you made another one
My friend shared this with me because she knows I find graveyards peaceful and that I love ASMR but I was so confused because I thought you were James Charles for a second 😂 I love the videos you did in the graveyard, would you be able to do more (when it's warmer obviously lol)?
Thank you so much for caring enough to go out and highlight the people who have passed ❤️✨ it would sound so amazing if you went out and cleaned them ! Thanks !
The hate was from small minded people who are stuck at home and don't have anything better to do. Don't take their negativity to heart, Trevor! Its great that the people who passed away so long ago, likely forgotten or nearly forgotten, are getting another moment to be remembered and known. Another great video! ❤
@@Imnotreal23 what the fuck is he messing with on it. It's disrespectful to just dig up the grave or mess with the dead bodies not graves. Edit: depends on what you're doing with the grave if it's disrespectful
Not offended but still pretty messed up concept to go to a graveyard, making assumptions of dead people stepping over their grave and tapping their tombstone everything while recording and holding a mic to generate money out of it. I'm not offended but he still shouldn't do that, imagine there was a veteran from ww2 or sum and this kid just goes up to it and start squatting over the grave while tapping the tombstone
@@xwifter_ honestly wouldn’t care at all even if was my own grandfather or myself. I don’t find it disrespectful those people are dead they don’t have feelings anymore and he’s not spitting on it or anything. Probably the most attention those graves have had in a minute. I respect your opinion on the matter though.
@@tokyotalk8259 He isn’t “walking on graves”, he is walking by gravestones. Also the graves are from the 1800s and not new ones still visited by grieving family members
Edit: forgot to mention he made a racist comment on jojo asmr’s tiktok but deleted it bc he doesn’t wanna ruin his asmr career 🥺 None of you understand how disrespectful this is and it shows. Just because he claims it “isn’t disrespectful” referring to them as “ghosts”? Like are you all genuinely that dumb to say he’s being nice and showing off the graves of probably forgotten people? Walking on their graves as if no one is buried there? I don’t understand how you all defend his actions but CLEARLY no one is seeing how disrespectful this is.
I can see how this could trigger someone but I’m confused why people are so so offended, there are kids who go out an vandalize graveyards, do drugs and be completely disrespectful all the time but no one says a thing about that? Dean is being respectful he even mentioned about cleaning them and wanting to fix them ! I do think it’s a bit strange but the tingles are amazing! He made both videos very respectfully! I loved him reading the headstones and giving light to the one who passed! There are no flowers or anything so you can tell these are people who have been forgotten! I enjoyed these videos! ❤️
Dying really scares me because when people die, no one remembers them and others move on So some people commit suicide just because of the psychological damage someone has inflicted on them, but when these people die, that person easily forgets the person they shattered with their words it's always sad to know that the world isn't a good place and also this asmr video was excellent i love the triggers
if you didn't know the little grave stones are more than likely babies or small children so please treat them with the most care you can give my hearts goes out to those poor souls it was to early for them
That's false, smaller gravestones are more likely then not meant for people who couldnt afford larger ones While the gravestone that said baby was very likely to be an actual child due to the fact most people were unable to afford to engrave a stone with the deceased persons name so instead would write things like "father" or "mother"
In my country, public cemetery graves were piled up on each other, it looks like a grave apartment. And if no one visits the grave, they open it up and place the newly dead ones there.
So I saw a gravestone that had a iPod with it and I was wondering why did it have a iPod next to it but apparently the person who had died loved and cherished their iPod they used it all the time they loved it and apparently the last song the iPod had play was “I will survive” which holy lord I’m fighting for my spot in heaven but I resisted the urge to bust out laughing 🤣
Well I doubt he did it on bad intentions but it is still not right I just don't want his youtube carer to end on a bad note cuz people will catch on this eventually
It’s probably been so long since breath has been given to those names. It’s nice to speak the names and give them life. They say you are not truly passed until your name has been said it’s last and final time.
Please continue this! You’re not being disrespectful at all. 🙂 These are very old graves & im sure the spirits were just happy to have such an amazing visitor!
The highway gives the grave yard a ghostly howl that is kinda creepy, and I would NOT ever want to be on those kind of grave yards and for some reason, to me graveyards in fall and December are creepy because the trees look dead I hear every crunch of every leaf from every squirrel and graveyards just creep me out in general but this is an ancient one from the 1800s. Great asmr, though I don’t know how u were able to do the asmr in a graveyard but u did.
i live across from a graveyard and it’s honestly really peaceful-it’s just nice to look out on a green space and not other houses! also, if you think graveyards from the 1800s are old, a lot of the ones near where i live now in massachusetts and where i grew up in maine are from the 1600s and contain the graves of original settlers. 💀
Gravestone cleaning would be nice. I'm sure the spirits of the souls who are resting would appreciate it. But make sure you ask around to clean them first so you don't get into trouble
This brings back a memory of when i was a freshman high schooler. I would walk my friend to her house every day, and we would always walk past an abandoned graveyard. One day i convinced her to accompany me to this graveyard to see those who were here before us. We walked past a lot of headstones til one of them caught our eye. And the one who was buried there was only a 10 year old boy. Born in 1934-1944. Assuming the parents put the stone that said. " i love you my baby boy". And it seemed like some notes were left but were no longer legible along with some toys and a book that has withered away. We stood there for 5 minutes and couldnt help but say a prayer. It felt really weird, because its almost as i could feel a presence. Although it wasnt uneasy but more of a sense of calm and peaceful yet disheartening at the same time. I could feel that he was well loved and missed. I felt really emotional while at his grave. I cant explain it . I felt like crying yet really at peace at the same time. Its been 10 years since then and i still cant describe the feeling. To this day that graveyard is still abandoned in the middle of a heavily wooded area in the back of a recreational facility.
I really like this! This is some good outside ASMR! And for some reason I felt that the vibes in the graveyard are calm. And you were very gentle with the gravestones, love it ❤️
@@gyrotwist6335 he’s not being disrespectful, maybe he was just curious how the grave stones feel and he was cleaning them a bit. And it’s good for a grave stone to be recognized a bit. If ur offended then exit out of the video, he was just feeling the grave stones and reading. He didn’t mean to intentionally offend people.
Love these! I kept rewatching parts where you were cleaning moss off of the stones... so relaxing. I’d LOVE to see another one (with maybe some cleaning)! ☺️
Tbh I can understand why it would be a bit iffy if this were a modern day grave yard as many of the deaths would be recent. But this grave site clearly hasn’t been visited in many many years. It’s kind of a nice way to remember those who have been forgotten
I usually clean with my family my grandfather's and my great-aunt's graves. It's saddening how many graves are left unattended, so next time I visit my deceased loved ones I'm thinking of cleaning them.
Y'all give things too much meaning. If you wanna talk spiritually it isn't their final resting place only where their bodys rot , their soul disconnected once they died. It is just a tombstone with a name and bones
