All it is, is making sure to be mature in certain situations. Yes, it may be awkward for a girl too. I'm a girl in BJJ and sometimes it could be awkward getting into mount, or just being below a male opponent, preventing them from getting into mount. Sometimes I even worry if I kicked something of theirs by accident lol.
He doesn't have to avoid that area. If he touches it as part of a wrestling move, nobody is gonna say anything - not the opponent or the referee. It's just competing. When two boys wrestle, sometimes they will grab each other near the crotch. No one suggests it's improper. It's a move. Same thing. It's an athletic competition, not a cotillion.
My girlfriend has strong legs and when we wrestle she likes to use her strength to straddle me and hold me down. How can I get out from underneath her…what works best to escape???
As long as it isn't blatant, there is no issue. We prefer PBJJF tournaments because they separate males and females starting at 12 years old. Grappling Industries doesn't separate the sexes until 14. At 12 and above, the strength of boys usually becomes a bit too much to overcome in my opinion.
He is just not an experienced competitor. Aubrey is very experienced. Most of the time he is trying to keep his posture up and back to avoid a triangle choke, which is a good strategy, as many female competitors use it often. I see several comments suggesting he just isn't trying, which isn't the case. From experience, being a spastic, overly aggressive white belt only gets you exhausted and submitted. I've seen males try to be extremely aggressive and rough against girls and burn themselves out, then get put to sleep by a girl after she just weathers the aggression storm. It can also be a cardio issue. These matches are often times one after the other or maybe one match in between, and the body does not have time to recover. You don't see all these things in a few minute video.
How old is this boy? Here we can see that though the boy is taller Aubrey is much more developed in the legs, hips and other areas!! She is just thicker and more muscular than this boy!! Therefore, it was no surprise to me that she was easily able to sit on his chest and smother him toward the end of the match!! Great job, Aubrey!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
