She seems like a lovely girl, good personality. Seeing as you asked I would say you should just focus on being your self, make them laugh and don’t go into any of these dates with expectations too soon. Enjoy being single mate you’ll know when the right one comes along
Try not to put a woman on a pedestal in your interactions with them. Otherwise, they get bored and drift away. Always focus on your purpose and a woman is most attracted to that. Show confidence in yourself/purpose and that attracts. If you are interested in this lady today I recommend you adjust your behavior. Any woman will say they like a gentleman. But in truth they are most attracted to men that are mysterious and a guy that is so into himself with purpose and confidence. A woman should never be the center of your life. If put them in the center you will eventually get burned. You want them to be your supporting role and follow you. And indeed that is what they desire. Don't be fooled by this 'woman power' or feminism promoted by the media. Many western men leave their countries to meet a traditional feminine woman. Good luck.
You are 100% correct in what you are saying..although this girl is attractive..I see Esquire is trying way to hard, and for the amount of time he was with Tida, hes not over her, I know theres no set time to recover and everyones different. I wouldn't want to be in a strange country and lose my best friend and gf in one. I was going to unfollow Esquire after his whimpering podcast when they broke up, but now I'm encouraged to see what goes on in the future.. I think he would be better suited to be more like Chad (Blogger) & take it one day at a time and see what comes to him..
@@brianjschumer Why would you unfollow him over that? He's showing events as they unfolded and the headspace he was in at the time. Sure, it may be cringey, but what's the alternative when he has pretty much centered his entire RU-vid channel around their partnership and life together? If he had posted a video where he just casually mentioned their break-up in an unaffected manner (without acting like it's an issue at all), that would seemed insincere and like an unnatural reaction, for the benefit of the camera. And his audience would have known he was bullshitting them.
I’m really pleased for you mate, been following your story for ages. Hope you don’t mind a word of advice, stop fishing for compliments, you kept referring to the fact that you work out, and you have dieted. Asking her if she approves of you is not really the right thing to do. Just be normal, she will open up more to you. Take care.
Mmh....either you fell in love or you are in need for something....do you show us your vulnerable side?..we hope the best...have you taken in account that this video could be business for her?
Dating Rule #1: Never fish for compliments. You're fishing a little too much. We only see what you've shown us, so I can only imagine that there were probably many other incidents that we didn't get to see. When you're fishing for compliments, it shows your insecurities. It's understandable given what you recently went through. What any woman wants is a strong man: confident and protector. I think you should be playful and only ask her about herself. Never talk about or focus on yourself, unless she specifically asks. Otherwise, ALWAYS focus on her. Good luck!!!
This guy is out talking to girls in developing countries because he knows they are less confident and they will give him more praise. His insecurities are pretty clear that’s why he’s not talking to Aussie women because he couldn’t make himself look confident with another person that speaks English on the same level as him lol he is trying to take advantage of the fact a lot of these girls are just excited to be with a guy from Australia, US etc potential more privileged life this white man can potentially provide
Correct! She’s trying to get more subscribers to her own channel, so she’s using popular RU-vidrs who have many subscribers! She never seen that as a date!
Just started watching this video Esquire. Just wanted to give you a bit of Grandfather's advice. I remember watching your breakup video and it was clear for everyone to see the pain you were going through. When you get to my age, you hopefully have learned to enjoy the experience of life, and if you stop for a moment and reflect on what you have shown us all, you will discover that you have experienced a lot of good that overshadows the bad. Keep focusing on the "you" on your journey so that when you come to a "we" moment or time, you don't lose who you are. Pain is as much a part of life as Joy, but it should never overshadow your journey through the experience we call Life! Keep up the great videos and there are many people that are throwing good thoughts your way!
Poor Esquire, This girl is a consummate Professional. She will eat him alive. With few exceptions, comments below are mostly from well-wishers who have not lived to Thailand.. Like Tida (former Thai GF and also a Professional) these girls are not interested in his "inner journey".
Can I tell you something I am an Australian and I can tell you what you are asking? You do change a little on the childish side. This girl wants a future other than youtube!! If you study something or do something that you can show her family that you are a serious provider you will get her. Getting her a drink and showing your abbs won't cut it long term. Just saying you asked and I told you the truth!!
Just tone down any subject about relationships and concentrate on getting to know one another. Don't compliment too much because then they become diluted and don't mean as much. Other than that, just be yourself, relax and enjoy the wonderful company!
@@timallbritton3716 - I agree! I visited her channel and it looks like she's been on RU-vid for 5 years. Honestly, I don't think she's looking for a relationship but rather new viewers from LJ's channel. I think LJ should go for the cutie barber in Pattaya named Nam!
I think it’s inevitable that our behaviour changes until we know a person better and weigh up their sense of humour….we don’t want to say something in fun and accidentally insult the lovely lady. Icecy seems like a really lovely girl with a good personality. Happy to have syour subscribed to Icecy’s channel. Good luck Esquire 👍🏼
It's human nature to want something that is not easy attainable , don't make yourself too available and don't come across as needy by asking if there is going to be a 2nd date
For me it apprears like ure a bit too needy and nice to the girls… try letting them game you, not otherwise… act like ure the price and they beed to put in the work to get YOU… also dont agree on everything they say (in general)… hope that helps brother💙
@@AnonymousSuperTuber 3rd wave feminism is non-existent in Thailand and women still have a healthy respect for men. Many of the same western dating rules don't apply - and it can be nice to relax and not feel like you're constantly engaging in a power-play charade/battle of the genders. Having said that, being a developing country, other rules apply even more so - particularly in regards to matters of money.
Well she seems nice Esquire, but early days, yes 👍 your always on your best behaviour on first dates, I think she might have done a few ks with other guys , she admits to being fussy, but at the end of the day its weather you are a match, time will tell, are sure you are over Tida?, good luck 🎲 mate, God bless you.
I just found your channel two days ago and I’m enjoying it a lot! I already can say this is the LJ with the big smile on the face that we enjoy watching. I wish you all the best and thank you for bringing us lot of good experiences with your genuine heart! Greetings from Brazil, my friend :)
Esquire is back on the 1st Tee Again 😎😎😎😎😎 Looking forward to the Next Chapter...... Remember..She approached you!! Just be yourself bud..... Good on you 🍻
Hello LJ how are you? What happened between you and Tida? To me it seems that you had or have more chemistry with Tida, In this video you and Icey seem ackward like you were interviewing each other for an employment opening.
Your behavior should change you deserve happiness, so you will put out energy that will attract that happiness you desire. Just be true to your character as a individual.
@@williambyrne6785 I think that as well. She met several other well known RU-vidrs as well in the past! I do believe it’s to get more subscribers also and she didn’t see that as “a date!!”
@@truthseeker5890 Many years ago Thai women were almost exclusively poor girls from the countryside, just looking for some cash for a quick romp. Nowadays many women do very well for themselves, much more so than the men in Thailand. This girl has built a decent online presence and business with her channel, good English too.
He's coming off a bit too strong with constantly attempting to receive validation if she likes him. Always assume the girl likes you already. Good luck Esquire
LJ do not push it. Show a great interest in her. Many years ago I met someone in Asia and I had no clue who she was so I let her show me around and treated her like a lady. I found out about her a bit at a time. She was a famous actress and her son was a prince. We have been married for more than 10 years. let ice-E make the first move and she could be a hot-1. Show great respect. You have all the attributes to have Ice-E as a girlfriend with many possible joys. Good luck LJ and show us what you are made of.
I VOTE FOR A SECOND DATE- YES!!! GREAT TO SEE THIS!!! #keepitmoving #sheisabanger #sheisakeeper #goesquire PS- @esquire you are acting different, thank God :-D ... rightfully so- be yourself man... enjoy in full what life brings... everything happens for good reason!
Hey Player, you are holding all of the cards. She mentioned Bond and you should play it more aloof. I have to give her credit as she has some game, but comes off clever.
LJ you have the same taste in women,as I do.Icecy is a beauty and we'll see how it goes.Good luck and Happy Trails!...(I'll sub n like for her)follow the 🌈for Icecy🌹
In my opinion, from a fellow Aussie, it went okay! It’s always going to be tough to film a date for RU-vid. Positives- she enjoyed the variety of locations. You spoke pretty confidently and the beard question was a winner. That was basically the only time she made herself vulnerable (by having to feel the beard). Negatives- Most of the time you were a little too needy with your body language and there was too much small talk. Advice- Do more things to create repore like play a simple game so things are not so predictable. Also, give your opinion about something serious or controversial at least once in the next date then ask her opinion. This way she knows you don’t need her validation and you can find common intrinsic values. Some of these girls want more of challenge especially if they have mingled with westerners in their lives. She strikes me as a girl who is pretty independent, knows she’s attractive and has a decent level of education. I hope you get a second date! Looks like you’re in great mental and physical shape. Won’t be hard to find more if she says no.
The Esquire = Big Chief....she melted when see met you my brother. You can hear all the wimen holla, Where Can I Find that LJ Man!!" He, he, he....have a good time....taker 'er slow. They all are lovin' you. Love seeing the old Esquire back and happy! Many blessings from Sunny SoCal...Action Jackson n' Erika Amerika - P.S. Jonny is a great wingman bringing you new selections. Both of you better behave yourself so your noses don't get pointy-er...he,he...Big Love.
It wasn’t even a date! She just used him to get more subscribers to her channel. She’s met several RU-vidrs who have lots of subscribers, just to get her noticed. Sad reality but using her head (and other body parts)
Yes bro jump on this one take her by the horns...she's a keeper 🙏🏽👍🏾🤘🏾it's still abit hard getting over tida but I'll get there.. she was one of a kind that one
Wow she is gorgeous, to say the least 555. However, as I commented earlier, I suggest you fall in LUST not LOVE for awhile. And bear in mind all the ladies, and especially Thai ladies, have a backup plan. And almost all men, including me, do not have a backup plan. Cheers!
Beard and hair was black at the start and came out ginger And yes esquire you changed dramatically. You touch her leg and you made her uncomfortable and she's still uncomfortable. Mate don't call yourself esquire.3rd person stuff ...You've blown this.shes off you... It'll be business only . Your telling us she's your girl and she don't agree. You're scary bruv ..blowing yrself up ain't the thing. Icey. Is what Ur receiving. Cold shoulder bruv.
Forget her. Too picky and high maintenance. As other's have said, just using you to boost her social media presence. Plus that squeaky voice would soon get v.irritating. Back to the hairdresser !!
Esquire, She is pretty and a very nice body however she is no Tida. Tida had a special something about her that few woman have. Don't mean to sound harsh however don't settle for the first woman that comes along. You will find another love. Good luck. DJ PS: Don't shave. :)
Main rules of dating for any man: never show them your insecurities..This woman already knows she has the upper hand. Asking a woman for compliments is a big no no. If she is interested, she will tell you, that is the bottom line. She already said she is the mystery woman. right there she has the control. Also body language from you is a bit much. you turn towards her always. she is leaning forward. Men need to pay attention to this. She is very attractive, and she knows it. looks like a fun date, In my opinion as a man of many experiences, i dont see much proceeding forward.I hope this honest feedback will help you in the future dating time. You seem like a cool dude, no doubt. Just be yourself and let them come to you . You will be the mystery man. that is what they want.
I wouldn’t say she is using you. Your subscribers can follow her and her subscribers can follow you too. It’s not like when we follow her and we will abandon you. We like you for who you are and your vlog contents. It’s not easy to get to know a Thai that has that level command of English, that both of you can communicate well n most of all you get to know a new friend that you both enjoy each other’s company. She maybe your future girlfriend or wife, we never know but this is the 1st step in the right direction. Good luck n God bless.
Yes, it does, in a way. We can see you're pretty hyped up over the date, but one thing that really stands out to me is that you sometimes slip into pidgin English and it doesn't seem authentic. She says, "Where you stay?" and you say, "I stay 29" instead of how you'd normally say it. I don't live in Thailand but as an observer that doesn't seem like your usual self or a relaxed response.
When dating a Thai girl, all of the things that you prepared to answer with Aussie, Uk and USA girls go out the window. You can just be the nice / good person that you want to be and they will love you. Of course it helps to have money to take care of them though.
Wow esquire major upgrade, I want her to dump you asap hahaha and pass on her number. Now don't mess this up by being to soft. Will it work you far north and her Bangkok i don't think so, one will have to move or both.
Ivey is fun. Her surgeon is excellent!! She knows you have a soft heart when shopping n Ur credit cards are sizzling n da notes are falling out of Ur wallet.
LJ you are the MAN!! Yes, go on a 2nd date. Your behavior did not appear to change much other than your excitement ratchet up a notch. I saw chemistry and genuine enjoyment from you both. Thanks for sharing this special moment and keep that positive mojo going. You are an inspiration to your followers. Glad The Esquire is back! 🤛😎
LJ my friend I'm a big fan of yours and think you pulled off the collab of the year with this stunning girl before her channel takes off and looks great gf material as well 😍 But why only 55k views? Thought this was another million plus coming to be honest. Hope it picks up as we want to see a second date with this gorgeous girl 😆
First minute and i can already see you are nervous! Will watch the rest later. But just wanted to thank you for creating and sharing another story. Thank you for being on youtube 👍
To be honest mate, and dont be offended, If you are looking for a new lady in your life, I was going to say.... the beard is not you.. It makes you look a lot older than you are. Perhaps a designer grade 2 style all round..Icecy is nice but keep her as a friend mate.. Rgds
I will be frank with you. You are immature. IMO that is why you lost Tida. she was more mature than you. Icecy looks rather young so you may be closer on the maturity level. What you both have in common is physical fitness. It is good to have a common interest. Our bodies get older everyday so you need to develop some other interests. You need to go slow on the dating. You also need to figure out why she reached out to you. I would assume that a foreign man would be considered a good catch for a Thai woman.
I’m kind of felt she was in it for views and likes for her channel rather than the LJ. Just chill out and be yourself - don’t try too hard. Plenty more fish out there
LOL she said your beard looks like RAMBUTAN bahahhaha that was the best part of the video. That is also a delicious fruit! kinda expensive in canada. About 1 dollar each and you get 8 to 10 in a pack. Super expensive.
