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Autism Meltdown Safety | Agony Autie 

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* If your child is in danger of hurting themselves or someone else during a meltdown, ofcourse ALWAYS intervene. This advice is not professional or medical in any capacity, and are the personal coping strategies that I use as a person with autism, and that my son uses as he is severely autistic. I hope you enjoy. Remember, no two people are alike and everyone copes in different ways 😊
Sara *Agony Autie" Harvey shares some personal tips and experiences about meltdowns-what they can feel like, some possible causes, and how to deal with them safely.
This video is intended for autistic people but parents and carers might hopefully find this useful too-with tips on what you can do to help your loved one going through, and coming back out of, that meltdown!
Disclaimer: Please note that the video content is not professional nor medical advice and should not be viewed as such.
FAQ
1) Can people with out autism have a meltdown?
"Yes absolutely- we just seem to have them really intense, personally I have them a lot and my son every other few days to weeks, depending how he's feeling. The meltdown in itself is an explosion of fear, anger, anxiety, lack of control. My meltdowns are a fight/flight response to stimuli that my body interprets to be a threat even when it's not, eg, too much white/crowd noise, too much spoken or auditory language processing, too much light, too much touch or input from other people, or even trying to communicate with ppl can all be everyday triggers that build to the point a meltdown response explodes out of me. Some autistic ppl will feel this way so often, it really affects their life, their ability to communicate and be safe." - Sara Xxx

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Комментарии : 33   
@zahra71908
@zahra71908 4 года назад
“Shutting out... unfortunately.. you” yuuuup!! I love that you kept the fog part and how your husband reacted, not sure if he said “okay” or “it’s okay” - doesn’t matter.
@bradfordperry5997
@bradfordperry5997 5 лет назад
I can't thank you enough for making these videos. I'm 41, and unfortunately was never diagnosed as autistic until very recently; I made it this far in life, because I'm high functioning and learned how to hide my issues. My sister introduced me to your videos, and more than once I've broke down crying because it's been such a relief to know there are other people out there who battle the world the way I do. Please keep at it, as you are making difference, and giving hope to folks like me. Thanks so much =)
@maiyapercy
@maiyapercy 10 месяцев назад
I am 47, and I was diagnosed this year. So many things make sense now. So many.
@katyptn8869
@katyptn8869 5 лет назад
You have given me a new hope in life, its been really dark since I moved out on my own. Still fighting for a diagnosis, as being an adult and having prior mis-diagnosis has hindered my journey to find help to thrive.
@marz3502
@marz3502 4 года назад
The ending of this made me laugh so hard!! I appreciate you making these videos SO much. I relate completely to the meltdown behaviors you mentioned! It's so nice to feel less alone in them. Thank you for all you do with this channel 🖤 Much love to you!
@brianandracheldavis
@brianandracheldavis 6 лет назад
THANK YOU. I am the mother of five children, including one with severe developmental delay/non verbal/is autistic and who struggles with feeling safe/comfortable/loved because of autism. It's so hard to know what's happening in his head and body and I really appreciate you sharing both your experiences and insight. It is encouraging to get this bit of translation for him.
@MyASDJourney
@MyASDJourney 5 лет назад
Hi Sara - Its only been 18 months since DX for me and I'm starting to understand what a meltdown is in my life. We are all very different and have our own versions of how we melt down. The way you organize your videos are most informative and entertaining as well... As always thank you for the service you provide for our community.
@missinkaddikt749
@missinkaddikt749 4 года назад
This was really helpful and informative. I had a really bad meltdown a week ago and gave my self the worst black eye I've ever had. My body is so scarred and I know I need to take more control of these harmful behaviours. It's how I came to find this video. I generally have really aggressive growling, screaming meltdowns and think that your advice will help. Thankyou so much for sharing
@gluten-freebrownie7924
@gluten-freebrownie7924 3 года назад
Some meltdowns I’ve had is breaking pencils... but I never thought was using paper. Thanks for your advice!
@LordDream
@LordDream 7 лет назад
Thanks for freaking me out with the hoover noise!!!!!! It actually surprised me how much it affected me (trivial as it may seem). “Meltdowns” is a huge topic, however from my perspective, they APPEAR to result from the same biological process which is also labelled a “panic attack” and result from the “fight or flight” adrenal response our bodies create. The manifestations created by adrenaline may differ in those of us with ASD (sometimes we “freeze” or “play possum” which is like a weird “middle ground” in the fight or flight mechanism!), but in essence the biochemical cause APPEARS to be the same. The reason I mention this is because in my early 20’s I read about 9 pages of “self help for your nerves” by Claire Weeks (I think), and once I recognised what and why my body was behaving as it was, the knowledge diminished the intensity of these events I experienced. Knowing doesn’t stop them occurring, and I don’t know what age “Self Awareness” materialises which is needed to mitigate the bodies “automatic systems” (in fact it may not be age related, I’m not convinced many NT’s are “Aware of Self”!!!), but being able to recognise a “meltdown” or “panic attack” oft reduces their physical severity… although it was only a few years ago that a manilla envelope from the Council had me virtually immobilised for nigh on 10 days lying on my settee unable to pick up and open the letter, or do anything else for that matter (bar natures callings).
@AgonyAutie
@AgonyAutie 6 лет назад
Lord Dream sorry xxx
@jenniferduff9254
@jenniferduff9254 4 года назад
I love your tattoos girl I have aspergers syndrome and I love getting tattoos, its relax me, I can't wait to get more, tattoos, am excited had to rearrange my cover ups and my sleeve getting finished for now, I am anxious about not being able to go out as in lock down at the moment can't go the park or the ciema, or the theatre and places to eat I hate change I had a lot of meltdowns and am in supported living, but at the moment at my mum and dads for a while during lockdown, I need time alone when am in meltdown ,and sensory over load, am 36 and have other diffcults aslo I end up in tears ,because especially when messages are said in a certain way, body language is a big struggle for me, I use to self harm I have not for months now. Thank you for this video your cool mate .
@zioah4560
@zioah4560 5 лет назад
Love it...all the way through & especially at the end 😊 !! Thank You💗
@lincolntapper2985
@lincolntapper2985 7 лет назад
Thank you so much we needed to hear your voice today! Keep up your great work.
@AgonyAutie
@AgonyAutie 7 лет назад
Lincoln Tapper hello! So glad you relate to the video lovely xxx
@bunnybaker2289
@bunnybaker2289 6 лет назад
Yeah I think I always secluded myself when I got angry or sad in case I had a meltdown, but people took it the wrong way like I didn’t to talk to them specifically or something lol. Nope, just needed alone time in a comfortable environment.
@jojomama09
@jojomama09 5 лет назад
Your such a blessing!!
@GeorgiaGeorgette
@GeorgiaGeorgette 4 года назад
You're definitely not completely on your own; this feels like you wrote it from my head! I have hypermobile EDS too. X
@alexba1ley
@alexba1ley 3 года назад
Sometimes people tell me, "You fall apart at the drop of a hat," but what they don't know is it's not the drop of a hat but the straw that broke the camel's back.
@jenniferduff9254
@jenniferduff9254 4 года назад
Your not alone
@MamaFry
@MamaFry 7 лет назад
This is wonderful.
@AgonyAutie
@AgonyAutie 7 лет назад
Mama Fry thank you 💕
@alidouglas3544
@alidouglas3544 7 лет назад
Another lovely video, will be very beneficial as I start a new job working directly with children on the spectrum :)
@AgonyAutie
@AgonyAutie 7 лет назад
alison jones So happy you found the video useful 😃🌀💕
@zahra71908
@zahra71908 4 года назад
Do you have any suggestions on how to stop picking/scratching nails or the skin around them? I think it’s a sensory related thing, think I’ll need something that is uneven surface 🤔 I also wonder if you have any suggestions on replacement for squeezing my wrists, ankles, legs while in meltdown. I’ll sit hugging my limbs tightly, rocking, squeezing, crying, screaming and I would be violent if you try to break me from myself. It’s like taking air from me this is survival at this point it’s not just a release, I’m dying saving myself by.. this. I wonder if there are some sort of thing I could replace my wrists/ankles with. I don’t find it painful at all, so it’s not for me. I just assume coming to work with bruises can cause red flags, you know. Any ideas? Thank you so much for your videos. You make me feel better every time, more understanding.. happier, not alone etc. (long list) ♥️
@jacobrhodes7433
@jacobrhodes7433 7 лет назад
Sounds like parametric equalizer and delay added to the microphone.
@AgonyAutie
@AgonyAutie 7 лет назад
Jacob Rhodes this was our 1st ever vlog back in December before we had even set Agony Autie had 100 followers lol. It's reeeeally awful quality 😩💕
@emericdavis2558
@emericdavis2558 6 лет назад
Thank youuuuu
@Stalaxian
@Stalaxian 5 лет назад
I find video games on mute help me in a meltdown
@ginastotallybodaciousunive2375
💜
@kingjeremysircornwell7847
@kingjeremysircornwell7847 5 лет назад
I'm #sphinx tread lite
@kingjeremysircornwell7847
@kingjeremysircornwell7847 5 лет назад
Not into splicing with animals
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