Even if you haven't won relationship therapy Grammy Awards, we fans will create one for You. Ijay you are simply the Best among your contemporaries! Where I know that your talent is beyond gift is when I noticed that I could listen to you even for an hour without getting bored. I doff my cap for you for sharpening our intellect and critical awareness. Take your 👑!!!
Oga you're the only one feeling that way . She has not said anything new or extraordinary , rather she has been lifting things from other people's pages
Grown women who are ready to settle down do not play these games, it's either they like you or they don't so just be yourself... A man's energy should be directed towards creating wealth, not chasing tail #Peace
I did all this with a friend yet she said no after I took her on a date, (from my observation, I think because she thinks she earns more than me, she thinks I am broke, but in actual sense, I earn more than her but because I practice frugal living, it's hard to notice). She didn't directly tell me no, when I asked her, she said she was in a relationship, so I just backed out. But I broke all touching barriers with her, she would even let me touch her in ways that a boyfriend would but she doesn't want to have anything serious with me cuz she thinks I can't afford her lifestyle. Am 24, trying to build my financial future, so I just let her go. What do you think I should have done in this case IJ?
You did the right thing, dump her and move on, don’t ever try to approach her again. Keep her on the friend zone, just hi , how are you whenever you runs into each other
Don’t be a simp my gee, since she wants the lifestyle she couldn’t afford herself rn or can still tho, just saying, knowing fully well you can take good care of her genuinely without too much burdens and pressure when she knows you still building yourself up. Then let her go it’s all love man.
Let her go, you are the price. Mutual affection is better in any relationship, sexual or otherwise. At least for mature girls, beauty is important but that's not everything you need in a woman.
Fr mehn I approached a 36 yrs old beautiful lady last year wit too much boldness and I was 24 lol, after couple of moments she told me my courage was top tier 💯and she trippin fr... also she let me into her space, slept in her crib 5times despite no kissing + sexual intercourse yet buh cuddling and flirting was all the time😇 So y’all learn how to flirttttt in ijay’s voice😹✊🏼
You're quite right but in our current society where poverty and peer pressure are confusing girls of this generation it might not apply in all situation. But just like you said if she rejects you for any reason, kindly move on.
Hello dear I met this girl recently, like two weeks ago and I really like her but I was scared initial, but it's as if she noticed and she just watchs me to see how I talk to her above all she makes me feel comfortable around her infact I was shocked she let rouch her the way I feel like, but my question is it possible she's into me already because she said she just wants us to be friends for now, kindly help a brother please 🙏🙏
What if you have made her like you and obviously she likes you and she's already comfortable with you but she's still saying No. And despite saying No, she's still coming close to you and enjoying your company. What should I do?
Lol, I am the price. That's my mentality with women, since ya'all want gender equality, I usually talk to any girl like I am talking to a friend and I almost prefer she shows interest first and then we keep things mutual, anything other than this. Not interested!
Well nice Ijay sometimes even if you're bold enough to approach her and she reject you omo that hurts differently I guess you don't know how it feels because you're a girl
The problem Ijay is when you try to become sexual or physical is not being rejected but the aftermath of her telling it to other people you know and eventually you end up getting ostracized and you have received the status of a creep.
@@AtlasCorry trust me women are hypocrites when they are attracted to you they’ll accept it when they are not attracted they will label you as a creep a predator or someone doing harassment and society always follows what women say because men support women and women support women, nobody supports men. Even When a woman makes a fake allegation, the juice is just not worth the squeeze.
Don't you think by doing so you are actually misleading yourself. If you go for a guy who just happened to be lucky to project the kind of confidence that will turn you on, don't you think he might just want to make you one of his conquests? He might even be a man who has no respect for women, but just because he has the skills to connect with you at a deeper level and you fall for him, is that not the reason why many such relationships end up in disappointment? Think about it. If you truly like a guy who is not projecting the kind of confidence that you are expecting, I think you ladies should help to make things easier. After all you need the conference to let him attract you, but in this case you already like him, why do you have to put him through a test that will cause you to write him off unnecessarily? The truth is, in most cases, beautiful women subconsciously get attracted to the wrong men, which is why disappointment is common and divorce rates are high nowadays.
Her disrespectful attitudes stop the approach, interest and marital blessings, not chop and go matter.. Beautiful with disrespectful attitudes will not work out. 😂😂😂😂. I will approach somebody daughter.😂
If you're honest with yourself, you should admit that ladies hate rejection thats why they don't approach a man first. Why should a man risk rejection and his pride for an entitled ladies to have the fun and pride of rejecting him? So called attractive ladies always have out of reach expectation and opinions about themselves.
This has already been implemented by the ones that know the drill… Well good some know it’s a valid point to use in other to get them 😅. Be grateful she spilled the tea @RealtalkwitIJay
