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I don't think the relationship was worth it but time and again I'm sad. When deep down I know I did the right thing moving away. Somehow I going myself drawn to them.
You should do all these things for yourself and not necessarily to get your exe's attention, because your ex may not care even after you do all of these. Good thing is its a win win for yourself because even if you don't get him/her back the newer you will definitely attract a better person than your ex.
She Ignored me, She Invalidated me, She doesn't Appreciate me. I left after realizing my value. Now I'm happy with the woman that I'm longing for 6 years that finally we can be together.
1. Completely disconnect. 2. Be the best version of yourself. 3. Get a new look. 4. Be happy. 5. Show him/her that you're ok. 6. Act close with someone else. 7.Let your mutual friends post pictures of you. 8. Date someone better.
why is everyone so obsessed with their ex's, it ended for a reason, just move on from that failed relationship and work on yourself.. work on yourself for your own benefit, not for the purpose to seek attention from someone.
Success is the best revenge.go and be the best version of yourself because trying to make anyone feel that way simply means you are not done with the past.I would rather do something better with my life
😆😆😆😆 it's funny, I did ALLL those things (besides connecting to someone else) before I even watched this video!! For those reading this comment, it absolutely works. While you're in that position though, please evaluate why you're doing these things, and prioritize your well-being over everything else. Regaining your ex shouldn't be more important than regaining your peace. As always, Jessica, thank you
@@geraldoa9215 It will make you really better, happier, much more fulfilled. You will feel you...like being in your own skin. You will have more time for yourself. A lot more.
I'm just coming out of a 4 year toxic relationship with my X with two kids and I seat on my chair thinking what to do next 🤔 as I type on RU-vid how to get over breakup i come across your channel and you underlined everything I needed to hear in that moment I'm now a member and I'm grateful for your kind words of advice thnx u very much 🙏🏿
We had no contention. She was deeply affected by the loss of her grandma and slipped into depression. Started taking antidepressants and slowly pulled back. I was supportive and encouraging, but she said she needed to heal on her own and find herself as she felt she was losing herself and drowning in sorrow. I respected her decision and here i am.
At least you know the reasons why she stepped back .. my ex left and come back after 3 months telling me how much he loves me … I asked him why you left he said he will tell me when we meet … I said why not now ???he never told me why he left … he just said that leave a bird free to fly and if the birds is coming back means you had something he saw on you .. I said is is the opposite he was flying and other woman’s rejected him and he back to me because he knew it I loved him … I still love him but he has to go … I’m struggling on moving on… but I took the right decision I deserve better …
I understand this deeply. My ex was crippled with depression from previous relational trauma that was triggered in our relationship, no matter how hard I tried to understand and be patient and kind and loving, he decided he couldn’t handle the pain anymore. He said he needed to know what it felt like to be alone again, to “see if something reveals itself,” despite loving me more deeply than “anything on earth.” It’s awful when there isn’t anything you can do to stop their pain.
It has been years of darkness after a nasty break up but after watching and attentively listening to you Jessica I have seen the light may God bless you and whatever you are doing 🙏💖
Yes I agree, do it for yourself. I would never wish bad things happened to her, she will never see me. "It's over" move head, go forward and never look behind.
Hello friend, I recommend this great spiritualist who fixed my relationship in 48 hours now my partner is back and morn committed after many years of separation and breakup and also banish third party ,make your crush fall in love etc 💖
Once an ex let them remain that way.Once you turn back you will trod on the same minefields. I support your effort in this matter and it’s well done . You gave very good advice but I don’t think broken relationships should be rekindled.. Get a sound proof room for your home studio
Thank you very much for this teaching. She broke up with me three days before my birthday. today being January 12th is my birthday and am still emotional down untill I come across this video. right now am very happy. I am emotional healed right now. I will show her say she spoiled the plans I have prepared for her
I didn't know about this Channel. But after watching a few videos I just love you Jess, its always nice to hear from a women because you know exactly how women think.
The problem is knowing when to reach out after disconnecting. If I start to adjust to life without them and it feels better then it would actually make it harder for me to want to get back with them if they happen to pop up again
I love this 😌it’s so effective ! My take on everything Jessica mentioned is to work on yourself and be the best version of yourself and when the time is right ,they always come
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Once relationship is over, there should be no need trying to make her miss you or trying to create all these impressions. Your time should be channeled to getting better life for yourself and fulfilling purpose. Ex is ex and should never be remembered
I did all these I changed my looks, I was slim I started hitting the gym became big, grew full beards, started wearing casual coz I was wearing smart...... she's coming BACK🤗🤗
I have been through a lot after a breakup but I still trust God one day I will connect back with the love of my life, I still love you forever you are...😥
Well.... I actually fell into this and I was not even conscious of how I made her wanted me back, but this was exactly what I did after she f**ken left me. And now she is fully back to me with more love than I expected.... It really works. It's really good to share this with the dudes outside
@@toshiamoug6819 who is you.... Dude didnt you read my message properly? I said she is back with me and now you are recommending me to a doctor. I think you need glasses
Nice video but me number 4 BE HAPPY that's my really life because I deserve my own happiness be happy anytime things go good yea that's good, if things go bad, know that nothing last forever this is life.
This is my 3rd time listening to this particular video. I respect your mannerism towards relationship etiquette!! Your manner is admirable and adorable!
Sad how a person has to strategize a way to make a person respect u enough to want to come back to you by having to play hide and go seek or change or alter yourself in some way just to get the person to even notice you.......... Wonder how bad it will get away society is going now?
It's been a month since she broke up with me, I'm doing exactly what you said on most of your videos, but I iust wanna work on improving myself, I don not want to date anyone else. Appreciate your advice Thank you so much.
@@theodorenjinyah5788 move on because u will end being hurt moree.. avoid dating for now Take care of yourself Make yourself busy Just avoid contact with her and you will be healed 🙏.
Good morning Jessica I totally love all your content and it's ready to help a lot of brothers that's out here I never seen a positive very attractive woman that's on our side with the social media content you are doing a great work keep pushing my sister love you much you are awesome ❤️❤️
All this is on point and thank you Jess! But I think it makes it harder when your ex is a malignant narcissist that you share a child with because he uses the child to see you and keep tabs on your life, create issues that waste your time and drain your energy. So annoying that you don't have the space to cut him off completely.
I was doing all those just for myself not for her but Just realize that i was very smart and had the best attitude after watching your video. great tips. keep up the great work.
One of the major challenges is when there are children involved and they still want to see you with their mother. As a father, don't cave into the pressure but always remain a gentleman, especially when the kids are around. On a lighter note, there is nothing like a change of cologne and being well-groomed. You start liking yourself better and before you know it, she is no longer a concern. Like Lil Duval song says, "living my best life..."
@@NaoMorgans I hear my sister. My view is, it is about the individual's level of maturity and understanding the need to put the kids first. Gender is not often the reason why people tend to be selfish, though admittedly it is common with the male gender.
@@xolanivanda185 I understand and I honestly wish most men could reason like you are. But at some point one should reason about that kid who you yourself brought to this world and prioritize the child for once. Just my thought though.
These type of videos make me feel better even though it may never happen, I may never be with my ex again but let’s just see. I gotta work on myself that’s why my break up is telling me.
Oh Jessica your video is supper cool. I'm from Papua New guinea and I'm your big fan. I always watch your videos from RU-vid and I tried them myself and it really work. Thankyou so much ❤😍🇵🇬🇵🇬
Dr Steve Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him right now......
I have done most of what you’ve said before watching your video… it occurred to me to do it without knowing it’s consequences buh your video just confirmed I was doing the right thing and it has really helped me… others in similar situation should also give it a try… it really works like a magic… thumbs up 👍 Jesse😘😘
I'd send you something small🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣but I hop my likes and subscription does more than that... I'm gonna practice this, wish me well...for me there wasn't any other better time for this than now...
Your video really gave me more hope and courage to move on, I were married to a wife who I did all the responsibility even cook for her because she gave me a twins a boy and a girl but she and her sisters took advantage of me and ran away with my twins and now her parents is asking me to come over to her home town to see them, I sent my lawyer friend to help me beg her to come back the more I do the more she keeps insulting me and other until she told me to move on with my life and since this year I had been do depressed but I actually came online to search for this tips of heart broken and I finally came across your tips your words had just healed me now completely thanks for this wonderful words
Oh miss Jessica God will bless you I am following all this tips I can see it myself She keep telling others she wants me back but I moved on with a better person
Jessica, How are you. I have been following your videos since late last year. Today April 26, 2023, l experienced what you taught us why ladies leave. A few minutes after l found out she has been cheating while I travelled from New York to London United Kingdom. The moment l found out l was shocked but some how l felt calm when your past teachings of reason why ladies end relationships crossed my heart and just blessed God she is gone and truly truly happy she is gone. Keep doing these videos on relationships, our great God must bless you. I am grateful. Solomon
As much as I wished my marriage didn’t end I am better of now than I ever was. I’m still single but I feel less alone than I did being with her. I am bettering me and making me the best I can be one day at a time. I’m climbing my mountain wether she sees me or not if she does fine if she doesn’t fine also. I’m winning for me and not for her. Stay true to your goals and your dreams and never let anyone define your worth.
Hello Jessica. You're a very unique phenomenal woman, you are. Nevertheless I truly hurt my friend and I just cut the friendship off over all. I truly removed myself
Plus recently she wished me good luck into my next job and was concerned when I told her I got no job...she reached out called me to know why I quit,she called my friends too to ask them why I quit
Jess the Goddess.... very true.... thank you for your craft.... women like you are the key to training us Kings... action along with these conversations will balance the Kings....