Just a tip from someone who's been married 22 years and has 5 kids...its OK for your kids to see you argue and disagree sometimes as long as they also see you work it out! It's important for kids to see what it looks like to argue "well", disagree, and compromise for a conclusion that you reach TOGETHER! These are skills that are learned and its our job as parents to show them how to do this well. Also VERY important for them to see some sort of affection at the end of the argument...a kiss, a hug or some kind of validation that Mom & Dad are going to be OK 👌 Don't shelter them too much from the realities of life but instead take the time and opportunity to teach and train them...age appropriately of course! You guys are off to a great start!
That makes sense. My parents split when I was 7. One lived by the beach, the other in the mountains. But I just thought I had it great. My parents never fought or even said anything bad about the other. My time was shared between them and I had a great up bringing. But I still remember when the competition started. "Mom, look what Dad bought me" and visa -versa. As a single child the competition was fierce. Even with my "game" I was never disrespectful or a "bad apple". I'm now 52 and a Grandma and witnessing my only grandchild, 7 yr old Asher, play my game, except he has extreme disrespect and entitlement. My only child divorced her husband and both of their careers have them living states apart so he's with me ALOT. So I obviously feel the blame for his issues but completely feel I'm loosing the battle. I welcome any ideas. Thanks
I completely agree with the original comment. My parents divorced when I was 12 and I was SHOCKED. I had never seen them fight. I thought they were perfectly happy and perfect together. Divorce is VERY hard on kids in some way or another. I didn't learn how to have a healthy relationship and I didn't learn how to have a healthy disagreement. It's taken many years to learn these things for me during adulthood. I also realized many years later that they never showed any affection towards eachother. I don't ever remember seeing them hug, kiss, hold hands or put their arm around eachother and it caused me to have extreme discomfort when I would see someone show any affection towards their spouse. Teach your children what a healthy relationship looks like, that it's normal to have disagreements and make up, and to also show affection towards the people you love.
This is sooo true. My parents always hid fighting from us and ended up divorcing. I found all conflict devastating in my early relationship because I never saw conflict nor conflict resolution when I was growing up.
It’s ok to argue in front of Jack as long as you also circle back and resolve the conflict in front of him. Not enough kids get to see healthy conflict resolution!
This will sound weird but I hope you understand what I'm saying. I'm proud if both of you for sticking together through big fights and learning to communicate. Instead of just divorcing like so many do these days. You two are made for each other.
My sister and me grew up with our cousins in the 60s and 70s and are still close now. Some of them now live in the US but we’re still close and visit each other as much as we can. It’s the best feeling when we’re all together or even just some of us 💗💞
You're human, no one is perfect. Let your love carry you through the toughest times!! Jack is just the cutest ever!! Thank you for being open and transparent with us! God bless you♥️🙏🏽😌
It amazes me how people can give you bad comments! Your such a beautiful loving caring God loving family! ❤️ not reading bad negativity is the best way Sarah! I love all you Beestons! Xx
Laughter, being able to laugh together, to make each other laugh, whether at yourselves or Jack, or something just silly...find a reason every day to LAUGH 😅❣💛❣😇💚❣ you two are so honest and caring. I love watching your videos. Keep on doing you, because YOU ARE A M A Z I N G!!❤💙🌞🙂😎
We make an effort to watch some kind of funny thing everyday to have a laugh, it makes such a difference. Getting inside jokes together is such fun too 👨👩👦
@@vickimorrison6023 Hiya, You replied to a comment. Might want to post your own comment if you want to have a higher chance of them seeing your comment.
No it doesn't lol That's just a coping mechanism. My boyfriend and I never argue (at least not seriously) because we're honest, open and compatible. Do we have disagreements and challenges? Yes, of course. But we're always upfront and respectful about it.
Y’all have such a sweet and strong spirit. (BTW, it was a really long day and watching your video helped me feel a lot better. I felt like I was with friends and, if you don’t mind, I’m counting you in!). ❤️
I cried when I left Hawaii and I still miss it. My Great Auntie is from Hawaii. She is 93 years old and lives on the mainland. She still misses it too. Like my Auntie says, " Home is where your heart is" she is happy where she lives now. You can be happy wherever you live. God bless you.
I wasn’t supposed to be able to get pregnant because I had endometriosis so bad , so the day that my son graduated high school my daughter was born Yep it does happen I had a hysterectomy 30 days after my daughter was born
I see you having a happily ever after marriage. You are so far ahead of me when I was first married, I had learned so many bad ways of communication from the examples my mom showed me. :-(. You are the cutest family ever, which is why I enjoy watching you all so much! Blessings to you all. 🥰
Don’t feel pressure for baby #2. When I had my first immediately my in-laws were like when are you going to have another baby it was so frustrating my husband and I were still navigating our marriage and adding a baby into it . Some people just don’t understand how that question is just so private and person and no one’s business. Enjoy your son I wish I didn’t get pressured for baby #2 it made my pregnancy kinda hard I felt like I was doing it for everyone. Else expect for me but it’s ok now I’m on baby -#3 so alls good hahaha.
Having fun with Jack on Easter, answering crazy fan inquiries, keeping your sanity....big day! Yup, you guys are pretty normal... 🥰😎 Love your channel! 😊
My husband and I sucked at communication for the first couple years until we realized WE ARE ON THE SAME TEAM so it’s pointless to fight about things instead of just having a peaceful line of communication. Also, we realized that day to day happiness/peace/wellness is the ultimate goal in building a great partnership for us so that helped with how we upset we would let ourselves get over each thing. :) cutting fights in half each year is so good, that’s about how we are! Each new year gets even better and better. We’re 8 years in next month and I am more in love & connected ti him than ever. I hope everyone else can find that too!
Can we just take a moment to recognize and appreciate the INCREDIBLE spot they have for an Easter Egg Hunt?!?! The view is incredible!!! Very very lucky families and kiddos!!!!
Appreciate your honesty! Yes, couples fight & it is normal. I commend you for figuring it out & sharing. Can’t wait for the next one. You guys are gold 🥰
37 year's of marriage and we still have disagreements, but don't yell. it's good to communicate how you feel and listen of course. you both are so in love , you will be just fine. Jack is in a loving home and he is thriving with your love. 🙏❤️🙏
Keep being real 😊 Married life does only get better with time ❤️ 15 yrs and counting here. A healthy sense of humor and a lot of Jesus, and choosing each other daily, makes all the difference
You all just make me smile, and that's huge, if you can make people smile that's really special. I love that you're honest and real, so yes keep doing what you're doing. Love from the UK. 🇬🇧❤️
Love you two, just be yourselves. There will alway be Troll’s out there who will pick crap out of other’s, no one is perfect. Choose what’s best for you two, when your ready to have another child, don’t let people pressure you into anything. Please give Jack a big hug from me. X
HAHAHAHHAA when Sarah's tired she turns into Ozzy! Walking around like a cute lil zombie in a blanket, repeating what Derik says to show excitement bc she doesn't have the energy to show it in her voice 😂 Derik: "we'll see you guys next time" Sarah: "next time!"
Call me crazy, but when Jack smiles he really looks a lot like Ozzy and Stella. Those 2 little girls are always smiling so I don't know if that's why I think that. 🤣🤪😊❤ Love all y'all Beeston's!
Their religion is pretty hardcore...lots and lots of rules...anyone else watching under the banner on hulu? Their religion is so intense. To each their own just very intense. They seem like a very sweet family who don't take it to the extreme extreme like some other people in their religion. I mean I know most religions have rules and stuff they just have a lot. And I suppose there are extremists in all religions. Not hating it's just a lot.
@ wishingonthemoon1 Riiight!?!? I completely agree! They really are a great inspirational couple! They have an incredibly strong marriage, with a beautiful special bond! A type of bond that a lot of couples lack; that you just don't see in a marriage anymore......
Your family is adorable. I think that Sarah is right that people might have opinions about individual incidents on a particular video, but the most effective way to deal with trolls or malicious comments is to not engage with them, (at least in my opinion). Happy belated Easter! 🐣🐇
Your family is so beautiful. I’m with the water fear. When my kids were little and grandkids now my fear was water too. I always think of the craziest that could happen on certain activities too. Y’all make the cutest family. My blessings to y’all.
Sarah, I like your taste in delicate jewelry. Your chains in this vid are really nice. There is a necklace you've worn in the past, a thin gold chain with some small blue (turquoise?) beads. Could you ID some of your jewelery, especially the blue beads one in a future video?
Arguments and disagreements are normal for any relationship and learning how to listen and communicate is something that will always have to be practiced daily for the rest of your lives. God bless your family
For Derrick…….I read a story not long ago from a guy who said “I left the toilet seat up yesterday and at 2:00 this morning it finally happened. To all the women in my life, past and present, I apologize….especially my grandma. I get it now!” 😅😅 It was followed by a lot of hashtags like “my knees hit my chest”….”folded like a lawn chair”……”so so cold”……”scariest moment of the year…..” 😅😅😅
You three are a breath of fresh air. My wife & I have been together since we were 21 & almost 30now. Everything you guys said is so true! Also it's interesting everything Dillon mentioned are Sarah's, "things" my wife does the same! & Have all made me a better person, & she agrees the same; as I'm naturally very messy & go with the flow & spontaneous change freaks her out. I like to say that we're eachother's ying to our yang. Balance is key! Keep on being yourselfs!
Your love always makes me so happy!! Love watching Jack grow!! Glad that you guys truly are a close couple..arguments are okay yes Sarah healthy!! #loveya #heartsofull #Beaston
Wherever you choose to reside just keep the faith and communication going. You two are an awesome couple ! 🤗💓 Btw, never worry about insignificant squabbles because we all have those. Just never yell at each other & share your thoughts & always bestow good deeds to help each other. 🙏😊
Did you know that there are two designers that found out that there is a reason for male splash back. The best way to avoid young boys with this is buy one of those ping pong balls that have a target on that you put in the toilet to aim at. This is not a joke, it really works.
I can’t imagine either of you fighting but of course it happen: but the main thing is you always talk through things , the communication in your Rship is obviously great apart from when mums saying jack needs to rest and dads saying… well nothing cos he’s already down on the street playing with jack on the skateboard 🤣🤣 genuinely tho your family and tanner and his family are just so inspiring , I wish you all nothing but so so much love and happiness
I think breast feeding has a genetic compound. I say this because no woman in my family can breastfeed As long as baby is fed that is all that matters ❤️ love yall!
Misophonia is what Derik is thinking of. Its honestly the worse, even when I eat I have to have the tv up loud as can't stand the chewing sound, hearing people eat and drink.
He's a little young to know but you could be right. I was "diagnosed " by a child psychologist when I was 5yrs old. My parents went through hell with me. I couldn't enter a hospital. Sometimes had to leave school early. For several years they stopped bringing me into restaurants because if I saw an elderly person eating alone, I would get so upset I would make myself physically sick. I'm still treated for it but it's recognized as an anxiety disorder. It's actually a difficult thing to live with. Hopefully Jack is just a kid with a big heart who can read a room well ❤️
@@clementinechristenson an empath is anyone who picks up on emotions from everyone, and everything around them. My niece is one real bad. We went to Yorktown battlefield several years ago, and she started picking up on everything that had happened there. And then I started picking up on her. She became depressed, upset, she could feel the pain, and the death of those who died. I picked up on her, and started reacting myself.
Sarah those things that are annoying to you, those are EVERY MAN sweetie! I've been married for 23 years and I still clean stubble out of the sink and fall in the toilet in the middle of the night!😂😂😂 Oh and the kicker is we have three sons and now three grandsons!!!
I just wanted to comment on the two of you how well you both are as parents and being married, I see you both are doing amazing job. I love how your honest and just wholesome , down to earth. I love how you made it clear that you believe in God. God will you give you another baby in the near future. Keep up with the amazing work and may God bless you and yours.
I don't know what people say but they are the most genuine people on RU-vid...... N their marriage too..... They have some real understanding going on between them... Just appreciate it! ❤
A healthy marriage includes disagreements...and it's ok and healthy for Jack to witness disagreements between you too, so then he can witness conflict resolution and love still afterwards. It will help him see a real marriage and will instill that it's ok to have conflict in relationships and that resolution and love is all apart of that.
Omgosh I used to have those dreams constantly about water and losing My Son of a boat, funnily enough it was only during his first 4-5 years, they stopped once the next two came along, he's 23y/o now 😁
A key to a happy marriage... 29+ years clean up a mess if you make it aka shaving and brushing hair/teeth clean up your mess she isn't your momma your not dad .. the same applies to her she should wipe sink down after putting on makeup or brushing her hair its 50/50 not 70/30 your married not each others parents but talk it out don't let it fester ok..if it bugs you, nicely say hey do me a favor please don't do x, y or z your beautiful 😍 happy young people and I ❤️ love watching your young family. (Not meant mean or bitc%^ your doing just fine..) I can't wait I hope Sarah has a lil girl.. you make beautiful kids.... xxxx
Having males sit down when they see is a very good, healthy and great option. Kills 2 birds with 1 stone....no pee outside of the toilet and bonus of not leaving the seat up for anyone to fall in... Too bad Derrick has never sat in the pee or fallen into the toilet yet...that might make him think twice about putting the seat up to pee and leaving the seat up when he is done.
