BABY #3? SAVING MYSELF FOR MARRIAGE? MOVING? // Personal Q & A 

I love how you have thought about not having Eloise in videos when she gets to school age. Though I know we will all miss her! I'm a tiny bud in this RU-vid space and currently pregnant with my first. I'm also considering a lot of our child's privacy and not many youtubers talk about it. So I'm glad you did 😊

I wish she could upload a new video everyday ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

BTW: I LOVE YOUR STYLE!!! I think it suites your personality (from what we an see) to the T! One of the reasons I love your channel is because its so calm and serene and cozy (if that makes sense) and I think your "aesthetic" has so much to do with that. Being YOU Is very important. I never understood why some people feel SO INCLINED to give out their opinions.. Really.. Sending much love from VA! ❤❤❤❤

Please discuss your memonite background. I know almost nothing about the culture. Please discuss what it would have looked like 100 years, 50 years ago and how have you incorporate it into your current lives?

One of the biggest reason why I HATE family vloggers is because they profit off of invading their children’s privacy. So much respect for you.

Staying home as an introvert is the most relatable thing I've ever heard lol LOVE how you answered that 'cause sameee 🙋‍♀️

Haven’t watched the video yet, but still super excited for when baby #3 is coming because you guys make the cutest kids and I love watching your family grow 😍♥️

I really can't imagine you getting frustrated/snapping/etc. for some reason, but none the less, I really appreciate your honesty about stuff like that, that's one of the things that really makes me like you a lot. You're just really down to earth and honest and real and that's pretty rare these days, I think. It takes a LOT to get me angry/frustrated, but it does happen and I try really hard to not be grumpy in front of my little one, and even though she can't talk yet, I always tell her I'm sorry if I curse in front of her or get angry about something. Also, your dedication to your faith is so inspiring to me. I really like how comfortable you are talking about it. I'm trying so hard to be a better Christian and get my remaining sin under control a little better, and you really inspire me in that department.

YES for a juicy q&a, we need all the TEA we can get 😂😭🙌

Hi:) I have a question. Do you think it's okay to read the bible when you aren't religious? I am not really religious but I think the stories are so inspiring and interesting! Love you and your family a lot!❤

YES JUICY Q+A

I love what you said about wanting your children to mix with people of other faiths. It’s such a nice way of doing it, explaining your beliefs to your children will form a much better relationship than forcing it upon them ❤️❤️ love this video 💞

I'm Christian and I'm saving myself until marriage. I feel very alone in this, but my fiance is so supportive and wonderful! You are a great role model girl! ❤

I think the "earth tones" question is more that there are so few parents who "curate" their children's clothing... I'm like you, I prefer neutrals and earth tones for myself and for my children! And my newborn daughter has like 2 pink-ish items of clothing in her size... the rest is olive green, tan, mustard, rust, burgundy,

You are such a peaceful parent to your kids, I have 3 kids and love watching your videos, such a good example of how you don't need all the stuff and to just stay present and playful with your kids. 💜

on camera you look 5’8 hahahah and zach looks so tall too ! so if you’re only 5’1, is zach only like 5’5?

I love your videos so much!! I just had my first child about 5 months ago named Benjamin and you are such an inspiration to me.

I recently did a study over Genesis and my mind was completely BLOWN! I had never studied it in the same way as I did this time around and I learned so much! It was insane. I found such comfort in the fact that no matter how much sin I fall into, I still won’t mess up God’s plan or his grace toward me! It was such a beautiful time in my studying and I have a much deeper appreciation of the Old Testament now!

I never 'loved' reading old testament but recently started again going through the 'the bible project" reading plan and watching their videos before each book puts them in a bigger perspective and now i love the old testament

Thanks for being such an inspiration in style/clothing and motherhood💕💕💕i looove your content and your family

Eloise not wanting to be on camera haha I cannot see that. SHE IS THE STAR 😂🤩❤️ I love you all lol

I normally never leave comments cause there's no way to on my smart tv but I just wanted to say I respect so much that you'll be easing the kiddos out of your videos as they get older. Any time I've thought of getting into blogging or vlogging that was my main drawback. Love your channel ❤

You might consider checking houses this year because everywhere houses are getting cheaper (because of the coronavirus)

I'm a foster parent and our first placement just went home after 11 months. I remember missing my freedoms at times, but now that they have gone I would do A N Y T H I N G to get them back. The freedom is not as enjoyable once you have been given the gift of caring for children that needs your love.

What is it with people and having more than 2 kids?! The world literally has too many children!

Marriage so good love it. Whoever is reading be calm and do not fear. You will overcome this. It doesnot matter what's happening all around you. May there be restoration in whatever you had lost

I loved when you said you want your kids to discover and learn about other religions. Growing up that was something that I lacked, and having questions is what made my have a closer relationship to God. You are such a good mom, I adore you!! Part two please!!

I had a ROUGH morning today realizing that it's the 4 year anniversary of when I lost my uncle. Your video definitely helped distract me 🧡

I love watching your video because they are so comforting and real! Being a full-time mama is more than exhausted, but is more than joyful to see the children growing up. May the Lord encourage you and help you with His heritage.

My family is having trouble understanding my love for neutral colors as well! As I plan and buy for my first baby (10 weeks pregnant) my family is use to just buying Elsa or Paw Patrol or green onesies that say funny sayings on them 😆 and that is not my style at all

I love your sit down talks Delilah ❤️

You said you would let your children “speak to and mingle with” people with different beliefs and religion from yours but would you let them be friends? Would you welcome them into your home?

This video encouraged me to “come back” to God, I remembered that I used to feel so great when I was close to Him and really felt the need to read the bible again so for that I mean thank you, seriously

You should try and make a purely silent vlog! Your edit is so beautiful, I bet it would work so well!

Mommy Me and Me is def different. Sometimes we get mixed up. For example: A man at the grocery store got something off the top shelf for me (before pandemic) instead of saying Thank you I said in my mommy "Aww, Thanks Honey Bunches!" 🤦‍♀️

The prefrontal cortex of the brain is not fully developed in humans until the end of adolescence, which is about age 22 years, actually. This is partially why toddlers have tantrums and teenagers are sure adults don't understand them and all youngsters can make bad choices. The control mechanisms are not fully in place yet to make wise choices and postpone gratification and exercise self-control when angry, etc. Do you have friends now or was marriage a way to get a friend? I think you've mentioned friends. The Hebrew Scripture stories are not all literal: many are histories, many are allegories, many are metaphorical, many are origin stories. You dress yourself and your children and your home in lovely, warm, neutrals that have a certain dignity of design. There is no need for all of us to dress like loud clowns.

i would love to watch a part 2!!

You are simply amazing ❣️

Yes let’s get a part 2. And thank you Delilah for your hard work!

We were going through part of the Old Testament on Sunday mornings at church and there was a story of a very hefty king who was killed by a sword going completely through his fatty stomach and then *the Bible* says that he p o o p e d himself .... lol. Just a gem that made my jaw drop in the middle of church 😂 didn’t remember that from Sunday school

Thank you for making RU-vid videos! I am a 21 year old Christian wife. And I am so glad there is a few people that make lifestyle videos living the same lifestyle I do. I found you through Sarah Therese.

I’m confused as why so many people ask like if you would let your kids be friends with someone who don’t have the religion. Like ? Is that big of a thing if I was more of a religious person I wouldn’t force my kids to follow that or force them to not be friends with certain people and I feel like that’s what’s she’s going for she’s teaching her kids to enjoy the religion and being with I’ll say lord. Jsut because your apart of a religion doesn’t mean you don’t have to be super strict and force them. If your child doesn’t want to follow it as much yiu that’s fine you showed your child that and they can with that as they please ,if they want to be friends with people who don’t believe it let them.... is that so surprising of a Christian family to allow people to be friends witn people who aren’t ig? Idk I’m just confused on the amount of things I’ve seen about this sorry for the rant or possibly controversial comment don’t mean to offend anyone just saying my point about it 👍

YES GIRL PLEASE for Part 2! I love how honest and wonderful you are, thanks for always being you genuine Delilah 💕

I wish I could afford your merch💚 I have been blessed with a baby girl and all I want to do is match her all the time. Thank you for your content. I like watching your cleaning and thrifting videos🙌

I’m 5’1 too! And my husband is 6’2 😂😂 I’m glad you see those things in the OT! The Lord can use anyone! ❤️

By the way, did you read about Islam before? I believe you will be amazed as a christian who tries to apply Christianity. You can simply go through Quran as same as the bible to discover. It is really shorter anyways and readable.

19:00 cancel culture is so much more common now which adds on so much more pressure on youtubers/celebs these days!

Psych undergrad here! During puberty (approx ages 13-21) the brain is going through a lot of development. The brain's "gas pedal," aka the amygdala, is pressed to the /floor/ and it basically means you are being driven by your limbic system, aka your emotions, rather than rational thought and logic. So, often times there are many many regrettable decisions and actions. 🤷‍♀️

It is wild to me that you have to tell people RU-vid is a job. My Husband has interest in starting our own channel, however I do NOT feel like I have the time with a baby. I feel like people have no idea how much work goes in to videos. I seriously don’t know how you do it, even with help it’s hard! Kudos to you Mama, you are KILLING it!!! ❤️

You're style has honestly had a big impact on my own style. I never even knew how much I love earth tones until I came across your channel. It's a route I never thought about taking. I always struggled with what color scheme would work best for me. And to be honest, earth tones are so easy to combine, they are gentle for the eyes and look very aesthetically pleasing. I'm loving my current wardrobe thanks to you.

Your videos make me so happy :) I hope you and your family are doing ok. x

Delilah is such a genuine person and I look up to her so much as a strong Christian woman, mother, and wife. I hope to be like her one day 🥺💕

You really aren't obligated to name your children after people just become you did for one child. I would probably never name a child after my mother, but my mother in law maybe, we like her name. That's it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

What I like about your Channel and how I perceived it I'm not religious and I still like how you add that into your channel because that's you. I get ideas for my own life on motherhood, home decor,, style, cooking and so much more....... I failed at making waffle sauce lol 😆. I love the sense of family and how much you care about having a happy home. you are awesome and I think you're doing a fantastic job. You've never offended me

Loved this q&a! I can relate to so much and it's always nice to know that there are other people out there that are Christian, stay/work at.uomr mum's etc just doing normal life 😆😉

You need to be more confident in your words, for the sake of you and your peace of mind. If you don't mean it with bad intentions then you shouldn't feel bad about it. I know this isn't easy because I've struggled with it in the past also, I don't like to be unpolite so I refrain to say things that might hurt but if something is wrong I'm not going to not say it because that makes me just not like that person to the point that I don't care that she/he is doing something wrong and that it can hurt her/him. So I will say it because I like them =D I hope I made myself understand because I also have problems talking and am shy most of the time

I love that you want your children to be friends with people of other faiths! As a kid, I went to Catholic schools and my parents really only allowed me to be friends with people of the same religious/political beliefs as them. As someone who has very different beliefs as my parents, I know I would have loved to have more diverse friends and incorporate different perspectives at a young age. You're doing an amazing job as a mother, keep it up!

I believe that I can speak on behalf of a lot of people here that also think this - but we don't watch your videos because we think you're perfect, flawless or eloquent in speech - we watch your videos because you are real, raw and love Jesus and that life is much more interesting to us! Thank you for being who God has made you to be. You are beautiful and a wonderful wife and mother.

Same Delilah I don't like really bright colors I always stick to neutral colors but bcoz of you I'm loving earth tones more. Also, I'm also introvert and socially silent hahahaha

I was surprised to hear you say you will not include your children in your channel as they grow. All the channels I watch are family channels and I know that those type of Chan ela appeal to many because it's real life. And I guess people love watching other people " do life". But I understand you respect your childrens privacy. 😊

Yes to a part 2!!! This video was long but watching it it didn’t feel like it haha it was so casual and great I loved it!

I'm not christian, or any abrahamic religion, for that matter.. but i really respect your dedication to your faith and I support those who choose to wait to have sex till they're married. There's something really sweet and pure about that.

I didn't start the video yet just saw first few secs and ... Awww you look preeeeettttttyyyyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️

You are a really good speaker and you can explain your thoughts clearly ,I enjoyed watching this. thank you.

You are great and q&a's with you,always fun :) yes to part number 2.♡♡♡♡♡

I know that this video is from years ago but I still want to open up because this so relevant. even more as a guy I can agree and I can share honest I wish I would have waited like I wanted to at 1st when I was younger, but as I got older made the foolish decision and mistake to do that. I feel so horrible about that and more so that now I feel I have ruined my chances of ever getting blessed and grace to get married if I even could find a woman who will care about and want me and love me even with all I done especially regarding this. Even though I'm committing to stop and repent and become chastised and abstinent hope that I get purified again for God for the rest of my life and future wife if I still even can have a wife. But either way I refuse to continue to hurt myself or use others to that false pleasure and desire that is not worth it over what is worth it whether I get married or not I still want God and to be pure for God and myself and others I could reach out to stop them from making the same mistakes especially guys because they dont care mostly and understand and see that the way the are being now is what they will be for their future wife that's why I want to change in that area to become the man I need to be for my future wife and what she wants me to be and show love to her even now before meeting her. It's the least I can do now since I won't be able to give her the virginity I should have. I hurt and I'm sad and scared I let things that didn't matter or was right possibly ruin or destroy a reality of having a beautiful godly gorgeous woman princess and queen, that I know despite what I done and how I been that I will treat and love her right and cherish her and respect and appreciate her and do anything I must for her and become and be a her protector and provider and best friend and want no other. I know I can because that's what I want that i ALWAYS really wanted and desired, not all the wrong things I did. But I feel like it's just a dream or something that will never happen because I choose wrong in the past and it has been took away by my own foolish choices. It's hard for me to see and believe that a godly beautiful gorgeous good woman would want me no matter what even with the past diminishes I made that she will show goodness and love and forgiveness and acceptance and grace and still want me. But maybe by God and his will and God being really in her that will be still possible, if so I hope to become the man I need to be in all the right ways and none of the wrong and to live in the present not the past and do better and right. But I hope whether God will give me a wife or not that I will be at peace and free from my past and not ever again do those things and be and live pure and abstinent but I cant express the emotions and heart and soul and love I would express to and in God that if he would still give me a wife because of the love and goodness and grace and mercy and care he has for me and heart for me to still do so if it's his will despite anything I done and also to give me a woman who will show the same. I cant comprehend and fathom that and how much I would truly show always in anyway I can to express my gratitude and thankfulness. whether it happens or not but I hope somehow someway God STILL WILL!.

What awesome kind of plant are you growing in the background? It looks huge!

Would love to see part two! Appreciate your honesty. Motherhood seems like such a natural, beautiful fit for you and I'm glad you're so happy. Commentaries have helped me a lot with the old testament. Bible scholars give more background on culture/context/history and it helps things make sense. A good person to follow about theology/Bible on Insta is Phylicia Masonheimer. God Bless!

I love your style, where do you get your clothes and the kids??? Also from CA here, from ON

For sure for the Part II. You should do a video sharing your testimony! :)

A light pastel pink would look ahhhhmazimg on you ;)

I’m always up for a juicy q&a!

When You mentioned being socially awkward and Introverted, I related on all the levels!

I´d love to see next part of this kind of a video and thank you so much for sharing this one :)

I just found your channel recently and I love it! I feel like I can relate to you in so many ways and I am really inspired by you as a mother and Christian and everything else that I've seen so far! I am 19 weeks pregnant and I'm planning to be a stay-at-home mom and I love seeing what you put into it along with doing RU-vid and all the other things life entails. Keep up the great content and just want to let you know you are appreciated and so cute!!

In Liviticus right now and finding it hard but very rewarding.

I so enjoyed this, glad to hear you are brushing up on the Old Testament. I'm in First Samuel. Interesting lessons in there.

You should read the Bible chronologically! I started this year and it has changed my life!

What motivated you to start your RU-vid channel? I’ve been contemplating starting a motherhood channel but I have no idea where to begin!

YES, I read through the entire bible for the first time last year and I was so shocked. Some of the most popular bible characters did so many sinful things. Although challenging, reading through the Old Testament taught me so much more about God's faithfulness and emphasized the importance of Jesus' sacrifice!

Oh my lord, having the same love languages is HUGE. Mine is 100% physical touch...not only is that not my husband's love language--he actively DISLIKES being touched, so it would never naturally occur to him to express affection for me through touch. I'd say at least 80-90% of our most difficult problems have stemmed from this.

Do a part 2, please! I love watching your take on the world :)

Yes, I’d love as many Q&As as you’re willing to make! ❤️ I love learning more about my favorite RU-vidrs

It's so interesting how many RU-vidrs (myself included) are introverts! I've felt a bit like a walking contradiction because my introversion makes me naturally more private and quiet, but being on RU-vid requires being more chatty and open. I do love it though!

I wear earth tones my daughter wears earth tones and EVERYONE ASKS ME WHY and it’s like CAUSE I LIKE IT , ITS BEAUTIFUL , what’s the issue just cause your a girl u don’t have to wear pink , just cause your a boy u don’t have to wear blue ? Equality 🤎🤍

Anyone else struggle with reading the Old Testament? 🙋🏼‍♀️ I had to put it down because it was really bad for my relationship with God. 😅😅😅 That stuff is heeeaavy.

I love your channel, your cute family and your style. ♡ Our baby girl does wear pink and other bright colours but that's just because I like it on her. I personally would never wear that. ;-) Like you said, everybody has their own taste and style. Also, try not to take negative comments or messages too personal. It's not about you. Some people are just looking for something to pick on or get upset about. You see it all over social media... :-( Love from Germany ♡

Juicy part 2 please!! Just found your channel today and subscribed :) Already having so much fun browsing your videos!

Hi! Love your channel - we have kiddos the exact same ages :) I have two boys and my oldest enjoys watching your DITL with me when I nurse my youngest boy. For reading the Bible, I recommend the app called Read Scripture. It's made by the Bible Project and does an amazing job helping you view the Bible as a whole story and it also has many videos that help your understanding of the text, too. I highly recommend - it's amazing ♥️

Love your videos just putting that there! You got me into RU-vid vlogs and by far my fav! I agree 100% with your thoughts on your style... that’s your style and from watching you from the beginning it was hard for you like so many young adults to find your style and you have. I am pretty much like you with my style, simplistic, natural, earthy tones, but I do have w bit of Eloise in me that I LOVE PINK, “pink,pink,pink”😂. You be you all of you! Love what makes you happy !

Thank you for your honesty!!! I love your Q&A videos and would love to see part 2. I definitely can relate to many things you've been talking in the video especially caught up in daily routine as SAHM and not working. 😣

Second video, yes please! 🥰

PLEASE READ DELILAH: Although me and my family do not agree in the same religious views 100% I feel like I want to give a special thanks to you. I always find your videos very calming (as I am sure you have heard already) and very realistic for any parent. I've watched you since before my daughter was born, she will be celebrating her 2nd birthday at the end of the month and I am so thankful that there is such an amazing channel like yours on RU-vid. You are real, you are honest and there is not that many channels out there currently that I could honestly say are as honest in terms of parenting especially in these difficult times as your channel. Your videos is a way for fellow parents like myself to escape and understand that we are not perfect, there are good and bad days but we do the best we can under the circumstances. YOU ARE DOING AN AMAZING JOB. As difficult as it might seem at times, please don't put pressure on yourself. The most authentic version of yourself is the best version of yourself. People love you for being YOU. If you have the capacity to do so film the crazy or most honest versions of yourself because that is the thing that keeps viewers like me coming back to you every time you upload. If you don't want to film it, then please don't. Just know that you have an audience, and we are committed and please don't feel like you have to edit in a way that puts you or your family under any stress. I commend you for everything you do while parenting two young children and wish nothing but the very BEST for your family 😊

Wear what you want, Delilah. You could put rags on and be gorgeous. Back me up here, Zach! haha! No but seriously, I love your style, your beautiful!

Recommendation! I use The Bible Recap with Tara Leigh Cobble to reap the Old Testament. After each segment she gives a short summary of what she learned from the passage. It's amazing especially for those long genealogies!

I stil don’t fit in but I don’t care anymore. I have a question that I genuinely would like an answer to. Why do people read The Bible so many times during the life?

This was a really great video. It's always nice to get to know better your favourite youtuber. Also I am very happy I found my questions here, it felt like you're talking literally to me hah Love you

I would love to see another Q&A especially a juicy one. Now for the colours. Ever since I first watched one of your videos I loved those colours. They are so calming and aesthetically pleasing. Love your Videos. Have a nice day.

Hey Delilah! I’m not sure what version of the Bible you use, but the ESV Gospel Transformation Study Bible is SUPER helpful when reading the Old Testament. The study notes help to so clearly point to the future coming of Jesus and it helps so much with the heaviness that can come with the OT.

The way you dress yourself, and your kids, has actually changed the way I think about clothes. It has opened my eyes to being more mindful and selective regarding pieces I purchase, rather than the constant cycle of trends in fast fashion. It is so simple, but I have never thought about sticking to a colour or tone range, but your wardrobe opened my eyes to that possibility. It has changed the way I feel about my clothing and makes it less stressful for me to plan outfits. (I also am drawn to natural earth tones most of the time, but felt pressure from images around me to wear bright colours... and to not be the girl who always wears "that" colour/tone, but it never felt 100% comfortable).I feel like this is something that people don't tend to do, especially when it comes to children/baby clothes. I am also an introvert... so that could also be why I'm drawn to the calmness and comforting earth tones rather than "non-ignorable" bright colours. 😅