Nija, you look absolutely gorgeous. I love the comment, "Be your biggest investment..." Yes! I felt that comment. I noticed over the past months, the masks falling off of many people who've smiled in my face, but since I decided to focus on ME and SET my boundaries; all of a sudden, they do not like me. Ok... I just start singing a line by the rapper Mo3, " You ain't got to like me, I like myself..." It feels so good not to stoop to the level of haters because of my connection with myself - powerful, Boo! 👏🏾👏🏾🦋🔥 Have a great evening on purpose.
I would say stop dealing with people who hurt you. Stop tormenting and traumatizing yourself by keeping these people who have proven to be harmful around you. You won’t feel guilty when you stop dealing with them. If you can get away from them (because they’re family or you live together) limit your interactions with them.