Prob got caught up in the moment at the time. Prob has the tools to realize that’s a shotty thing to now. If he stays going to that gym he will prob be a better person
@@marcd1981 Is it brave to turn up for the lesser of two evils? Yes it is, but it's still the lesser evil. Choose your friends wisely as another commenter said. You think that being brave enough to come solo for a concussion shows the same kind of mentality to get involved in giving a group beating? I doubt he laid a finger on his son, he just didn't want half the gym going gangster on his mum.
Of course the young man stepping up was afraid. Afraid of coming and also afraid of not coming. But he came anyways. If your'e afraid of something and you do it anyways, that's called courage.
Crazy thing is hes probably the one who did the least but the only one who stepped up. Hes probably the tough guy of the group who fights everybody.
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Bawahahah. So, my friend was afraid to rob that guy, he needed cash and was afraid NOT to Robb him. But he did so he gas courage? Lol. The German soldiers were brave? Kamikaze they were brave? Nice
Naw should have let son fight one on one you didn’t do nothing but jump him also and none of them can put together a proper punch or combo just horrible big boy had to be softened up before the pups hit a piece cause pops knew big boy would whoop junior ass
I'm 62 years old THIS is how we used to solve issues between boys when I was younger, either duke it out bare knuckles or we would put on gloves and duke it out. A lot of guys who I had issues with as a child we later became friends . It's good to see this because boys/young men are built different and we kinda need this. Your ego gets checked and sometimes even when you lost the fight you gained respect.
Yeah one guy would come up on you and say "choose ya" and your response would be "I accept". Funny how those guys became friends afterwards. Now everything is feminized...
Yes absolutely I am from the UK 64 years old and came from Salford and we used to settle are issues with bear knuckles .then we had respect for each other.
Justice and his dad showed some class dealing with this. The fact that the big dude showed up, all by himself and went through with all of this - that deserves respect!
At 20 years old, him showing up showed a level of maturity well beyond his years. Now he doesn’t have to keep looking over his shoulder wondering when pay back is coming. In the ring he took a beating but he gave some back as well. For a 20 year old he made a respectable showing. 👍
that father talking in the beginning...take a look at the scars all over his body... his attitude with those scars... he's seen some stuff and i respect him. Someone worth listening to
This shows HOW IMPORTANT it is to have a structured environment for male violence and hierarchy, and to have a strong and just male leader to mediate and handle issues like this.
Props for showing up and taking his humbling. I hope he continues to show up to the gym and says out of trouble and away from the people he was getting into trouble with.
One time I had to throw a soldier out of a bar I was working in because he started a fight, about ten minutes later he came back and apologized for his behavior, and he instantly gained my respect for that.
@@ObjectiveMedia The bar I worked at had a simple policy, if you start a fight you are banned for life, didn't even matter if you were friends or family of the bar owner.
Kudos to the big guy , for first showing up, gloving up , a taking a beating for his part in this. And also for the Dad for being level headed and fair and the respect from all the fighters to the big guy for being a REAL MAN AND MANNING UP !!
Love the respect shown at the end, and this lesson may have put Mr Good on a different path to the one he was heading in Taught him the valuable lesson of actions and consequences Great video and analysis Sifu ❤
Coach even offered him a lifetime membership to train him. Hope he takes it as it might help gravitate him away from his "friends" and onto a more productive path in life.
My dad was the sensei. This brought back memories. I had no choice but to fight my bullies. He taught me always do it on school property or in the gym. Many suspensions but avoided many a lawsuit.
Young men make mistakes. We all have. I am so impressed with the way both sides dealt with this. This is how real men deal with confrontational problems. The father is the kind of role model young men need.
This is the realest video on RU-vid right now. I respect that man Benny, he's a man and a soldier. That's how real warrior's are made. With respect and heart
Thank you kind sir. This upload is awesome and I do agree with you on your insight. Most importantly I think the big guy found a second family & home. The power of brotherhood makes us better people in the long run. Again, thank you.
give him.no credit fr being a PUNK. But he did ok showing up and dealing with it. now he doesn't hv to look over his shoulder. Good move for him n his future.
This brought tears to my eyes. The young man who showed up knows he was wrong and he owned it. The father not only got to express his pain but he just got another son.
Amazing. I’m 51 and have been a jackass so many times in my younger days. I’ve beaten people up, but I’ve had my ass kicked way more times. I know how hard, painful and humbling that is. This dude showed up knowing there was no physical win for him. But he accepted his failure and faced it. The gym guys handled it beautifully. It so easily could have turned ugly and into an evening news story. Bravo to all involved. It actually made me tear up. There is absolutely a place in our ‘advanced, cultured, evolved’ society to let men, young and old, step into a safe physical environment and settle their differences. Just as an aside, during the fighting, I couldn’t hear your audio commentary. Any chance you could post that separately with a silent vid in the back ground? I feel like I missed alot of important insight.
Learn how to fight so you don't have to fight...Very wise advice. I learned a little about boxing and once i got some confidence the less i felt the need to prove anything.
This is a great video thank you. If only more conflicts could be handled in this way, the world would be a better place. A lot of lessons to learn here about responsibility , accountability , masculinity & honor. They took a very bad situation and turned it into a positive outcome. I think The Dad was the best fighter because he held back the most. One last thing: that kid can sure take a punch.
On occasion I watch your videos. This one certainly impressed me and stood out for multiple reasons. Good thing you made this one brother!!!!! There's just so much symbolism and things us can learn from it. Certainly props to Benny who showed the world that he has heart to even come in there. Not many would have even showed up. It was even a dangerous thing to show up because you don't know what these people could have done to him. Fortunately, and this is my second point, the other party showed the world what forgiveness is really about. This is like the perfect movie to watch in only 12 minutes. So much to be learned here. Props to you my friend for putting this masterpiece together. I enjoyed watching it for sure and it gives me hope for human kind and the future.
No lie. The display of respect and owning up to his actions!!!! This gave me the tingels in the back of my neck. Much deserved respect. I think the fourth round fighter should have beaked him less while he was yelling" look at you you wont last three seconds!" That dude lasted five minutes
So incredibly difficult to not only go into that gym, but to do it alone. The damage to his conscience- which I'm sure is what drove him there... his character, his self respect would have been much more severe than the physical punishment he took in the gym had he not taken accountability- showed up. Huge Respect. You really can shed your mistakes like a snake does its skin. Every minute is a new opportunity for self ownership, to create a new you.
Kudos to the dad for handling this with honor and respect. A huge number of problems in society could be solved in a boxing ring. The more we try to prohibit our instincts by law, the worse things get.
Bro took a proper beating and didn't once complain, didn't once try to stop it, didn't once cry or scream or moan. Dude is 20 and had a baptism of fire. Answered for what he did and gained the respect of these men and me. Now he has a lifetime membership and I hope he uses it and turns his life around. He gave pretty good at the start too. He could be an absolute unit!
Heart-warming... a proper, constructive, and chivalrous way of handling the situation. Respect for everyone involved, especially the father instilling these principles in his children and pupils.
This is lesson in life he could not have learned any other way. Respect. I have respect for the father here, once he saw the young man was done he backed off. Good job young man you took your medicine.
He was man enough to show up and man enough to face those fists of fury, got to give him credit for that. Also he deserves even bigger credit for admitting he was wrong. He's a nice lad, who just made some wrong decisions, but has the balls to face his own wrongdoings and admit his faults and weakness.
“Solve your disputes with dialogue, not fists”. “Learn how to fight so you don’t have to fight”. These are serious words to live by. Personally, I prepare for war so I can be a man of peace. This guy was far better off taking his punishment in the ring than on the street.
He was influenced by his friends....and he new it was wrong but mad respect to him for showing up like that..and much respect for that dad to squash that beef after the beating...
Because Benny knows "face" runs and owns an underground promotion league with belts and all. He knows for a fact he was going to get run up on, so he took the safest route and came in to take his medicine
Some punks jumped my baby bro in a similar way only with knives. The same punks tried it with me once and learned a lesson. But they though my baby bro was an easy target.
Fair play to the boy, he showed up and had a go. I think he learned a valuable lesson in humility there. Imagine how many deaths would be avoided if we all sorted out our shit like this. Kudos to everyone in the ring
I’m not a boxer, but in Elementary, Middle, and High School, fighting bullies was a hobbie. Bullies hate when you stand up for yourself. And they run when you do.
Yep, respect for the fathers mercy, and for this kids bravery in showing up. Justice was done without revenge. Old school methods. That guy will now become a better man in the ring and outside of it. I was in a similar situation the other week in our local mountain bike shop (I do extreme mountain biking, dirt jumps etc), after one of the staff dudes has been verbally sniping at me for about 7 months. Been letting it go, not rising to the bait, been patient with the man, kind, forgiving, understanding etc. Basically in one ear and out the other. Martial arts and my faith as a Christian Minister has taught me to be calm, at peace internally down the years. But a few weeks back he started dissing my wife one Saturday morning indirectly, she's also a fellow extreme mountain biker (we both have adhd, so daredevil hyperactive mentality even in our 50's lol). That was all the provocation I needed. That's my dear sweet wife mate, so I said to him in front of the other staff who are his mate's deliberately. "OK dude, let's you and I go for a walk up the alleyway out the back, and sort this out like gentleman, a square go, you can disrespect me but you don't disrespect my wife, who's my love and my joy." Notice I didn't threaten him with violence that they could use against me to the police. I just went for his masculinity as a man, a bully, his pride to embarrass him and shame him. Been watching him for months, I could see in his eyes that he's not "well oiled" in a manner of speaking. In his body posture, in the way he moved that he wasn't a fighter. Not even a fighter who's a bully etc. I knew he wouldn't go for a walk, he bottled it, just started ranting and raving at me behind the counter. The manager sorted him out then, I walked outside with the manager and had a respectful chat. He was cool. The victory for me was just biding my time and not reacting to his baiting for 7 months, however, there comes a time when i then had to step up to the plate, to defend the honor of my wife, to put a stop to it, to teach this thug in his 20's a fatherly lesson. Fantastic video. Ps. That beard bully dude in this video was forgiven, from a certain point of view he found redemption. Thank you my friend. God bless you. Reverend Alexander.
WOW! Tons of respect for the big guy manning up and not giving up against five, fresh, trained, boxers. Maybe he wouldn't have done it with different friends. Never too late to make a change.