@@lisacoker840 eyes is one of the gateway for lights to enter and it does give out one of the most informations because we cannot consciously control its dilation and constriction; same with facial muscles to show the subconcious control;therefore gives us a more complete picture. This is why humans come from authoritarian regimes aren't allowed to look at leaders in their eyes, so they can get away with their lies, as truth are shown in the eyes and facial expressions.
This video is a powerful reminder that not everyone has our best interests at heart. Recognizing these behaviors early can save us from a lot of pain. It's incredible how Stoic philosophy can guide us through such challenging situations! How do you protect your peace when faced with manipulative people?
Very good and important video about toxic dangerous people. They are born to destroy - wgat makes them happy - it is their drug. The drug of good people is to build and fo good things. Do not ever become friends or marry with a toxic person - they will try to ruin you or erase you, or you pet, your life, your good mood, etc etc everything - true !
'The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.' This video reminds us that being aware and proactive can save us from a lot of heartache.
Beautifully said , this has been my life success. I was blessed to be adopted and grow up in a low vibrational community. I have always been grateful to not be like others.
I just got out of a relationship from hell. I definitely need to learn boundaries and to stand my ground. Everything mentioned, my ex displayed it all!!! Empathy really kept me sane and now I realized how insane I was to stay for 2 years.
My issue is that I am a truly nice, empathetic person so I'm constantly being taken advantage of in friendships, and even w family members . I give way more than I receive emotionally and I attract the broken people who want me to fix them. These people are the ones who have most of the issues talked about in the video. I am working on setting healthier boundaries bc I KNOW what is happening...it's just harder than I thought it would be to put a stop to it. Great video BTW... Love and light! 🕊️
This video is a powerful reminder that not everyone has our best interests at heart. Recognizing these behaviors early can save us from a lot of pain. It's incredible how Stoic philosophy can guide us through such challenging situations! How do you protect your peace when faced with manipulative people?
I just divorced my 64yrs. Old son who is married to a narcissist where l learned that word. For 25 years rampant insult humiliated and so on I had no iota of understanding the reason. CAME the moment of truth I am a good mother as l was told by people and the result. I'm 86 I LEAVE peacefully now but still more work phase to be done. I'm now at your programs mercy. THANK you love your show👍👍✌❤🇨🇦🇨🇦😁
Never underestimate the bond between mother and son. He will always have you in his heart and this distance may be just what he needs to realise that. I feel jealousy is at the bottom of this. x
I unexpectedly came across this video just when I finally awoke to my good good friend and business partner being my worst enemy. Better late than never finding it out. Blessings!
Stoicism literally just changed my life... Acceptance of what you cant control and Embrace Accountabilty for What We CAN CONTROL... Every Brother, Nephew, Cousin, Uncle, and Grandpa could benefit from it. To EMPEROR Marcus Arielus, We Salute You... We Salute You!!!
As a small child, literally 3 or 4 years old, I felt uncomfortable with my own mother. This was not learned or a cognitive thing. It was pure instinct. Something about her was just not right. Growing up under her over-reaching control was a battle against constant gaslighting and guilt. Instead of an apology she would say "I am sorry YOU FEEL that I mistreated you or did this or that." As an adult after several years of professional therapy I had to go no contact with my mother. She finally ended up in a nursing home where she continued her campaign of gaslighting and manipulation. She upset and alienated the other residents and the staff dreaded having to deal with her. They finally had a psychiatrist evaluate her and see her a couple of times a month. Diagnosis: Narcissistic personality disorder with some sociopathic tendencies. My "animal instinct" as a child was right. I learned early to trust my instincts. It has served me well.
I can't help but feel that my coworker is going around smearing my good name. One day people will be friendly toward me, the next they act like I'm not worth talking too. Ive never felt that anywhere else. Just can't shake that feeling thats he's saying bad things about me whenever possible.
That’s not a fun situation, I’ve experienced similar situations before. Try and keep a professional, approachable, and confident attitude at work…most likely that person may feel intimidated, threatened, or jealous of you…hang in there, try not to let the situation get to you….
Unforutnely our society rewards this behavior. People that lie about others to make themselves look better get promoted in the workplace. When they get subordinates they lack empathy and don't care about the consequeces of their actions. However they kiss the butts of those above them, so they keep their position. Anyone that calls them out gets fired. If hard work and honesty were the way to get ahead more people would follow that path. But people see these behaviors and immiate them so they too can get a bigger piece of the pie. So the situation perpetuates itself.
Thank you you just confirmed what I pretty much knew it's not easy to eliminate you own Son.He will never admit anything that's wrong with him I'll keep watching eyes wide open
I would also add that pay attention to the questions they ask, they're usually ones that strike you as odd for someone to be curious about, but its to probe for your weaknesses and vulnerabilities....so be careful what you divulge. The other is mixed messages, which might go something like this, them telling you they love spending time with you, while they are peppering you with all their plans that don't include you at the same time. Best line of defense is always trust your gut instincts and don't react.
Yes, the world is round, and we needn't be there to see it either. And not only last 35 yr ppl not have empathy. they're not even curtious or gracious. And with an atitude of expectation. Some Parents raise their kids like that. NO basic mannerisms,raised like an animal. What an ugly society we live in today.
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
How to do the whispering technique The whisper method is easy. Here are the 5 steps to make it work for you: Choose your desire and think of things you can request from a person to make it come true. Imagine yourself walking up to the person and whispering the command in their ear. Imagine their positive reaction to your request. (Them nodding their head, or cheerfully saying “yes”.) Imagine yourself completely and totally happy and satisfied with your request. Feel the connection you have with the universe and know that your desire will be fulfilled.
Biggest requirement before using such whisper is we can't have "desire" which kind of contradicts the intentions if one were to use it for selfish reason vs universal reasons. The power of whisper is greatest when it is trying to fulfill the universal desire.
In order to apply the whispers, it's about the "intentipn", not desires. What is intention? Intention is not a tangible product or material possession. It's a mental state or attitude. It's a way of being, a way of thinking, and a way of approaching life. Here's a more detailed explanation: * A Focused State of Mind: Intention is about directing your thoughts and energy towards a specific goal or outcome. It's a conscious decision to focus on what you want to achieve. * Alignment with Values: Intention is often aligned with your personal values and beliefs. It's about pursuing goals that are meaningful and fulfilling to you. * A Neutral Energy: Intention is typically associated with a calm, neutral state of mind. It's free from negative emotions like fear, doubt, or greed. * A Guiding Force: Intention can serve as a guiding force in your life, helping you make decisions and take actions that align with your goals. In essence, intention is a powerful tool that can help one manifest ones true desires and live a more fulfilling life, but it's a process all habe to journey through, therefore a public none tainted system is needed to sustain such intentions. A public system community we all heard from history to sustain such intentions: some examples 1. Christianity: - Heaven - Kingdom of God - New Jerusalem 2. Islam: - Jannah (Paradise) - Firdaus (Garden of Paradise) 3. Judaism: - Gan Eden (Garden of Eden) - Olam Ha-Ba (World to Come) 4. Buddhism: - Sukhavati (Western Paradise) - Pure Land 5. Hinduism: - Svarga (Heaven) - Vaikuntha (Vishnu's abode) 6. Sikhism: - Sach Khand (True Realm) 7. Taoism: - Western Paradise - Isles of the Blessed 8. Baha'i Faith: - Abha Kingdom - Heavenly Realm 9. Zoroastrianism: - Paradise (Vahishta) - Garodemana (House of Song)
Sometimes the liars make themselves believe their own lies so that non of the typical signs work. They will look u straight in the eye and tell u the same lie over and over because they also have good memories so they remember everything they have ever said but what's worse is they remember every weakness or problem u have ever told them or showed them and they use that against u to make u feel bad about urself and they bash everything u love so that u doubt urself. I recognize all the things that were done and all the mistakes I made but I do not know how to stop it from happening to me again. I feel like I am on a stage in the spotlight and everyone has a weapon ready to destroy me from the inside out
True. They r like this. I also suffer a lot due to these people. Try learning from this video. I have even written the important points from this video. U too can. God bless u.
I agree with much that is said. We need a more detailed discussion however as I have found that living with a toxic person can create a sort of automatic defensiveness which can mimic some of these behaviors. When it is unsafe to tell the truth people have a tendency to try avoiding discussions dealing with the truth. Evasion is a survival tool in such situations. These are overall a great set of guides for how to live life, but it must be remembered that bad habits can result from constantly living with a toxic person.
I have always tried to build relationships with a solid brick of honesty rather than a balloon of lies. The best thing to remember is that big mistakes leading to suffering is only tragic if you fail to LEARN from it to make your life better with the knowledge emerging from hard won personal experience.
Wow I realise now how many bad people I know and how few real people I know and recognise some of bad signs in myself from being around the wrong people, and I now know why suffer from deep deppression
Stoic mindset changed my perspectives to the meaning of life thoroughly. Owed to your philosophical advices and directions to the right path. Thank you forever.❤❤❤ Not to forget the articulated and brilliant language.
I’m so confounded now. I thought my husband hit the mark on all or most of these but, it won’t matter how he gets the information. He won’t change and he’ll forever think that you are describing me. We are broken and have been for 25 of the last 28 years. We can’t stand to be alone together. He notices nothing good. He never apologizes. He is never wrong. 😢
this is amazing. you have described my half sister who had all these traits i suffered over 70 years of this behaviour till she died 5 years ago i stood up to her only a couple of times and she brought alll hell down on me everyone liked her. she was a master of manipulation
This is how manipulators are. And you will notice a lot of ppl will like them, or they'll appear very charismatic to the people outside the house or the family. Society often rewards these types of people b/c it is built in a way to do so. Your sister will have to feel all of the pain she caused others, though, b/c that's how the karma is balanced after death.
@@psychedelicartistry thankyou for your reply I'll just add. I did ask her to forgive me if any time in life I had offender or hurt her she accepted and said she would I waited for her to do the same but she tuned away saying she has never done anything wrong to anyone I was and still am amazed but on her death bed I told her I had forgiven her but she never answered and a little while later she died
Once you are a target. JUST LEAVE. Or you will be a scapegoat forever. But if you leave and stay gone. They will sooner or later show thier true colors.
Have a sister that does all this. Our whole family has walked on egg shells for years. Mom and dad are gone now...2 of us are left putting up with this monster..
I do have some of these behaviours and god I am so wiling to change myself I am not gonna stay still I need to develop myself more I can't be the same old person again thanks so much for this video it helped point out my weaknesses and strengthsess it made me know my hidden fears and insecurities and I hope that god gives me the power to change myself to a better person so I can spread positivity everywhere ❤
@@therese2367 oh thank you so much it is just you know you can't be in the wrong side when you know it it will make things worse so why to be so stubborn when you can be so good and peaceful I mean well all have negative traits we just don't see it so once we know or even it we must change it I hope your son decide to change too and thanks again so much ❤❤
It's good to see yourself and what to improve. It takes a lot for a person to look inside and want to create changes. That's a wonderful thing. With strength from God, all things are possible.
To the content creator..... thanks a lot. And to each commenter, continue remaining positive and strong 💪 folks. Bad people are in the world. Unfortunately, we have to contend with them on occasion. I grew up with a bad person. Unfortunately, due to my religious upbringing, I felt compelled to continue ignoring their bad behavior, until I realized what was going on with religion. Bad people want to continue being given the benefit of the doubt. Bad people make sport out of deeply religious people, like I used to be. Whoever you are.....DO NOT GIVE UP. ALL bad people ARE in the process of being exposed. Stay strong folks.
I have just finally walked away from a 2 year relationship with exactly this person and I have done what you have suggested. I would love to send this to my X boyfriend. This video is excellent 🙌
I think if we focus less on how other people are and more on ourselves and getting to know our selves then it really doesn't matter how other people are.
Thank you, I listened to the end. Your video is a good exploration of what Narcissistic individuals do and how you can protect yourself from their contempt towards you. Thank you again!
Yes 👍 this is absolutely the truth and I never believed that the devil existed 😢 the main character and giving non stop. Boundaries set and over and out 😢
Yes the story's change and the facts change when it comes to what happened with my mother's estate, her house titles and my due process rights violated, documents etc. and promises for something that's going to happen at a later date while time dragged and a TEDRA CASE I did. Crazy! The family I love and a Narcissistic diagnosed ex husband who has plenty of time and networking to get all answers and the same NARRATIVES that exists that have been passed through the family dynamics that continues the abusive scapegoating of me the once healthier parent. No one has any answers as they continue to blame one another and I continue to be in the role of what happened to me. And therefore their position is superior to mine. What a life I've lived trusting them do to do the right things and allowing my love to be manipulated and abused. I'm 63 yrs old and what a mistake I've made but I love.
The most powerful statement in a type of reconciliation.Or apology is not saying i'm sorry but Saying will you forgive me or I Forgive you for this activity.
And the advice I have very few people whom I trust That shows us how toxic the world has become People can’t be bothered Anymore the days of visiting neighbors on the front porch and everyone has everyone’s back In the community those days are over
I love asking someone to retell a story that sounded like a lie the first time they told it….😂. It always changes, the truth is the truth. But a lie takes a new form every time it is told, trying to remember a lie gets you to use your creative imagination and the lie tends to get most exaggerated 😅
Keep doing what your doing... These videos can have such an immense, profound and positive effect on people. I love it. 👏👏👏💪 I'm soo greatful that people like you exist.
Excellent source to deal with these traits and behaviors portrayeable by many individuals causing the good to loose due to the reliance of their say is accountable. Tough place for many people 😢
Thank you for the videos you create. I am unable to go outside when the sun is bright and it's so sad that I can never go anywhere. But truly, I love this video and others you've made. 😊
