BADMINTON QUALIFIER ENDS IN TEARs ~ Eventing doesn't go to plan

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@madammissy4753 3 года назад

We all have our good and bad days! You inspire so many riders, in a way their achievements are your achievements! Keep your head up 🤗

@slou3552 3 года назад

MEG!! Someone is bound to always have something worse going on, that unfortunately is just life. That doesn’t stop you from feeling the emotions, please don’t call yourself ignorant or a brat. It’s good to acknowledge and recognise your feelings, holding them in isn’t going to help! 💕

@SAA-hr9gr 3 года назад

So true, as long as you can finally put them into perspective and put those emotions behind you it's ok because let's be real. The person saying Meg is a brat, to a certain extent is a brat in their own way. They could have celebrated their horse having had a good life and that they had an opportunity which most people don't have being the ownership of a horse in general, or like you pointed out, crying over a dead horse whilst people cry over not being able to eat a whole day. People will always have it harder and just because your life may seem harder than others doesn't mean you have a richt to call them a brat for being disappointed or upset about something. Being a brat would be feeling entitled to something which you aren't. We need to aknowledge our emotions but then finally put them behind us.

@meghan2721 3 года назад

That’s so true if you hide your emotions it’s not going to help you two look amazing out there!!

@souders4428 3 года назад

You did amazing Meg! Never apologise for “being a brat” ... you work really hard to get good results and you’re allowed to be disappointed. It’s all relative - no one has the right to dismiss someone else’s dreams. Keep going!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@brookehartson7319 3 года назад

It is heartbreaking to have the result be that close, I do hope that BE reconsiders the qualifications and allows for more pairs to qualify. I know you are so pleased with Jam and how far she is home this season. I was so impressed by how mature she looked at this event, so excited to see what you two will achieve in the future💜

@spanglelime 3 года назад

Someone is incredibly unhappy with their life and taking it out on you. You're allowed to be upset when you're, you know, competing and are trying to get the best results possible. **HUGE hugs** you're kicking ass and Jammy looked awesome!

@ericavetsch463 3 года назад

It's okay to be disappointed, then you wash your face (and if necessary, your hair! :) ) and you go conquer the next challenge. If you had come off as flippant and didn't care about your results or your horse, that would have been annoying! :S We live the ups and downs with you, and we're always in your corner. Jam had a cracking day, jumped out of her skin, and has shown amazing progress in such a short amount of time. Well done!

@nataliaallen9731 3 года назад

Totally agree, well said :)

@leannenunez7147 2 года назад

OMG my name is Natalia

@tamifraser5902 3 года назад

Your feelings are just that. YOUR FEELINGS! Don't let anyone tell you they are wrong, or that you aren't allowed to be disappointed. It isn't bratty, or rude, you work hard! What you shouldn't be is too hard on yourself. Good luck with Dee! Xx

@abigaildavis770 3 года назад

Bless you Meg, I suffer quite badly from anxiety and depression. Any comment like the one you had would send me over the edge and make me not want to post anything.

@nicolerw8128 3 года назад

When you have a goal and something means so much to you, you cry when it doesnt happen. My goodness I would have blubbed too. Let's sack off calling it ignorant and instead call it passionate ;)

@syzygyfarm 3 года назад

Have a good cry. Inhale. Then exhale it all out. You did well & will learn from this mistake. That makes it a win. We're still going to be here next year to watch you try again. Whatever you do, though, don't apologize. Losing sucks. It's important to feel the lows because they make the highs that much better. Hang in there. 💕

@equinemads 3 года назад

We all have highs and the lows with horses, nothing ever goes to plan😁

@daniowen9519 3 года назад

Just because people can have it worse than you doesn’t mean you can ignore how you’re feeling. Everyone is different and if you’re upset on how your round went, you have every right to be… no one can tell you to not feel what you feel! You did really well and rode everything really nicely!☺️

@millieperzylo 3 года назад

Hope your ok Meg 😕❤️ We all have rubbish days just keep trying you’ll get there again!! 😁

@amandawalsh7115 3 года назад

Anybody who rides and competes feels all your emotions - they are completely normal. Tomorrow is another day. ❤️

@serenityfarms6443 3 года назад

You are perfectly allowed to be disappointed! You worked very hard and had a great round and it was just the slightest of errors! You should be proud of yourself for working hard and trying your best, that’s what everyone should aspire to. You’re not going to win every time, true, but that’s we all try for and it’s OK to be disappointed that you don’t.

@katieeventing355 3 года назад

Jams back end when jumping is so blumming amazing 🤩

@karenb.9281 3 года назад

You are not an ignorant brat, everyone has bad days and can be disappointed in themselves even when all in all they did well. Big hugs 💕💕💕😊

@jennielaw6329 3 года назад

Meg Megg Megggg!! ....I'm mum to a daughter roughly the same age as you........we're not pony guardians unfortunately, due to circumstances, but .....NEVER let the haters get u down ....ur ponies are loved and cherished 🤗

@traceymccormick8403 3 года назад

Don’t let them get to you Meg. you re allowed to feel disappointed when you work so hard and it means so much to you 💕you inspire so many people who are truly grateful for your honesty. Never stop being you xx

@ninjakitty2699 3 года назад

Everyone has a right to feel emotions, and doing so doesn't make you ignorant or bratty! Having bad days is unavoidable and being able to talk about them and share your emotions is a good thing! You are such an inspiration to so many people, and being upset doesn't make you any less of that. Keep doing what you are doing because it is amazing! 💕😊

@emmaduff4114 3 года назад

It’s ok you were amazing to us anyway ❤️‍🔥💓

@luizafonseca_ 3 года назад

Just keep in mind that you're the one who trained that super duper pony and when it's time, she will get you guys qualified! Trust your super pon pons ❤️ you guys are amazing

@kathrynthomas9591 3 года назад

You're amazing Meg, love watching your vlogs, your not a spoilt brat at all, just someone who is passionate and loves her horses and her sport xx

@djb9747 2 года назад

Rewatching this video just after you got the news of your qualification is so heartwarming ❤️❤️

@dorothybennett6596 3 года назад

It is SO understandable Meg that you're upset. It's you you tube say and do what you feel keep it real. 💯

@faith_kizadventures8749 3 года назад

Meg you are amazing, just because you have a lovely life doesn't mean you can't be down about not qualifying! Jam was incredible, always more opportunities. Especially as she is still so young, you have produced her beautifully 😍 thankyou for vlogging 🥰

@sea-fieldpony.4556 3 года назад

Don’t listen to people calling you a brat- they are just lesser people..

@Emma-df6wy 3 года назад

These things happen, look forward to your round with Dee and continue to be positive! And you’re not an ignorant brat your obviously entitled to having your own opinion on your performance! Lots of love!!! 🤍🤍

@starcoursestables556 3 года назад

Once I messed up a whole jump corse and ended up with a sprained ankle. As long as you tried it’s amazing! You have the courage to go and try which is amazing. No mater what you are amazing.

@amandapersson9069 3 года назад

Everyone has their days and it’s alright to make mistakes. That’s the way we learn😊 Nobody’s perfect and you inspire us all SOO much!❤️❤️❤️

@allisonwilliams5922 3 года назад

That show jumping round!!! 😍 she’s absolutely jumping out of her socks. What a back end. You two look incredible

@AnnabelleTheDark 3 года назад

I absolutley understand the emotions around this. I had 5 competitions in a row where I was first outside of placed. I had good runs, even great ones but I still got frustrated and emotional not getting all the way. But I do have to say that I felt like Jam had such more quality in her canter; it was powerful and bold and although I tought you rode her beautifully maybe you guys just needs a few more runs to get the feel for this power. I adore you Meg and your channel. Its ok to feel things.

@uwggrad2010 3 года назад

I hate that you were so disappointed, but I was so proud of how well you rode and that you pushed forward. I'm sorry for the sadness that you feel, but so excited for the future for you and Jamjam!

@christinemartindale8715 3 года назад

Aweee Meg you made me cry too dear me, you’ll be ok and please ignore that person who said mean things to you everything will turn out fine. Now make sure you give Hobbit a big hug before bedtime 💕💕💕💕tfs😎

@e.s.eventing6268 3 года назад

Awwww Meg ❤️ We all have our bad days and we think you were great! Xxxx

@ashleymalcolm-smith9333 3 года назад

Just started watching video, but hope your doing okay Meg

@happydays7143 3 года назад

Oh dear it's a disappointment for sure Meg and you are ALLOWED to be upset 👍. Just be secure in the knowledge that your supporters/friends/family have your back and that's all that matters Xx

@andreathompson4295 3 года назад

You’re not at all a brat and just remember to stay positive you are always loved by many humans P.s you are my fav RU-vidr ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

@xanthegoodman3816 3 года назад

Hope you are ok! Sending love, you are so inspiring xx

@issytheidiot7535 3 года назад

I hope youre doing okay! I recently had bad fall involving a 16.3 fall (whilst we were riding on the road). I narrowly avoided being landed on by him 🥺

@ellebartlett108 3 года назад

Jam was incredibly careful in the showjumping! Such a shame she got number 3. The ground looked so sticky!! I still remember watching your first jumping vlogs with her - shes looks like a different pony! Well done. Don’t be to hard on yourself- we all have off days.

@Milxco. 3 года назад

Really sad to see you cry ! Just remember you are absolutly amazing don't beat yourself up you tried your best xxx

@mollyparker3867 3 года назад

Honestly, I think it’s so so rude that that person from Instagram sent you such a message. Eventing is your passion, it’s expensive, you’re relatively famous in the equine world which must be a lot of pressure and you lost out because of something so small; of course you’re going to be upset by it! I’m so sorry that that person made you feel as if you were a brat, your disappointment and tears are completely valid, Meg. The ending of the vlog made my heart hurt for you because you sounded so defeated and conscious of showing your feelings, but honestly, I think most of us in your position would’ve cried. Your emotions, whether they’re good or bad, are always valid, especially when you share so much of your life with us ❤️

@-equinekristen- 3 года назад

Hi I just wanted to say you did a fantastic job jam and you where so awesome just remember that jump was because it was sticky if it wasn’t muddy you would have been so happy but what you don’t realise is that your an awesome rider no matter what 🥺❤️💖

@digglediaries5548 3 года назад

Megan, I live through your vlogs and please know that everyone follows you because of how honest you are. There are always going to be bad days. You're such an inspiration

@janetrodgers7051 3 года назад

Take no notice of the negative people. They are just sado's. You both did amazing sending a good old Yorkshire hug xxx

@phoebemequinex 3 года назад

aw, don’t be down you jumped 2 fab rounds and an amazing dressage as per, it happens to the best of us and you still did amazing!💖💖💖💖

@dawnjudd7941 3 года назад

Your not a brat , these thing happen, you and jam did your best :) I'm proud of you both

@tespy5028 3 года назад

You're not an ignorant brat! Never let the praises go to your head, or the criticisms to your heart. ❤

@Anna-tj9ef 3 года назад

Meg don't worry you did amazing and we all have bad riding days. Jam looked absolutely amazing and she looked happy to be out and she and you tried your best and that's all you can ask ❤❤🐴🐴

@annejarvis7002 3 года назад

Meg you should be so proud of Jam (and yourself) - she was AMAZING - all down to your hard work and training. It's perfectly understandable to be disappointed - having worked so hard. Your vlogs have meant a great deal to me (& I am sure many others) during the last 18 months. I applaud you for that & for the wonderful way you & Hobbit love & care for your precious ponies & how you take us along with you on your travels. A massive THANK YOU. Much love❤

@rosiesibley5577 3 года назад

My cousin went to this event! Jess James? She was riding a grey called SpiritXI. We’re all so proud of you, Meg regardless!! ❤️❤️❤️

@jamesmnaylor 3 года назад

Let’s explore Meg. One the later start times aren’t ideal you have to wait all day and it’s a lot of thinking time, two that lead to jump three looked extremely boggy, three 9 secs is an easy thing to fix especially when a horse is up for it. One other thing, I know social media thing is your jam (sorry for the pun) but haters will always hate. You’ve done incredible well to get where you are, and who ever said that, doesn’t know what it feels like to be an athlete with a dream. All I can say is trot on to the next event.

@SuperJJx 3 года назад

You did your best and you did well! but others did better and there's no shame in being disappointed for missing out (potentially) on something like Badminton. It is a recurring dream of yours after all. :D Another go tomorrow and you'll do your best then too!

@georgiawoods6958 3 года назад

don’t be so hard don yourself - here’s to winning next time 💓

@keirawesthearth7510 3 года назад

Can we just appreciate how good of a rider Meg is. I was watching you jump those jumps and I was in awe. I look up to you soo much and I have become a better rider because of you! Also those people who put nasty comments are just jealous and you are not and ignorant brat. You are far from it. ❤️🥰

@elphick.event.ponies 3 года назад

Awh thank you lovely ❤️

@Ihaveadog230 3 года назад

Don’t worry! We all have our bad times. You should be so proud that your here at this level! You are amazing, Meg.

@donnajeffery8267 3 года назад

I think you and Jam did amazingly we all have good and bad days and just think of how much you have achieved with Jam in such a short space of time as it doesn’t seem that long ago she was doing her first proper show and now she is at 90 BE this is amazing and plus you are a person that keeps it real you put everything into everything that you do so emotions are expected so ignore the haters just please don’t apologise for being human and having hopes so thank you for being you and always stay strong and keep it real and if in doubt know that me and the rest of your followers etc have your back so never feel you are alone

@juliedalgardno3361 3 года назад

You're Amazing! Love, love every one of your vlogs! I know the ups and downs and getting through helps oodles of people. Keep up the hard work and please don't change a thing!

@marty_grem877 3 года назад

i teard up. Im so sorry meg, keep your head up and know that this one blip doesnt define anything. You and your ponies are incredible

@freyawalsh121 2 года назад

rewatching this knowing you have now qualified!!!

@runningsissy7294 3 года назад

Don’t be down on your self you and jam did great you and dee are going to do great to

@gemmacafall9953 3 года назад

It’s ok to be disappointed. You are in a competitive hobby. Always next time :)

@elvirakreft420 3 года назад

Dont beat yourself up to much meg everyone makes mistakes and you can feel how you want to feel dont listen to wat nasty people say 😘

@Christianhartma 3 года назад

Don’t concentrate on the bad but instead concentrate on the good... your amazing and we love that you show the good and the bad and show us all the real you... 🐴❤️

@laceysanimallife1955 3 года назад

1 sec ago I’m getting obsessed I laugh and smile at your vids and my mum goes your watching her again lol

@toastandbutterrr 3 года назад

If you feel pressure because of us then absolutely don’t. We don’t care what happens with your results, we love you and anything that happens we will support you and wish you luck if you need it, and congratulate you when you get there. And you aren’t an ignorant brat you were frustrated which is understandable, it’s ok to be annoyed. We love you 💝💘

@vikkineish5790 3 года назад

It’s ok not to be ok!! I felt your disappointment and can I just say, you are amazing and you inspire so many people, you are definitely not a brat. As your mum said Jam is still very green, but every event you take her to she just gets better and better her day and yours will come. I love this pony ❤️ Ace’s face earlier did make me laugh he looks like he had so much character.

@issytheidiot7535 3 года назад

I remembered when you took bear!

@bernster123 Год назад

Very satisfying to be watching this after just having seen you go round Badminton grassroots 2023 👍

@toastandbutterrr 3 года назад

We all have bad days 🥺 you should still be so proud of that little pony tho she was jumping like a bomb 🔥 she’s definitely going places with her speedy little legs, I hope it went well with Dee and good luck for the next event you’ve got 💓

@candymilkshake 3 года назад

Do not let anyone invalidate your feelings no matter what it’s over. If you’re upset you’re upset. Take care of yourself.

@fayeashcroft7066 2 года назад

Dee jam Dora. Go the greys 🐎🐎🐎 All the best Meg Big day Lots of emotion Life’s up and done Better day tmw Rest up and it will all be ok

@callista19w 3 года назад

Jam just flies over the jumps. Wonderful ride! Ignore the haters.

@Olivia-qt4hz 3 года назад

You have inspired me so much and I look up to you every day remember that aslong as you abs ur horse walk away fine then that’s all that matters I know the feeling of guilt that saying to your self I could of done this I could of done that but at the end of the day think off all that you have achieved ❤️❤️❤️❤️xx

@seasideeq3574 3 года назад

13:26. That arrow jump looked awesome.

@mylifeeventing204 3 года назад

Awww we all have ups and downs but I'm sure u guys will get there 🤍on to the next one with happy and healthy ponies💗💗

@CharlieStClown 3 года назад

Head out to Bicton and try for your qualification there, you got this Meg!

@unlikelyalice1183 3 года назад

Don't let negative people get to you Meg! You and Jam killed it and you'll crush it next time with Dee! Let the frustration/disappointment drive you forward!

@chloeorritt2919 3 года назад

Meg! I am SO gutted for you, I cried with you!! Absolutely screw all the Karen's who are being horrible they've clearly nothing better to do! Of course you are happy you are all home safe but you're upset you're devastated! Never apologise for showing your true emotions thata why we love you! You will never please everyone. No matter how wonderful someone's life is no one is just happy all the time and see's the good! Everyone has bad days and sometimes concentrates on the bad, you're human!! We love you meg xxx

@megancorbett4710 3 года назад

Sucks you didn’t qualify but Jam looked INCREDIBLE! Big things to come with her!

@zuzanadubravcova1307 3 года назад

Meg, you both were amazing. There is nothing wrong, that you care. We love you because of that. We can see you care about you results, your horses. That is normal. Don't be afraid to show emotions, it is completely normal 😊

@gillianlillis1984 3 года назад

I haven’t watched it all yet, but you definitely seem to get more nervous & put more pressure on yourself for qualifiers. Such a shame! We all love your vlogs regardless of results xx

@cloudy_rain_7719 3 года назад

You did super good!! I always say “ you either win or you learn you never ever lose!” So today you may not have won but you learned something!!! And sometimes that’s more important than winning!

@nancymorter6649 3 года назад

We all have disappointments in life, don’t let anyone put you down for being upset or for crying! I call these events a “life learning experiences “ and, so now you pick yourself up, wear your watch next time. You are a brilliant rider! I hope they change to the 20% as well so all of your hard work pays off for you.

@imlovingthisxxx 3 года назад

Don't ever apologise for being you. Its never easy when things don't work out the way we hope and dream that they will no matter how good the result is. Be proud of you and Jam for working so hard that she was able to do so well and that your hard work made it easy for Jam to eat up the xc.

@slou3552 3 года назад

Aw Meg you sounded so nervous when you said “good afternoon” to the judges 😆🥺

@katied9094 3 года назад

you have the right to feel sad and frustrated your human its fair, you both did amazing you should be very proud of yourself and jammy!

@The_horsemanship_diaries 3 года назад

Meg, I just want to say you are absolutely amazing. You're channel is super fun and I always learn heaps, you inspire me to be a better rider and to train hard but fun. I only just started riding again so I have a long way to go. We don't think you are a brat for being sad, people are allowed to have emotions and I'm glad you share yours with us. Please don't hide your feeling to please other people. We love and appreciate you the way you are, and yes you have a fabulous life but you don't have to be sorry about being disappointed! It's normal and it's human. You work so hard to get places and when you don't get there of course you'll be sad, you're not a robot. Don't let stupid internet people change you. Keep it up We love ya!!! 🥰🥰🥰

@elsiedunnery2807 3 года назад

Meg life is life. If something happens move on. You are one of the best jumpers I have ever seen and I would hate it if you stopped doing what you love. You will get them next time :)

@stormyhorse0752 3 года назад

You are not an ignorant brat at all! Everyone gets disappointed sometimes and that’s okay. Do not listen to that person! You have also inspired me so much and I love watching your videos

@mgadkins1659 3 года назад

Your goals are your goals. You have a right to your feelings. Don’t let others get your down. Keep your chin up. 🤗🤗🤗🤗

@scottfoundit 3 года назад

You are the best Meg! Don’t be too hard on yourself. We love your journey. Thanks for sharing your events with us .

@trudiclark7841 3 года назад

Ignore the bad comments, you have the right to be upset at something you really wanted. Mistakes happen and all you can do is learn from them. You are both home safe and sound and that’s the main thing. Keep your chin up and carry on doing what you’re doing, you will get there soon 😘💖

@FaerfolkDogs 3 года назад

@rosannasherwood800 3 года назад

You have inspired me so much and if you take one step back you always take two steps forward so don’t worry about it

@janl8683 3 года назад

It is perfectly reasonable for you to be disappointed that the day didn't work out quite the way you hoped. Of course people have worse things happen, but you had a right to talk about your feelings on your vlog. You work very hard with all your ponies and also bringing content to your social media. So chin up, prepare for another day Ps go and thump your pillow for all the miserable negative comments that anyone dares give you we won't tell xxx

@nelly20120206 3 года назад

Jam's Dressage was so amazing, she's come such a long way! And she really did jump her heart out, you've produced such an awesome pony!😍😍

@Youliveyouride 3 года назад

I think you did amazing!!!! Jam and you are such a great team XD But it's okay to feel down or just feel the things you're feeling because we can't help the way we feel (if that makes sense) For me I love watching your videos because I can see how much you love your horses and how you do have a fantastic attitude. You're allowed to feel what you're feeling though, I just hope you're feeling better :} You are a real inspiration to so many people just by being you!