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'BANA BA ZANGA IDENTIT É' I DATING OUTSIDE THE CONGOLESE COMMUNITY I SEASON 3 - EPISODE 1 

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@SololaBien
@SololaBien 4 года назад
🇫🇷 Pour les francophones : Les sous-titres sont disponibles, merci d’activer les sous-titres français.
@mynovela
@mynovela 4 года назад
Please morning Solola Bien, is it possible to put English subtitles too (on RU-vid) because for non congolese sometimes you speak Lingala or French then they don’t understand 👍🏽 your show want to be international 😅🤷🏽
@jeannettecompany3347
@jeannettecompany3347 4 года назад
Eza ba sujets sensible,donc il faut ko invité batu ba na matière na sujet,car c’est un sujet qui peut diviser des communautés si ils mal discuter
@shekinahkanyiki8212
@shekinahkanyiki8212 4 года назад
Please include English subtitles as well ?
@ACHMBOPROD
@ACHMBOPROD 4 года назад
BRAVO À L'ÉQUIPE DE @SOLOLA BIEN POUR LA QUALITÉ DE L'ÉMISSION, ÇA CHANGE DES ÉMISSIONS QU'ON A L'HABITUDE DE VOIR DANS LA COMMUNAUTÉ. FAITES VOUS CONNAÎTRE S'IL VOUS PLAÎT, BOZO MÉRITÉ D'ÊTRE CONNU👏👏👏...
@missbsnaturalhairbeauty1819
@missbsnaturalhairbeauty1819 4 года назад
Gladis zala posé oza pe trop agité, oza trop fière. PREND L'EXEMPLE DE DIAMOND ELLE EST POSÉ CALME, TRÈS BIEN ÉDUQUÉ MÊME SON MARI EST FIÈRE D'ELLE. YO OZO EBELER, OZO LOBA TROP COMME UN ENFANT, YO MOKO OZA CONGOLAISE, ZALAKA POSÉ MÊME BA BOKILO NAYO BAZO TALA OZONGA NGA, OFUNGOLI MISU, BA FIÈRE. DIAMOND UNE FEMME TRÈS SIMPLE, POSÉ, ET TRÈS BELLE SON MARI DOIT ÊTRE FIÈR EN LUI REGARDANT. UNE FEMME FAUT ÊTRE POSÉ. ET NE GÉNÉRALISE PAS. OZO LAKISA EDUCATION DE TA FAMILLE. EN TE REGARDANT PARLANT OZA ENGALISA. SI NON C BIEN OBALI KAKA NIGERIAN PO UN HOMME CONGOLAIS UNE FEMME QUI PARLE COMME SA EKO SIMBA TE OZA TROP AGITÉ. EZA CONSEIL OBOYI OSALI KK MOKILI NAYO NA NIGERIA HUMMM.
@auntylousworld1139
@auntylousworld1139 4 года назад
This is an interesting debate, I am Congolese 100%, I have never seen my parents together, I have been married to a Ghanaian man for 12 years, we have 3 children and we are still together. My thing is I have been able to give my children something that I never had. It's about who make you happy, it's not about the country.
@nancymika
@nancymika 4 года назад
Yuuuupp!
@voiceitout1545
@voiceitout1545 4 года назад
Amen
@mernejacesar3
@mernejacesar3 4 года назад
Yasss!!!! ❤️👏🏽👏🏽
@HelenaMuk
@HelenaMuk 4 года назад
Bo wumela aunty Lou 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
Exactly !!
@LaHeiress
@LaHeiress 4 года назад
Frankos et Dymund are the best panelists. Love how they reflect and answer questions 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@jeremynswana
@jeremynswana 4 года назад
all Frankos & Dymund speak is FACTS. 🔥
@rebeccam.7249
@rebeccam.7249 4 года назад
@@jeremynswana how do you know are you congolese cause they are talking about congolese culture in datung so you will nit understand unless you are congolese
@graceluzimadio373
@graceluzimadio373 4 года назад
Yes Dymund is very wise !
@godnewstv6868
@godnewstv6868 4 года назад
Carine mokonzi libala ekufi ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-sFpeS3lmWjM.html
@alexandrereally3295
@alexandrereally3295 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-oVC12Znc8e8.html
@Bikoni243
@Bikoni243 4 года назад
Dymund and Frankos have the most calm and relevant opinions clearly
@pamelamambu3344
@pamelamambu3344 4 года назад
100%
@godnewstv6868
@godnewstv6868 4 года назад
FELLY A POSTER MWASI NAYE NA INSTAGRAM EZA CARINE TE MAWA ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-G9e7C-2p3kM.html
@horschiday9449
@horschiday9449 4 года назад
Yessss... and Amba too
@g.l9847
@g.l9847 4 года назад
Half Congolese half Haitian and proud to be both I don’t have identity crisis period
@flowersunflower4242
@flowersunflower4242 4 года назад
BE PROUD!!!💪🏽
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
You're just like my baby nephew :)
@bb-du1ns
@bb-du1ns 4 года назад
G.L don't lie to yourself one side is always going to overpower the other
@charleneperry3670
@charleneperry3670 4 года назад
@@bb-du1ns isn’t that the same even when you are a full Congolese.. I’m more in my mum’s life than my dad’s and I’m 100% Congolese. My mixed race kids have a balance in being involved in their dad’s family and mine more than I did as a Congolese kid
@jaelcosmetics8966
@jaelcosmetics8966 4 года назад
@@bb-du1ns uhm how im congolese born south african and im proudly congolese and south african i do congolese and south africans activities
@flowergirl9504
@flowergirl9504 4 года назад
It’s the way frankos has such good understanding with things. his tranquility and excellence shines through the screen. a great Congolese man🥺🤍
@gospelphilomath
@gospelphilomath 4 года назад
in conclusion, Drymund's husband is VERY lucky.
@joseb738
@joseb738 4 года назад
I agree with you
@lorrainesimser446
@lorrainesimser446 2 года назад
Very lucky man
@KayaBea
@KayaBea 4 года назад
Gladys was wildin but there is one thing she was VERY right about. Penielle is getting bullied, harrased and humiliated on a daily basis by the Congolese community for outing her abuser. Where are those so called good congolese men to at least speak on her behalf? How is her abuser still booking shows? Where did the "FC Kanga Motema" joke come from then? I know these things happen in other cultures too but still.. I'd like to know. Where are the congolese men to defend women in situations like these?
@_cc__6737
@_cc__6737 4 года назад
Exactly
@jesrel9733
@jesrel9733 4 года назад
Truue! I do not understand why we downplay experiences or traumas that other people go through.
@la.reine.zairoise51
@la.reine.zairoise51 4 года назад
You are 100% right!!!
@classysis6264
@classysis6264 3 года назад
Thank you sis. My dad is Congolese and my mom Gabonese, and I’ve noticed that most( If not all) Congolese men are very into cheating. And they always tell the ladies to « kanga motema » and support the struggle love because marriage is an end goal. The Pernelle situation was disgusting, especially because MEN AND WOMEN went over the poor girl. Only few people took her side and I heard an aunty of mine saying that she should’ve stayed because it’s marriage 🤦🏿‍♀️
@samathaolga9497
@samathaolga9497 3 года назад
I agree Congolese men have to make efforts .
@my2cents831
@my2cents831 4 года назад
I’ve got 2 kids been & together 7 years with a Nigerian. Trust me, cultural differences are hard to overcome. It’s an extra stress in a relationship you could easily avoid by dating someone who’s Congolese but it’s not impossible to make it work. Just hard.
@BeeMp92
@BeeMp92 4 года назад
Appreciate your honesty
@missdymunds
@missdymunds 4 года назад
i really appreciate your transparency this is exactly what i mean it’s your chose do what you want but there will always advantages and disadvantages one being difference of cultural values. more blessings to you dear ! wish you a happy and successful marriage 💕
@nickelleraffaelle3529
@nickelleraffaelle3529 4 года назад
Ah but my sis is there love ?
@AltraTara
@AltraTara 4 года назад
@@nickelleraffaelle3529 love is not all sis, I married outside my community and in relationship with them for 7 years, We’ve loved each other till the end but I could not stay with them cause of those cultural and racial differences AND I wanted to avoid confusion to any child to come. L’amour esalaka nyionso te
@MsGladis
@MsGladis 4 года назад
Sololabien pinned this to be biased! I have zero zero culture issues in my marriage and none for my kids either
@Thereaalkev_
@Thereaalkev_ 4 года назад
Team Dymund 🤩🤩😍😍😍❤️❤️✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
@annamirindi2577
@annamirindi2577 4 года назад
Always ❤❤
@laetitiakulakula8100
@laetitiakulakula8100 4 года назад
She is the best calm
@noemiemulanga153
@noemiemulanga153 4 года назад
She 's the best😍😍😍😍
@godnewstv6868
@godnewstv6868 4 года назад
FELLY A POSTER MWASI NAYE NA INSTAGRAM EZA CARINE TE MAWA ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-G9e7C-2p3kM.html
@erikahb.848
@erikahb.848 4 года назад
She's so mature 🤗🥰❤
@DEMKNKBGCO
@DEMKNKBGCO 4 года назад
Je pense que Gladis a eu une mauvaise expérience avec un congolais à l’entendre c’est clairement le discours d’une femme encore blessée. Après je respecte chacun des avis mais tu ne peux pas rabaisser les hommes de ta patrie. Gros coup de cœur pour DYMUND & FRANKOS ❤️
@didasimple7646
@didasimple7646 4 года назад
Je pense aussi.
@sarahdekapstv566
@sarahdekapstv566 4 года назад
Merci
@masolobanacongo6046
@masolobanacongo6046 4 года назад
Je suis d’accord
@alexandrereally3295
@alexandrereally3295 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-oVC12Znc8e8.html
@dorcassope5413
@dorcassope5413 4 года назад
elle n'est jamais sortie avec un Congolais de sa vie. elle juge en fonction des rumeurs qu’elle entend
@oliviakandolo4058
@oliviakandolo4058 4 года назад
Dymund she is smart woman out of all the ladies in there
@freddymata9726
@freddymata9726 4 года назад
mama oyo azoloba ebele okozonga kk congo oyebi histoire ya tour de ba belle soki bolobi munoko moko bbokeyi
@mercylarose7293
@mercylarose7293 4 года назад
Very true
@ianlumubalabinda8818
@ianlumubalabinda8818 4 года назад
4677 percent I agreed
@cherrybrown10
@cherrybrown10 4 года назад
I’m 100% Congolese but I still got identity crisis 😂😂 it doesn’t matter if one or both of your parents are Congolese because I see many “full” Congolese children and they can’t even understand their tribe languages. It all depends on the parent(s) and if they themselves know their culture to pass on to their children . Let’s focus on maintaining our cultures through reading and learning more through travelling to Congo
@carmellepougaza6577
@carmellepougaza6577 3 года назад
Vraiment je suis venir à retar , pour nous qui aime le Nigeria ou le Gambie ,tozosala lisumu ,bino mibali na biso Bozo niokola biso mingi , surtout na Europe ,nazozela mobali ya congolais ya bien po tolembi bino tika tokende na ba étranger gadis félicitations
@chrissongambele6358
@chrissongambele6358 4 года назад
Dymund, c est avec classe, que j'admire quand tu reponds aux questions.
@m-blnlabenie3138
@m-blnlabenie3138 4 года назад
J'aime trop cette femme, c'est une femme avec un grand F ❤
@godnewstv6868
@godnewstv6868 4 года назад
FELLY A POSTER MWASI NAYE NA INSTAGRAM EZA CARINE TE MAWA ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-G9e7C-2p3kM.html
@vaness8238
@vaness8238 4 года назад
La meilleure est et restera Dymund. Posée, classe et très calme
@fannybeya6007
@fannybeya6007 4 года назад
Dymund tu as vraiment la maturité d'une femme marié 👏🏾😘
@MrBengerald
@MrBengerald 4 года назад
Lmao 🤣 I'm Nigerian and it sounds so funny hearing this arguments. I'm married to a Congolese and proud of my decision. One thing you guys forget is that she said its based on her experience. In sociology, experience breeds outcome. So please stop trying to divide Africa with these petty talks. We need unity now more than ever. PS: Not every Nigerian is good and not every Congolese is food. My two cent!!!!
@ayasims6816
@ayasims6816 3 года назад
I agree, with your comment it actually all about the individual and they were bought up. I'm Ghanaian and I disagree with what the guy in the white was saying! He is very confused and annoying. He said that Ghanaians and Nigerians are bad people and practice polygamy etc. It seems like these Congolese people are very ignorant and not aware of how diverse Nigeria is. Both Nigeria and Ghana are both diverse countries with different ethnic groups, religions beliefs and cultural practices. Africans were practising polygamy before the Europeans arrived with their Christian belief. Ghana and Nigeria have the best GDP/ economy in BOTH west Africa and AFRICA! Enough said.
@Fallon_rogerz
@Fallon_rogerz 3 года назад
Right ....the world is trying to rip ass apart already and now we wanna rip ourselves apart by so called identity crisis
@aurelie-solangeluaka1475
@aurelie-solangeluaka1475 3 года назад
PREACH!
@MrBengerald
@MrBengerald 3 года назад
@@aurelie-solangeluaka1475 Thank you Aurelie
@unknownv8462
@unknownv8462 3 года назад
it depends on the opinion, and nigeria n congo is pretty close styll
@joelledeveau5517
@joelledeveau5517 4 года назад
Sylvia is taking things too personally. It's a debate, you can't be acting like this. No one disrespected anyone. The identity problem isn't something new, whenever there is a mix, there is a form of identity problem that occurs. It doesn't mean you don't have an identity but it means that it's more of a struggle to unify the two. But once that unification occurs it's a beautiful thing. It's important to recognize that as a possibility so that when your children exhibit that then you know how to help them and deal with it. Ps. My children are mixed
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
Couldn’t have said it any better 🙏🏿
@LaHeiress
@LaHeiress 4 года назад
Exactly !
@ornicekaps1088
@ornicekaps1088 4 года назад
Exactly 💯
@tryciakouvouama7793
@tryciakouvouama7793 4 года назад
Exactement !!
@voiceitout1545
@voiceitout1545 4 года назад
👏🏾👏🏾
@NeidenEFitness
@NeidenEFitness 4 года назад
So Frankos started his speech by telling Sylvia to not take what the other two said personally but then went on a rant to say that he’s taking what Gladys said personally. Come and see patriarchy
@chrissongambele6358
@chrissongambele6358 4 года назад
The beautiful Dymund
@LaHeiress
@LaHeiress 4 года назад
“Zanga na yo nionso mais base te ” ~ Dymund . Totally agree with you ! Some don’t know how to react respectfully . Éducation sociale 0
@godsdaughter9084
@godsdaughter9084 4 года назад
Dymund is a QUEEN 😍😍😍
@Desimonstraleinen_ss
@Desimonstraleinen_ss 4 года назад
Perioddd she is😍😍
@tanyakeys4857
@tanyakeys4857 4 года назад
Dymud will go far in life. Very respectable and humble lady. Setting a good example. Team Dymund.
@Z_err
@Z_err 4 года назад
Dymund looks so beautiful
@meriyak
@meriyak 4 года назад
either you marry a Congolese person or a foreigner character is essential. Some Congolese people aren't raised attached to their culture so whether they marry their own or not it won't make them any more Congolese. Stereotypes should not influence the choice because every person is different.
@cgjjyhy2854
@cgjjyhy2854 4 года назад
DYMUND is so classy x bougie !! BIG LOVE - Tikala boye
@anabol5975
@anabol5975 3 года назад
I love when they combine three languages: Lingala, French, English 🥰🥰🥰
@herminekudia1761
@herminekudia1761 4 года назад
LOOOL @ Dede's 'identity problem' comment, you can be fully Congolese and have an identity problem if you're not born back home and if you are a member of the diaspora
@LaHeiress
@LaHeiress 4 года назад
Identity crisis is a real psychological fact though. Look it up guys. Frankos said it well - if the communication between two partners are healthy is not a problem but most relationships lack communication skills
@jamalwawou3961
@jamalwawou3961 4 года назад
It is but I think it really just affect interracial kids. Because african cultures in generell got more similarities than differences.
@LaHeiress
@LaHeiress 4 года назад
@@jamalwawou3961 True
@annekk9396
@annekk9396 4 года назад
Dymund chapeau beau 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Dieu te bénisse. Tes parents doivent être fiers d’avoir un enfant comme ça
@MelissaBaba
@MelissaBaba 4 года назад
Trésor > Dede....I don’t agree with either but Trésor has so much more respect. We don’t need both though so bye Dede 😂😂😂
@cillamwn9716
@cillamwn9716 4 года назад
🤣😂😂 right! Tresor is enough
@vanessakasongo4245
@vanessakasongo4245 4 года назад
Dymund kept it so classy as always. And I agree with her on what she said about attributing all the bad stereotypes to Congolese men. I find it very dishonest on the part of people who tend to date outside to take the bad behaviours that can be found in any human being across the globe and attribute it to Congolese people as if these dysfunctions were only found in Congolese men or women. Also, it would be ridiculous to think that marrying a certain culture would shelter you from domestic violence or cheating, etc. because you would not be able to name a country in the world where no man or woman cheats, nor a demographic of women that has never experienced domestic violence by reason of their nationality. It is simply irresponsible and despicable to spread so much ignorance about our own.
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
Wow, you should be on the show 💫
@missdymunds
@missdymunds 4 года назад
thank you so much dear and well put, in all 4 corners of the world you will find a batch of good men and bad men. be blessed and thank you for your continued support for this platform 🙏🏽
@lillice4ever
@lillice4ever 4 года назад
Truth but, the main topic here is Congolese men so it's normal.
@vanessakasongo4245
@vanessakasongo4245 4 года назад
@@lillice4ever According to the video title, the topic is dating outside of the Congolese community. It's not about Congolese men at all.
@melize7035
@melize7035 4 года назад
@@vanessakasongo4245 The thing is y'all saw nothing wrong with Congolese men denigrating other cultures but cried wolf when the same thing was thrown back at you. And to show that Gladis is a better person than 90% of the panel, she actually retracted but none of the men who said vile things apologised nor retracted. But those your men hahaha your struggle is real.
@charleneperry3670
@charleneperry3670 4 года назад
This isn’t a fair panel; you only have Gladys who’s married to a foreigner and everyone had a strong opinion against multiracial or interracial marriage. I’m sorry to say this; you guys are very biased. I’ve been married to my English man for 8 years and my children are very much English and Congolese. My children and husband have visited Kinshasa, they feel connected and are happy and proud of my culture and of their English culture. So now bringing to our Congolese men; we have all grown up around our Congolese men in Europe; they may work but they always rely on benefits and actually lie about their living arrangements; so government azua bango on charge. Tomona ba papa na biso kobeta ba mère n’a biso; leur trompé.. that stupid belief of arranging marital issues in family eza pasi. You all really attacked on this and no intellectual reflection .. Children have no identity crisis if brought up by people who value culture. Tresor; in Congo 🇨🇩 we haven’t got right of having multi/dual nationality.. so that argument is void, yet in our political world in Congo we see a lot of Congolese foreigners leading and holding high place jobs.. Anyway, my children are Congolese and English simple; my nieces are Nigerian and Congolese, my nephew is Congolese and Tanzanian and the mixology list can go on. We teach cultural values to our children, and we share our cultural values with our spouses that’s how we become even more rich in our cultural knowledge and embrace the differences.
@mimikimia4149
@mimikimia4149 4 года назад
THANK YOU! It was so unfair and showed how we can be so much against our own!
@auntylousworld1139
@auntylousworld1139 4 года назад
I am with you 100% sister. Stay bless and always remain positive. 💕💕💕
@kristianyaka_nation3137
@kristianyaka_nation3137 4 года назад
So all Congolese men you'd had grown up with are all stereotypes of all everything negative. Give us a break. You married a white man, i can start listing negative stereotypes of white men, etc.. they fiddle their own kids, they fetishise etc.. . Marry out stay out of our business. No one asked you about Congolese men.
@charleneperry3670
@charleneperry3670 4 года назад
@@kristianyaka_nation3137 this stereotype is only really for western living Congolese; it’s an absolute contrast to when you’re the men and women back home; trust me even the poorest person try to hassle and provide for their families.. Ba Congolese oyo to ya na poto surtout époque ya père na ba mère na biso balelaka mbonga ya l’état .. ah soit femme seule avec bcp des enfants sa paye .. ba papa lingi kosala because of it. Last year there was that video of a couple fighting likolo ya Mbongo ya bana in front of their kids. How ridicule is that? I grew in a small town in the south of England and eza predominantly mindele, ba ndimbu na ba somaliens, nigériens, ghanéens et ba congolais ya ko compte et dans tout sa on as peu de bon exemple mais j’ai de la chance de voir des tontons who became university professors, work legally (toyebi biso nionso esprit ya cailloux ya molili pour garde le benefits); aunties that are nurses; social workers; lawyers.. my experience is both more positive than negative ..but please todima que pandémie ezalaka dans notre communauté Regarding; the “white people” negative you just mentioned but isn’t that same thing applying to the Congolese/black community? How many children have been molested at home by loved ones and are also scared to voice it cause mummy or daddy will not believe them. No one is denying that there are bad and good everywhere but we want to eradicate the one in our community; so that our children will live better than we maybe did. Use benefits ya bana comme way of saving for them not a fund for mummy to buy designers or lipangu na Congo, let set up our kids for a better tomorrow.. let’s buy houses, have life insurance, funeral care etc .. so we aren’t burdening our kids. I just saw on Congo toseka Snapchat a gofundme of £16,000 for a dad’s funeral; shall we talk of how painful it’s lose a parent and then to come to the internet to help with the funeral service? But if our parents knew better to pay for these things. Anyway I keep making essay. I just hope my fellow Congolese; you’re doing better and setting up a great table for your children so they will not feel steps behind than their peers. Have a blessed weekend
@trayintellect3591
@trayintellect3591 4 года назад
@@kristianyaka_nation3137 you seem triggered 🤣🤣, please don’t act like Congolese men are exempt from those stereotypes aswell , especially the ones that stand in Tottenham to show off and catcall women there’s always bad eggs in every nationality but don’t try to dismiss what she said if the shoe fits it fits , if you know what she said doesn’t apply to you then let it fly 🤨 clearly it does though , you guys need to do better!!!!! Create businesses teach the young boys financial moves etc instead of flaunting designer etc
@annekk9396
@annekk9396 4 года назад
Fr Dede is so confusing 🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️ Azo loba nini penza
@dodidido7568
@dodidido7568 4 года назад
Nayebisi yo ma soeur embouteillages vraiment 🤣🤣🤣
@ornicekaps1088
@ornicekaps1088 4 года назад
Aza Mucomprena oyo wapi
@jmsm4691
@jmsm4691 4 года назад
😂😂😂
@melize7035
@melize7035 4 года назад
#DedeLigorodo
@jamalwawou3961
@jamalwawou3961 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@aishab.ouattara959
@aishab.ouattara959 4 года назад
As a child of an Ivorian father and a Congolese mother, I will tell you that I’m going through identity issues. Why? Language, number one. I feel more Congolese but because I was only taught French (only language parents had in common) I’ve never felt truly accepted in the community. The first question is always do you speak Lingala? I don’t so I get judgmental looks as they continue their conversation in Lingala. I’m currently learning Swahili to help in my job and I’ve found the Swahili speaking Congolese to be more inclusive. Now on my Ivorian side, I haven’t been as exposed to it but I have gotten further with my French with the Ivorian community. This is only one example of the things I’m working through being both. I do think the uncles talking about “identity crisis” have a point.
@lolashali7638
@lolashali7638 3 года назад
Just came across your comment. All I can say is you shouldn’t worry about knowing Lingala to feel included in fact you shouldn’t rely on any language to fix your identity crisis. I’m 100% congolese but I don’t know Lingala and because I speak Swahili and I’m from Eastern part, some congolese I’m Kinshasa treat us as Rwandans. You should really just try to embrace both nationalities without trying to attach them to languages or cultures. Know Swahili because you need it for your job not to feel included. At last biased people always find something to be biased about like you can learn Lingala and they still criticize your accent...
@mzmyself9236
@mzmyself9236 3 года назад
Oh my days I can relate so much I can't speak lingala only French and the evil looks and isolation never ends. I'd love to learn the language but French was what was spoken in my home 😅😅
@EllahMiyamu
@EllahMiyamu 3 года назад
One mistake that many congolese people make is the idea that lingala is the only language they need to stop with that. Half of Congo literally speak swahilli not lingala so ignore them! I am half Congo Brazza and half DR Congo and was raised speaking and understanding french and i can understand lingala to an extent.
@agneskalubi1143
@agneskalubi1143 4 года назад
But Dymund..... you are just too classy😍😍😍😍 keep it up girl
@elidyah9558
@elidyah9558 4 года назад
I don’t think there’s an issue. There’s advantages and disadvantages for both arguments. I would agree with Gladys we’re all human. I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer. It’s personal. However I wouldn’t go through lengths of disrespecting Congolese men.
@annamirindi2577
@annamirindi2577 4 года назад
DYMUND and FRANKOS we love you,very mature ❤❤
@BabyGirl-hg7dw
@BabyGirl-hg7dw 4 года назад
Trésors face when Sylvia was speaking in french was everything 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@lucietshabola5822
@lucietshabola5822 4 года назад
Are we going to talk about dymond body language
@anne-emilieyama2212
@anne-emilieyama2212 4 года назад
Yep I caught that whenever the other girl spoke especially in French she had a very closed body language I think they will clash a lot this season
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
She was mad, I felt like she wanted to cry at some point
@mknt.4196
@mknt.4196 4 года назад
Dymund you are the best!
@cillamwn9716
@cillamwn9716 4 года назад
She wasn't happy
@tiktoksaver8876
@tiktoksaver8876 4 года назад
Am so glad I came across this debate. Well, my papa was from Congo🇨🇩and my mum Kenyan 🇰🇪, am born and raised in Kenya. Today I have kids, born raised in Kenya by a Kenyan husband. Am glad my papa taught me alot about my roots. I speak lingala not so deep and I speak my mums dialect not so deep, but now that am a mum, and my parents no longer their, am still in Kenya, I try to hold on to my Congolese 🇨🇩 side, I speak lingala, I joined lingala groups online... And am also planning to visit Congo, unfortunately papa never introduced us to his family in Congo. I don't know anyone from my Congolese family, but I speak lingala, I know am from Bandundu, Kasai, tribe Muluba. I only have my papas close friends in Kenya, whom he came with ages ago from Congo to Kenya as musicians. Am so proud to be a Congolese and am holding so tight to my culture as much as am born raised in Kenya. Thanks to papa may his soul rest in peace, he taught me alot about my culture and where I come from, I have Congolese names and so are my kids. This is very serious lets not loose out identity. Bless you 🇨🇩🇰🇪
@chrissongambele6358
@chrissongambele6358 4 года назад
En tout cas na temps na normal, faut ba longola * Frere * devant Dede. Despite what gladis said and how heated the debate was. il ne devait pas dire ce qu'il a dit a Gladis about the divorce, that was disrespectful at 100%. she aint my favorite but Dede Absofuckinglutely crossed the line when he said that. Jokes aside. He shoulda watched the previous seasons before stepping out.
@FFIll3
@FFIll3 4 года назад
That was mad disrespectful ! He really crossed the line, like no. He really need to apologise and be removed.
@serenadomingos9299
@serenadomingos9299 4 года назад
Fully agree with you!! The comment was absolutely wicked and he even said he'd put in money for it wow
@sediveiko
@sediveiko 4 года назад
Exactement ! Même si je ne suis pas all the time agree with Gladis je trouve que là le monsieur a exagéré. Nzambe abatela libala ya Gladis na bana na ye. C'est pas parce qu'on est pas d'accord qu'on doit proclamer des choses comme ça sans effet au nom de Jésus.
@lillice4ever
@lillice4ever 4 года назад
He is the kind of Congolese Gladys and I despise. Ignorant and mad rude. This « man » is so disrespecful
@melize7035
@melize7035 4 года назад
You can't expect anything from an individual who says that women are the same as frogs. #DedeLigorodo
@jessicamvita2739
@jessicamvita2739 4 года назад
Frankos’ facial expressions, Trésor’s comments, Gladys’ opinions 😂🔥🔥🔥
@sadakobalik
@sadakobalik 4 года назад
Bruh every time trésor opens his mouth they always jumping for his throat let him speak his peace! 😂😂🤣🤣
@emilala426
@emilala426 4 года назад
Well his mouth says things that make people react this way.
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
Dymund - wow ❤️ beauty and brain. We love to see it. Kudos Maman ❤️
@sanganyilubula1556
@sanganyilubula1556 4 года назад
I love love how Dymund handles herself 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 she seem to be very smart she takes her time before answering.
@elkongo7764
@elkongo7764 4 года назад
Dymund ❤️❤️❤️🥴🇨🇩
@serenadomingos9299
@serenadomingos9299 4 года назад
It's funny to see how people are now saying that Sylvia and Gladis should not have taken this personally, because it is a 'debate show' and just their opinion. Meanwhile certain opinions on the 'debate show' get backlash for days. Lol
@missb7910
@missb7910 4 года назад
Exactly. Deux poids deux mésures!
@adelinem1436
@adelinem1436 4 года назад
En tous cas félicitations pour le nouveau studio, c’est vraiment beau. Tomati niveau 🇨🇩🇨🇩
@shantellekayy1656
@shantellekayy1656 4 года назад
BIG UP Dymund’s parents for bringing her up so well. This is how a lady should be, very charismatic. She still getting her point across without being too loud!
@patriciachloe8667
@patriciachloe8667 4 года назад
Dyymuuuunnndddd ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kevinbamanga1918
@kevinbamanga1918 4 года назад
Dymund husband don't forget to say thanks to your mother in law.
@sharonemunene5130
@sharonemunene5130 4 года назад
Silivia kay looks like a whole snack I love her hair. She’s gorgeous
@strz6589
@strz6589 4 года назад
I personally think the question should’ve been “what are the obstacles or challenges in marrying someone that’s not from the same country as you” rather than speaking on the advantages and disadvantages because you can find those factors in any relationship as Dymund said in the beginning.
@kwameopoku3576
@kwameopoku3576 4 года назад
Really like dymunds look
@noonelikeyou13
@noonelikeyou13 4 года назад
I think I’ve lost 10 brain cells each time Dede tonton and trésor were talking... bc I just couldn’t understand exactly what they were referring too as identity crisis & the whole not sending money to your relatives back in Congo lol 😂 SOMEONE PLEASE, make it make sense ...Deja not all Congolese families are 100% same tribe... and if you have a child w/ someone from a different country, the child is both lol 😂 they learn a bit from each parent.. it’s not a crisis when you can identify each culture... all african cultures are rich.. kids tend to lean towards the culture they are more exposed too.... Basic stuff people.. o bali Muluba et maman y’a Bana Aza mukongo, l’enfant dira qu’il est muluba parce que, Bizarrement les congolais prennent l’identité du côté père.. même si la personne reconnaît aussi la tribu de sa mère ako loba 50/50 ... donc eza crisis te Po c’est claire .. na yoki Mutu pasi mbala moko layiii lol 😂
@missbussa6387
@missbussa6387 4 года назад
😂😂😂 agreed!
@Hh32.
@Hh32. 4 года назад
Non pas tous les Congolais,chez nous du Kongo central et Bandundu nous sommes matriarcaux
@noonelikeyou13
@noonelikeyou13 4 года назад
@@Hh32. Ahh okay ! Gloire à Dieu !
@josselinejos3044
@josselinejos3044 4 года назад
Meanwhile ici na poto avec le DNA la batu bakomi ko identifier na ba % voir meme 25%Irish, 25%native, 50 black etc... nayebi te idee ya id identity wana ewuti wapi, mutu pasi vraiment et Franco trying to look smart but really 🤔🤔🤔
@Su-35rdc
@Su-35rdc 3 года назад
@Nk T Soki mobali ya ekolo mususu abali mwasi ya Mukongo baboti bana,bana wana baza Bakongo 100% parce que baza matriarcat Soki mobali ya Mukongo pe abali ekolo mususu,bana wana baza pe 100%bakongo,pck la plupart des tribus ya Congo baza patriarcat donc Bakongo baza na Avantage.
@annekk9396
@annekk9396 4 года назад
Frankos tu as raison surtout pour investir et les enfants Wana. Nga façon na lela Congo 🇨🇩 nanga boye mbadi na Afrique mobimba na monaka kk Congo 🇨🇩🤣🤣
@nancymika
@nancymika 4 года назад
Kongo elonga🙌🏽🙌🏽
@desireetchikaya3137
@desireetchikaya3137 3 года назад
Na façon olingi Zaïre, tu es zaïroise de sang
@jeanclaudemusimbi8209
@jeanclaudemusimbi8209 3 года назад
Mon frere mboka oyo eleki congo na elengi eza te. Quand nous allons arranger seulement le probleme politique ce pays sera un paradis.
@justmervie2413
@justmervie2413 4 года назад
What I don’t like is when Trésor says there aren’t any advantages to marrying outside No one is mad but when Gladys speaks on personal experience and says the same thing ohh non esali bino pasi te
@annekk9396
@annekk9396 4 года назад
Nga kk congolese man. J’aime quand on parle lingala quand il t’appelle « mwa Bana » ehh tango bozo tonga batu en Lingala tokoss makeeeeeeeemba 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@nancymika
@nancymika 4 года назад
Yy tika! Ozo benga ye pire petit nanga, ye petite soeur tokoss
@m-blnlabenie3138
@m-blnlabenie3138 4 года назад
Tango bozo tonga batu en lingala 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@bibihermes3535
@bibihermes3535 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂❤️
@Elonga758
@Elonga758 4 года назад
Tika somo Lingala elengi trop
@leamukelenge
@leamukelenge 4 года назад
Makembaeeeh🤣🤣🤣🤣
@aureliakongolo1361
@aureliakongolo1361 4 года назад
The girl Dymond is so classy.. Frankos you’re wise and always trying to remain impartial. Great debate 🙏🏾👍🏾
@naysx12
@naysx12 4 года назад
Editing is amazing guys! Ya Christian my mum said congratulations (mama philo) she’s proud of you bro
@marlinmakengo4408
@marlinmakengo4408 4 года назад
Même les filles congolaises qui ne savent cuisiner nako linga yo kaka bongo l'amour supporte tout
@gaelledejesus8916
@gaelledejesus8916 4 года назад
Amen.....
@TheWFam
@TheWFam 4 года назад
Yango eloko ezo boma bino bozo supporte na buzoba
@fanoush90
@fanoush90 4 года назад
C toujours sa au debut après on connaît les hommes congolais après sa reclame des pondu etc.. 😄😄
@didasimple7646
@didasimple7646 4 года назад
@@fanoush90 vraiment
@rklove9355
@rklove9355 4 года назад
Bo supporte pe oyo bazo trompe bino
@dinalumpungu9812
@dinalumpungu9812 4 года назад
Magnifique Dymund 😍
@cassiemengato
@cassiemengato 4 года назад
21:22 3 "Bo zo zua problème national, bokomisi ango problème international" - this part killed me 😭😭
@theobellash6440
@theobellash6440 3 года назад
MdrrRrr moi aussi! I laughed a lot
@cassiemengato
@cassiemengato 3 года назад
@@theobellash6440 Terrible😂😂
@Esther_Ndira
@Esther_Ndira 4 года назад
Can we please get English sub for us who do not understand Lingala? Ya girl wanna understand too
@charleneperry3670
@charleneperry3670 4 года назад
Honestly speaking it shouldn’t be a question of what is the advantage or disadvantages of marrying into Congolese or outside of Congolese culture. Each relationship and marriage is different no matter where you marry/date. The thing that brings us together is love, mutual understanding, respect, common upbringing, faith and other things we just comprise on if they are benign to the feelings you have for the individual.
@VerumCrimenTv
@VerumCrimenTv 4 года назад
True. When some ppl are fighting to bring Africa together some seperate.
@estherbasilwa5448
@estherbasilwa5448 4 года назад
Dymund always classy with it ! 👏🏾
@dadafaradji1539
@dadafaradji1539 3 года назад
Mwasi oyo azo aza complexée.
@marcwilfried9696
@marcwilfried9696 4 года назад
L'amour n'as pas de couleurs, ni origine, moin encore le langage. Le sujet de l'émission est parfaite mais a mon humble avis je trouve que vous aviez tous manqué des arguments solides, vous n'aviez pas sût décortiquer le sujet comme il se devait,vous êtes trop émotifs,J'aurais bien voulus assister dans une des vos émissions soumettre humblement mon avis,dommage que j'habite France🤦‍♂️
@amelieml1996
@amelieml1996 4 года назад
Les africains sont généralement émotifs 🤷🏾‍♀️
@marcwilfried9696
@marcwilfried9696 4 года назад
@@amelieml1996pas bien du tout 🤷‍♂️
@koriaatmb588
@koriaatmb588 4 года назад
@@amelieml1996 c’est pas une raison pour ce comporter aussi mal, ce crier dessus couper la parole et ne pas respecter l’opinion des des autres
@muanamuluba6684
@muanamuluba6684 4 года назад
We love you Dymund
@marlynemeta3980
@marlynemeta3980 4 года назад
gladys doit apprendre a maitriser ses expressions faciales it's too much
@estrelak8568
@estrelak8568 4 года назад
Vraiment !!
@lillice4ever
@lillice4ever 4 года назад
Facile à dire quand ce n’est pas toi qu’ont attaque... mais bon
@positivevibe9017
@positivevibe9017 4 года назад
@@lillice4ever vraiment.. elle s’est senti attaquée
@emilala426
@emilala426 4 года назад
SOMO. Ma Gladys alekisi na ki fierté 😂😂😂😂
@marlynemeta3980
@marlynemeta3980 4 года назад
@Alice à chaque épisode elle se sent attaquer?
@jeremynswana
@jeremynswana 4 года назад
season three vraiment; came DIFFERENT!🥂🔥🇨🇩
@annamirindi2577
@annamirindi2577 4 года назад
Dude I know 🔥🔥🔥🔥it came back with heat
@juicylaulau8995
@juicylaulau8995 4 года назад
Dymund had to click when you spoke !!! Well spoken
@lizaumba1409
@lizaumba1409 4 года назад
Soeur Gladis, il faut savoir que tous les hommes congolais sont pas pareils, il faut pas généraliser comme ça, ce ne pas bien!!!!😔😔😔😔😔😔
@gaelledejesus8916
@gaelledejesus8916 4 года назад
Quand elle parle comme ça pense telle aux hommes de sa famille boni ko...
@TheWFam
@TheWFam 4 года назад
Et vous aussi arrêtez de généraliser les hommes étrangers
@fanoush90
@fanoush90 4 года назад
Elle parle d une majorité je pense c un peu extrémiste mais bon c son avis a la sr faut le respecter mes amis
@jennifervieira2359
@jennifervieira2359 4 года назад
Elle a pas généralisé en plus elle a bien dit un moment que tt le monde n’est pas comme sa
@lovefromchim
@lovefromchim 4 года назад
Dymund wumela maman! Sylvia you’re telling Dede to be respectful but that tone of voice your using... is that respectful? 🤧 bisous a vous Frankos et Tresor 💋
@likasayakwanga6395
@likasayakwanga6395 4 года назад
This other girl sylvia is taking things too personal. Debat eza en general...yango ba bengi debat people with differents opinions ...azo benga frere dede rude while she is the ruddest. Frere wana apesi opinion naye he didnt point at someone child here. Soki okokaka ba debats do not come on the show.
@kwameopoku3576
@kwameopoku3576 4 года назад
Aunty please more English im nt congolese but luv this show
@ornicekaps1088
@ornicekaps1088 4 года назад
Thank you she should be on this show if she gonna take everything so personnal as of its a fight and yelling at people
@likasayakwanga6395
@likasayakwanga6395 4 года назад
@@ornicekaps1088 am glad Frankos highlighted it through the end that they were not coming for her rather than to generalise. She is rude
@esthersangolo5981
@esthersangolo5981 4 года назад
Gladys could have been wise to just say its hee preference to marry out of congo .. but wisdom never came her way ..
@llp400
@llp400 4 года назад
Esther Sangolo thank youuu she sound soo childish she should learn from Dymund cos you can see the class, maturity, wisdom, intelligent in her voice
@steviemak10
@steviemak10 4 года назад
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
@nanamuluba8286
@nanamuluba8286 4 года назад
🤣
@rebeccam.7249
@rebeccam.7249 4 года назад
she sounds like he hate her own kind
@dollyd4418
@dollyd4418 4 года назад
Cette saison sera 🔥 à ce que je vois ! Par contre, dire que les personnes ayant une double culture, nationalité, n'ont pas d'identité, est totalement stupide et irrespectueux ! (Et d'ailleurs, Sylvia l'a bien défendue, malgré les coupures👏🏾) Tout le monde a une identité, TOUT LE MONDE ! Même celui qui ne l'a connait pas. Si on suit cette logique, ça voudrait dire que les angolais/congolais, n'ont aucune identité ? Non. Personnellement, se mettre avec une personne différente, permet de découvrir la culture, la langue, les valeurs, les traditions de l'autre etc... Et on peut trouver aussi des points négatifs, mais c'est normal. Je préférerais me mettre avec quelqu'un de ma communauté. Je trouve que le frère Dede aborde un point important, celui de la crise de l'identité mais il va trop dans l'extrême. Je trouve les opinions de Gladys, hyper intéressantes, mais elle généralise beaucoup trop, et fait même passer les congolais pour des monstres, or, je pense qu'il faut qu'on n'arrête de se tirer des balles dans le pied, de sans cesse se rabaisser dans notre propre communauté ! Des bons et des mauvais, on en trouve partout, c'est comme ça. J'aime bien ce que Dymund et Frankos disent aussi ! Le concept de cette émission top ! Continuez comme ça ! Sending love from France 💕
@pamelandombe2047
@pamelandombe2047 4 года назад
👏👏👏👏👌
@limal8595
@limal8595 4 года назад
Je suis d’accord, après une personne qui a plusieurs cultures en préférera une plus que l’autre...
@Sarah_LuDi
@Sarah_LuDi 4 года назад
Bosololi bien. Ba félicitations na Christian Lingala na Français ekoli! LOL Altogether great job guys loving the new setting and quality. Plus there is more tranquility on the set which makes it more pleasent to follow. Much Love ❤🙏🇨🇩💪🏾
@gracedime2114
@gracedime2114 4 года назад
Dymund wumela 🎉❤️
@gloriamuhasa5358
@gloriamuhasa5358 4 года назад
Christian , where did you get DEDE from😅😅😅😅😅, we were ok with Trésor . Oh my gosh
@fitcongolesegirl501
@fitcongolesegirl501 4 года назад
Great show Solola bièn! I understand Sylvia and Gladis point of view about dating outside the Congolese community. I can relate to their experience. Plus I'm loving Dymund's class & her style on the show is everything!💗 One love & One Africa. 🇦🇴🇨🇩🇬🇭
@sediveiko
@sediveiko 4 года назад
Woww ce sujet était vraiment intense et très intéressant. Mais il y a beaucoup de différences avec les congolais ici en France. Awa ba Nigerians na ba Jamaicans ba zalaka penza te mais ba congolais ba lingaka ko bala mingi mindele. Et souvent il y a une vraie rupture avec la culture congolaise. Chacun est libre de faire ses propres choix l'important c'est d'être heureux dans son couple. Mais c'est une réalité, il y a de moins en moins de couple 100% congolais et la culture ne se transmets plus vraiment et c'est ça qui est triste. Mettons notre culture en avant et sauvons notre réputation ! SVP ba panelists to lingaka bino mingi mais arrêtez de dire des paroles racistes envers les autres nationalities ezo pesa image ya bien te. Objectif na biso eza ya ko raise awareness about some important topics in our community mais ko critiquer ekolo misusu eza bien te pardon to sala mua difference. Nzambe apambola emission oyo na zo zela avec impatience l'épisode na Premiere dame "star ya papa".
@sidneyolumba7285
@sidneyolumba7285 4 года назад
J'habite Paris et a chaque fois ke je vais a un mariage c'est toujours entre congolais, mariage na mindele yango bo monaka yango wapi? Les congolais sont réputé tres communautaire.
@sediveiko
@sediveiko 4 года назад
@@sidneyolumba7285 Premièrement, si les mariages auxquels vous êtes invités ne sont que des mariages entre congolais c'est très bien. Mais ça ne veut pas dire qu'il n'existe pas de mariages entre congolais et blancs en général. Personnellement, je connais de nombreux couples franco-congolais, des jeunes mais aussi des personnes plus âgées. Par exemple dans mon quartier, il y a un couple de témoins de Jéhovah, le mari est congolais, la femme est française ils ont fait plus de 20 ans de mariage et tt va bien pour eux, ils ont eu des enfants, ils ont leurs business à Kin... Et puis ozalaki ko loba: "Mariage na mindele yango bo monaka yango wapi". Kende ko Luka na ba réseaux sociaux, ata youtube oyo kaka, beta mariage congolais- français ou même congolais- portugais en France okomona ba vidéos ebele. Pour conclure, ce n'est pas parce que vous n'avez pas vu de congolais se marier avec des mindele que ça n'existe pas. C'est vrai qu'en général les congolais se marient avec des congolais mais il existe aussi beaucoup de couples mixtes dans notre communauté. Ce n'est pas mauvais du tt. Mais ce qui me rend un peu triste c'est lorsque la culture congolaise n'est pas transmise aux enfants et que, comme ils vivent ici, ils ne connaissent que la culture française, et ils ne bénéficient pas de cette richesse culturelle et ça s'est dommage. Encore une fois je parle de qqch que j'ai déjà vu. C'est mon avis personnel.
@leprecheur6428
@leprecheur6428 4 года назад
Mdrr tu vis où? Ya beaucoup de mariage entre congolais, prenez pas vos vies de merde pour des généralités
@sediveiko
@sediveiko 3 года назад
@Oree Lily Ta réalité n'est pas la mienne et c'est tout à fait acceptable. Tout le monde ne voit pas les choses de la même façon et je peux t'assurer que je vois beaucoup de couples mixtes autour de moi. Je n'ai pas à me justifier pour faire adhérer qui que ce soit à mon point de vue. J'ai juste donné mon avis et je le maintien.
@sediveiko
@sediveiko 3 года назад
@@leprecheur6428 "vie de merde" tu connais ma vie toi ? Apprenez à accepter que les gens aient des avis différents des vôtres. C'est un débat et tout le monde ne peut pas avoir le même avis !
@tiliciaiyabampaka2952
@tiliciaiyabampaka2952 4 года назад
Hors mis toute cette histoire de culture, nationalité.... vous oublier que l’amour c’est d’abord le cœur, et c’est vraiment dommage.
@S4special1
@S4special1 4 года назад
Gladys really has to spot being dramatic and start thinking before speaking. Thanks for bringing her back to reason Frankos
@keibrown6170
@keibrown6170 3 года назад
This is probably one of the best episodes of watched! I found a love for Gladis today ❤. Yes she needs to pick her words more carefully sometimes, but i could relate to a lot of what she was talking about. I'm a british born Jamaican and having previously, been in a relationship with a Congolese man for about 15yrs (married for 6 of those), i can say that there a more disadvantages than advantages. To name a few, being exposed to and learning about a different culture is good in terms of food, mannerism, language etc. However it took me many years to be 'accepted' into the Congolese community (by the majority) and it was very hard work, which was a massive disadvantage for me. Just to be accepted, i learnt lingala, a little french and learnt to cook pondu, madesu, Poulet à la Moambé, Fufu, just to name a few. Prior to this, i used to have people (both men and women), slag me off in my face in lingala/french and i could not understand so was unable to defend myself. It took for a very good friend to tell me what was going on and she decided that she was going to teach me the language. Something that i am grateful for until this day! I divorced many years ago now and the 'culture' played a big part in that. With that said though, i think there is good and bad in EVERY culture so it is very important to learn about a person's culture, BEFORE, committing to marriage.
@thec5875
@thec5875 2 года назад
do you have congolese kids?
@syntiamas9419
@syntiamas9419 4 года назад
Dymund my forever favorite ❤️ mwasi ya Congo ya kitoko pé ya mayélé 🔥🇨🇩👌🏽
@karenkambala9911
@karenkambala9911 4 года назад
It’s Dymumd for me😍😍so much composure, class and maturity!! Love her man
@claudie.n
@claudie.n 4 года назад
Tresor watches too much Nigerian movie lol Getting married to a stranger does not make your child have an identity crisis but the only issue will be to balance both cultures. We need to change our mindset towards our Congolese men, they are wonderful people inside and out. Don't base your judgements on rumours Glady As Dymond said, make Jesus the pillar of your relationship, the reason why 99.99% of us are in bad relationships is that we think we have it all under control. To add, most of us here are well educated, we can cook, clean and do much more. Some of us do not get married to strangers because we can't cook !! Love happens how it happens !! These unnecessary assumptions need to stop also.
@elombenabitumba8483
@elombenabitumba8483 4 года назад
You killed me been watching too much Nollywood 😂😂
@claudie.n
@claudie.n 3 года назад
@@elombenabitumba8483 😂😂😂😂
@claudie.n
@claudie.n 3 года назад
@Sally Ann tbh it’s a social construction 🤷🏾‍♀️ it’s not suppose to be our job but it’s what society awaits a women to do . Trust me it’s frustrating!!!!! Being a young African women ,the pressure of knowing how to cook , clean is there. And if you don’t know how to do it you are considered as being a lazy women and not wife worthy.
@ellik5272
@ellik5272 4 года назад
Sylvia loba Lingala to English Mbadi 🙆🏿‍♀️
@christelletshilanda1121
@christelletshilanda1121 4 года назад
Ba kake ezo beta wana yaya 🤣🤣
@ellik5272
@ellik5272 4 года назад
@@christelletshilanda1121 nayebisi yoo 🤣🤣
@gagalopez5392
@gagalopez5392 4 года назад
😂😂😂
@entunaikomo765
@entunaikomo765 3 года назад
Sylvia aza congolaise ya Royaume-Uni donc il est normal elle est quelques lacunes en français mais à part ça son français est très très bien pour une congolaise de Royaume-Uni et donc il faut qu’elle s’exprime plus souvent en français pour ne pas qu’elle perd alors où est le problème parce qu’elle parle très très bien l’anglais car pour elle l’anglais c’est comme Lingala.
@entunaikomo765
@entunaikomo765 3 года назад
Moi je suis congolais de la Belgique francophone donc je la comprend, y’a pas de quoi avoir honte ou être complexé ce n’est pas sa langue mais qu’elle essaye et qu’on la comprend c’est bon et en plus sont français est très comme des européens de l’espace francophone, quoi?
@alexeigreenz
@alexeigreenz 4 года назад
who the hell is this new panelist? this dude makes no sense what so ever
@S4special1
@S4special1 4 года назад
He actually does but people take it personal and don’t even understand what identity crisis means
@shantellekayy1656
@shantellekayy1656 4 года назад
Dymund muasi kitoko, oza pe calm. WUMELA. Ba mususu wana mutu e beba!
@Merci.b22
@Merci.b22 4 года назад
Nao Yebisa Yo makelele ezanga Tina
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
😂😂😂👋
@jiraiyah8941
@jiraiyah8941 3 года назад
ahhhhh, lobaaaaaa!!!!! makalele ya boye e bomaka mutu!!!!
@carriemaya6731
@carriemaya6731 4 года назад
Loooooooooooool Gladis actually acts like a Yoruba woman
@BeeMp92
@BeeMp92 4 года назад
🤣🤣
@ndayantumba3954
@ndayantumba3954 4 года назад
True 😂😂she rough and ready to fight she well train in a bad way😂I petty her
@mputuemeraude7378
@mputuemeraude7378 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂
@MrBengerald
@MrBengerald 4 года назад
@@ndayantumba3954 speak correctly before you insult others.
@ndayantumba3954
@ndayantumba3954 4 года назад
@@MrBengerald English isn’t my mother’s tongue 😛 bigo go join her 😂
@chrissongambele6358
@chrissongambele6358 4 года назад
Frankos.. tres calme. loved it
@noelbush2547
@noelbush2547 4 года назад
You guys forgot to ask Gladis one question: why does she hates Congolese man so much? To me it seems like she really wanted a Congolese guy to marry her but never got their attention! Or perhaps one of them promised her libala but then disappointed her! Now she’s painting all of our HANDSOME Congolese MANs with the same brush! Come on gladis grow up!! #proudlycongolese 🇨🇩🙌🏾🙌🏾🤣😂😅 Dymund our QUEEEN 🌺🌹😁
@exauceembuyi5473
@exauceembuyi5473 3 года назад
Facts😂😂😂
@problematicseyah2139
@problematicseyah2139 4 года назад
What is it with Sylvia and french - azo loba yango mabe mais insistance kaka 🤣🤣🤣
@ninalongomo2274
@ninalongomo2274 4 года назад
🤣🤣🤣
@DaughteroftheKingF
@DaughteroftheKingF 4 года назад
eko zala ayebi lingala bien te 🤷🏽‍♀️
@problematicseyah2139
@problematicseyah2139 4 года назад
@@DaughteroftheKingF kasi aloba anglais ma belle, ba sous-titres eza n’a français
@mknt.4196
@mknt.4196 4 года назад
Ahahahahah naseki
@DaughteroftheKingF
@DaughteroftheKingF 4 года назад
@@problematicseyah2139 oza nayo na raison yaya
@everythingfootball3589
@everythingfootball3589 4 года назад
I didn’t really like how that dude Dede never had facts and didn’t know how to deliver his statement so UNPROFESSIONAL
@mputuemeraude7378
@mputuemeraude7378 4 года назад
😂😂
@jackyngala2005
@jackyngala2005 4 года назад
The double standard on this panel at times I see Congolese man bashing Congolese woman every day So Gladys pelisela bango moto boye bayoka ngo 😬😬😬
@petitzizelle
@petitzizelle 4 года назад
Franck et Dymund na papa Trésor boza na façon ya pensée malamu vraiment très bon état d’esprit na ouverture d’esprit. Tres belle émission
@mputuemeraude7378
@mputuemeraude7378 4 года назад
Dymund, tresor and Franko are so calm and their answers r clear and valid... The rest are just noisy and boring.
@chelseadiniageorges6357
@chelseadiniageorges6357 4 года назад
Je suis vraiment choqué par certains propos dit dans la vidéo. Je suis antillaise et zaïroise et fière de l’être. Je n’ai aucun problème d’identité. Et mon fils aussi il est très fière de ses origines.
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