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'MIBALI YA SÉRIEUX BA SILA' I 3 CHILDREN FROM 3 DIFFERENT PERSONS I SEASON 3 - EPISODE 2 

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Solola Bien Real Talk Season 3 Episode 2.
In this episode the Panellists engage in a very opiniated debate on having children from 3 different persons.
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Комментарии : 808   
@SololaBien
@SololaBien 4 года назад
🇫🇷 Pour les francophones : Les sous-titres sont disponibles, merci d’activer les sous-titres français.
@stellafriandise9913
@stellafriandise9913 4 года назад
To zalieeeeeeeeee☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️
@stellafriandise9913
@stellafriandise9913 4 года назад
Gladis lingala stp ezalaka bien😂
@Amour680
@Amour680 4 года назад
Where’s maya. She is very smart
@Mrs.P-Klyn
@Mrs.P-Klyn 4 года назад
Ba ndeko na nga ya solola bien, especially Chris the host, bo zwaka temps ya ko definir ba mots pona ko recadrer debat because the way congolese use the qualification “moins serieux” or “serieux te” is really not the proper way the qualification should be used... today’s debate was all over the place mainly because of that. Fr Dede please, bongisa elobeli na yo, respect e zala both ways pardon. Keep ba ideas na yo po o za na point of vue na yo on things mais loba yango na respect ya baninga. Merci bo continuer na musala ya bien.
@allmightyisthelord9459
@allmightyisthelord9459 4 года назад
Merci papa
@Jnli
@Jnli 4 года назад
Frère Dede avant même qu’il parle on a peur de ce qu’il va dire 😂
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
Aza sans filtre 😂😂😂
@joekdiyokadaily
@joekdiyokadaily 4 года назад
😆😆😆
@ninalongomo2274
@ninalongomo2274 4 года назад
🤣🤣🤣
@fastingislife3766
@fastingislife3766 4 года назад
😂🤣😂🤣👀
@tendresslzl7279
@tendresslzl7279 4 года назад
Non mais laisse😹😹
@LaHeiress
@LaHeiress 4 года назад
I agree with Frankos. If your relationships are failing with the same reasons, then you need to stand your ground and look into your own mistakes. And maybe questioning your emotional intelligence, discernment and family repeated cycles.
@PremiereDameLook
@PremiereDameLook 4 года назад
Thank you so much guys for having me 🙏🏾🥰 Merci bcp na ba ndeko nionso oyo ba participé ! Mais c comme si Ba ndeko mibali ba yebi makambu ya basi ebele ko leka kutu makambu na bango mibali. Voila pourquoi bango tout ba lingi kaka ko loba sur basi 😂 mais ba bosasani que po Muasi a bota il faut mobali 💁🏽‍♀️ ! Merci Ba ndeko 🥰🙏🏾
@pergunengwanza6945
@pergunengwanza6945 4 года назад
Nzambe il a fallu apesa bango pe charge yako mema muana na libumu. Ils pensent que c'est du tic au tac
@ppktl983
@ppktl983 4 года назад
Mbote ma soeur ! . mibali ya sérieux bazamingi te... sur quelle base statistique ozo ko confirmer hypothèse na yo?
@johnlombe8931
@johnlombe8931 4 года назад
Premiere Dame Look You are the only reason I couldn't wait for this saeson to start, surtout cette épisode!! I was so happy when I saw you in the trailer💕
@fastingislife3766
@fastingislife3766 4 года назад
👀🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤣😂🤣
@christelladedios2388
@christelladedios2388 4 года назад
Ya Adrienne
@megane5139
@megane5139 4 года назад
Who else is here to watch our classy music dymund , love her she’s actually beautiful and realistic she makes sense mama lakisa bango ki mwasi
@soldatdejesus6485
@soldatdejesus6485 4 года назад
Si la femme ou l'homme est sérieux (se) et que cette situation se répète une deux trois fois ndeko luka nzambe ba liens ya famille il faut la délivrance et une vie de prière
@bertinnkiele2791
@bertinnkiele2791 4 года назад
Effectivement, il fallait ba tala pe côté oyo ya ba lien familial ou relationnel (ancien partenaire ou ami). Yango vie oyo sans Jésus Christ eza pasi
@ninalongomo2274
@ninalongomo2274 4 года назад
C’est vrai, les liens de famille existent!
@annekk9396
@annekk9396 4 года назад
Voila, la 1ère food C’est une erreur mais la 2e fois eza erreur te c’est un choix.
@munangaelsansamba7784
@munangaelsansamba7784 4 года назад
Amen 🙏🏾 vraiment
@jadedelarosa6343
@jadedelarosa6343 4 года назад
Humm bino kutu kaka ba liens n'importe quoi
@olorisarah3393
@olorisarah3393 4 года назад
I definitely agree with Frankos this episode, some of the arguments didn't make sense at all. If you're going to call a man unserious for having 3 baby mothers then you should keep the same energy when women have 3 baby fathers. Life can happen to both men and women so you shouldn't allow one and not the other. Women are always screening equality but you want to pick and choose when it applies. Please make it make sense !!!
@annekk9396
@annekk9396 4 года назад
LOUDEEEEEER 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
@kabzhand8812
@kabzhand8812 4 года назад
You're right (I am a woman )but I didn't agree with them
@alexandrereally3295
@alexandrereally3295 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Zk_oZxH_SiM.html
@explorer5816
@explorer5816 4 года назад
My understanding is that men easily find a reason to leave whereas women suffer the consequences.
@jpn4930
@jpn4930 3 года назад
EXACTLYYY!!!!!
@serenadomingos9299
@serenadomingos9299 4 года назад
Papa Tresor, we missed you a lot today. Only know what you got when it's not there, cause papa Dede mutu pasi
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
Giirrrlll 🤣🤣😂😂
@ornicekaps1088
@ornicekaps1088 4 года назад
I haven't even finished wacthing the show and I miss him already 🥺 Trésor faut azalaka kk
@alexandrereally3295
@alexandrereally3295 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Zk_oZxH_SiM.html
@gospelphilomath
@gospelphilomath 4 года назад
Frère Dede tu nous embrouilles, Ba réflexion ezanga sens😂😂😂
@raissanaomi9889
@raissanaomi9889 4 года назад
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@g_kcampbell705
@g_kcampbell705 4 года назад
Makasi 🤣🤣
@debruno2770
@debruno2770 4 года назад
Pardon ! Ne faites plus de vidéos sans Tresor. Personnalité na ye eza very important na émission
@eunicenoki8202
@eunicenoki8202 4 года назад
Very very
@LSiluK
@LSiluK 4 года назад
Vraiment 😅😅
@DaughteroftheKingF
@DaughteroftheKingF 4 года назад
Ah oui
@jonathanemabenzaka2983
@jonathanemabenzaka2983 4 года назад
Vraiment vous avez raison
@bige4014
@bige4014 4 года назад
Vraiment azo bongisa show !!!
@ADashOfSports
@ADashOfSports 4 года назад
Now people can appreciate Tresor because Dede has just now upped the levels 😂🤣😂🤣
@eunicenoki8202
@eunicenoki8202 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@zokere1
@zokere1 4 года назад
😂😂😂 I know right
@minamoove6286
@minamoove6286 4 года назад
Straight up facts !
@kendralof4313
@kendralof4313 4 года назад
Yeah i was like i prefer Tresor 🤣🤣🤣
@Fatmata-ix8fk
@Fatmata-ix8fk 4 года назад
I’m not Congolese but I enjoy watching these 🥳
@nathankabwe6406
@nathankabwe6406 4 года назад
You may probably married a Congolese dude who knows ooh
@lehnaxxo5450
@lehnaxxo5450 4 года назад
same sis , they’re so informative and educative !!
@messagebelieverscircle599
@messagebelieverscircle599 4 года назад
Must be nice!!!!
@SarBelleXO
@SarBelleXO 4 года назад
Same lol!
@mirindadefender5191
@mirindadefender5191 4 года назад
❤️
@acejay-YT
@acejay-YT 4 года назад
Dymund you truly are a gem 💎, soo much wisdom and humility. Please continue to be you. You’re a blessing to your husband and your children....I am sure your Mother is proud when she watches you, you truly are femme sage. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ from one women to another. 🙏🏾🥰
@ritaj1720
@ritaj1720 4 года назад
Ahhh wapi Tresor?? Where is Tresor ?? Dede is killing me Lool eh papa tika ozali ko boma ngayi!!!😂😂😂
@patrickilunga1535
@patrickilunga1535 4 года назад
TRESOR ALINGAKI ABOMA MASOLO
@ritaj1720
@ritaj1720 4 года назад
@@patrickilunga1535 nooo tse... Tresor alobaka makambu ya solo
@alexandrereally3295
@alexandrereally3295 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Zk_oZxH_SiM.html
@belindamatsuda8659
@belindamatsuda8659 4 года назад
Neither of the gender sex should be taken serious, that goes for both the women and the men.
@garcia7645
@garcia7645 4 года назад
I never agree with papa tresor but i love to hear him explain his opinion it’s make me laugh 😂 god bless you Trésor image
@fannylenge
@fannylenge 4 года назад
Tresor is not there...
@garcia7645
@garcia7645 4 года назад
@@fannylenge and who is talking at 23:49 ????
@lysettelema8322
@lysettelema8322 4 года назад
Me too 😂😂😂
@sharonemunene5130
@sharonemunene5130 4 года назад
Fr Dede litterally just talks to talk like he never really lands well with his points and they’re never clear in my opinion and the way he talks about women is so disgusting like who hurt him? He talks about us as if we’re some sort of peasants. His thoughts are so deep rooted in misogyny and this is why sometimes I’m a bit reluctant to wanting to eventually marry a Congolese man because this way of thinking is very common amongst them. Anyway I feel as though when the questions are being asked do not focus them so much on gender. Just generalise them a bit more. Other then that I did enjoy this weeks solola bien, always on time, great quality honestly wumela bino nioso. Bravo vraiment j’aime trop que y’a un plateforme pour nous 🇨🇩🇨🇩 God bless you guys.
@auntylousworld1139
@auntylousworld1139 4 года назад
I agree with you Glossysharone. I don't understand who hurt frère Dede, I just hope he will work on his healing before ever thinking of marriage.
@chancelineamba1807
@chancelineamba1807 4 года назад
He already pissed me off. His talking craps
@horschiday9449
@horschiday9449 4 года назад
He’s ignorant and that’s unfortunate.
@Kereign
@Kereign 4 года назад
fr, he talks out of his ass fr.
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
I feel like the conversation went left tonight. Well, Sometimes people are moins sérieux but other times, life happens, let's not juge immediately without knowing. GLADYS was 10000 % right, chaque fois que tu couches avec kkun, tu prends le risque de contracter une grossesse (MAN OR WOMAN). Only birth control which is 100 % effective is abstinence. Think before you act. 🙃 For my fellow believers, let's walk under God's will and do things accordingly. Ça nous évitera bien des problèmes. P.s. Trésor don't miss anymore 😂
@serenadomingos9299
@serenadomingos9299 4 года назад
100% agree with you
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
@@serenadomingos9299 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
@lehnaxxo5450
@lehnaxxo5450 4 года назад
c’est ça!!! Well said the only safe way to avoid stds and to net get pregnant is literally by not having sex.... c’est aussi facile que sa
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
@@lehnaxxo5450 Eaxcatement 🙌🏾
@teetotal2681
@teetotal2681 4 года назад
I couldn’t agree more!
@GlogloLubanz
@GlogloLubanz 4 года назад
Dede aza vrema matata elaaa 🤣😂😂😂 He is worse than Tresor 🤦🏾‍♀️😂
@historiqueafricaine
@historiqueafricaine 3 года назад
He is worst sis🤣🤣
@mabeneshanewlife2334
@mabeneshanewlife2334 4 года назад
Il faut nde ko teya batu "s'abstenir".mpo nako eviter bi bota bota
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
Exactement!!
@erikaluamba6016
@erikaluamba6016 4 года назад
Cause besides pregnancies, there's STDs
@shamervkayenga5058
@shamervkayenga5058 4 года назад
Exacte benedicte
@HelenaMuk
@HelenaMuk 4 года назад
Fr Dede's opinions comes across as though he thinks women are second class citizens. if that's the case, who in their right mind would want to tolerate that ideology from the man who's supposed to love, honour and protect you? this is another reason for the breakdown of some relationships, batu oyo baza na makanisi lokola fr Dede eza vraiment pasi pona supporter na mwasi oyo amiyebi que aza na valeur. to sunga communiter stp, women need to learn to respect men and likewise, men need to hold women at a high regard, intellectually, spiritually, etc, toza ba tombola te. and yes, definitely agreed that reflection and accountability must be taken as a person walking through life, that's a great way to end this topic.
@eunicenoki8202
@eunicenoki8202 4 года назад
Fact
@livewiithlove
@livewiithlove 4 года назад
Perioddddd!!!
@gloriamuhasa5358
@gloriamuhasa5358 4 года назад
It's people like Dédé that makes you have 3,4 Children.
@HelenaMuk
@HelenaMuk 4 года назад
@@gloriamuhasa5358 mbadi, for real
@LaHeiress
@LaHeiress 4 года назад
One thing I didn’t like about this episode is the lack of allowing different perspectives on this topic and the lack of emotional intelligence. As soon as you feel triggered , you interrupt and asking why million times. What about agreeing to disagree....
@debruno2770
@debruno2770 4 года назад
Franchement, c'est l'échange le plus nul depuis la création de l'émission. Le seul qui a été mature c'est FRANKOS ! Les autres ont parlé par sentiment : les filles défendaient les femmes et Dede défendait les hommes. Personne n'a pris de recul et les analyses n'ont pas été basées sur l'égalité.
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
Tu as raison. Mais en meme temps, ezali sensible. Oyebi te soki situation wana ekomela moko ya ba fille na plateau. Yango wana moi reserve ezali.
@debruno2770
@debruno2770 4 года назад
@@midelbudja6288 Côté wana okoki ko zala na raison. Basi ba zalaki malili
@bitotasalome3743
@bitotasalome3743 4 года назад
🙏🏼🙏🏼💯💯
@laroselive3260
@laroselive3260 4 года назад
Exactement 👌👌
@Joe20209
@Joe20209 4 года назад
I love this show. My wife is Congolese and see translates the words I can’t understand. Great show guys.
@sandydiatuka1799
@sandydiatuka1799 4 года назад
Frère dede alobi tokumisa nzambe tokumisa PE bino?😂😂😂😂
@S4special1
@S4special1 4 года назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@savedbygrace5836
@savedbygrace5836 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
@nzimbingbalekongo
@nzimbingbalekongo 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@theresetibam4546
@theresetibam4546 4 года назад
Hello Guys. I’m so happy to see my fellow Congolese having this initiative for this show. I know we are talking about the issues in our community and it all around the world. But for today show I’m little bit disappointed. What we want to see is this show to teach us how to find solutions and move on. But today it was kind of blaming and blaming women vs men. Where is the solution on that then??? I felt like some hate was involved. Nobody want to understand. I hope the next one we will get some love . Thank you so much Much love from USA
@esthersangolo5981
@esthersangolo5981 4 года назад
I like how neutral frankos think ... his got balance ...
@historiqueafricaine
@historiqueafricaine 3 года назад
I personnally felt that he gave the most valid point💯
@deborahkangudja8298
@deborahkangudja8298 4 года назад
This Dede guy needs to firstly heal, whoever hurt him did a good job but he needs to heal. Secondly he needs to learn to speak to people and learn to address women especially in a polite manner cause me I don’t respect a man who addresses people especially women the way he does.
@myriammikobi7936
@myriammikobi7936 4 года назад
😂😂
@deborahkangudja8298
@deborahkangudja8298 4 года назад
@@joeb7619 yes, whatever Congolese man gave her that terrible impression of all Congolese men hurt her and she needs to heal. But in the context of this video she handled herself well. Especially when addressing Dede’s weird ideology of trapping men with pregnancy.
@alexandrereally3295
@alexandrereally3295 4 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Zk_oZxH_SiM.html
@silagoz4017
@silagoz4017 4 года назад
Shut it!!!! Since when you've got a diploma in psychology. By your picture I can say you need healing too. I got my psychology diploma on line like yours.
@gloriamulenda9881
@gloriamulenda9881 3 года назад
ndoki
@auntylousworld1139
@auntylousworld1139 4 года назад
Frere Dede has come again by calling women criminals and that we trap men to have babies. I think both party have to atknowledge the role they play in the relationship and accept their responsibilities as parents. 💚💚💚
@Zarkalogy
@Zarkalogy 4 года назад
As a lady y’all know yourself very much but still go for one night stand and you fall pregnant? Who’s not serious? There is morning after pill but y’all playing us 🤣😂🤦🏾‍♂️ woman in Europe are something else
@joekdiyokadaily
@joekdiyokadaily 4 года назад
He killed me 😆😆👌🏾😂👌🏾he’s the best !
@holytans3553
@holytans3553 3 года назад
@@Zarkalogy Spot on lol!
@messagebelieverscircle599
@messagebelieverscircle599 4 года назад
As a Christian, you should only have 1 woman as a mother of your children and also 1 man as the father of your children, unless your spouse passed away. In that case, you can have another man and still have children with him.
@chancelineamba1807
@chancelineamba1807 4 года назад
And as a Christian if things Doesn't go as planned, what do you???
@messagebelieverscircle599
@messagebelieverscircle599 4 года назад
If you are not happy and you can't take it any longer, you may leave him and go on with your life. But that doesn't mean that you should now be with someone else while the father of your children is still alive!
@lenykamanda3732
@lenykamanda3732 4 года назад
Lorsqu’une situation se répète plusieurs fois que cela soit pour un homme ou une femme... La vraie question est: Comment se fait-il que je n’attire que des mauvaises personnes? Et comment faire pour que cela s’arrête? Car on attire ce qu’on est... donc il faut mettre un stop sur les relations et prendre le temps d’être seul(e) pour se retrouver avec sois même, travailler sa personne les choses qui ne vont pas au dedans de nous pour devenir une nouvelle personne et dégager une autre odeur et à partir de là on peut se permettre de faire rentrer une personne dans sa vie mais pas avant... Il faut prendre le temps avec sois même.
@ndayantumba3954
@ndayantumba3954 4 года назад
Who else noticed that Gladys behaved today 😂😂❤️
@lamignonne4010
@lamignonne4010 4 года назад
True at least she’s not childish. Last time she was too much getho
@ndayantumba3954
@ndayantumba3954 4 года назад
@@lamignonne4010 I know right 😅I am pretty sure her house is on fire 🔥 because her behaviour ops
@putsomerespeckonit2663
@putsomerespeckonit2663 4 года назад
Vraiment Frankos alobi trés bien, baninga pe basuki koloba eloko yo olobaki deja mais balingki ko pesa yo raison te. Oui to ndimi life happens mais il faut komikanisa kaka
@S4special1
@S4special1 4 года назад
Thanks for the last advise by Dymund the show would have been incomplete without it. Love you all 😘😘
@theobellash6440
@theobellash6440 3 года назад
Dédé et Gladys ne doivent pas manquer sur le plateau... sometimes it's good to hear them
@kellyetmams7389
@kellyetmams7389 4 года назад
Je ne suis pas d'accord avec le fait de dire qu'une femme ou un homme qui as des enfants avec plusieurs hommes/femmes et pas sérieux. Cela et trop réducteur car il ya des circonstances que chacun trouve dans les relations qui sont différentes et qu'ils peuvent changer avec le temps. Personne ne connaît son lendemain.
@chelebakitangie6007
@chelebakitangie6007 4 года назад
Vraiment ma Sr.
@shey5785
@shey5785 4 года назад
Merci ma chérie les émissions commença c'est trop ridicule je crois pas pas qu'une femme peut vouloir faire des enfants de papa différents
@rosaxx3117
@rosaxx3117 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TyF5jUlIcZ4.html
@DEMKNKBGCO
@DEMKNKBGCO 4 года назад
Frère Dede a des bombes dans sa bouche. Bo pekisa ye! 😂
@derrick4525
@derrick4525 4 года назад
🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂💀
@ophelielusalusu9079
@ophelielusalusu9079 4 года назад
Ba choix na yo, ba conséquences na yo ! Merci pour ton analyse Frankos 👏🏾
@ChandraMwabahizi
@ChandraMwabahizi 4 года назад
Dymund is the smartest out of all of them. No cap
@benitshimanga2576
@benitshimanga2576 4 года назад
Je vous félicite l’équipe SOLOLA BIEN, une émission constructive, j’aime beaucoup le concept, des intervenants pertinents. Rien avoir avec les émissions des chroniqueurs (bêtises, insultes, nudité etc). En attente de d’autres vidéos. Nous avons besoin de ce genre d’émission dans la communauté congolaise. Bravo👏🏼✌🏼👌🏼🇨🇩
@heoletudiantebroke7964
@heoletudiantebroke7964 4 года назад
Pardon faites un live où je peux poser mes commentaire. Je pleure tellement j'ai des chose à dire à chaque fois que je regarde cette émission!!!!
@congomikili_8956
@congomikili_8956 4 года назад
Ba longoleli biso Tresor, batieli biso dede 😂 from bad to worse.... we didnt ask for this. We need more people like dymond!
@motematshibangu4666
@motematshibangu4666 4 года назад
Merci, Gladys! Tu as bien parlé... Après, papa muluba Tshimpuki, pardon to boyi ! Oyo ba idéologie ya tshibawu
@ivo_qc2.o271
@ivo_qc2.o271 4 года назад
Tala Kaka ye! Grand frère ya comédien manix tshimpuki
@obedmadimbatshitende7853
@obedmadimbatshitende7853 Год назад
Ils dit la vérité c’est tout 😂😂
@joannamadinda8873
@joannamadinda8873 4 года назад
Je pense que dans la communauté les hommes pensent que "Tous qu'ils disent" est vérité et que c'est la loi de la vie. Ils aiment mettre leur lois partout sans vraiment tenir compte de toutes les circonstances. Au lieu de s'inspirer du passer et de chercher à comprendre les femmes d'aujourd'hui (de leur génération), ils imposent les mêmes comportements dans lesquelles les mamans ont souffert et c'est ca qu'on refuse. C'est normal de refuser de souffrir
@PMBB-pz6wu
@PMBB-pz6wu 4 года назад
Ba émissions ya boye il faut ezalaka sur les différents sujets na kati ya couples vraiment bonne initiative 👍
@missb7910
@missb7910 4 года назад
My girl Gladis didn't get much time to speak unfortunately. But I am glad she made sure to teach Divisive Dede about accountability in terms of getting pregnant etc.
@deborahkobe9094
@deborahkobe9094 2 года назад
Adrienne is super right, there's so much time spent on educating girls and not boys
@yes-lukas7088
@yes-lukas7088 4 года назад
Les hommes ont parfaitement raisons : c’est comme la voiture neuve qui passe par différents propriétaires perd de sa valeur. La vérité est juste amère, n’en déplaise à certain.
@emmanuellet6057
@emmanuellet6057 4 года назад
I’m started to see that Frère Dede is Tonton Trésor’s apprentice. It is really starting to make sense now.
@The461Official
@The461Official 4 года назад
These lot are talking like there’s a lot of marriage in this community! The older lot are glorified baby Mums, ba Manama that have never been married, never worn a bridal gown of any sort. The younger lot doing living together with their baby dads with a 10 year engagement. How very LOOL!
@JulesS8
@JulesS8 4 года назад
Preach!!!!
@HelenaMuk
@HelenaMuk 4 года назад
En plus ya Tresor apesi example ya Adam na Eve, let's pause right there and evaluate within context, because this is a good illustration of where things go wrong many times in our community... When Adam blamed Eve, God didn't start addressing her, He went immediately to Adam because Eve was not even present when Adam was given the instruction, it was his *responsibility* to ensure nobody ate from the tree... The man's failure to take responsibility over the guidance he was given is what humanity is experiencing over and over again in communities where the man particularly, or the woman *ISN'T INSTRUCTED*. It's been mentioned on the show a few times already, but where both man and woman receives the right preparation for marriage (their witness growing up will teach them more than your words as a parent), it would be very difficult for these situations to occur in the first place (besides death of course). So let's normalise the idea of "train a child the way he should go, so when he is old he will not depart from it"- to bongisa base, foundation ya pre-marriage/relationship preparations for especially men, so both parties grow in competence ideally before entering a relationship.
@allentressy3289
@allentressy3289 4 года назад
@Helena Ninsia YOU SAID IT ALL. Nothing Less Nothing More. Zambe a pambola yo plus plus !!!!
@HelenaMuk
@HelenaMuk 4 года назад
@@allentressy3289 merci yaya 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@dmj9699
@dmj9699 4 года назад
Yo nde il fallait ozala na panel, yaya.
@HelenaMuk
@HelenaMuk 4 года назад
@@dmj9699 motema yaya, na yebi te soki na lingaki ko zala patient
@laurianeitela2956
@laurianeitela2956 4 года назад
Clear and accurate explanation of Adam and Eve thankyou👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@salimyumba10
@salimyumba10 4 года назад
Frère Dede est devenu mon préféré 😂😂😂
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
Ah oui hein. Azo tia mayi na munoko te
@bige4014
@bige4014 4 года назад
Vraiment 🤣🤣🤣
@ndayantumba3954
@ndayantumba3954 4 года назад
Ya tresor biso ba fun nayo tozolela wapi yo😂
@onedolce768
@onedolce768 4 года назад
Je pense déjà que si la femme a gardé ces trois enfants et arrive à les élever avec les soucis du baby father c’est quelqu’un de sérieux
@lisetambu6040
@lisetambu6040 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TyF5jUlIcZ4.html
@AltesseVip
@AltesseVip 4 года назад
La définition de femme sérieuse ( chez les africains) ne pas la même chez les autres.... Il faut d’abord commencer par définir c’est quoi une femme Sérieuse
@gaelledejesus8916
@gaelledejesus8916 4 года назад
Une femme sérieuse c'est une femme qui se respecte..
@mirabellek.1870
@mirabellek.1870 4 года назад
@Ruth Kikala donc, selon toi, soki lelo obali pe oboti bana mibale to misato, mobali awangani bino, to akufi to bo boyani pour quelques raisons qui soit, okoki lisusu ko refaire vie nayo te? Tu te remarieras plus parce que tu seras considérée comme moins sérieuse? Ça n'a pas de sens - donc, en tant que femme faut se priver d'un eventuel bonheur seulement parce que la société nous percevra comme moins sérieuse? Mais les hommes peuvent avoir des enfants multiples à gauche à droite et nous acceptons cela? Lui peut refaire sa vie à plusieurs fois et ça pose pas problème...je suis confuse là🤔
@mirabellek.1870
@mirabellek.1870 4 года назад
@Ruth Kikala tant mieux pour toi si t'était vierge à ton mariage, c'est hors sujet! À nouveau ya une différence de traitement entre les femmes (mariées, non mariées, avec ou sans enfants) et c'est ça qui est nul, selon moi. Donc, cme j'ai pas envie d'écrire un roman cme toi, soyons d'accord que nos avis divergent. ✌🏾
@jadedelarosa6343
@jadedelarosa6343 4 года назад
@Ruth Kikala le mariage n'est pas un tout dans la vie. 🙄😳
@jadedelarosa6343
@jadedelarosa6343 4 года назад
@Ruth Kikala je vois que cela t'as piqué calme toi, chacun est libre de s'exprimer. C'est juste un débat.
@rolochurch4752
@rolochurch4752 4 года назад
The girls looks stunning especially Dymund and Adrienne 😍😍😍😍🍫🍫🍫🍫 classy
@ninalongomo2274
@ninalongomo2274 4 года назад
Dede parole: “Tokumisa Nzambe, tokumisa mpe bino?”🤣🤣🤣 il est plus pire que Trésor
@midelbudja6288
@midelbudja6288 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@afroshako367
@afroshako367 4 года назад
Muasi to mobali,nous avons tous des responsabilités à faire des bons choix et de les assumer.Soyons courageux et honnête à faire face aux difficultés et à chercher à résoudre nos problèmes personnels au lieu de fuir ou de mettre la faute sur l’autre.Soyons sérieux! 🙏🏽 Good job guys!👌🏽 Bosololi bien!👍🏽
@_cc__6737
@_cc__6737 4 года назад
Adrienne, longonia Maman 😍‼️‼️‼️😍
@joelmboma6963
@joelmboma6963 4 года назад
I like Dymund she’s the best ❤️❤️❤️🇨🇩🇨🇩
@heoletudiantebroke7964
@heoletudiantebroke7964 4 года назад
punchiline. "Bozo tula pona nini ?" je suis morte MDDDDRRRR
@lisetambu6040
@lisetambu6040 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TyF5jUlIcZ4.html
@perslima9171
@perslima9171 4 года назад
Sujet intéressant la femme ne fait pas d’enfant sans avoir l’idée de construire une famille
@jeanettebee4772
@jeanettebee4772 4 года назад
Pour une fois que suis d'accord avec Frankos et Frère Dédé !
@masolobanacongo6046
@masolobanacongo6046 4 года назад
Première dame ❤️❤️☺️ il faut bo invitaka première dame souvent
@landrydre7248
@landrydre7248 4 года назад
Dieu n'est pas responsable de nos mauvais choix God is not responsible for our bad choices
@Mneagns
@Mneagns 4 года назад
Non mais ce frère Dede la a une façon de penser 😳😳😳 AU SECOURS si tout les hommes congolais pensait comme ça on serait vraiment dans la merde !!!!!!
@jonathanemabenzaka2983
@jonathanemabenzaka2983 4 года назад
😂😂
@ingridMBk
@ingridMBk 4 года назад
Il faut être sincère avec soi-même, nous sommes en Europe et donc plusieurs mesures ont été établies afin d’éviter ce genre de situation c’est à dire de tomber enceinte à maintes reprises. Donc si un couple prend le risque de le faire sans se protéger, il faut qu’ils assument les conséquences sur le long terme. Donc si un homme ou une femme a plusieurs enfants de pères ou mères différents (je vous parle des cas où les mères ou pères des enfants sont encore vivants) ne sont pas sérieux car ils n’ont pas été responsables car ils ne sont pas protégés. Je vous parle vraiment dans le cas où ils ont genre 3 ou 4 enfants de personnes différentes parce qu’il est vrai que certaines personnes ont perdu leurs conjoints donc , je pense que ce genre de personne ne devrait même être inclus dans ce débat.
@vanessabydesign
@vanessabydesign 4 года назад
“Malembe “ we want to hear all options love the show
@israelmbiya3720
@israelmbiya3720 3 года назад
uh my gosh i do appreciate your point of view first lady. i liked the way you spake that was so optimist, and i really think we should do it more often; like asking ourselves those kinds of questions when almost everything goes wrong in our lives and i would like to thank each one of you in this tv show for your advices. it's really awesome to hear these things nowadays
@kestiamwamba
@kestiamwamba 4 года назад
Frere Dede vreeuumant 😂😂
@emilala426
@emilala426 4 года назад
Ok let's be honest ladies. On this one there is clearly a double standard. Men and women should be both considered less serious if you think this behaviour is not serious. If you consider a man aventurier for having different baby mamas is because you see a certain patern in his actions that screams "warning" in your head. Why is it different with a woman? I think some women have a pattern of falling in love or being attracted by these types and being so affraid of ending alone that they allowed those "aventuriers" to play their games. Like Frankos said your choice your consequences. Everybody on the same boat for me.
@victoriakahunu9590
@victoriakahunu9590 4 года назад
Well spoken yaya soki relationship ezosimba teee, zonga sima komamutu
@joyeusemb2227
@joyeusemb2227 4 года назад
Someone give Dymund an AWARD please!!!!!
@jordank1998
@jordank1998 4 года назад
Frankos there’s NO woman in this world who would intentionally go out of her way to have multiple baby fathers. It’s unfortunate circumstances that cause this to happen so please bare this in mind before you pass judgment.
@mbiangasuzie
@mbiangasuzie 4 года назад
I love the host sooooooo baaaaddddd !! Christian Bless, you're killing it !!!
@moeshaj.6637
@moeshaj.6637 4 года назад
I wouldn’t say a woman is less serious if she does have children from multiple partners but it should be prevented. It’s been instilled in me, personally that it is not a thing to do so I know how to move. It depends on your education too in a sense and also knowing your WORTH.
@ulemuchikoti4444
@ulemuchikoti4444 3 года назад
Can there be subtitles for this show😭😭😭😭 this show is hella interesting 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩
@labossy94
@labossy94 4 года назад
Tresor il est ou 😂😂😂 c’est le meilleur . Gladis ko kata kata batu bazo loba
@bertinnkiele2791
@bertinnkiele2791 4 года назад
Vraiment
@chancelvielamielsucree7873
@chancelvielamielsucree7873 3 года назад
Ye kaka bongo eh pardon
@iamelisabeth222
@iamelisabeth222 4 года назад
Keep the same energy everywhere.🙌🏾🤷🏾‍♀️
@rammandalakoumba4624
@rammandalakoumba4624 4 года назад
Bonsoir, Franchement j'adore votre émission je viens de m'abonner Mais franchement c'est dur lorsqu'on parle anglais et ceux qui ne comprennent se mettent en stand bey si vous pouvez mettre des sous titres en lingala ou en français ça va nous aider
@lucietsimba8745
@lucietsimba8745 4 года назад
Adrienne nalela yo ma star 😍
@sachansimba883
@sachansimba883 4 года назад
Après je pense qu'il y a un élément qui n'a pas été pris en compte : beaucoup de couples ne font pas d'enfants pour le futur de ceux-ci mais parce que "ba futaka bana", en plus de ceux ba botama pona mukanda, on a pas assez pris en compte ba réalités y a poto !!
@lisetambu6040
@lisetambu6040 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TyF5jUlIcZ4.html
@dorcasmwana4379
@dorcasmwana4379 4 года назад
Diamond tréeeeeeees sage et vrais cherie 👏👏👏👏👏👏😘
@Musicfreaklolduh
@Musicfreaklolduh 4 года назад
Love the sis Gladis's point. If you have sex you know the risk, on the other hand I agree with franko, if its taking you 3 kids to self-reflect that's a problem, but I also agree with the other woman. We should not judge, but merely understand and move forward.
@neer7405
@neer7405 4 года назад
Ruth misamu needs to watch this..
@jordank1998
@jordank1998 4 года назад
Very well said Gladis and Dymund 👌
@masolobanacongo6046
@masolobanacongo6046 4 года назад
FRANCHEMENT C’EST BEAU MIEUX EN LINGALA !
@lisetambu6040
@lisetambu6040 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TyF5jUlIcZ4.html
@AltoJoseph
@AltoJoseph 4 года назад
In Basic Mathematic we have something Called "CONSTANT" A constant in math is a value that doesn't change. Instead, it's a fixed value. In most situation in our lives we are the constant. In the scenario where you’ve failed three times in the row, please do yourself a favour by telling yourself the truth. A lie from an enemy can be proven wrong but a lie from yourself to yourself is deadly. Tell yourself the truth perhaps you are the problem. Arrogance and pride is destroying many of us. It’s in the nature of human beings to take a defensive stand when facing problems. Accepting that you are the problem doesn’t make you weak. It rather make you strong because many people are not strong enough to accept that they are the problem. Proverbs 16:18 Pride precedes a disaster, and an arrogant attitude precedes a fall. Be Wise
@sephoratsiku1196
@sephoratsiku1196 4 года назад
Merci beaucoup pour ce talk show, j'aime vraiment le concept et tout ce qui vas avec. Essayez de mieux organiser le débat et éviter de s'éparpiller dans le sujet. Sinon c'est vraiment intéressant
@vanessam4641
@vanessam4641 3 года назад
Frankos 👏👏👏 la sagesse est une grâce
@nickelleraffaelle3529
@nickelleraffaelle3529 4 года назад
Love this episode and I agree with Frankos 💯 a lot of these women would think about avoiding these type of men and that’s true. There is only so much you can make a mistake after that it becomes a lifestyle.
@parkerfk4552
@parkerfk4552 4 года назад
J’aime Congo 🇨🇩🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@josjoslyn2518
@josjoslyn2518 4 года назад
Both parties are responsable when it comes to pregnancy. At the end of the day, a child comes from men so men should take xtra care. I know as humans we judge etc and yeah when u meet one person be it man or women we tend to judge and say whatever at first but once you find out the truth the story or how u view someone can indeed change. So I disagree about woman being unserious
@ngindumaite372
@ngindumaite372 4 года назад
La femme pense avec le cœur et l'homme avec la tête vraiment...
@dk449
@dk449 4 года назад
Good men bazalaka and same goes for women but we just don’t want to wait on God, be patient and work on ourselves too. Also, have friends that help you grow and talk to you #Realest#RelationshipGoals
@emeraudekwilu4489
@emeraudekwilu4489 4 года назад
Woooaw this episode was chaotic... but Fr Dede must go 🤦🏽‍♀️
@ruthmavinga1811
@ruthmavinga1811 4 года назад
Omg Dédé is like his bro Trésor bashing women🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 girls you were on fire 🔥🔥 and I love it
@ketsiatv2601
@ketsiatv2601 4 года назад
I love this show😊💓 botinda ba jeune filles ya biso baya koyekola kolamba chez Ketsia TV🤗
@rhanykits4972
@rhanykits4972 4 года назад
Ya Frankos is absolutely right!
@clarissemwimba6189
@clarissemwimba6189 4 года назад
Slt mes frères et sœurs, c'est vraiment un bon et très beau débat je vais bien commenté après. Que Dieu vous bénisse
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