And why is that? This dude is a big old creep! You know damn well he orchestrated the whole thing just to get their numbers. That's his little hero scam he likes to pull.
I was at a bar with my wife when we saw a guy being super creepy and the girl was very put off by it so I went over there and said “hey girl! I didn’t know you were here! Come join me and the wife.” We just kind of gave eachother a look and she knew what I was doing. She joined us at our table until the guy left. We ended up having a fun time lol
He was just doing his job... which is being a Decent and caring human being. Edit: Seems like so many commenters get this as literal and on the surface or read it with an indifferent tone somehow! I don't mean defending those girls was part of his "Bartender" Job, on the contrary, Being Decent and Caring and going the extra mile to save those girls, and probably he has done much more of it in the past, makes him a hero and he is a hero undercover bartending, referring to him being a hero as his un-paying job because it's inside him and on the side, he is also a bartender which doesn't have anything to do with this comment.
he really is but it did make me wonder i have a good sense of observation like him , i am not always aware of something unless trouble's right in front of me
It's a bartender that remembers their job is to keep their patrons safe. Soo many over serve and don't care. It's absolutely refreshing to see somebody that cares.
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It means a lot to women to know there are men looking out for them without an agenda. As a woman and a former bartender......it's a big deal!!! That's a real man!!!!!!
@@jhtsurvival Or maybe he just wanted to make sure his customers were safe. Just because that’s the person you are, doesn’t mean that’s the person he is.
@@jhtsurvival right. Did he walk her back to her room too. He's a bartender his last action is keeping you safe. He'd serve lemonade or work at the hospital.
The I'd buy her a drink and big cheesy grin is a dead giveaway. He wanted her and tried his luck with the other guy is giving me the creeps talk SEEN ALL THIS BEFORE! Is he bothering you talk, unless he REALLY is pissing her off and she looks distraught and pleading for help just leave them alone to talk or watch closely then help, this note thing is a ploy and it works sometimes.
It's crazy that we live in a society where we have to constantly praise the smallest little niceties. I'm not ripping on what this guy did. But when I was a kid a often thought that I would be surrounded by grown ups. But now a days it feels like everyone is just a child in an adult body. Nice job Max.
You don’t notice the real men so much because the overgrown kids call so much attention to themselves. They are all over though, quietly doing the right things everyday. God Bless em
@@erickhouston2967 we know that there is women too just sometimes it isn’t necessary to point it out I’m not saying you shouldn’t have said there is also women like I’m just saying.
“If you see something, say something.” That is what the bartender did. More people need to pay more attention to their surroundings and help one another.
@@Beezlie727 No. Alcohol doesn't turn you into someone else. It may lower inhibitions, but aggressive, disturbed men behave that way because that is the kind of person that they are!
I wish we could have some context to this creep?! Fake news the guy asked her out she said no and that was that! Now he’s getting slagged off for being a man
@@milkRasberryshake if asking my wife for her number and staring at that lovely bum makes me a creep then yes! But she did marry me! What about yourself
@Matt Lawless the lawless in your name gives it away,is pestering women your definition of being a man?how hard is it to leave someone alone when they're not interested in you,heck even dogs can learn that pretty quick
As a father of a grown up daughter, ( even though she will always be my little girl.) I totally agree, the world would be a much better place. 👍👍👍🇬🇧🇬🇧.
Way to go Max! Your situational awareness and going out of your way to make sure your client was ok is truly heartwarming. You’ve truly embody what they say the holiday season is about. Bless you Max and Happy Holidays ❤️
Awesome bartender! Awesome boss for giving him kudos! People all should look out for one another especially in a bar where everybody’s drinking. Cool dude!
@@pamgraves lol why cant you women just say something to the employees why wait for a miniature bartender that couldnt defend you if he wanted to pass a note! Lol suckers dont know this is a ploy to increase business! Of course women and beta males fall for it
@@saint_of_guns While it does sound stupid “then the gentleman shot me 🔫” I think this just goes to show how their parents trained people to be polite. I will grant respect, still, but let’s be honest!
I am sure that Pamela used "gentleman" sarcastically in her comment. Please, read between lines. Nobody does seriously call their harasser a gentleman and mean it.
It's called situational AWARENESS for a reason....Reading the room and being observant can truly save lives!!! Kudos to this man for doing for those ladies, what he'd want someone to do for his wife, Mom, sister or daughters, etc...❤🙏
@@ElasticPaper420 Thing is, sometimes we can spot one type of situation developing with no troubles. Others, we can be just as oblivious. All depends on experience and knowledge. E.G., once wife wanted to try new restaurant. We walk in. I frog-walk us back out. Wife is "WHAT??" Minute I walked in, 13 years of AAARMMY Training, Sir! and lots of experience on the "Bad sides of town" showed me: Two rival gangs, about to throw down. I wish I had been wrong. We made it out with mere minutes to spare. And she didn't even realize it, until we got home and saw the "Breaking News." There have been many other times I sat there with a Dumb Look on my face. But, thankfully, not in a "Combat" situation. I think I was trained well... And owe everything I am to 1) God 2) My parents and 3) My Drill Sergeants. And since Drill Sergeants seldom hear this, if ever: THANK YOU FOR MAKING MY LIFE AN ABSOLUTE MISERABLE HELL!! YOU SAVED MY LIFE ON SO MANY OCCASIONS!!!
It's wonderful to see someone cares. Most places only want the customers for the money but don't care of them as a person much less a human being or they come through the door again as long as the number per day is full filled to fill the register. This shows there is hope left for humanity to find their humanity again.
I remember I was on vacation and 21, This older guy (at least in his 40s), get saying weird creepy shit to me. The bar tender on duty called him out and was like "you're bother her, leave my customers alone". She wasn't wrong and he did leave me alone after that. Still one of the coolest bartenders I've ever had.
It's a whole lot better to take action like this guy did than to see someone on the news and realize that you could have done something to help them but rationalized it as not your business. He very well could have saved their lives with this one decision.
The difference between a citizen and a civilian is a citizen makes it his personal business to defend the human race a civilian does not! -Casper Van Dean!
Just par for the course throughout history. Most people only care about themselves or people "like them". Good old self preservation and tribalism is ingrained into us.
There's bad people out there,face it. Yeah everyone should be good caring level headed people but that's not how it works. It would be really nice but at this point in human history it's a fantasy. I notice there's alot of women (not all, not even the majority) out there that have been so sheltered they have this crazy idea in there head that no bad people exist and get so surprised when something happens to them. There parents are doing them a giant disservice
@@rtk90083 Agree but it is just a delusion for them, and might not be their parents fault. It's called being NAIVE and too trusting... In some cases, that can get a person hurt or killed. 😭😭😭😭
This person is being nice to people, as simple as that. It pains me that there are people who are really desperate to make this about "he just want to get in her pants" ffs PEOPLE WHO SAID THINGS LIKE THIS ARE PART OF THE REASONS OF WHY PEOPLE ARE DISCOURAGED TO DO GOOD THESE DAYS
Bar tenders who control their bar. Shows a professional compared to a kid just tending bar. A good bartender is sober, and aware of their bar. Can stop fights, over serving, and many other negative events by being aware of the situation.
As a woman and someone who’s worked in restaurants with bars he did this perfectly, so clever and looks like the bill, told her to move her ponytail so that’s very discreet to anyone else what a guy!
I wish alcohol wasn't served in public but it is... it's just heartbreaking all the stories of people driving drunk, female drinks being tampered with, drunk guys loud and fighting, alcoholism out of control, same ole ... vicious cycle.
I used to be a bartender for a great part of my life, and I want to express how serious in responsibility it takes to take for other people who don't know any better in the moments. No joke people, being a bartender takes greater thinking and a higher sense of common sense. And most important, humbleness!
@@Telltale. Wish it was like that here in Europe, I'm a bartender myself and I see a lot of "colleagues" (don't know if it's writen right?!) who make sure to get some girls drunk to then take advantage of them and take them home themselves. Good bartenders, not only drinks but personality as well, are hard to come by these days!
@@MarcG7424 - Exactly! The only reason anyone even knows about it is because she posted it online (after having the guy actually pose for the picture of him handing her the note). Doesn't sound like she was trying to remain anonymous at all.
“Pretty sad that people being decent human beings is ‘incredible’ these days.” I’m gonna be honest, that’s not a these days thing guys. A lack of decency and an abundance of creeps has always been around. We just here about it more now due to stories being relayed far easier in the modern day and age
They should put up signs in the men's room too I saw a pretty good one once that said: Ten rape prevention tips 1) don't put drugs in women's drinks. 2) when you see a woman walking by herself, leave her alone. 3) if you pull over to help a woman whose care has broken down, remember not to rape her. 4) if you get into an elevator with a woman don't rape her. 5) when you encounter a woman who is asleep, the safest course of action is to not rape her. 6)never creep into a woman's home through an unlocked door or window or spring from between parked cars and rape her. 7) remember people go to the laundry room to do laundry not to be raped. 8)use the buddy system! If it's inconvenient for you to stop yourself from raping someone, ask a trusted friend to accompany you at all times. 9) carry a rape whistle. If you are about to rape someone blow the whistle until someone comes to stop you. 10) don't forget: honesty is the best policy. When asking a woman out on a date, don't pretend that you are interested in her as a person, let her know that you expect to rape her later. If you are a man and you're offended by this I want to explain the intention of this list. The intention of this list is to point out that women always find rape prevention tips posted up. 1 in every 5 American women get sexually assaulted in their lifetime. We shouldn't have to live our lives like scared rabbits just because we are women. Considering most people who do acts of sexual violence are men maybe they should see tips on not being a rapist. If you are not a rapist, and you don't plan on becoming one, this list should be something that you agree with.
@@TheIronSnowMan8D you're right but it is rare to happen to you as a male adult. No one is denying men can be raped or sexually assaulted by women but as a man you should also understand the percentage is very small. 1 in 5 women compared to 1 in 33 men. And some of those men are raped by other men not women. As a man you can easily overpower the majority of women and again most women don't go to a bar with the intent to rape a man or woman. But many men do.
That bartender definitely heard everything that creep was saying to Trinity and her friend. Let’s just say he’s got good ears for that kind of nonsense. Well done Sir.
@Y00KON FARNSWORTH right. dude was just trying to make a move ahhaha seems like the bartender felt jelous as he seemed extremely interested towards the girl at the end of the video and she just played along getting him kicked out for shits and giggles
@@napoleonbonerfart278 Not enough men talk about their experiences .. But I have heard like 4 stories of a guy I knew getting forced into sex or being watched like he’s a piece of meat. I just feel it happens a lot more to women. Just because I’ve seen it most of my life. But no ones assuming anything….but u
@@helmutschmacher2100 so you're a woman? We don't know how healing it is for you when you take your red pill, so we wouldn't get offended and cry if you said it to us. Grow up.
Very cool. Situational awareness is a great tool to have. He definitely took one for the team too because he's absolutely going to be friend zoned into oblivion for his "good guy" actions.
It will most importantly save the women from possible retaliations. If the dude is just removed - and he did not see/hear the women complaining about him, then he would be none the wiser. Of course, the whole point is mood, now that this has become national news... Hope the bartender won't have any trouble from disgruntled creeps now.
Absolutely. As an ex-bartender myself. Running a bar as even an employee one must take there business and job seriously. Be responcible as well as respectable. Make sure everyone is staying safe and the main point, having fun. And no one is stepping out of line. Running a bar you must know so much about your customers such as if they have had enough to drink. To if they should not be driving, offer to call a cap or uber. To even q's as to possible situations that should not be happening. Not everyone can handle there liquire and everyone has different actions or ways they act when drunk. I had a regular that would drive home in a small town, and he only lived like 2 blocks away. I use to perposely go out of my way to check on him and make sure he made it home safe each night. Even one time picking him up from his lawn and helping him inside do to pissible rain. And making sure he was safely in his house were he would not be bothered. Its just commen curtousy and commen sence. Some bars even have word women can use if they feel they are in danger. Never know when someone will slip something in a drink. Safe words. But so commen. Like I use to tell my female customers if they feel something is wrong or start to feel drowsy and unsafe, just say the word pizza. Its off the wall most likely but commen word for son bars that also surve food. But saying pizza without placing an order just the word, then it also can save a life even. Its accually an amazing wonderful job to be honest. And I wish I was still capable of working as a bar tender. Also whats even more amazing, the things customers will talk about when drunk. 😂😂😂
The difference is that not everybody "just does their job." They look the other way or say it's not my problem. They don't get involved. He was the good Samaritan. God bless him.
because things like this happen at every bar x100 and if you do that every time it happens sooner or later you're gonna get yourself into serious trouble over someone else's problem. chivalry is pointless, people with evil intent will keep spawning, there's no salvation
Yeah bartender is not just a drink seller! You are doing a great job when every guest feels safe and comfortable! Respect from a bartender from the other side of the globe :)
“Hello fellow bar customers. How are you enjoying my-I mean this lovely establishment? I’m totally not the owner posing as a customer so I can assess and confirm the quality of the alcohol and service! … Ay! Paulie! What I tell you about the margarita salt? It goes outside and inside!” I’ve never seen 41 Jump Street, but this is how I imagined that would go. Also, I’ve only ever had one margarita and they put the salt on the inside and outside, but I honestly don’t know if that’s the standard. My mom *loves* margaritas and gets extra salt sometimes so it could’ve also been that lmao
@@elizabethweigle6146 the show is 21 Jump Street with Johnny Depp and Holly Robinson Peete. The other commenter said 41 to make a joke about the guys age
I seems natural to me. If someone needs help, you help them as another human being. Animals too. Its free, even the simplest things. It's too bad not all ppl have this same train of thought.
How does anyone dislike this? The guy literally saved this girl from being harassed. I guess the ones who dislike it are the ones who harass women at bars
When I was a bartender if I noticed anything like that, girls being touched by “accident” or getting groped by men passing by them, it was an automatic kick out and blacklist.
@Kyle Rhein Maybe I’m a cynic, but the staged photo made me cringe a little. Edit: I would also like to thank you for the times you have kicked someone out or checked on someone, regardless of gender. As a 100 lb 5’ tall woman, I truly appreciate any time a bartender/bouncer has helped me out of a bad situation. I can testify to the relief I’ve felt just to have someone like you intervene. I’m also a mental health therapist who specializes in sexual assault and domestic violence and people like you do truly save people from trauma they would otherwise spend the rest of their lives resolving. I’m grateful for you and the other commenter’s quick thinking and professionalism.
@Bitcoin Time! shut up religion isnt real and it does more harm than good and has been disproved already people like you just want to feel reassured that you somehow have control over your life now stop being a homophobe, dont give that bs "I'm not scared of gays" because you and I both know that's not what it means
Most people think bartenders are just "give me my damn drink now" leisure slaves. Bartenders are the hosts and are there for more than slinging drinks. They keep an eye on all their guests and want to maintain a safe and friendly atmosphere. I was at one bar years ago where somebody passed out at the end of the bar. The bartender somehow got his wallet, wrote down his address, called a cab and, realizing the guy had no cash in his wallet, reached into the cash register and took out a twenty and stuffed it in his shirt pocket, then told the bouncer to come grab him when the taxi arrived.
Hell yeah, this is what it's about. He's the whole package type of employee. Definitely a keeper and between his actions and the publicity, it's worth a bonus. 👍🏻
He is a hero in my eyes. As a big man and former US Army Combat Medic, I’ve always felt that it’s important to stand up for people who need it, and admire those who do.
Same! I'm 5'10" and it's probably stupid as a female but I don't hesitate to stand up for what is right. It'll probably get me shot someday but that's life.
More men should start stepping up like this man did, if and when they see something sketchy. The more men start stepping up, the more the creeps start backing off. Kudos to this bartender. ❤
Men don't need to put themselves in harms way for a female in today's climate. Remember you're all strong independent women so you can handle yourselves.
@@statusquoreject You’re using the “independent woman” excuse for not being man enough to tell some pervert to back off. Women had to become independent because guys didn’t want to step up so we had to do it ourselves. It’s ridiculous that many men, like you, are pissed off because women are finally putting their foot down and saying “enough”. From a young age, girls are taught how to turn their house or car keys into weapons, to go to the bathroom in pairs and not to go out when it gets dark. But poor you for your strugz.
That's very good and all, but this pathological altruism and hysteria makes many people look for some kind of predatory behavior where there is none. Narcissistic people would do ANYTHING to be labeled a "hero" in one of these stories, even if it means making a false claim. A couple weeks ago a couple was arguing verbally on their property when a neighbor came over with a gun and killed the man. Now the lady is grieving her boyfriends death and is 100× worse off all because some dude wanted to be a "hero" . What's worse, a couple having an argument or the neighbor coming over and murdering one of them? Is that how you help someone? No doubt he was walking to their house with a gun in hand picturing himself on a news story like this as a hero . Instead he was arrested for murder. Now the man is dead, his lady is a mess and the neighbor is going to prison for life. Why not just let them argue and mind your business? Of course you should step in if you see some being preyed on , but make sure it's something serious and there's an actual threat. Don't be the guy who kills someone because they were having a disagreement with their spouse.
More ppl in general women are just as guilty of not saying or doing something when they see something suspicious go down. I saw an experiment where they had a guy talking to a girl at a bar & she goes to the restroom so he puts something in her drink. She comes back there were both men & women who saw but not all reported it to a bartender or bouncer or informed the girl.
@@saint_of_guns Wonder is this guy was really a "creep" or if it was just that these girls didn't want him to sit near them, and the bartender played the part of the "white knight". Nowadays females can get away with anything as long as it is against a man.
@@saint_of_guns ur biggest issue is one girl having u thrown out of a bar. the overall topic here is the much bigger problem of men harrassing everyone they're attracted to at bars/pubs. even going to extreme methods. notice how people can't have women kicked out of bars by saying 'shes harrassing me' etc? thats a result of men repeatedly acting more entitled in public settings like these. social attitudes are shaped by how people have behaved historically. men have assaulted women/men/any gender/ even freaking children a lot for people to not be wary. take your complaints elsewhere, it is not a cultural problem that one girl has something against u (for whatever reason)
@@thomaskwiatkowskiesq.328 & the standard of harassment these days is “saying something someone didn’t like”. See I always though harassment means perpetually after them attempting to be left alone 🙄
@@thomaskwiatkowskiesq.328 When someone tells you that they were doing something that caused them to be thrown out, but it wasn't their fault.... Stop and think.
funfact: some bars have a "safeword drink", a cocktail you can order that's not on the menu that's just a lowkey red flag to the bartender that you're being harassed and need the guy tossed or what have you. if you have a regular watering hole, ask them if they have one. i've heard people say that some places will have it posted in the women's restroom, but since i am not a woman, i can't vouch to that. either way, ask your local bartender about safeword drinks, if they don't have one, they might think it's a good idea and decide to make one.
I went to a bar with my friends and one of them ordered a cosmopolitan. The bartender started escorting us out the back. I asked what was going on and he told us a cosmopolitan was their "safeword drink." They didn't make a lot of cosmopolitans and decided to use it as a safeword drink since they rarely made them but my friend didn't know that. We all laughed at the miscommunication but I was impressed they had a safeword drink in case there's a woman who really needs to be saved. Later on when I went to the bathroom, sure enough, there was a sign in the ladies' room that instructed us to order a cosmopolitan if we needed help.
@@moif depends... from time to time a drink in a bar with friends is fine just not every weekend getting drunk. Still how about people not harassing others regardless where they are hmm
@@Lu-dm7rn no comecinho da reportagem eles dão um breve resumo dos lugares em que o rapaz já trabalhou e mencionam o Brasil. A não ser que eu tenha entendido errado, você teve outra impressão? Confesso que sou ruim 😅
