Honestly for me it's a tie Both Wayne and Parker are the punching bags of their universes they both lost their lovers,their company,the connections with their family and friends I just want to see them happy for once
Nah, Batman is sadder. Batman loses his everything at the age of eight and could not catch any breaks since then. Not only did he have to turn that pain into anger, than, eventually vengeance and justice, he never slipped up. Batman's will is simply unmatched. Even by the best of Green Lanterns. Spiderman will break if you even threaten any of his loved ones. Batman never loses to that line. To fight every second of your existence to not kill anyone and keep that hope alive that they could still be reformed after everything they have done... that is a lonely, sad, and hard life. A noble life, for sure. But sad. That is all Batman knows. Pain and hope for others. Even Batman has said himself he is lost. He tries to save others from being lost like himself. Spiderman is just really unlucky. Batman is just straight-up depressing. I would definitely rather be in Spierman's shoes than Batman's.