If someone has YOUR CHILDREN, you answer their call the first or second time. Twenty one calls! What if there was a medical emergency?!? And, I have a feeling the Grandmother is just as bad. Donating the young girls clothes, who just happens to be the only one she's not related to by blood. I mean, that's a whole different level of spiteful, to give clothes to Goodwill. Especially when the child did nothing wrong. They are all so mild mannered, soft spoken, and petty af. All 3 of them.
Yes!!! You answer the dang phone when someone else has your children!! That’s ridiculous!! Grandma DOES seem petty as all hell!! She raised a man-child and is acting like he’s not also responsible for those kids!
So, the Grandma donated the clothes of the Plaintiff's daughter who is not biologically related to her (but shared a relationship with) but managed to give back the sons' clothes who were biologically related to her? The Mom is messed up for sure but so is Grandma. That was low.
@@PrincessZaire100I agree with you. The daughter was probably treated differently. I am not saying the Mom is a perfect angel, but I feel for the daughter. All kids want is to feel secure, loved, & wanted.
@@TheThuthukaniStrangers? They have been married for years. That's her MIL & all three of her children (1 from a previous relationship, 2 with the MIL's son) share a Grandparental relationship with the Defendant. That's why it's sad. Because now that a divorce is impending the Grandmother is getting back at the DIL while also hurting the step-grandchild. That's messed up. Children shouldn't be in the crossfire of grown up conflicts.
I love the way she mutters "I'm gonna tell the truth, that's what happened" after trying to say she had the clothes before telling us she might have donated them. She definitely donated them.
The Plaintiff is a complete liar. I believe the Grandmother at this point. Grandmother took care of her kids and she's the Jerk. Just wow!!@@RocLobo358
He definitely holding up the divorce for some reason lol. Tf wrong with him I would have been done with that…the mom is an enabler and the plaintiff is just silly ass hell. His mom donated the little girls clothes purposely..
What part of him filing twice don’t you understand more likely is SHE is holding up the divorce because she wants to maximize on her benefits since he’s in the service
@@GrapesodaorWhat part of her filing in the state they lived in but him NOT ANSWERING do YOU not understand. If you don’t understand family law don’t talk
Grandma is so worried about the mom picking up her kids, but what about the dad? It’s so irritating that men get away with not doing anything or very little when it comes to their kids.
Most fathers aren't that interested in being dad 24/7. Cry about it but it's just the truth. Women really need to STOP having kids with deadbeats. Period.
ALL RESPONSIBILITY OF PARENTING SADLY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY LIES ON THE MOTHER SAYING THIS AS A BLACK MOTHER NOT SAYIN THIS IS ACCEPTABLE OR RIGHT!! NEITHER AM I SAYIN THAT THERE ARENT REAL BLACK FATHERS!! SO DONT COME FOR ME
The grandmother had to ask permission from the mother just to take the children to a party where her son would be, and she says the plaintiff was wishy washy about it. So why do you think calling him to pick them up is a good idea for someone who is trying to avoid problems?
@@anndeecosita3586 did you read what you wrote out loud?.... Calling their father to pick up his kids is a bad idea? Are fathers useless where you're from?
@@zuritribe4844 okay that explains a lot, I'm not African American.... but if that's the case why do people from the black community defend this anomaly though?
My call logs don't go that far back either, and she probably didn't predict how badly it would escalate. Grandma kept track because she knew how it would.
Well according to the defendant the plaintiff was the one who sent that evidence to her so she should have had it. But even if she did she probably wouldn't have given it to the judge because it doesn't help her case@@fianait
She dumped those children off like somebody else wanted to deal with them. Grandparent or not, that’s downright selfish. She’s out doing what she wanted and so was the father.
It’ll never be 21 times someone has to call me about my kids!!! Baby 1 time I’m answering. My phone is always on silent besides when my kids not around me.
Some people have jobs where they aren’t allowed to have cell phones with them all of the time. This lady wasn’t working so I don’t know what her excuse is for missing 21 calls.
I learned at a very early age don't be watching other people kids.... because they get very entitled and depending on the person they will try to take advantage....
Judge act like it’s weird for a grandparent to keep her grandkids a week Iol My mom keeps our son when me and my husband want time alone. Some grandparents who live out of town keep their grandkids the whole summer
Not really - it could have been a lot of back and forth with the kids coming regularly and the child just had some things over there, Plus there are probably other grandchildren. She was moving and likely got rid of a lot of stuff. Everything is not malicious. and she had the boys things...
Also, the clothes may was old too. Come on now. Used your common sense. Grandma not going get rid of the clothes to be crude. Especially when she was moving. mother of the kids seem bitter
@@jdsiv3why keep the boys things and not the girls? She donated the non biological child's clothes. These in laws. She's wrong but so is the mother in law for donating her daughters clothes
Depending on how much time goes by between calls, I can see myself missing 21 calls. I have had jobs where you are not allowed to take cell phones or you have to turn it off before going into certain areas for security reasons or for legal reasons because they can be used as recording devices. However this lady wasn’t working and didn’t call back until the next day. That’s a neglectful parent.
Just bc you're mousey and speak like a child doesn't mean ur actions aren't grotesque. Plus, if you're in the middle of a divorce, his mom will def have his back and not urs, esp if ur leaving ur kids for a whole week
As JJ always advises, when your adult child is going through a divorce with someone they share kids with and you want to see those kids regularly - stay out of it!
Can you imagine being around her for hours every day - living with her or working with her?? I’d get so wound up, I’d become an alcoholic just to cope 🥊
@@Jade_902because no matter how ugly we can all be (and I'm not a fan of either litigant or their witnesses), we need the blessing of God's grace in everything.
The faces the Mother makes when she answers some questions. And she whisperers " That,I Don't know ".. IF that's her real hair, She's Beautiful.. Even IF its Fake She's Still Beautiful .
i usually agree with judy but how is a week with grandma "dumping your kids", there was a time where kids spent whole summers at their grandaprents house. she's being senile in this one.
You have to take Scripture as a prescription! The minute an ill feeling, emotion, thought, or worry comes you have to have a verse ready! Speak it out loud and make it personal! You will feel the Spirit begin to shift that internal attack. Here is one to help: “I am righteous, I will NEVER be forsaken! I will NEVER beg for bread and neither will my children!” Say it over and over! Get addicted to the Word and watch how your life shifts!
Don’t think people realise how much they’re just following off judges tone with the plaintiff. Judy didn’t ask the grandma for evidence that she told the plaintiff to pick them up prior to Saturday, on Saturday. She’s believing the defendant yet rushing and being snippy with the plaintiff. If the defendant had an issue keeping the kids on the Saturday and didn’t want them any longer, why didn’t she do … anything about it after the Saturday? Judge Judy is wrong for this one. Especially considering the defendant donated,the only child that isn’t biologically hers, clothes.
@@DoItWithThemaLiterally if the mom really was worried she would’ve just went and picked up her kids, as judge judy said she wanted a break and left them with the grandmother
21 times is crazy, she should be calling 21 times. But also it is terrible the father doesn’t take responsibility for the children I’m sure she needed a break but not 21 times
Sounds like the mother doesn’t allow the kids to see him very much because the grandmother had to ask permission to take them to a family birthday party that he was attending.
@@anndeecosita3586seems like a few people didn’t understand the dynamics between the mom and dad. Grandma had to get permission to have the kids in the same event as the dad.
Hey Minnie Mouse you spread your legs look after your own kids grandma is still taking care of the child standing next to her he should have looked after his two children
