Genuinely happy for you it shows how emotionally intelligent you're. Both genders have been harmed by the toxic "advice" that is circulating in the modern dating world. We all need to listen to each other's point of view. I would honestly love to get dating advice from men's perspective as well, so if you've any recommendations pls share them!
@@moderngoblin she teaches emotional intelligence and discusses her past relationships which is very helpful regardless of sexual orientation and gender
@@lucaspranav oh cool, she didn’t come up with that just plagiarized from hundreds of people before her not sure why you’re just learning that stuff now from her but I’m glad she’s helping you.
lol when you paused the video to send a damn paragraph ONLY for that to be the very next topic once you hit play 😒 God has a sense of humor for sure. 🤣🤣 I done tried to go delete it and everything 💀 😫
I’ve been saying this for over TWENTY FIVE years!! My grandmother told me this. I usually put a man through HELL, and once we are married, he steps into heaven.😇🙏🏽❤️
I would actually love for you to go deeper into the whole "be easy to be with but hard to get" concept, Margarita. What exactly is to be easy to be with and hard to get? That would be awesome, thank you ❤️❤❤
It’s very simple; have high self esteem, and high self worth. Know who you are and what value you add to a man. Have HIGH STANDARDS‼️ Stop giving everything to a man who hasn’t EARNED IT. Once that man treats you well CONSISTENTLY, then you can open the doors of heaven. In this day and age, women are EASY to get, and HARD to be with.😑
I've been watching you for some time now (found you on tiktok) and I want to say your advice is so amazing! Answers to our problems are so simple, yet we like to overcomplicate things. I'm trying to become better with understanding myself and regulating my emotions and your videos are an enormous help! I'm so glad I found you.
Hi there! Yes, a video on creating an abundant mindset would be great! This is something I’ve been encouraging myself to focus on. Looks like little missy has places to go. Hehe!
I so much love the fact that you are filming your videos in your garage and/or your car, and that you absolutely aren’t ashamed of it (and you shouldn’t be!) - this is incredibly inspiring and you are incredibly inspiring! Please, continue doing what you do, your content is a blessing and you are truly helping and inspiring us all! Sending you all my love and hugs, Margarita! 🩷🌞
I love your content and always appreciate your wisdom and advice. Have you considered boycotting Coca-Cola due to the situation in Gaza and Palestine? As a mom, I thought you might relate to the plight of the children there. I believe your voice can make a difference. Thank you for your time and understanding.
Sorry if this questions I’d too deep but .. Can we address how to keep the relationship alive when kids are in the picture ? What is it that you or your husband are doing to stay connected on such limited time being spent together. Is it that you have your own independent fulfilling lives that you don’t think a lot is missing from your private/intimate life as you fill your own cup with what you love? How do you communicate your needs in a marriage? I ask as a lot of the content is about dating and would love to hear how the rules apply in a committed long-term relationship with kids, responsibilities , etc.
Yes please! Would love a video about abundance and creating abundance! I can’t wait to read your book. I feel like I’m starting my life all over again at almost 38, feeling like a newborn but I wish I learned more about codependency much earlier. Oh well, never too late I guess.
I'm not used to the corny part BACK THEN and I'm trying to make it as a practice for me in my current relationship and THAT changed my whole dating experience. My younger self would never think of doing this but oh God I'm so grateful that I found you, Margarita. Inspiring your men is such a wonderful thing to do and I love seeing him happy because I appreciated his efforts for our relationship
Could you please do a video about being scared of getting married only to end up divorcing? It's happening so much these days and I am so scared of that being my future.
Motherhood has to be experienced to be understood, 1000% Nothing and no one could have prepared me for my heart walking outside my body. It's mind soul body and earth moving.
I try to stop being the golden retriever but then get angry as days pass. My husband is quite comfortable with distance until he want some lovin. Its a daily battle, when your anxiously attached.
I'm doing the same thing. Try and consistently implement those changes for a minimum of 60 days. No nagging or complaining. It is difficult but trust me there will be changes. I was in the same boat as you and once my man realized I was being actually consistent, things shifted.
I would love to see content about abundance and creating abundance from you! Thank you for the work you already have done and that you continue to do! Enjoyed this chit chat with value! Miss you!
I can't wait to read the book 🥳! I found your channel this month and I feel like I am listening to a wise sister who advices me and wants the best for me. The Polarity Masterclass was very helpful. Thank you ♥️🌹
Is it abnormal to be in a relationship with a man and want to travel alone for 2-3 weeks instead of staying with him bc I got some time off and he didn't?
I’ve been watching you for so long and just have to say you have healed my mindset so so much! Especially after having our first baby 10 months ago I defo reverted back to old habits.. However you heal my feminine energy truly and I am so grateful ❤ Thank you lovely, sending so much love. You are smashing life and such an inspiration to me xxx
my husband says he feels very ignored by me and unloved since I took on the “black cat” approach. I’m struggling to understand the part where you are “easy to be around” without chasing… He says he’s discouraged… any videos on the part of showing love?
I love your content and how straightforward you are, I am struggling with the idea of becoming a mother and this was helpful, as well as finding ways of making money and be whole as a person, no matter your life circumstances. Thank you
I think the confusion comes when women are dating men who they need to baby. They stop having as much energy to baby the men and become more exhausted once babies come along. Women who have supportive partners can really thrive as both mothers and partners in return
Wow how weird cuz i just mentioned astrology saying how you looked like a Libra/Scorpio vibes- And then all the sudden your client asks you if you believe in astrology.. Whats youre rising sign, I wonder. But you look like a Libra and you sound like a Scorpio so again I wonder what your rising sign is! Either way- you’re born at a full moon or very near it, it seems like!
Should i get bored after 14 years? I think he wont change.. Bcz.. 14 years wasted. Do you realy think soneone can change for real after 14 years of being asshole?
Hello, I don’t think a mom should be present all the time but capable of offering quality time and emotional support. So the fact that you also take care of you even if you have other children is productive, in my opinion. When they will grow up and have problems, they will have a model of a person who tries to follow their path and is able to rely on themselves, so copying it will help them, I guess! ❤
So happy I found your channel! I've learned so much and I'm learning to take charge and BE the black cat! It definitely works!!!! ❤ I always look forward to your videos 🤩
I seen more women who say they feel better abt anything in life after having kids. Which tbh is like society has made women feel like useless without a kid. Many women dont get their self esteem until after having kids. I guess its more on hormones but also/lacking a strong sense of purpose in life that women focus on too much
How do you maintain black cat energy in a marriage? Also pls can you do a matriage series I'd love to learn more on how to resolve conflict, dealing with resentment building up, frustration in a relationship etc. I love my husband but sometimes he's just way too sensitive and I'm tired of running around circles to make sure he doesn't get "upset". I would love to hear your advice because I don't want to leave this relationship I love this man and all we have built together. I just feel like it's hurting me how difficult it can be sometimes when you clash on opinions or butt heads.. please could you do a video💕
I agree! I noticed the baby foot as well and was super sweet. It reminded me of one of my nephews when he was a fe months old and everybody was head over heals when he was around.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Bad advice with the brother. Showing him he got to her by acting hurt is giving him candy for his bad behaviour. Correct way is to ignore the negativity - not for a week, month, but always and the next step is to remove yourself from the situation. Eg. If it's family party, you remove yourself from talking to him as if he was a bussing fly, if it's one on one meeting, you finish it early under any excuse. If it's you two visiting your mom, you ignore him or excuse yourself (depending on how severe is his disrespect) and schedule one on one with mom. Poker face. No emotions. Act bored. Grey rock him. Give him zero information about you, your likes, dislikes, do no overshare. You can dose and pace those. So if he is polite and respectful you can talk to him, but always stay at a safe distance.
Not me and my bf actually in a « .. » idk, we’re mean to be in love relationship, but today he leaven me after a whole afternoon where i tried to fix a problem we got, but I was the only one caring about that, he was just like SILENT treatment, and nothing less. He had quit my car, goes in his, and nothing. Idk what we are. But I’m not his father, mum, nurse, friend idk, he needs to treat me with respect or to leave. He seemed to had choose.
Margarita, does you husband watch your videos? I mean, you really put men in their place in some of your videos - what does he think about some of your opinioins and tactics? :D Love you girl!
I have to disagree and say learn as much as you can before becoming a mother. One thing that has always confuses me that people spend a lot of time and money becoming experts in their chosen fields but then wing parenthood. Of course you can wing it and still be amazing, it happens all the time. And you can become and expert and still not be prepared for when it happens but why not be as prepared as possible? When you know what to expect it’s much less scary. Watch birthing videos, work on healing childhood wounds, go be around mothers, talk to them, offer to watch their kids, read books, learn about parenting styles. Decide confidently how you plan to raise your kid. The more confident you are the more nothing can shake you even when you’re not perfect.
I realise I have had the role of the ‘golden retriever’ for the whole time I’ve been with my bf…for 8 years… we got together when we were teens. We went through something very serious last year which was a total wake up call and weirdly seems to have catapulted me into a new awakening.. as a result I’ve completely changed (for the better), really embodied my feminine and i have actually realised that he has not yet stepped into manhood/masculinity (yet, I dare say). Could be because I never truly gave him that space to bring out his masculine qualities…? I haven’t figured it out yet. Things have been tense now and not sure what the future holds..
Binge watching your videos since حیات and already feeling empowered! Thanks Margarita! Please make content on abundance mindset and how to switch to and from your feminine when needed, esp as working women.
Yes, she mentions this in another video that this works in same sex relationships so as long as your partner is embodying the golden retriever mindset you can be the black cat and he can chase you. I would suggest paying attention and observing in early interactions so you can tell which gay men you meet are leaning towards which persona. Most likely some gay men are naturally black cat and others are naturally golden retriever mentality. You want to find what someone is naturally drawn towards otherwise later on in the relationship their tendency would change.
