My name is Stefanos Sifandos your new love & relationship coach and in this video I today I want to talk to you about if you should be in a relationship while still healing?
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We are social beings. We all know this. We need to be with others, individually or as a community, in order to have a sense of belonging and support, for our overall well-being.
Any relationship, may it be intimate or platonic, needs to contain three key aspects: trust, honesty, and compassion. Being loved, respected, understood, seen, and heard are extremely important for each and every one of us, and these are what we seek for when we're in a relationship with others.
As many of us have already experienced, not all relationships are made equal. Some aren't even meant to happen, but bad experiences in previous relationships bear important lessons IF we know where to look and IF we're willing to reflect after the relationship has ended. Which brings us back to the question: Can I be in a relationship with another IF I'm still healing from the previous one? The answer is YES, and in most cases, No.
You'd be doing yourself (and your future partner/s) a huge favor if you give yourself time and space when you're fresh off a breakup. You'll have a chance to redefine your own sense of self outside of an intimate relationship. You can reflect on what went wrong and what could've done better in your last relationship, so you'd know exactly how you want to show up in the next.
Asking yourself whether you're ready or not to date or be in a relationship again may be a good sign, as that means that you're not rushing and being hasty in your decisions about dating someone new. Questioning and really reflecting on how you feel and how you process your thoughts take a great deal of awareness and emotional stability.
Just remember to take things slow while you're on this journey of self-discovery, growth, and transformation, whether you embark on it alone, or with another person.
Sometimes our past fears and pains impact our present relationships and keep us stuck in old patterns of survival. Take the Love Block assessment to break free of these patterns and let’s live and love from a place of greater connection.
If you're in Canada or the US, you can 📲TEXT QUIZ➡️(310) 388-8092 & find out how to have healthy love, or visit stefanossifandos.com/love-blo...
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7 сен 2020
