@@user-bc1bx3ql3b I have noticed some good looking men smile my way, two to be precise. That is new. I think what I need to work on is my 'resting b*&%£ face'...sigh😂😂. I think it makes it a little 'challenging' for someone to approach me.
I can't believe how incredible this is! I watched your video last week and decided to try out the tips. Let me tell you, it really works! Guys started offering to pay for my taxi, my meals, and even some high-value men wanted to strike up conversations with me. Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
You're absolutely right lol IM NOT LOL. However, I don't feel women should put so much emphasis on trying to get spoiled. ANY SMART WOMAN KNOWS WHAT COMES WITH THAT. ITS NEVER" O HES JUST SPOILING ME." YOU END UP DEALING WITH MEN AND THEIR BS. BECAUSE IF THE SPOIL IS GOOD. A WOMAN IS MORE RELUCTANT TO LEAVE. MAKE SURE YOU POST THIS SOMEWHERE MY LOVE.
Everyone will come some sort of baggage whether if you dress completely for yourself or are mindful about the kind of men you want to attract like. If this doesn’t apply move on.
I look amazing and these men just stare at me like an art piece lol 😆 But in all seriousness, I take very good care of myself, mentally physically and spiritually
I need a friend like you in my life because when I tell my friends that this is what I believe in they say I’m being delusional in the 21st century, no man will be willing to provide. I’ve been provided for in the past so I know he’s out there looking for me.
I absolutely love and agree with this. I only attract providers and contrary to popular believes, they are not controlling. At least not to me. I guess it's my aura.
YES! Broke men are controlling. My provider man was like “you should honestly manage the money and I’ll ask you for an allowance if I want to go out.” 😂 which is traditional in a lot of cultures!
ANGEL LYDIA is such a classy, intelligent , well spoken lady. I strive to become you! Love your mindset babes! Please dont stop making videos, its helping ALL of us to level up ---- THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART !!!
From my experience, providers like when you are put together, healthy and that you pamper yourself. You don't have to break the bank to do it either. Do it for you. It will show and they pay attention.
Men can tell, affluent men appreciation a woman that takes care of herself. It also shows how you would care for the children i feel in their minds 🎉 I like how you dont talk to men that talk to you when you are dressed down. Period
I started wearing hats more, (not baseball caps, but low key derby hats. Men do not allow me to open ANY door or pick up anything I've dropped, and acknowledge my presence when I wear them, and yes, a red lip and a smile must go with that hat.
That make up non make up look . But my skin so clear I can do blush , lipgloss and mascara or natural looking lashes . I never do too much. Definitely a really good night routine and morning routine and gym !!!! And I attract a provider man for sure. These are all facts ❤
Thank God that I have a God who wud provide for me and be my matchmaker. I never need to be desperate or go out seeking. I surrender that part of my life to my God.
It seems possible. I am recovering from a lot of abuse and bullying so I don’t like myself at all, I won’t give up though I just need to work through this pain
You know... I wish we would rather see more content on women being beautiful, feminine, but also providing for themselves. In that way, you attract few but actually legitimate providers that match your level. Too many women become victim to men abuse because they solely depend on them.... The new trend should be options...
I’m at a place in my life where I NEEDED you to create this channel and Never knew it existed! Right on time!!! First time viewing your channel and I’m here to stay!!!!
I am turning 61 next week. I have been a widow for almost 6 years and not one date or even approached! I am a beautiful woman. I look ten years younger than I am. People think I am my daughter's sister! I dress very nicely but I only seem to receive compliments from other women. Oh .... I HAVE had several MARRIED men quite bluntly wanted to see them on the sneak!!!!! Which I shut down even threatening to tell their wife!!!
I accept the look put together challenge 😊 I do look, put together at work. Two days in the office full makeup pressed perfumed wig looking natural. I just have to expand it to outside of work.
Lovely ❤, the reality is "Real man doesn't like fake/ artificial ...stuff, they most like look natural and being proud of yourself as a lady that real man🎉🎉🎉
My Nigerian man said "you love yourself too much that I'm afraid if you will want to have a baby for me after we get married" 😂 Now I'm not sure if its a compliment or not. I love babies but not the body you have after having them😊
Love this advice. But till when will you put up the fake act?.That said,i love nice, expensive stuff. But cannot afford them now, as I've got loads on my plate.This guy walked in my house and said,his surprised I'm such a simple,unmatrialistic girl,it doesn't match how i talk.😮😮.Then I told him,wait till i get money then you can judge lol. That made me think,please be materialistic,because incase the relationship ends,you are left with an expensive gold chain you can pawn off for money.Or something. Other than been left just with a harsh heartbreak.
@@newwineskin5494 💯 agree with you, I went through something similar when I was younger and less “experienced” in life I guess you can say. Now I love to receive from men, it’s our birthright as women✨ so take the gifts 🎁 🥰 I also sold some designer purses from my ex after a bad break up and put the $ in my savings
Work on getting the things you like yourself. Then a man can see that you are about that life. It took me a while but now I’m good with having nice things in my home & driving a luxury vehicle.
A few good point but successful men are successful for a reason they can spot a gold digger a mile away from the finish line.As a man the biggest mistake i see women make they don't look approachable.The most important advice be nice make your own money and never never never plot a way to get someone else's money.
Really successful men have no problem providing for women in fact they prefer it, unless he’s one of the stingy type of men and I spoke of that in MY video Titled CHOOSE MEN THAT CHOOSE YOU 😊
Humans are social we are not created to be alone so why not allow the masculine energy to be a force in our lives and vice versa let us be in our feminine energy and btw she’s still talking care of herself because she has self love ❤
Agree with all of this, i slowly figured this out and once i started fully being who i wanted to be with my sexy, masculine daddy came to me. Literally obsessed with me before i even noticed. Ladies if the man u want ain't obsessed first he ain't it 👏🏽I went from Fboys to my KING. I get princess, baby energy ALL the time, this thinking works
When I wear more natural looking styles I get the most compliments 🔥 I realized the extra dramatic lashes and bold bright eyeshadow colors, look like drag queen makeup.
Love this video!!💜 I work in a warehouse and ALWAYS look put together. Guys approach me all the time. Some women don’t care how they look but I do lol!
I’m single mother that’s going back to school looking for a real provider that allow me to relex my nervous system only focus on school not have to work…
I have to tell you that you must be looking like an expensive piece of art work in a gallery. They look in awe and know they cannot afford you. Stay true to yourself. You will attract when you are not looking. Goodluck
I alway tell people that men are more intuitive than women, they see things in an instance… that’s why men become excess when you are happier personally
Beautiful 💜 video. Do u have any knowledge on why some men approach women when they are plain?What i have been experiencing i got approach most of the time when,im going to the gym,no makeup,hair up,stretch 👖 pants and sneakers, i got compliments that im beautiful. When dressed up,and makeup, men would be nice to hold the door,but not approaching.
My male best friend said he rather see a girl out regular and she’s attractive and then she gets dressed up vs the other way and she removed everything and she’s not cute without all the makeup etc . And he’s a really successful type man
This is good but would be been great. One small critique…you mentioned several times to look the part but failed to provide actual examples. I think elaborating more would be more helpful in the future 😊
Thanks for the advice .. this morning I decided to spend a little more time on myself to go and run some errands . And guess what😮 you were right. ... plp were approaching me and even my female friends complimented me on the way I dressed . Tks again❤
Everything in life worth its weight in salt is redundant. That's been a given for thousands of years, Theresa. You've been eating the same foods, breathing the same air, basking in the same sunshine, throughout the tenure of your life - that's redundancy. Redundancy is a good thing provided you are being redundant about things that nurture and sustain you. Peace and love!
Period and most aren't even married or headed there like have a successful relationship first the men too just find who likes you and and want something in life a go forward this is basic hygiene 🙄
I've given some thought to the statement the creator made that she doesn't talk to men who are dressed down. Here's a perspective: what if the dressed down man is actually the CEO of a multi-million/billion dollar company & b/c of his humility & love for the work, he chose (on this particular day) to step in and help the workers? What if he knows women out here "trappin" & trying to get spoiled and he desires a woman who will show same respect to a CEO as well as the cleaning crew? Sometimes we interact with angels unaware.
I love this perspective😊 and it is soo true you can meet the right man anywhere, even the grocery store, but I said I don’t talk to men who would approach me IF I AM not looking right .
Can someone guide me on how i can change my wardrobe on a budget.. I feel horrible about my dressing especially now that I've lossed weight..i want to get some elegant clothes for myself
You must have a person you go for all your clothes alterations. It is a game changer when your clothes actually fit you. Mix timeless pieces and affordable ones. Really take care of your clothes i.e. if you can, use profesional clothes cleaners. Me personnally, I work in a male dominared environment, and the risk is that as a woman you might fall into the trap on bieng in your masculine energy all the time. So I have decided to keep a healthy weight. I only wear dresses, no trousers. I wear colors and accessories. I do my nail. I have sisterlocks. I always wear nice make up. I wear nice fragrance.
@khadhrikhan1549 no because this is real. I studied IT but what I did was I moved to UX so that I'm less masculine and having a female boss has helped me be more feminine sometimes
Lovely video but this is why we are getting darker and lower level souls as a human race ... please let us focus on the soul the internal traits and NOT EXTERNAL AND MATERIAL.... men give women they don't love material things and women they do love THEIR TIME & LOVE & THEIR HEART & SOUL.... it is an insult a man wanting to buy me.... please let us better as a human race
Greetings from Egypt! Loved your video, thank you so much. Would you please a make a video about how to be inconvenient and how to make him wrapped around your finger? How to keep challenging a man without losing his interest especially if he's wealthy and women throw themselves on him? and yes please we need a video about how to ask for things from a man. Thanks again
Hey sis, your fellow Nigerian here. It means you’re not making it easy to be taken advantage of. Meaning you’re not stupid or easy or a push over. Please trust me when I tell you that a compliment. Men know what they’re doing. They already sized you to be low maintenance but your actions scream high maintenance. Starve him of your attention and see him drop like a parasite with no host. Your dream man would not want you to lower your standards instead he’ll work to meet and exceed them. Take care and have a blessed day
First of all, you are gorgeous and I love your speaking voice. 2nd of all I’ve only heard the first tip and yes I agree! Before I go all in, are you married to a man who spoils you?
This is true n not true.. there are lots of men who love simple women who dont go over the top.. they're men who meet women who dont even wear an ounce of makeup and fall in love with her n wants to spoil and keep he. It all depends on what the man wants
