I’m a habitual cheater. through out my marriage I’ve been hoping that I would get a sense of fairness and admiration. I’m a broken man that didn’t really understand the role of a husband. This episode has blessed me, I now see the flaws in my ways and will seek therapy. Thank you !
I'm so thankful for you. We all have made mistakes and can learn from you on how to confess. Bible says if we confess our sins and repent (turn away from them) he will forgive us. God bless you!!
LATERRAS! We MUST hear from his wife! We HAVE TO hear the other side of this. He learned “the secret” by keeping the main thing, the main thing. He cracked open the Word and applied what the MARRIAGE MANUFACTURER provided for all of us to win in marriage. We HAVE TO hear how his application is blessing his wife. We want to hear from her how she now responds versus how she used to respond. Listeners WILL benefit from seeing both sides of this coin. No doubt.
I am so thankful that you posted your comments. I love this brother's message and agree with the word of God about a husband serving and loving in his marriage as Christ loved the church. However, I'm concerned about how such a message speaks to a wife's personal relationship with Jesus. My hope is that a wife or wife to be, knows that her "response" to God in her relationship with Him is not dictated by her husband's relationship, or lack thereof, with Jesus. Thank you for sharing. I started reading the comments in search of exactly what you expressed. Be free!
I'm in a relationship. My girlfriend been saying I've been taking her for granted and been unsure if I'm the provider and protector she's looking for. I've had these struggles but after watching this episode I'm going to do what's needed to be the man she needs.
Hi, this is the first time hearing or seeing your podcast. It was beautiful, informative and heartfelt ❤️. I write this comment with tears rolling down my face because it touched my heart to know there are men that understand their assignments. So, continue to walk in your purpose. Yes, it was for the man/husband but it was also for the woman/wife. We both man/woman have to hear, listen and respond to one another needs, wants and desires. The most important part of our journey here on earth is to grow, serve and fulfill our God given purpose so keep up the good work. I'm inspired ✨️ 😊 I most definitely will be praying for you and your journey 🙏 ❤️
I get married in seven days. I stumbled upon this video yesterday. And I listen to it the second time today. I’m so thankful to God that he has my back to send the two of you to create this podcast to cover me right before I step in to marriage. Now I feel like a warrior because I have all the tools and weapons I need. And I know exactly what I’m getting into instead of having these false expectations. Thank you guys so much you’ve also Shown me what the ministry God has for me looks like. I’m 25 years old. And I look around me and I don’t see many black men my age that are desiring marriage or look at it as a good thing. And I wanted to change that. And you guys are showing me the ways to do so. Thank you so much
@@SAVAGEoLIFE it’s been exactly what I asked God for. I prayed for a woman to love me my God. What I didn’t realize is that Jesus loves us even when we don’t deserve it. She’s giving me love that I don’t deserve and I’ve given her love that I don’t deserve. But that’s because outside of Christ we don’t deserve anything. However inside Christ we inherit the kingdom of God. so we both trying to stay in Christ as much as possible. We encourage each other to stay connected with God is a true prayer worship. We pray together every morning as much as we can. This is helped us a lot not keep grudges or stay angry or upset at each other. But more importantly it’s helped us love Each other way beyond we could even imagine. We don’t serve each other based on our own merits hey Siri which other night each other based on the love we have for God. It’s So Good.
@Collegegrad 22 thats dope to hear man. Im praying your marriage continues to be rooted in Christ as you guys grow together. Ive been married for going on 10 years and i will say this video changed my perspective a lot. I often found myself doing more for my wife then i got in return and at times it caused some resentment because it is "unfair" and after years you begin to feel a certain type of way but this video has been a game changer to how i look at it now. I wish i would found something like this early on in my marriage woulda saved me a lot of headache lol. Props to you for doing the good things early man. Your wife is lucky to have you!
MASTERPIECE CLASS. This was one of the absolute relevant, best, down to earth, mature advice, discussion I have ever heard & witnessed. Outstanding gentlemen!!
I'm a woman and I'm having to stop this podcast every 3 mins to catch my breath bc of the WEIGHT coming from this truth! GOODNESS!! So GRATEFUL for this episode! 🙌🏽❤
Update..after having all my pride checked after listening to this....I listened to this and his other teachings multiple times. I encountered the Lord deeper because of this and my wife has felt the impact.. this is is required for all husband and people thinking about getting married
Good to see men watching and learning. Many blessings to you and your wife. May the future seasons of your marriage be the BEST seasons of your marriage.
As a “ Then Married Man” and a “Now Single Man” desiring Marriage again… this episode has blessed me tremendously. I Celebrate and Appreciate this episode so much. 😭😭😭 WOW!
I needed to hear this. This explains why a wife is a help mate and why submission is critical in the hierarchy of marriage. The burden a husband has to take care of his household. It's rough. He doesn't need contention on top of that. As a woman it helps me to understand what I need to see in a man's character to feel comfortable submitting/trusting his leadership. I gleaned so much from this.
Scripture says we are to be submitted one to another. If your man is behaving as described in this episode, he is in fact being submitted. His woman will quite naturally find submitting easy; safety allows this.
Yes, but he also has to serve you. His stance is service. You both serve each other. He also should value your insight. Most men marry women who are much smarter than them.
@Michele Lindo All women don't submit. You have to have the heart posture and relationship with God to accept this. A man can provide safety and his wife still may not submit. This is not natural if you've never seen it in action or believe it's relevance.
@sealinalashelle5126 most do.. not all but most women will play the role of teammate if her husband has an heir of servitude... husband is to submit to Christ 1st.. before expecting a woman to follow... from a Christian viewpoint
“We didn’t marry fans , we married forever and we wanted forever to act like a fan” WOOOW & then his explanation of the difference of the forever & fan code 🥵. This is probably one of my favourite episodes 🙌🏾✨
Maybe its me, but I think he needs a Fan! He doesn't see it, but he wants her to Affirm him. I'm thinking, just say it to her. That is your love language.
Love the fact he did not use his circumstance or being without a father to define being reckless as a man. He stated that he had great examples outside the home; therefore, there is no excuse. ❤It‼
Real Talk, and ALL credit due to his MAMA, cause THIS is how you raise your Male offspring as a SINGLE MUM....(and I have 4), and this is what I've been doing...and the fruits of the spirit that ooze out of my boys (even strangers) compliment me for how I've raised them, and I give all glory to God, cause its ALL THE LORDS doing. IT IS POSSIBLE LADIES.
"You not gonna out counsel me" "You not gonna out fix yourself me" had me ROLLING 🤣 this entire episode isn't full of gems, it's the while darn diamond mine
Im going try this for 30 days. Im married and I haven’t been at my best at all times. My wife and i have come from traumatic experiences and we both have not had good parental leadership. Yet i want us to grow and heal and have a healthy marriage. I would love to stay in touch with you personally. Thank you my brother for helping us brothers level up in our lives. God bless you and your family.
Latteras, you did it again. Another great episode! This is a ministry that The Kingdom needs. The red pill community doesn’t want to take responsibility for their own short comings. Every man needs a personal mirror that no one else looks in but them. We seem to be blind and not see ourselves. Your ministry helps me to see me. Again, thank you Sir
There may be some red pill men or men in general that are like that but it doesn't matter or is an issue since society n the law force men to be accountable for there actions they get worse sentences for the same crime or even smaller crimes than women the mgtow movement stands for men going there own way men aren't treated like human beings in the west n marriage is extremely risky n divorce can lead a guy to suicide he has no rights in a divorce n he can lose literally everything n be forced into financial slavery forced to work to pay for his exes lifestyle give her child support that she can use for her own luxuries he can lose his kids house car dog n everything
This is awesome! For centuries churches and many Christian influencers have only targeted women and “ how to be a wife/ found” but nothing for men and their role. 😊
@Neo Anderson Don’t generalize for one gender. Some men still don’t know how to be husbands. The point is, we now have more testimonies from different perspectives that can bless men and women and help marriages last!!! Be solution focused and not problem focused!
As a single woman, I needed to hear this perspective to continue honoring my standards. It's tough at times because you can't help but to see other people relationships, but mine will come. Another great episode, as always.
“Sacrifice doesn’t have to be seen, to be felt” SO TRUEE! I didn’t have to see Christ get crucified in order to feel his love for me! THIS MAN IS CLEARLY SPIRIT LED!
Gentlemen, thank you for refusing to allow toxic male voices to be louder than Godly men's voices. God bless you and may you both reap exceedingly more than you could have ever asked for or imagined in your lives.
Brothers! Thank you so much. I've been married 37 years and really thank God for my wife. This conversation you guys just share with me is priceless, it is God breathed. Humility, meekness, compassion, honesty and most importantly the fear of God, reverence to God and die to self daily like Jesus did for us
THIS is THE episode men and husbands didn’t know they needed! Manhood is NOT fair and the word “man” equals responsibility in my mind. You are held to a HIGHER standard by God. Men and women need to “die to their flesh” as well. They desperately need EGO work. So many marriages end over this one thing. This was a powerful episode and I’m sharing it now with several of my male clients.💯🙏🏽❤️
Men are only held to a higher standard in the context of being a leader so it's husband's since women aren't the leader n the one in charge so yes of course the husband is responsible cause he's in charge but nowhere in the bible does it say men are held to a higher standard in general simply cause of there gender it's in a marriage context the fact that men get way tougher sentences for the exact same crime n even smaller crimes is crazy men are treated worse than animals in the west especially america if u think women shouldn't be accountable for there actions ur a doormat western american women are entitled masculine spoilt vain superficial n selfish n the reason for that is cause men allowed it men gave them the privilege to vote even tho it was supposed to be only war draftees that had that earned privilege women can kill there baby n have all reproductive rights while men get none they can get away with false accusations with zero evidence n destroy a man they want u to believe there's a gender wage gap men allowed feminism to destroy society if men led properly women wouldn't be these childish children who take no responsibility
I am excited to hear this man's perspective. There is a pastor by the name of RC Blake's he talks a lot about relationships. I think he would be a good person to be on your podcast Latteras - Jess
Bring him back!!! This was awesome for me. Even though this is about the unfairness for men but as woman it makes understand the inside of a man more. I like how he broke everything down. I wish him and his wife more great days. I love how he understands his wife and his wife understands him. This touch me. I love when women do this but when a man can talk like this then men can have that submissive woman that he wants.
Yes, bring him back. I loved his perspective on his role as a husband. He was good... But I did identify that he is not communicating with his wife for the love he needs. In some ways he is sacrificing himself where he doesn't have to. He actually wants to be celebrated. He didn't respond to what his love language was, he just wanted to be left alone. It is quite clear, his love language is words of affirmation. He has to let her know what he needs as well. I think impact is better than effort. Ask her what she needs the most, and deliver. Doing things 10x harder with little impact is not a good use of energy.
"When I find out who I am, who I am will come out of me, not to me." This is the gem of this podcast. It set the tone for the entire podcast. The Most High is doing great things through this content!
ALL men groups need to have a watch party for this episode! This was EVERYTHING!! 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️ There was so much value in it for me as a woman as well! God bless you both! 🙏🏽
Laterras, I love how you steer the conversation for clarity. You're doing such a great job Sir! Thank you! "Don't walk out, walk towards her" 😭😭😭 That changes EVERYTHING!!! "She can feel when you can feel .. " 😭😭😭 THIS!!!
Thanks for the podcast!! I watch it on repeat! Some guests I’d love to see: - RC and Lisa Blakes - Beleaf in Fatherhood (Glen and Yvette) - Redefined TV (Jerry and Tanisha Flowers) God Bless 😍🙌🏾
I definitely second Redefined TV (Pastor Jerry and First Lady Tanisha Flowers) Yassssss!!! Nuggets dropping EVERYWHERE!! It'll definitely be a gold mine when they are done...lol.
This is a refreshing conversation! I’m excited to see men that are teaching other men how to be accountable and responsible as husbands and Ephesians 5 men. As women and wives we should definitely love, honor and celebrate the men in our lives. Letting them know they are loved and appreciated! ❤️🙏🏾 Thank you Kings for blessing us with this insight & amazing conversation, and keeping it L.I.T. 🔥🔥🔥
When he said the Holy Spirit told him to “Don’t walk out but walk towards her”. He didn’t get this revelation until year 17 of their marriage Now they try out serve each other. With God all things are possible!
I'm just lost for words with this podcast!! My husband and I are a skip and hop away from divorce. We decided a few days ago to try to work on it for the 10th time feel like🤦😖😟.I felt like even in the second day in its all the same with him and I'm just invisible to him. I prayed and told God I couldn't afford to lose me again trying to save him when he doesn't even see me or know who I am. I was crying and I told God I don't know if I have anymore fight in me to try to save this marriage when I'm fighting alone. I had started watching one of Laterrius podcast and the wife said that she watched this podcast with David Burrus while at the time about to divorce her husband and she sent the podcast to her husband. He watched it and was changed. He thanked David on the podcast. So I found this podcast and sent it to my husband a hour ago. I know its all God because it just popped up on my time line and i was led here! 🙌❤️🙏To Be Continued.....
Hi Sis. I actually stumbled on the podcast of the couple that credited David Burruss for thier reconciliation...and that brought me to this particular podcast. How are things going with yours?
@@mamak4585 no he didn't watch it but things are getting better slowly but surely. A lot to still work on with the both of us but keeping God first and trusting Him even when things aren't looking right really has been a tremendous help and gives me peace. Thanks for asking love 💕.
@@izion515 Things are getting better. I just try to take one day at a time and what is out my control I try my best to give it to God instead of leaning to my own understanding. We communicate a lot more. My nephew was in a bad car wreck and he was driving my husband car so that has seem to brought us closer. Still praying and trusting God but also doing the work on myself. What my husband lack I pray for him. I try not to nag him about now and he is trying more. Thanks for asking Sweetie 💞.
He was dropping bombs left and right! I’m just going to pass the collection plate around and let the church say AMEN!!! And another one!! I am enjoying these episodes from a healthy married male perspective ! I’m here for it!!!
This was excellent! My Coach David laid it down. When I heard this term "unfair" I didn't like it at first but the more I "leaned in " and I see we must sacrifice for our mates. Thanks for this podcast and for all you do for men, it doesn't go unnoticed. My future wife thanks both of you!
This episode spoke life into me! Despite the fact I filed for divorce and have being dragged in court for two years now, I am seriously having a rethink! And trying to fix the issues in my marriage… The Holy Spirit has been dealing with me with the same biblical examples shared on this episode. Our God throughly speak in a mysterious ways.
It was a reason why it dragged for 2 yrs this podcast is not by mistake that u watched.. God can restore and mk new, the marriage u had that had to die now u two can start A new Union!!!!!
I appreciated and enjoyed hearing two brothas address and unpack real issues. Learning and knowing their roles as priests/kings and how to deal with women.❤😊🎉
I just taught this on my show a few months ago called "Are you sure you want to be a husband?" I had no idea being a husband took ALL OF THIS!!! As I was preparing to teach, I was like "they are not gonna like this. I don't like this...but it's how God designed it." Good stuff!
All my life my adult life I have craved to have a front row seat with men being open, vulnerable. To see how both of your wisdom empowered each other was a blessings to men soul. Y'all men make me feel so safe, protected and well taking care of as a woman. The fact that y'all cared enough for me to have this conversation being so open and honest... giving me a birds eye view on what men really deal with within themselves and how you feel. Thank y'all so much. It was a great pleasure to watch y'all have this conversation. out loud.
This is the first time watching this video!! Thank you gentlemen for being so honest about the mechanics of how marriages work concerning men!! Excellent job Kings🔥🦁🐑👑👑.. I WILL DEFINITELY SHARE THIS WITH MY MARRIED & SINGLE FRIENDS😀😀
OMG!!!!! I am standing through the entire podcast!! I love it!! this should have been around before I divorced my husband of 22 years. I have been saying this a longgggggggggggggggg time. I am not a Fan, I am your Wife! This podcast is helping me!!
@@crystalwitter761 Try prayer before divorcing I know marriage is not easy believe me I know I'm married but pray give it all to God. This podcast was amazing. When u get a chance look up pastor Gino Jennings here on RU-vid. He have several videos on marriage they may also help u. Turn down your plate an do a fast for your issues in your marriage. I don't know you but if you need me I'm here for you.
@@rainhope769 Appreciate your message, it resonates with me. But it's a challenge for real! I am in the same boat...17yrs here. The thing is he's not a man of faith he doesn't want to compromise with anything having to hold him accountable, like not talking to other females about our relationship. There's been infidelity on his part, porn is a problem, noone to hold him accountable, no mentor. Thinks he knows everything, won't be vulnerable for anything. Meanwhile I've been giving so much of myself from the beginning of the marriage.to my own detriment. Cried & prayed to God. I'm tired 😫
@@optimalscore This is rain dont give up i know u may be tired but fight thru it. I wish I can talk to u more in depth. If u don't mind send me ur email an I will give u my number thru the email
@@optimalscore I am sorry for what you are going through. Hope things will change for you🙏🙏🙏. I was married as well it was a horrible situation. I just had to leave, some men don't and will never change. I did the praying and crying I was the only one who wanted the marriage to work. If I stayed 1 more day I would have gone crazy. We were both Christians and had position in church. The day I left was the happiest day of my life. Still enjoying my single life over 20+yrs. Kids are grown and doing great. God is good hope he will come through for you.❤️❤️
My man doesn’t embrace me when I’m upset or having a tantrum about something after I’ve finally ran out of options and talked and talked and talked. He meets me with cursing and saying I’m ridiculous and childish and just rips me to shreds. It kills me. I’ve tried so many times in so many different ways to help him learn and grow but it’s like he just isn’t receptive. He has no empathy. This podcast had me in tears.
If you're not married you definitely need to leave. If you are married I recommend counseling, even if you start off going solo. You don't need to stay in a situation that's literally destroying you. God loves you too much and that is far from His plan for you.
You BOTH have a problem.....HIM, He's either experienced (seen) this type behavior before or He's never had a father(present or absent) around to see set the instructional standard or even MODEL it for him to see....Ephesians 5 for him. As far as you are concerned.......you MUST learn your man's heart.....you WON'T win him with your mouth,BUT you can by your CONDUCT......1 Peter 3......for you ma'am.....by the way, if you're NOT married I suggest you BOTH work on your conduct INDIVIDUALLY BEFORE YOU MARRY.......If that's what you decide to do.........hope this helps you.
I love him saying taking on the mind of Christ. So much truth in that statement. God says “Lean not to your own understanding but in ALL your ways acknowledge Me”.
Honestly, this is all godly women want. A man who is submitted to the Lord and understands the relationship between Christ and the church. All the other things, like money and material things are good, but truly don't really matter. We just want a man who loves God and strives to make us feel safe in a relationship. You'll get the most loving, serving wife when you lead her and create a space where she can be herself and not feel judged.
Amen and amen. I dont care about the money, I will live on that teacher's salary you have. We will grow our finances together......but more importantly, I need you to lead with servitude and you will get in back in manifolds
When he said, "you got to feel emotion NOT live out of it," Wow!!! It's so refreshing to hear a healed man speaks! I'm waiting on the Lord because I can't receive anything less than that type of man in my life! Period. Grrreat podcast!!!🙌🏾
I watched this podcast several times. A matter of fact, I just finished watching it again. There’s so many nuggets in this interview alone that it’s impossible for me to unpack it all In just one setting. IJS! As a single Christian woman who has a genuine respect, honor, seriousness,and love for the “institution” of marriage and it’s “covenant” these podcasts are “helping” a lot in gaining understanding in all facets of the dynamics of marriage. From understanding the husband role. To the wife role. Getting therapy (if needed) Servant hood. Competing to “serve”. Effective communication. Learning and understanding intimacy. Learning to be suggestive to a man and not commanding. The list can go on and on. My goodness! This is so wholesome. I’m sitting here thinking how gracious the Lord is… That he would even allow content such as this to also help single people. Like really. It’s as though he’s allowing y’all to pour out and be Brutally transparent so if we glean we won’t have to walk through some of the hard knocks others experienced. If we would listen and apply it. My goodness! Thank y’all for not keeping y’all personal experiences to yourselves. Seriously! Trust me. MANY are listening! Many are paying attention. I guarantee you there’s more paying attention to all these podcasts that just won’t publicly or openly admit it. Just continue doing this. Keep the content coming. It’s so awesome. God Bless y’all abundantly.
'When I find out what a husband is then who she is will appear'. Oh my God have mercy upon the generations of men that don't have this revelation... Thank you so much for serving the Lord to restore what devil tried to steal, kill, and destroy. Thank you for letting Jesus use you to bring to life the abundance part he gave on the cross. 'Unto death, means everyday there is an aspect of me that has die to be with you' this statement got me to 😢. Please allow this anointing to reach many. More prayers for.
I cant believe how much Manna is being fed to us through this podcast i mean i froze and had rewind to make sure i wasn't trippin my soul just leveled up. Feathers lets go!!
Latarius we need an episode 2 with him and his wife because he is brilliant brilliant and I also love when he says she covers me in public and corrects me in private preach 👃👃👃🔥🔥
For years I had been praying and asking God to show me how to be a wife, how to be successful in marriage. I had been praying for something that would help me grow and to show me whether to let this marriage go or to pray for guidance on restoration. And last week, my mom sent me the Sexpectations episode and I’ve been binge watching every since. I thank you sir for being obedient, being transparent and sharing with us. It has helped me tremendously! I told my 20 year old son and my 16 year old daughter to start watching. I want them to know that the mess my husband and I have been in the last few years is preventable and is not normal. I’m so grateful for this episode in particular. It gave me do much revelation. Please keep doing what you’re doing. It has just been amazing.
Yesterday I heard in my spirit, out of the blues, that we’re called to serve because we’re deposited with something to give, and today this? God talking!🙇🏽♂️
Is there a button for "Put on Repeat"? 💖💞I was heading to work standing on the busy street of NYC and I was either laughing or crying. THANK YOU BOTH! I never experienced the covering of a man...not from my father and not from my ex husband. This can bless both, men and women. And we have to understand that without surrendering to Christ we cant do marriage right. There is a reason the bible constantly talks about the relationship between Christ and the church as a marriage...because marriage is way more spiritual than physical. This truth does not change just because someone is not a Christian.
This is awesome!! All I have been hearing is how women should treat men , but this right here is the truth needed. Am sharing this with my husband right now!!
Whew, Forever vs Fans 🙌 This podcast was on point with so many gems. I will be celebrating 11 years of marriage next month and am excited about the continued growth journey.
Laterras, You done did it again, brother. This is by far probably thee BEST episode I have seen so far (outside of Essence Atkins). If you haven't already, can you please get a wife on here to talk about what a wife is? I gotta save this episode in my Playlist so I can send it to some men and make them mad. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Call me. I want to talk to you real quick. A spouse/friend is forgiving, understanding, doesn't make assumptions, and gives second chances. Most people don't know how to do that these days.
@@jess_is No. I just need a real chance in real life and one date and we can go from there. Texting is not a chance. Texting always leads to miscommunication sooner than later. You misunderstood my text messages. Can we just meet at cheescake fater at 8:30 PM?
Such a great episode. Thank you!! I truly can understand and share your sentiments about growing up poor. I grew up in Belize and with no bathroom only an outhouse. It humbles you and makes you very appreciative of things. God bless you and your show !
“Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives” (1 Peter 3:1-2)
Amen! well said. Some women may not agree, but I have no problem submitting to my Husband and we could both be covered because the Lord did not promise perfection in any marriage. It's too much temptation out here and easy access to sex that a lot of us are not taking the time to make things grow. Also, some are having role confusion men are acting like wives and women are acting like husbands 🤦🏽♀️
Who hasn't heard this message preached? I haven't. Been knowing about it, just never heard it or remember hearing it. A good lesson on "dwell with her according to knowledge". Thank you, Mr. Burris!
This was absolutely amazing! I was once told when you take on the position of leader, things may not be your fault but it IS your responsibility. Put it all in perspective, thank you!
The "Fans vs Forever" is what I knew in my heart but could not explain it verbally. David made complete sense!!! A LOT of people do not understand that in a relationship.
I'm gonna have to re-watch this with a notepad because there were soooooo many gems dropped in this conversation!!! This is one of my favorite episodes thus far... thank you for your transparency and for sharing!
Such a great episode that touched on a lot of subjects that Kingdom Men deal with that we rarely verbalize. This is a powerful episode that definitely challenges one (that is receptive to this) to re-think a few things and change your P.O.V when it comes to being a Kingdom Man writing the story of your marriage. Marriage is a topic that most shy away from for a myriad of reasons but I must say it’s the best decision I’ve made in my life. You’re giving tools to Kingdom men across the world. 30 Day challenge of serving my Queen has been accepted. May God continue to use you and your platform for the Glory of His Kingdom.
This is one of the best messages I have heard in my life on being a husband. I am convicted by the Holy Spirit that this is correct. However I find my self struggling mentally because I know my wife watched this and will basically conclude I am the main issue in our marriage. I am of course am aware of my faults and the damage I have done but I am also aware of my wife’s faults and the damaged she has done to me, no matter if she will own it or not. So I believe we both have a lot of humility and healing and new teamwork we need to both partake in.However I concede that as the Man I need to take the lead in love and sacrifice. That’s clear in the word. Just being honest with my thoughts as I listen to this…… he said purpose partner lol now I know where my wife got this from lol.
My brother I just want to encourage you that the first step is when we look at ourselves. I am a wife and my goal is to serve and respect my husband. My prayer for you is that God heals your marriage 🙏🏿 ❤️
Update..listen to this and Davids other teaching..took 15 pages of notes and made a prayer..embraced a this and thr Lord has changed my mindset. And the fruit has already started to manifest. I am doubling down my prayer and sacrafice
@@antonio42695 I love to hear about the good progress brother🙌. May you both continue to be humble before each other as you are before God. May you continue to grow together in love and respect. May you both continue to serve and submit to each other as God calls us to do. And may God provide you with the strength and wisdom to continue to lead your household. In Jesus name I pray. 🙏 Happy Sunday 😊
God bless you and your wife. Although I’m not married, my friend and I just had this conversation about other relationships…as difficult as it is, our responsibility as people is to take responsibility for our own thoughts and behaviors. As a Christian, you have the aid of the Holy Spirit to help you pray for her and let Him fix you while He fixes her. You are in my prayers! 🙏🏽🙏🏽✝️
I'm just 15 minutes and 34 secs in and I've shouted Amen so many times!!! As a single woman dating intentionally I've been saying this!!! When men ask why am I still single I say it's because I haven't met a man that's given me a safe place. Okay let me finish....love this!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for these wonderful conversations. I thought it was by accident that I came across it, but now I see that it was the hands of God pushing e to click "play"! Your podcast has renewed strength and hope in me because now I knw that I am not alone in staying true to my faith & pursuing m God-given mission!
Oh My God! Oh My God! This episode is my entire 35 years of marriage, which I have recently filed for dissolution of marriage! I met my husband at 17 years old, got married at 20 years old, and for the past 35 years, i’ve been trying to work this marriage until exhaustion, mentally, physically, intellectually and any other ally you can think of!! I was truly watching this episode on the edge of my seat, saying NOW THIS IS WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT! I wish my husband and I could have come on a situation like this, but I know my husband would have never been LIT about our marriage and the demise of it, I know I would have put the good the bad and the ugly out there, but at this point I’m just focused on the process of trying to heal 37 years of pain, But I am looking forward to new beginnings!!🙏🏾
I am in a similar situation with an exhausting marriage of over 30 years. Is it that we each see this marriage as a burden on us instead of a loving relationship that we have to have empathy of each other's feelings and thoughts.
This is so powerful! Thank you @dearfuturewifey for having David on! I follow him as well as RC Blakes. They speak Biblically on relationships and marriage. Y'all TEACHIN 🔥
Men: "You don't have room to live out of emotion. Every man... you have to be emotional. You can't love a woman without being an emotional feeling being".
I listened and absorbed everything, but what was the loudest to me was, as a woman, if I just go ahead and start then my partner will follow because of my example. I have stressed myself out hoping for certain results, but maybe I should just start taking steps then he will eventually take over from there. Needed this!
As I watched this "strait-laced" centered man speak, and the reactions from you, the host, I was enamored and intrigued. But, when I saw the dynamic shift from an interview to mutual edifying, and supporting dialogue, this episode became all the more Enriching to the point that I had to look up Mr. Buruss. Too many gems and nuggets of wisdom from both sides of the mic "dropped" and dissected to name just one. THIS is a MUST SEE for anyone within the confines of the institution of marriage, those thinking about it, and for those whose knowledge of self and others needs to expand before thinking about marriage! Bravo and Salut!!!!
This MAN is blowing me away!! He has brought several "new" perspectives in areas I've given sincere thought to! As a woman I'm highly encouraged with such divine clarity from God's Word and through Your servant! ❤
Ok. Can we get a version of this for wives? This was so rich for men and for women to listen to, I'm curious as to what's the wife's role to a man who is living in this way? Or the wife's role period.
Mr.Whitfield, your guest is an amazing MOG. I would like to see him counseling a young man getting ready to marry live on your show. This is so needed.
