Being a virgin at 23 is embarrassing 

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This world is crazy, I’m 26 almost 27 and still a virgin by GOD’s grace. I chose to honor GOD with my body and I never regret it. I’m almost done with medical school and getting married soon to another doctor. We both chose to remain like that until after the wedding. It’s not easy but it’s doable by GOD’s help. Don’t listen to people who shame you coz deep down they envie you... the devil is a liar. Be blessed.

It’s funny how virgins are actually being shamed 😳😳😳. Popularity doesn’t equal truth too . The standard is the word and that should be the final authority over our lives . Another thing I wanted to add is this , virginity isn’t a “gift” you give to your husband (somehow ladies are wired to think this way ) . You choose to be a virgin to honour God . It’s honouring God first . Virginity too doesn’t equal purity 😎. One can be a virgin and still be impure ( satisfying your sexual desires in other ways ). Sexual purity is attainable and the greatest lie the enemy sells is “everyone is doing it.” Not everyone is doing it and it’s possible through the help of the Holy Spirit

I'm 25. Never had sex, never kissed and all of those other things. God has helped me. In secondary school, I remember going to God and being bare. I was like, "God, I know I like men, and very sensitive to touch, please help me." It's been years later, and I haven't experienced any pressures in the light of being sexually active by the help of God. It's possible, people. Sex is such a deep thing and it's beautiful but more beautiful if done within the confines of how God intends it to be done.

33 years a virgin and still counting ...God's grace has truly been Sufficient...Thanks so much for the true words...thanks for encouraging people like me...God bless you always maam

My biggest take away is that our sexual purity journey doesn’t end when we get married but should continue in guarding our hearts ♥️

I am 30 and a virgin. Proud to be one. Keep yourself believers.

Had to come back to watch this again, I just wanna that if you are staying celibate until marriage, gather here for a group picture to remind us of our journeyyyy🤗

I'm 18 years old girl and a virgin, you can already imagine the pressure people put on me to lose my virginity. I'm really happy the way I am, I mean, I am truly happy. Thank you for video , I was needing

This video 🥺🤎. I used to be very sexually active and bruhhhh, it really messed up my mind for a long time. I agree with you. Deep down, there’s a lot of unhappiness but you just keep going because you think it’s supposed to be that way. I went through all these emotions. I’m happy to be out of that life now, tbh. I’ve been celibate since 2019 and it’s been bliss. The peace and freedom. This is the true freedom tbh. I regret my past decisions. But thank God for mercy, love and grace. I look forward to my beautiful marriage and sex life with my husband.

Very proud to still be a virgin at 33. Though had been in three different relationships but had cut all of them as each of these ladies thought we can't be together without sex. As at now in no relationship while believing God for my virgin friend. That is my pride and gift to my wife. She is the one i made that vow for and am keeping it for her to honor her with it.

Thanks for this... Lady... I'm a guy.. I'm 25... Been through a lot.. And I decided to be this way.. Thanks so much for this .. It's a booster to my spirit.. I love hearing from you.

Girl I was a virgin until 25, and my husband is the only man I’ve been intimate with. Married for 13 years, and counting. Together for about 20. Stay the course. God will give you a testimony to give your kids!!!!

Sex is the major tool of the devil in this end time. We must push the message of purity forward. God bless you Ezinne❤️

God is wise! Everything is for our good. If only we could just trust Him.

Thanks dear for inspiration I'm 22years almost 23 and I've never had sex, kissed or masturbate before. Sometimes I feel I'm alone in this and I want to give up, being in the university and having almost all my friends having sex and sharing their experience and they make me look like I'm in the 16th century 😔 But thank God for platform's like this where I can read comment of people who are even 27 and above and are still sexually pure it means we are many God bless us all 💚💙🙏

I’m so grateful for this video because I’m 21 turning 22 and still a Virgin and cannot publicly declare it. The initial reason I kept my virginity was cause growing up I felt a lot of elderly people (I mean people old enough to be my uncles and fathers) tried to make sexual advances towards me and if not for God I would have been raped. Infact this happened more than 10 times in my life and it started when I was just 7years old and I found out that one way or the other, God kept saving me from this situation. So I told myself thst if God kept preventing me from getting raped at many instances, then I won’t have sex till marriage. Also coupled with the fact that I lived with the fear of having sex in my head for years because of my experience growing up. Fast forward to being 21 and so many urge have sex keeps coming and I thank God for His Spirit and discipline. Because all that kept me from not having sex till now is the Fear of God honestly. Thank you for this video, would definitely share it with my 16 year old sister

Am 19 years am still virgin, not gonna break it until wedding night by the grace of God 🙏

If it makes anyone feel encouraged, I'm 27 and i haven't had sex before. Yes, Guys want to sleep with me. I like the idea that i have so much self control. By the Mercy of God i would like to have to sleep with only my future husband. Don't let anyone shame you. That body is Yours and it is Gods Temple, consecrate it. Sending so much love to everyone

Wattpad, Harlequin, Mills and Boon, Nora Roberts omo these books had a strong hold on my when I was younger ehn, the way I used to consume romance novel 😩 Till God gave me the instruction and strength to stop reading em.

I'm 21 and still a virgin. I'm not proud of the fact that I tried to disvirgin myself but glory to God that I still am. I want my husband to be the ONLY man to experience me❤️❤️

I’m 13 thank you so much

It just hit me right now that I’m 28 and a virgin! 28 guys 😂😂😂! I feel like i was 23 just yesterday i can’t believe it! Where did time go!! Whoa!! I’m enjoying every bit of this video sis!! And I can’t wait to experience what you said happens once you have sex with your spouse! It’s so beautiful! I thank God for preserving me even before I came to Him and for keeping me pure as I wait on the one He has for me! I have been a virgin my whole life it literally feels like a part of me 😂! Looking forward to that married life though! Thanks again for sharing! Love you ❤️

I am 27 years old guy and a virgin... it is a good thing to stay put till when the time is right....

Trust in the Lord sis, I'm a 32 year old virgin and God has been so faithful. The man I'm in a courtship with, soon to be my husband has been sent by God and the wait is worth it.

I am a 36 years old man and I have not had sex yet, I have been careful not to sin against my body, according to Gods word and perfect will. There are greater things than sex, especially from God and life itself. Yet I long for the wife God has prepared for me, I know she will be a part of my future glory and blessing! If you want to stand out, to be a vessel for a noble cause, then there is a price! 2 Timothy 2:20-21 ”But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver, but also of wood and clay, some for honor and some for dishonor. Therefore if anyone cleanses himself from the latter, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified and useful for the Master, prepared for every good work.” Blessings to you all, may God continue to help and build us up in his steadfast love. Remember we do all come short in some way, if not in this then in some other area.

This is one of the best videos I’ve watched on sexual purity! I hope it goes viral because everyone needs to watch this❤️ Also, I absolutely LOVE the way you edit your videos!

Eshey pupopupo.... i remember one time my friends and I were having lunch and a school mate joined us, we got talking about Tiwa's sex tape(apparently just hearing of it for the 1st time) so the school mate said "its normal for us women to have sex but why should it be filmed " God bless pastor Mildred Okonkwo she is a gift to me!!! Instantly I said she can't generalize the fact that its normal for all women to have sex, she can actually speak for some or herself.. mhen!!! You literally need to see the way she looked at me like i was some alien from another planet😂😂. "Why are you looking at me weird cause i said not all women are having sex?? " imagine this babe wan shame me for using my body to glorify God... hello!!! She actually said "who's this lady and what planet did they bring her from and can someone come take me away from her" for this kingdom you can't fit shame me ejor(I'm doing right with the Holyspirit help, you wanna come and shake it. no way!!) she saw that i was standing my ground and my friends were mute.. then she changed her statement and said "you're right some ladies have sex and filming it ain't appropriate " i smiled... for this kingdom our body na burnt offering for God, no premarital sex till marriage... thank you for sharing..

I am currently in a season of praying and fasting, I am a 27-year-old who has decided to wait until marriage. I've understood why I need to break certain chains in my bloodline & what I need to do in order to be the one in my bloodline to break chains. As I'm fasting I found this video & I know it's God speaking to me!

Social media has eaten deep into the minds of my generation. Many people believe now that the best place to learn about relationship or sex is online especially Twitter... “Nollywood, Hollywood or Bollywood have nothing to teach me about sex or relationship” Things to note 📝 1)Be realistic to yourself 2)Avoid setting life styles and avoid people that live that 3)Watch what you feed your eyes and ears 4)Set realistic boundaries 5)Stay prayerful🥺🥺🥺

Omg someone finally spoke about this 🥺, I feel like one of the reasons I’m still single is cos I’ve been praying to God to help me and he knows if I fall into the wrong relationship I might just fall to sin, I’m so glad you spoke about this 🙌🏽

Very concise my sister! I married quite late at the age of 31 and I kept my virginity till marriage and never regret it!wedding night was amazing and my husband was on cloud 9 coz of the special gift I reserved and preserved for him! I could go on and on

I have never been shamed to be a virgin at 21 years old and nobody should. I loved the video❤️❤️

Wow.. Just seeing this video My story..... I made a decision to get married a virgin but I lost it when I was 20 as a result of rape. I hated sex but droned in pornography for the longest of time. Everytime I finish seeing a pornographic content, I become bitter and filthy. I keep asking for forgiving each time but keep going back but never add sex still. It was a terrible addiction. I thank you for obeying God and sharing this. I hope its not too late for me.

The thing is, people don’t know that this world is actually more spiritual than ever,because whatever a person does is an expression of a spirit living in them,so the question is which spirit have you given yourself to as slave? The day I gave my life to Christ and decided to be transformed by God,I realized that we’re actually being deceived and robbed of our glory by the devil.but the world has refused to see that,when you make a sentence and in all the sentences,you keep on saying God God.they say you’re too spiritual,sister we’re ment to be spiritually inclined to stand firm in this world,for we’re in this world and not of it. Anyway to sum this all up,this is a powerful message from the belly of God really,we youth we have to set a Godly example for the next generations coming,if not nobody will be able to speak again. So keeping your body is actually a very good thing,for the scriptures says “your body is the only reasonable sacrifice you can give to God” and your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.demons and Holy Spirit can’t dwell in one tabernacle regulating it.like I said before whatever expression you make,it’ll show the spirit that is regulating you either God’s spirit or the spirit of demons.because this world is more spiritual than it is or looks. Selah

I experienced that shame but I decided my virginity is my business! 😳 YES! I stopped talking about it & as life changed & grew people just "assumed" I was like them. I discovered the moment I shared with my peers, they either started putting pressure on me or even said I was pretending! 😳 How can you be a virgin at 38!? Yes it's possible & there are plenty of people who value purity. Not just as a gift for a husband but keeping your body as a temple for the Holy Spirit - a pure place for the Spirit of God to dwell & commune through. Having a right relationship with God should be our highest priority - not pleasing a man or society.

I know the exact YT video you are talking about cause he mentioned the age. I watched it a while back and I just said this boy isn’t serious AT ALL. Many people say, your body your choice. Not having sex is also a choice and no one should be shammed for it.

Thank you Ezinne. I'm 23 and a virgin; all these was for me, I was having it hard but you've given me encouraging words. I can not clearly articulate my emotions on this, but thank you. You made this for me, it's now more than a fantasy but an affirmation to keep me, for me. Thank you!

I used to be very embarrassed being a virgin I was told am just a rigid beautiful girl wasting her beauty, I tried to show people I wasn't rigid that I just wanted to keep myself but it wasnt working I had an encounter, after that I just told myself that I was just going to be myself and serve God with my body no matter what I'm 23 and I am very proud to be a virgin

It's so sad that in our world today fornication has been so normalized. Thank yo so much Ezinne for your inspiring story and the encouraging words of wisdom. It inspires some of us who have decided not to compromise no matter what.

Thank you for doing this! I'm 21 and I'm proud of being a virgin. I'm not feeling any certain way about this because it's the right thing and it's what I want.

I am just 18 years old watching this.I have heard about these things and this has been my principle.Thank you Ezinne Zara for more light you have shed on this topic via the Holy spirit😇❤‍🔥💯

Found a mentor I love you so much,I literally went to the hospital to get a HIV test for school purposes and they do like a bit of enlightment about what HIV is and how one can get infected.The doctor asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes and she said keep it up it pays and I felt very proud of myself.

Thanks for this🙌🏾

Just watching this video, I'm a guy still a virgin @25, I've decided to stay pure but it's tough though but I've tried to stay pure till marriage. I pray God strengthens me Amen

Thank God I am not lost. His grace is still keeping me... At some point I thought I was an alien. Some couple of months, was having a chit chat with roommate back then in school and found out at 28 still a virgin and she was shocked. It became weird to me as if I did the wrong thing... thank you Ezinne for shearing more light on this.

Thank you so much for this!!! ❤

Thank you so much…I needed to hear this🤧

Keep speaking the truth Ezinne! God bless you and give you more boldness.

Omg!!! I'M CRYING RN!! My bestfriend lead me to this video and I couldn't be more grateful for her life. I absolutely love videos like this because they make me feel like I belong again. Sometimes it gets way too overwhelming you begin to question whether it's even worth it. We truly thank God for people like Ezinne. People who have made it safely to the other side and can assure teens like me,that it will all be worth it in the end. Thank you thank you so much sis. I loved every minute of it. Each time you made a new point to me was a wake up call. A wake up call from God to stop slacking and to keep fighting because like you said "EVERYTHING HE TELLS US TO DO IS FOR OUR OWN GOD. ONLY HE KNOWS. ONLY HE IS WISE" I'm so tempted to go deeper into which parts spoke to me the most, but I guess I will leave that part for my journal,lol. Love you sis❤️🙏🏽

This is so true Thanks for this video

You keep blessing me Thank you so much

I'm over 25 and even though I've been involved with guys(i regret this, it was a huge mistake that should never have happened), I've never had sex. it's one of the best decisions ever and I've never felt shame for choosing to abstain.

Ezinne is just talking about exactly what I learned some days ago God indeed is saying something

Thank you for this ♥️

I really needed this at this time .thanks sis.

Ezinne your videos are really inspiring may God bless you. I’m a University student and I would like to ask if you can make a video on how you maintained your fire for God in your Uni days❤️

I spoke these exact words to some colleagues yesterday. It’s all about discipline. You cannot NOT be disciplined as a single person and expect faithfulness or that discipline to suddenly appear in marriage. It simply cannot work and will not work. Powerful message.

Thank you 🙏 soo much for this

Thank you so much for this video

Ezinne, this is beautiful and well-articulated. It lifts my heart to know that we have the same PAPA, our Father in heaven. Being a virgin in my 3o's, I am daily grateful that there's no part of me anywhere else but where my Lover and Saviour is. Being Jesus' bride has made the journey a smooth ride without stress, and my heart is filled with gratitude that He has kept me in one peace completely. It is sweet to be kept by the Lord and be purified in HIM. With all you said, I couldn't agree more. I choose to stay where PAPA says I should #freedom not missing out on anything. Much love and Light.

I never planned to watch this video but for some reason it kept popping up everytime I opened RU-vid. I'm so glad I watched it. Thank you for sharing the truth❤️

I love this. This is awesome

God bless you for this video ❤️🙏🏾

Preach sis!!! I totally appreciate contents like this. Thank you for speaking truth.

AMAZINGLY TALKED ABOUT THIS TO MYSELF YESTERDAY!! "EVERYTHING IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD!" GOD BLESS YOU EZINNE.

Thank you so much for this ❤️

Thank you so much Zara 🥺♥️

Thank you for this video. The waiting is worth it. It always sounds strenge to my guys when I tell them I want to wait till marriage. I am 27. Your channel just became my favorite 💕.

OMG I don't even know what to say😩😩. Ezinne thank you so much for dropping this video❤..

God bless you so much for sharing this!! 👏🏽🔥❤️

whewwww…thank you for this video sis! You spoke nothing but facts & truth! God bless you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Thank you so much for this, been struggling with sexual thoughts recently and this video has really helped❤️ God bless you sis 🥳

You said it all. This is a must watch for all teenagers!!

Thank you so so much! This is enlightening

God bless you ! I’ve been looking for this kind of content to follow ! Finally !

I love this video. And it's relatable 😂. I relate to the fact that Sex is forbidden, the moment my peers begin to talk about it, most especially the opposite sex... I leave the group chat. Plus truly, the struggle is hard in these days.

Thanks so much for this video, it’s very encouraging because this life of being a virgin is very hard and gets tiring cos most guys these days won’t date you if you’re not giving sex or the relationships won’t last ... it just gets tiring like when will I finally find the man that would want the same thing as me? 🥺 I don’t even like talking about my virginity because you’re either shamed , mocked or doubted , sometimes I just have to pretend to be able to flow along in conversations and all

Wow, thanks for this sis! Love you 😘

Thank you so much for this Ezinne!❤

I feel blessed and more enlightened listening to this! Nice one Ezinne🙌🏾

Your edits are awesome 😂

Thank you so much ma,I was really blessed and energized!

This video is such a blessing 🙏🏾

I wish I could like this more than once. Discovering this channel has been one of the highlights of my year. I think the key takeaway is to remind ourselves that most of God’s instructions on how to live are actually for our own good

This video just came exactly when I'm walking through the wilderness... It's not easy but I'm not giving up. Thank you Jesus.

Thank you for making this video Loved it.💜

This is beautiful, thank you for sharing❤️

I am naturally an emotional and sensitive person so that's why I find it difficult to even give in because I know that if anything should happen between me and that person that would cause a separation I would be devastated and depressed. That's why now it's easy for me to move on without looking back and doing my feelings and mental health so much damage. Thank God I found this channel. The world needs more youtubers like you❤

Thank you so much Zara. Since I subscribed to your channel it has been no regret at all. I learned a lot and I am more motivated. I must add that when we are keeping ourselves as Christians it does not mean sexual penetration alone and I kind of knew this late. A lot of young people are doing other intimate stuff and just avoiding a penetration with the mind of keeping themselves but I would love to say that all are the same.

Thank you so much, Ezinne ♥️

your videos are so refreshing. God bless you sis

I loved the cake and iPhone illustrations, so comprehensible! God bless you, Ezinne. Thank you so much for these reassurances❤️ Thank you for the video too, means a lot, thank you for talking about this. Pray for us too 😊😂 I wish you a Godly and love filled marriage, I'm so happy for you! 🥰

OMG😁😁😁 Thank you so much eziinne Zara this is a decision i made when I was 13 year old and I am still on it (16 year old) It hasn't been easy but this video had really encouraged me 💝💝💝

Thank you so much Ezinne I had to hear this May God continue to use u as a vessel to bless others🙏🏾❤️ God bless you always

Thank you Ezinne for this 🔥🔥 You really addressed the topic

Thank you for sharing. I am 25 and a virgin and this video was encouraging ❤

Thanks for such an insightful and intelligent video Ezinne! I have been married for over five years now and as a Christian, I can attest to all you have said, but even more importantly, is the fact that you have given very wise counsel and very intelligent points that can help both Christians and non-Christians and we need a lot more of this especially in a world where people tune off from religion. This is the first video I have come across from your channel and even though I rarely comment on videos, this is highly commendable! Please keep up the good work, and many blessings to you and your family!

Thank you so much Zara

I love this, Ezinne! Thank you ❤️