She's speaking.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Get it tight y'all. Go to the gym, wear your nice clothes. Don't save them. Gather your confidence.
Attractiveness isn't only limited to physical looks. Being attractive is inclusive of a great positive attitude and emotional balance. It's about showing up the everyday being the best version of yourself. This is what attracts people to you!
that's because it's not enough being pretty, you need to be wise and have your own game, look for your priorities and there's nothing wrong with that, man do it as well. Maybe this is gonna sound terrible, but you need a good mental game plus looking pretty. Sounds easier from what it is hehe, i'm on the way of learning the art of seduction, read about that ladies.
The men who don't cherish beautiful women are asshats. Whether broke or with money. Asshats and assholes are just that. And women don't want them anyway...
My mother taught me this early she hated when I looked a mess. She loathed when I would wear a scarf outside of the house. I thought she was being over the top but I finally understood why she did it.
Since listening to you... I got doctors, Public Figure, and Business owners traveling 100s of miles to see me ....Some of my dating profile pics are professional modeling and some are just selfies and photos taken on the fly...this really is a lifestyle
I know I'm not the most attractive lady, but then amount of hate, shade and jealousy I receive from men and women blows my mind. Im a licensed cosmetologist and makeup artist full time so I am my brand 24/7. People approach me and immediately ask things like how do I look without my extensions and makeup. I remember coming out of a store and a man saying, "I know that's a man she looks too good" I was like what the hell... :( my exes & men on dates try to tear men down with insults and back handed compliments. Women too! it's disheartening. my brother told me its my energy lol. HAS TO BE because I see women more beautiful than me all the time with great lives. I feel like I'm always being shunned. on the plus side, I will get in places for free or get better treatment than the people Im with. Discounts, free upgrades, you name it. Pretty privilege is a thing!
Hell yes, baby girl! I take FULL ADVANTAGE of pretty privilege! And those jerks that may insult you just have envy, so blow kisses at them and swing your fabulous bought hair as you walk on.
Negative. A certain aura that surrounds you, will actually repel "dusties" if you still attract a "dusty" why do they even think they have a chance with you?
@@KimberlyH. Nope. I was at the airport with my pearl earrings, necklace nice shoes and handmade sweater from Canada and a dusty from Nigeria followed me and even sat next to me on the flight. He ruined me getting any chances with the affluent men that I was trying to attract. I’m not even attracted to BM. He was cheap and I made him buy me a meal to see how cheap he was and yup when he asked me for my number I said give me $200 so that I can tell if you are a gentleman and he said “I bought you food just give me da number” I got home and I blocked him I was so angry. I hate that now I’m just going to say I have a bf and I hate lying.
@@KimberlyH. btw this was 2 days ago. I was drawing attention to him and the other guys were like wow you must be riding on first class today. It’s fine I’m just going to have to go to a place where they aren’t at. I usually always met affluent men at the airport.
@@fosthedoll you said it yourself: "go to places where they aren't at." At the airport, you could have just told that guy you weren't feeling well or pretended to be on your phone or something. It's a tiny lie that saves you a lot of hassle, re-opens the opportunities you're actually looking for, and saves HIM the annoyance. To be stuck next to him for a whole flight would be way too much for me! He certainly would have got the wrong number too - I would have switched 2 digits or something!
Davonte: "Why are you brainwashing these women?" SheRa: " Because you can't afford them. Sprinkle Sprinkle" This woman is a true comedian. Telling the truth and making you laugh about it! ❤️ Subbed.
That’s facts! I’m a school teacher and after one year I didn’t wear my make up, and a pupil looked at me and said “what’s wrong with you, are you sick” with the most disgusted face 😂
Do people gravitate toward flowers or weeds? Most people value flowers more because they are pretty. Some toward weed if they are looking for a weed; Something easy to pick and discard. Oh ok. Remain pretty daily ladies!!! Shera is the GOAT!!! 🤪🤪🤪
@@walkthemoon6533 yes sis, ONLY dusties. My bestie is transitioning out of pickmiesha and I told her that; she doesn't even get offended anymore hahe she's blossiming. I swear I was willing to end our friendship...leveling up is real. We only get 1 life, why not flourish.
Yes, beauty will get u in the dirt busy most beautiful womwn become lazy after they get in the door whether it's in the workplace or in relationships. The key is to keep working hard after getting in the door.
SHEERA BABY YOU CHANGED MY LIFEEEEE😍😍😍 people no longer tell me I’m settling they say “I can’t afford you” like no baby you can not carry on ❤️ love you mama!!
I keep hearing that and that’s how I know I need a change. I finally realized it. I was settling every time and needed to work on my confidence. Bc the looks and personality is there
@@Murdermagictricks No free will. One can make a mistake and fix it after. They say that some women will conceive, give birth to only one child in their entire life.
Also looking good gives you power even when your relationship fails because you can get back out there easier. I failed the mission because when I got depressed at the end of my marriage I gained a lot of weight and now I’m working hard to try to lose the weight but men are not as nice to me as they were when I was small so now I know what I need to do tbh.
I need to level up by getting back to my college weight When I was slim I had men from ALL races checking me out I used to wear twist outs or blow dry my hair and wear a phony pony but body was key and heels when I wore heels and felt confident I could get any man Boy am I sad I wasted those years I could have gotten any man back than instead of settling
Shera you help me so much, you are a feminine influence I need in life. My mom never cared much about looks, hers neither mine. I remember in school other girls would have pretty hairstyles and clothes, always were taken care for, while I looked ugly and almost dirty, which made boys not like me and even make fun of me. I started to take care of myself and look my best. After a break up recently I became depressed and didn't take care of myself like I used to, my hygiene and posture is bad, I started to wear boring clothes but I'm working on myself again
I’m a guy and lashes look amazing. Guys really only notice the lips and the eyes. Women spend so much time on contouring and making a foundation but it’s really just some lashes some liner and some lips.
I absolutely agree with this one. Physical attractiveness is just one aspect though. An attractive woman, along with being real, smart, nurturing and sensual men will adore you on another level.
Shera's hairstyle today explains her Goddess-ness without words - and we all need to follow her example. #FACTS If a man enjoys your looks you don't even have to sleep with him.
This woman gives me a dark feminine 'evil'.... i say that bcuz society wants women to be nice accomodating, humble and always checking our feelings and needs according to what men want...... she gives "goddess" energy...... and i see why they wont like that😅😅😅😅😅..... i love it😏😏😏
They can’t use a woman like this that’s why they’re mad. A woman like this pushes a man to become the best version of himself, a lot of men are lazy af and don’t want to do that.
Pretty women can have low self esteem. I used to be one of them. I was very masculine and chased men. Now I know my worth and attract those that know it too and treat me like the prize
Thanks for doing this. I always work to fix myself up (internally in terms of psychology, consciousness & spirituality), which takes a lot of work in my daily routine. Fixing myself up physically has always been low on my priorities list (also takes a lot of time and sometimes money for hair, nails, skin, clothes, etc), but I am learning by listening to you and my Texas Granny to Level Up as a total package and will be putting in the work to reform my ways. Working to see physical upkeep as spiritual practice. (As within, so without)💡 Thanks Shera! 🙏🏾
@@rolandjones9250 lmao you don’t even know what I look like. Tell that to all the men who go out of their way to impress me and shower me with gifts. I have the face and body of a supermodel naturally, except the height part. You look and sound like a dusty that can’t get any woman to look his way. Sad. Maybe some money and a better attitude might help
Yessssssssss the tip of the video: Do not allow him to rush you out the door 🚪 looking CRAZY 😜 I need advanced notice at minimum 1 hour. LOVE 💕 this. I’m guilty of this ✋🏾NO MORE. We gotta stay LEVELED UP ⬆️ 🆙 at ALLx 💅🏾
When I got into the best shape of my life for me, my ex stop taking me to the gym. So I bought one. He had the car. He didn’t want to help me or support me with certain things because he didn’t like my née confidence. He was trying to fatten me up on purpose so I wouldn’t feel or look good. I dumped him, kicked him out and it’s been blissful ever since. I would do sexy things, for him and he didn’t appreciate it. He tried to indirect sabotage. He knew that I wanted to look I go my career again or just feel good and he didn’t like it. He wouldn’t say it. It was his actions and quiet no compliments but said he noticed. If I bought something new for myself, dress jewelry or tried a new naked gloss with a tint, no compliments. He didn’t want me to feel attractive. And he wanted to be the only one who looked good. He saw my obliques and he make a comment about my abs because he wanted to be the only one with a 8 pack. At the gym he never wanted to train me or spot me. He wanted me to do what he did but knew I was no where near there. But I worked my way up to it. Changed my diet and bought all this stuff which his selfish ass used to take but when my body and confidence changed, he had to figure out out to sabotage by not being on time and saying he couldn’t make it. So that’s when I really he was trying to sabotage me. People would compliment me and he would just smirk. One guy in he supermarket said something to me. And he said something and the guy said oh that’s you, I’m sorry man. He was standing there on the phone texting and not really helping me shop, it didn’t look like he was with me. So that’s his fault. When these smart phones came out, it brought out the worse in some of these men. I will admit I should have dated more and not given my ex a second chance because when we broke up, he was changed and that’s why I gave him a chance but when we got back together it got worse over time slowly, not at first but it went backwards and I got rid of him. I’m always aware of my body and self so I understand that.
Omg what is y’all point in saying “pretty women get treated badly too”... who cares! The point is you get yourself in the door to secure what you need. Get rid of your “BUTS” and defeatist mindsets and focus on what your trying to achieve. I’d rather stay pretty while getting that pretty privilege and come across dusties here and there rather than being basic and ONLY being attractive to dusty men with no special treatment 🤷🏽♀️
People be so lazy all the comments are like look aren't everything we KNOW but you can't keep up AMAZING looks if you don't have resources so there's already alot going for you behind the scenes
It's only fair to look good for your man, especially in a situation like most of us are wanting with a provider man. You wouldn't want your man to suddenly turn into a troll. You don't do it either. You should want to look good for your man. If you have sweats get rid of them. Sweats are so unattractive. Get something else that's comfortable and cute.
Thank you soo much for changing and saving my life you changed my point of view on everything and it has helped me greatly I really love and appreciate your channel❤️
I agree with you to a certain point that women should keep themselves attractive if they want a man to cherish them. But on the other hand I disagree because I personally know women who keep themselves attractive, beautiful, wear the most sexy and stylish clothes, keep their hair and makeup done but their men still stray with other women and abuse these attractive women. If a beautiful/attractive woman gets into a relationship with a broken/toxic man no matter how intact her clothes, hair, and makeup is she will still get dogged out or abused. I am not saying anything to tear down sisters like Beyonce, Halle Berry, Ciara, Karuche Tran, etc... but all these extremely beautiful/attractive women got cheated on. Beyonce got cheated on by her husband though he did not leave her. Halle Berry, Ciara, Karueche Tran, Garcelle Beauvais all got cheated on and left by men. A woman's beauty can bring or pull a man in but her beauty/attractiveness will never be enough to keep the kind of man who are cheaters, neglectful, unavailable, and verbally/physically abusive.
All men don't cheat My dad wasn't a cheater my son isn't a cheater one is tho straight womanizer. I cherish Shera advice. But she don't know everything. But the majority do if they can..But not all
Now out of all the colors you wear this is the most beautiful color on you. You can get away with all looks but this… This one makes you look absolutely stunning🥰
A cautionary tale for women who don’t put in effort is the Netflix movie ‘Loving Adults’. The wife gave up her career to care for their sick son for 15 years and she didn’t stay leveled up in looks and her husband started a construction company when they got married (they were high school sweethearts) Anyway, he starts an affair with an employee who was an architect working for his company. The wife finds out about the affair and doesn’t control her emotions. She threatens to tell the police about fraud he committed and he becomes desperate as he’s also facing an ultimatum from his mistress of 6 months.
@@b.freeman2118 Practice emotional control, never neglect one’s looks, have hobbies that require you to socialize with others (the wife used to go for jogs alone), have a savings account, and don’t make your man your whole world.
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Thank you for sharing your beautiful wisdom. I’m 35 and I am just learning this now. Understanding this would have saved me a lot of suffering, but I am so grateful I know now. From now on, I am doing things differently.
Abusers are gonna abuse as a psychologist how beautiful u r doesn't matter in long term, it's becomes stagnant just like with everything, whether it's a new house or car, it's gives a high for some time bt then it's over
I’m watching this and just smiling cause shera is the truth and funny she said speak like Michael Jackson then she sang a Janet Jackson song😂😂 she said “that’s the way love goes” 🎵🎵do do do do do do 🎶🎶 I mean I cracked up!! thank you shera 😂😂😂
Hey SheRa🥂 Just discovered Diahann Carrol and thought of you….I’m so inspired..the epitome of everything you speak about when referring to a feminine woman..
Love ya “gurl”!! I read a Positive thinking book by Andrew Carnegie after college and got a great job at SHELL OIL/ was A VIP AT AFTER- PARTIES& CONCERTS / MET ALL THE SINGERS I WANTED TO MEET- TEDDY PENDERGRASS etc!!!
So true, How true, A guy said I dressed liked Jesus helper. LOL. I asked what did that mean? He said, "to jazz it up and change styles once and a while". It's very true what you say!
I found this channel at the perfect time in my life. As far as lounge clothes I love to be comfy too but I get a lot of joggers and sweatpants from Pretty Little Thing because they still flatter my shape and they’re affordable.. I wear like a crop top and sweat pants or cute jogging outfits that flatter my shape nothing extremely big but still comfortable.
I was wondering why I hadn’t seen your videos for a few months and then it dawned on me to search you and I see now that I got unsubscribed 🙃. I’ve got a lot of catching up to do. I’m glad to be back in the loop! ☺️
